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smithy90:
Thank you I can handle any1 giving me abuse I am use to it! I know what it be like being a single parent I am a strong person and cope well,I can cater for my unborn child has I wouldn't keep if I couldn't aswell has not beleieving in abortions

Well, its good you believe you can carter for your unborn child, but can you carter for the 'born' child when it arrives? Being strong is not the only thing that child needs.

Goodluck though.

You sound sincere: there are so many trolls on the forum so its hard to know who's not telling the truth; and you just registered this handle today, a strong characteristic of trolls.

Anyway, if what you're saying is the truth, then make sure you are ready: financially, emotionally, psychologically to be a single mom. Please don't bring someone into this world that you can't carter for.

Abortion is still a very nice option if the issues of being a single mom is overbearing.

Pour a generous amount of salt inside the gen fuel thank! You've been talking for the guy for over a year now yet no solution: now you want to start talking to health workers? In this damn country?

Kill-off that gen, and the next one and the one after that one. We do it always while we were at school. We don't even confront you, just spoil the damn thing. When you repair your gen everyother day, you will realize that we all have some fundamental human rights which no one should infringe on.

ayoku777:
Its because we are all born in the image of Adam that disobeyed. Adam sinned and we inherit his sinful image when we are born in his image. Adam's sin was an act but it is imputed by being born in his image.

Does that even make sense to you? Adam disobeyed, therefore every other man born into this world inherits the sin? I mean, like seriously? Adam was of the image of God, we all are of the image of God, why is one man's sin imputed to everyother man?

The Op asked what Jesus' death achieved! Its a valid question because God could have just allowed man ask for forgiveness from the original sin (he didn't commit) and then all things become okk. But No: someone must die before the loving god forgives any sin.

Since after Jesus died, did it stop man from being born in the same image of Adam like you posited?

In the sixth day, man made god in his own image, after his likeness.

You guys just give the God so many wonderful attributes that it becomes harder for you to defend: viz a vis omnipresent, omnipotent and omniscient while your biblical stories proves it wrong.

Let me add more to instances timonski gave:

Adam and Eve. If your attribute of God is correct, then he was right there when the serpent was deceiving Eve, he had the power to prevent it but didn't; he just watched. But what was recorded in the bible was that he came down to fellowship with adam as he always does (omnipresent: disproved).

He asked adam where he was then adam replied that he was naked. "Who told you that you are naked, have you eaten of the fruit I asked you not to? (Omniscient disproved).

The anger in which he dished the curses left right and centre shows he neither had the foreknowledge nor predestined anything!

God doesn't meet up the standard you set for him.

sophib:
Its forbidden and a sin to take anything dat is harmful to ur health.

Then taking junk foods should be a sin because its harmful to the health.

Do you know the amount of calories in icecream and a can of coke?

In that case we're all going to hell

christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.
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Haaa!!! Aunty you can lie enh!

seseannie:
Tnx 4 all ur responses I spoke with him n he said he left a friend in his house n went to eat n that must have been when the condoms were used. He said he knew nothing abt the condoms. he. Has been swearing n begging me to believe him. To be candid I don't really know. What to believe

Lol...big fat lie! He is not at rest with his conscience that's why the pleading, begging and swearing.

I know this is late but this is what you would have done when he went to watch arsenal game: get urself prepared mentally and emotionally. It was obvious he wasn't going to own up. When you asked him and he said it was his friend, demand that he gives you the friend's phone number right away! Call the so-called friend with your own phone in his presence and ask him. You're not being childish, you are trying to gain your man's trust back and right now with this uncertainty, it will be hard to trust him.
When his friend picks up, calmly introduce yourself. Tell him that you and his friend are having a little argument and that you needed his sincere and honest response.

Then ask him if he came to your friend's house 2 days ago! Don't ask him if he came that day the event happened, drag it back by a day or two. If he said he came, ask him when was the last time he's been to his house and if he came alone.

A girl once did this to me: in her own case, she saw a wrap of half-smoked weed: and of course, just like your fiance said: "it wasn't mine!"

EvilBrain1:
OP is like a poor man's Iya Witch.

