₦airaland Forum

freeborn02:
Is Rivers State just about Omoku and Bonny Island? What of the streets and the lives of the common men on the street? Has the high IGR changed those for the better?

Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks

AdaugoChisom:
Umuadara street? That's pure Igbo

ILoveDemMANNA:
Kanu the Animal. The terrorist.
For all the mayhem you caused in this nation.
Your end is nigh.
You successfully killed your poor parents and you are sending your brainwashed followers to set the nation on fire, telling them you have no house or investment in the zoo.
You will never end well.

Your security rubbish should be likened to boko haram, not to Amotekun and the rest.
The Federal Government see you as a terrorist group.
You have been warned fraudster and porn.star.

Fvckhypocrite:
Canada or burst

femmoy:
you are stupid,I only corrected u,did I abuse or fight with you?
keep behaving adamant to corrections,that's how you disgrace yourself everywhere you go like MTN.
mofo

femmoy:
it's 'quit notice' and not 'quick notice'

Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

Mokason288:
And if they don’t?

What should we do to you?

Stop telling people what they want to hear... tell them the truth?

Go to the North 19years old Aboki that is driving Keke has 6 wives

Is marriage an achievement?


I HOPE I MADE SENSE

Kalaba:
Am I the only one that gets charged up whenever I listen to or read the lyrics of the National anthem, especially the 2nd stanza. One reason I love watching national team football, there's something spiritual about the national anthem and there's everything spiritual about this country, and until we return to the one above who giveth directions, this country may never move forward.

What a wonderful rendition.
What an experience.
#TheExperience of Peace.

BaddieFreak:
Sequel.

Former thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6300083/step-dad-maltreating-mom-confused


About my mom being maltreated by my step dad, I took a bold step today, I took two military men to my step dad's house today and luckily for me, I only met him at home, I didn't meet my mom there, I guess she went out, I am expecting her call lol. I don't know what she would say about what I did though.

When we got in, he was sitting in his living room watching TV, he was shocked to see military men with me. To cut the long story short, they made him sign an undertaking not to lay his hands on my mom again, I just hope he listens knowing the kind of man that he is.

I am really grateful to everybody that showed some love by giving me quality advice, you are blessed.

I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day.

Abaman001:
Find out if the branch manager or CEO is an ipob member

Godeppme:
Hello nairalanders,

I have a very big problem here.
I have been at home for close to 3 years now and i am loosing hope daily. I feel worthless. I graduated since 2012, then i traveled abroad and returned in 2015, then i did all my clearance and all and got my statement of result from uniben which read 2012.

However while registering at NYSC portal in 2017, i realized they made errors such as wrong names,wrong date of graduation. I graduated when i was 26 but nysc portal says i graduated in 2017,i have done everything possible,wrote student affairs,submitted copies of documents to back my claim,greased the palms of the stupid staffs at student affairs for my complaint to be posted to abuja,but even after that no difference.

I am really frustrated and i feel someone is after me why was it when it got to my turn,the idiot person feeding the computer at student affairs entered my details all wrong,right from my names to date of graduation.

Please who can help me out, i am eligible for service cos i graduated at 26,now till now they are telling me to take exemption letter with the error like that on the exemption.

I do not want it, it is not my portion..

i want to serve. please help me

Bawofss:
I have someone who is interested....drop ur contact

omenka:
Short Fused nonentities.

Couldn't care less whatever happens to any of them.

Barcelona is the stupidest club in the universe. See me see 35 million naira, only for the dolts to mess things up.

johniemos:
Good day all, Happy new Month. I'll be 30 by May next year. Can I apply for the NYSC. Thanks.