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I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH INK_NERD AND IICE AND ROCKTATION.

I don't condone attacking people or putting them down but I have to be honest as I was reading your post, I was utterly horrified and all I could think was 2 WHORES having at each other sexually.  You and the husband.

HOW DARE YOU!

You have issues - serious ones

Go to God - learn him - he will love you and help you IMMEDIATELY!!!

This will work if the two of pull yourself from that society for a while TO SOLIDIFY the relationship.

For instance, going to a neighboring country where neither of are around "family" and being together for a while - then returning as a "united front" - the family would possibly be more accepting as they would see you as a "couple."

Do you the luxury to be able to do this?

Or staying put and "dating" - you aren't actually blood-kin regardless to how close the families are to each other.

She sounds like she is the "insecure/unsure one".  It sounds like you would be in it for the "long haul" and would be the "rock" in that relationship.

Getting her alone for a week or two to "sell her" on the idea - look into the religion as well to gather supportive documentation.

It really would be a good relationship as you both already know ALL OF THE FAMILY so it would be good for you and her.  New relationships at times mean that you have to nurture and cultivate your mates family that you don't know.

The two of you being together have a great advantage because it deletes having to do this and you can actually focus more on each other.

tensor777:
Well it certainly isn't quite normal to send a 5 year old to boarding school. So yes it does raise a lot of questions as to the relationship between the parent/guardian and the children.

Boarding Schools in the U.S. generally start in Middle School and High School Age - NOT 5 years of age

7th grade is the earliest Boarding School I have had experience with, The child is generally 12 years old or 13 years old.

dayokanu:
Parents who send their kids to boarding school must really hate the children?

That isn't true at all.  Boarding Schools are excellent if you attend the right ones.  Especially in America - they pull the child away from the culture of the "public school system" especially those schools that are unruly - I know many people from the boarding school culture and they now have WONDERFUL JOBS, have gone on to top universities - have sound, good relationships with their families and are very mature as they have lived on their own for years before finishing High School.

It is a team of people that raise students in Boarding School versus a single parent or even a 2 parent household.

Transplant Grandma in the US

These kids are 5 years old

Grandma - moves to the US - get her a visiting visa

She can live with them and bring her ways with her as well - if she does herbs, she can plant herbs. She can instruct the kids while living in the US and the parents can obey accordingly.

Then the family stays together in the US. Once principles and behaviors are maintained in that household for 2-3 years - if Grandma wants to go back home - she can go.

Look into doing it that way. The kids can visit for summer break to continue learning.

slap1:
Had to be kissing the tears off her cheeks. Now I don't even know if that's romantic! Is it?

That is very, very romantic.

OK - This will work - I PROMISE YOU

STOP HAVING SEX WITH HER ALTOGETHER
STOP TALKING ABOUT IT
STOP TRYING - PERIOD,

Be loving
Be friendly
DON'T ACT INTERESTED IN HER PERIOD ON A SEXUAL LEVEL

She will notice IMMEDIATELY
Sometimes you, the man, needs to be chased

When you stop chasing
She stops running

IF she wants you
She stands still
Stands UP and NOTICES

THEN SHE WORRIES
Because a man is going to have sex
SHE KNOWS THIS
If you aren't getting it like you want it from her
STOP GETTING IT AT ALL
She is your woman and she should be concerned enough about you to start trying new and different things

SHE ISN'T IN THE RELATIONSHIP BY HERSELF

This you might have to do for 2 weeks to a month or even longer
SO HOLD OUT

THE SILENT TREATMENT WORKS LIKE A CHARM

When it's time to go to sleep - Don't forget:
You aren't in the mood
You have a headache
You are exhausted
You are not interested

Don't be rude
Be friendly
Be loving

If you can't get the sex like you want it
Then you don't want it at all

She will be worried enough about holding onto you
She will be on NL opening up a thread

"Help - I think my BF is cheating he isn't asking or interested anymore - How Do I Turn Him ON? GIVE ME SOME MOVES AND ADVICE"

Thank you and It has been my pleasure to meet you as well.

Happy Upcoming Birthday to You As Well.

I like you alot MOBO444 - I will follow your posts carefully

Your presentation style IS HILARIOUS

PLEASE FOCUS on doing that regarding this electricity situation

The People Need A Voice - YOU ARE IT,

Make Everyone OUTSIDE OF NIGERIA - LONDON/US - Focus on Nigeria because I knew nothing about the roads, the electricity

Your People Need You

Your voice is soo talented - YOU CAN RAISE THEM UP - You have soo many people that respond to you

You are getting a response - I don't care if it is negative or not

They are responding

They will do the same when you bring in a humorous way the situation to light - That will line your pockets financially, Help Your Fellow Countrymen and Assist in Correcting Whoever Thinks they have a hold on the populace in Nigeria

The Import Fees ENRAGE ME - To Import anything to Nigeria - they rape you financially

I'm begging you - TALK ABOUT THAT TOO,

You also STRATEGIZE

You size up your opponent both physically and mentally before you destroy them when crossed

You are the life of any party
Everyone Likes you - ONLY WHEN YOU ALLOW THEM TO
You also are very private person as well
You love beautiful things
You LOVE LAUGHTER

October 8 - my BD

You are a Libra Man,

This is NOT WHO YOU ARE AT ALL,   


They do not know you on NL,

The ONLY TIME A LIBRA TALKS AND ACTS LIKE YOU DO is if he/she has been hurt.