Troll harder, dude.

Hahahahaha! Iyawitch was very effective! She held nairalander at ransom for over 8 hrs with her landmark thread. Whatever happened to her? I really enjoyed that thread like mad!

malvisguy212:
why do you falsely accused me of insulting other? Have you ever seen me insult other? God will judge.

Said I was surprised you haven't resorted to insults like pastorkun did.

Anyway, I hope the GOD that will judge will be horus or amadioha. I prefer them both: yahweh is a self-confessed jealous god. I don't want him to see my swag and feel intimidated, thereby pronouncing me guilty.

malvisguy212:
were in the bible God approve slavery.

johnydon22:
oya start twisting it ... seriously dude i doubt if you have even read ur own bible..

Now the dude has run-off! You will meet him in another thread doing what he knows how to do best; when you present hard facts like you just did now, he will run-off only to show again in another thread and the cycle continues.

I'm surprised he hasn't resorted to insults yet like this dude below:

PastorKun:
And what does this your DAFT analogy prove I am even more amazed that some equally dumb people liked your post.

PastorKun:
From what I just read in my bible, Gehazi was his servant and not slave.

Loooolll...that's the dumbest defense I've seen for a long time now.

Okk, let me pretend that you are really ignorant of words written in the bible and educate you a bit.

Colossians 3.22 Servants, obey in all things your masters according to the flesh; not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but in singleness of heart, fearing God;

Ephesians 6.5 Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in singleness of your heart, as unto Christ;

Colossians 3:22 New International Version (NIV)

22 Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you and to curry their favor, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the Lord.

Servant; slave; same thing: its just in the version of the bible you read.

Better than watching super story. Would have been at Literature section though.

chigoville:
Being agnostic seems to be the best thing to ever happen to me. I uncovered the truth in my third year at the university. Few people knew about my stand.. Still can't tell my parents though but I really go to church just for the sake of satisfying them.

I hope you shout Ammmeeeeennnn on top of your voice when the pastor says 'this week is your week!'

Same thing they shouted amen for last week and will shout amen for in the upcoming weeks!

PastorKun:
Which other prophet did so

Elisha (Gehazi: 2 Kings 5:20).

Nne, bia mehe ukwu ka m nlaa gi otu.

Dezzx:
sir r u on watsapp, am into wholesale of consumable goods and I want us to discuss further.

You're about to get duped!

Don't say I didn't warn you.

wisdompraise:
He is the King of Kings, the creator of heaven and earth. He is the one that gave you the breath of life. Without Him you wouldn't be alive to drop this kind of comment.
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Lol...u're very naïve. I was once like you, soon, you will discover the truth about what you hold esteem and that truth will set you free from false beliefs.

wisdompraise:
He is also ready to listen to you only if you can go down on your knees and ask for the forgiveness of your sins and save your soul.

Lol...seems the only prayer he answers is that of 'forgiveness of sins'. When the dying sick prays and prays and prays, he still ends up dead. When his children gathers for a prayer session, bokoharam bombs them all to death. And yet, he is a loving father, the omni-omni everything!

No bro, I don't need answered prayers from him: let him answer those that are killed daily in his name.

Try his original name: 'Yeshua'.

Thank me later.

AgapeCharis:
It's very easy trust me

Just be consistent with talking to him. In no time, you'll start flowing he will start replying

Fixed

skylane:
my bro there are some questions we ask and it turns into a sin,well there are 7 heavens and Gods throne thats the holy of holies is in the seventh heaven,he was taken to abraham's bossom that's the 5 or 6th heaven no sufferin there is just like paradise,only tru ppl who are well connected with the spirit will agree with me

Lol @1st - 7th heaven! I'm sure if the bible had said the world was flat, you will definitely believe it irrespective of scientific findings. Please tell us which is the 7th heaven? Saturn? Jupiter? Uranus? Or those it stretch pass the plants and entered into another universe?

dsquare33:
People find it diffult to pray either because they are not genuinely saved or they ignorant of God's word which could be the fault of their shepherds. Until people become more spiritually marture will they not find the presence of God boring. There is nothing as beautiful as talking to God through prayers or His word and you hearing Him speak to you by that beautiful still small voice.

