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Ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.

Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about sex.

Masturbation is handling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especiallly non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling Hot for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and Hot? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is #MENTAL_FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' penis are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been promiscous as singles.

4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife
pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscous.

10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge?

How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers!

2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.

3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.

5. Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.

6. Pray to God for help

7. Make friends with godly people.

8. Avoid pornography and romantic movies.

9. Get busy in kingdom service.

Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it.
You can win the fight against masturbation addiction

We love you.

Sirjamo:
"I tell you that to everyone who has, more shall be given, but from the one who does not have, even what he does have, more shall be taken away. BUT THESE ENEMIES OF MINE WHO DOES NOT WANT ME TO REIGN OVER THEM, BRING THEM BEFORE ME AND SLAY THEM" (Luke 19: 26 - 27)
That was Jesus speaking in the new testament, asking his deciples to " bring my enemies before me and slay them." Many Christians had used such verses in the Bible against other faith adherents before: The crusaders used it against Muslims and Jews, the Nazies used it against Jews, recently, the Bosnian Christians used it against Bosnian Muslims.

Of course, I took the verse out of it historical context, and that is what every Muslim terrorists also do with the Quran, they single out the part that suite there lunacy and used it as justification for there madness.

Mr. Man why did you quote only verse 26 and 27.why didn't you start from verse 23 and see that it was a parable?
Jesus was telling a story, and parables can not be interpreted literally just as you did.

Hello! Happy Nairalanders, let's do it once more.
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The person that his or her meme gets the highest likes will be the winner.
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He claims that he graduated at some month before he clocked 30yrs.

NYSC age limit = 30yrs.

30 - 17yrs = 13yrs
Spent 4yrs in the university + 1yr NYSC = 5yrs

13yrs - 5yrs = 8yrs
Can you imagine! He finished his secondary school education at the age of ( eight.
I fitn't believe.
Some lies get levels.

Jeezuzpick:
Oga Professor, I hail o.

Look at the picture you posted yourself.

The Greek mythological definition of "naiad" is right there, yet you said I don't know the meaning of the word

You are now the prof for you just enlightened me.
I didn't do a proper research on it, I only understood it after I'd checked the meaning of NYMPH. KUDOS.

Pls can someone help? I don't know how to update mine.

The husband leg long o!

ewizard1:
The reason, those UK, London used are quality built product than these new China product. I used a tokunbo Calor 13kg Gas Cylinder.

Then go for the new one, not China.

Jeezuzpick:
According to Greek mythology, the creatures you saw are naiads.....they live in fresh water.

Mer people (mermen and mermaids) live in the seas.

They are quite different.

I am a Christian, and I know the Bible talks about other creations apart from us humans, so my mind is not closed about this.

God alone knows all.

You don't even know the meaning of the word "naiads "

Ishilove:
Ohhhh. A real life sailor.

Don't mind that little brother

Nigerians just like buying already used products, must we buy them, why not buy it new.

Every time what you we hearing is UK used, China used, Belgium used Ghana used etc.
I doff cap for Niger.

We spent several years in school, from kindergarten to Higher institution just to wear this uniform,but we were not told; that the uniform does not guarantee, quick employment.
Three weeks in orientation camp, with paramilitry drilling, all because of this uniform, still we were not told that the drilling is not a yard stick for quick employment.
Early morning bath in the cold,rushing to the parade ground because when you miss the first line of the anthem you will have to give proper explanation to the the soldiers, awaiting you with their heartless punishment, yet we were not told that the government has destroyed the Nation decades ago.
Climbing trees, jumping poles, crawling under a dangerous wire, running and matching in the sun all because the state government is on his way to visit the camping ground and there's need to impress the nation, yet we were not told; that it's just a waste of time.

Sharing toilet with more than 40 corps member, risking our lives to please the nation yet we were not told; that our names are not on their list to benefit from the national Treasury.
From camp to place of primary assignment,working from Monday to Friday without been paid, yet we were not told that the sacrifices are not recorded in their book.
Finally we passed out and face the employment market, but we were not told that age is a barrier and 4years working experience would be needed.
We were not told that education is what we need not schooling.
We were not told that schooling will only produce a graduate with certificate but education will produce a product with something to produce, but our teachers lied to us that good CGPA is what the society need.
They lied to us right from kindergarten that we must study hard to have a good result but not to have good education.
We were not told, that the man who invented college didn't go to college.
Oh we were wrongly informed through our education curriculum.

I dedicate this to all NIGERIAN students who are coming to inherite the level of lies and wrong information in our academics curriculum to please forget schooling and focus on education.

Enough of learning computer on the board
Enough of learning physics on the board
Enough of learning mechanical/electrical engineering on the board
Enough of learning agriculture on the board

Enough of schooling bring EDUCATION BACK TO OUR SCHOOLS.
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Obi Ndi a kporor akpor meenn!
Ndi obi akpor. Spits

zedman1:
I don't know about reliability but EXCEPT FOR THE NEW EXPENSIVE ONES, toyota cars are generally ugly, I wonder who designs for them. You could see small cheap Honda cars with beautiful designs but toyota, mbanu. I like fine things but that toyo ugly men.... People talk bad about Honda ball joints sha.

E be like set na only 1988 models of toyota na him dey una side.

If you ask mere na who I go ask? �