You are VERY GIVING, very loving, you will give the shirt off your back
You are physically very handsome to look at
You are very intelligent
You make GOOD MONEY
Now I see your sense of humor CLEARLY
You are very loyal to your family and to your country - all jokes and anger aside
You know exactly how to treat a woman
You are very, overly forgiving
You will put up with most things that people around you will never put up with
That is why you can see ALL SIDES OF A COIN AND ALL SIDES OF A SITUATION

You REALLY NEED TO GO INTO COMEDY - YOU WILL MAKE MILLIONS

I now understand you very, very clearly - Mr. Libra Man - MOBO444

My hat is off to you and my sincerest apologies for not understanding you right away

This is your birth month?

This is my birth month

@ MOBO444:

hahahahahahahaha

lrlrlrlrlrlrlrl

lololololol

oh - my abdomen it hurts so much.

I don't want to anger anyone on NL - but YOU BY FAR are my favorite NLer - I had a professor in college who was a "Paul Lynn" type of comedy presenter. You really ARE GOOD - you are and I am not trying to swell your head up or anything. You are really, really funny. YOU NEED TO SERIOUSLY CONSIDER taking this up and if you can focus on the economy and politics in your comedy the electricity problems that I hear about - do this and be on TV with it - PEOPLE WILL ADORE YOU.

Take it off of the women - I would PAY TO SEE YOU IN ACTION

The world will turn and listen to you and the Nigerian Government "out of global shame" will do something about the problems and the corruption I hear about through my "boyfriend - who resides in Nigeria."

Anyway, thank you - this part of your post WAS SOOO FUNNY - you are hilarious.

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"I am presently a victim of such, she paid £3,750 to bring me fine boy here from Benin, Edo state, I came here to join her and dumped her Black backside them moment I got here, she wanted me to bed her without Rubber, well I told her you have to go for HIV test, you may be my wife but go for test, the fake marriage ended, that was how I dumped and took £11,000 from her account and moved to inner England, I now have my residence papers. "
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I hope you keep posting because you are WONDERFUL - I love it - but you hurt some women on here and that isn't what you want really, now is it?

Admit, you just do this because you are trying to draw attention to some issues - but you can't really believe that ALL WOMEN THAT ARE NIGERIAN are as bad as you say, I know you've been hurt and my heart breaks for you because you sound like a really good guy. Intelligent, funny, creative, spiritual, Nigerian.

I agree completely with DeLaRue

Yes we need a joint account

But as a woman - I need a separate account that he pays into because I need to be able to buy my "daily nothings" - I don't want to have to keep asking him for money or to review with him before spending or withdrawing for every little occurrence

A budget would be reviewed monthly between he and I regarding the joint and separate accounts - his and mine.

@ D-Sense and Ochungal

You are ON POINT - I completely agree with you both.

I couldn't have said it better myself. You know exactly what you are talking about.

If we are married - I will enjoy number 3 with him - we will go together

The other numbers are OUT OF THE QUESTION

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If we are dating - he can do ALL OF IT - however, any activity that jeopardizes my permanently bowing out of the relationship - beware!!

Ohhh this is wonderful

I love this - that is me - I have to keep trying to get the car close enough to the drive-thru

I pull forward, back up, pull forward, back up

check make in rearview mirror

But my purse is very organized so there is no dumping onto seat going on

lolololololol - thank you to the poster

this is very, very funny

I used to tell everything

I have found from experience that it IS NOT GOOD TELLING EVERYTHING

Some things should be left unsaid to promote, maintain and cultivate a happy home

Happy Birthday fellow Libra

Enjoy yourself to the fullest

Yes

You are Correct

We women should work on our bodies as well.

I work out all the time - I try to work out daily when I am able.

Water is God's Nectar

Alot of people start needing to wear glasses, etc.

The body starts breaking down in the 40s

So take care of yourself and if you drink - be moderate

It is better to drink beer than hard alcohol if you are able to make that transition

Alot of people who have diabetes were heavy hard alcohol drinkers for years - unless it is hereditary.

Yes

Drugs and Drinking - Especially heavily affect erections.

I am not talking about just having a drink for enjoyment - but DRINKING DAILY (liquor) will affect an erection once you are in your 40s and up.

Not all men but a large % will feel the effects.

In Biology when you hit the age of 40 is when the body starts to exhibit the effects of what you have and haven't done all of your life.

Research what I say.