Yea, its always the fault of the people that are tired of praying to a God that doesn't answer or talk back. When prayers aren't answered, its always the fault of the person saying the prayers: either he doesn't have faith, or its not the will of God, irrespective of the fact that it won't take God anything to heal or save the person saying the prayer.

@bolded, never ever was it recorded in the bible that God had a still small voice! You guys just make it up so there will be a risen why he wasn't heard.

Maybe because God has refused to talk back. When you chat with someone that ignores you 95% of the time, the next thing to do is to stop talking and better still, delete the contact.

lepasharon:
I am not an atheist. I dont know what I beleive in anymore Everything I thought was true is crumbling before me Now that I am seeing religion for what it is. I feel like I have been cheated

Religion is the biggest fraud perpetuated by MAN! You are in the right path of self-discovery. They will tell you not to ask any questions; to believe, just believe, have faith..bla..bla..bla! Then they start threatening you with blasphemy when you ask questions. Then they threaten you with hell fire!

The answers you seek are not in any religious thread. The truth shall set you free!

obongproff:
Oyedepo is unkillable. He is a covenant child of God so early death is impossible except God choses to call him. And when his time comes, it wont be via plane crash or via any accident. If he has to go, it will be a peaceful death. He will just go to his room, lie down and sleep. Dats how prophets die, and not by plane crash.

John the Baptist got his head chop-off and served to a little wh.or'e.

Zedric:
Let me mark register.


I'm an atheist to everyone I know except my parents. U've tried telling them so many times but I know it ll probably kill them to hear their son say "There z not God"

Nah, I will keep it to myself.

Its best that way for your sanity and peace of mind. I don't engage in arguments with them religious felas; unless when they tend to disturb my peace. Was in a bus for a short journey sometime ago when a preacher, as usual, decide to disturb the entire bus with condemnation and damnation of whoever won't believe in his preaching. Then he started yabbing about how unpeaceful other religions are and how they are known for causing wars, terrorism and unrest and how only in christianity that there is absolute peace that passes all understanding. He was seating close to me so I just asked him in a calm voice: 'Isn't that the same things christians did in times past?' He tried to feign ignorance (maybe he didn't really know) but I reminded them that god did command his people to wipe out the amalekites, caninites and any pegan and unbeliever that crosses their path, same thing allah told the muslims so how is it peaceful in his own religion.

His mistake was to think he would intimidate me with a louder voice but I persisted. Reminded him that all the first born of egypt was murdered by his peaceful god just to make a point. Reminded him that jericho was utterly destroyed because they refused to open their gates and allow the isrealites to pass thru. Backing up the little conversation with bible verses murdered whatever defense he was going to put up. He pulled up crap about old and new testament but I reminded him that right inside the bus, he had mentioned that god is the same yesterday, today and forever so why is he adjusting the nature of god to suit his purpose.

Now I was able to engage into this argument by taking the stance of a muslim and being Lagos where there's mixed religious population, some peeps inside the bus (who are obviously muslims) concurred and supported me. Now imagine if I had taken a stance that there was no god? I will of course be getting disdains from both muslims and christians alike inside the bus.

I don't argue with them felas as long as they let me be. I prefer discussing 'issues' with them rather than discussing god with them (maybe because of my agnostic nature). Like the issue of tithing my colleagues at work were arguing with me: when I opened Deutronomy 14 and showed them where it is allowed to eat your tithe and even buy beer with it and drink.
But its obvious nothing you say will free them from their bliss.

undercat:
If you're going to remain agnostic for a long time, it is better you tell her about your agnosticism now. Whether you tell her or not, she will find out eventually. She needs to know about something like this before she goes ahead with marrying you. The sooner you tell her, the more time she'll have to consider your position, and maybe endorse it.

Why does it matter what her reason for dumping religion is, assuming she does that?

Telling her is not an option, rather, I'll make her find out. It will require time and many life examples to drive it in. I don't know how she'll take it if I just throw it at her. I know we need to be in the same frequency if we're going to commit but my greatest fear remains how she'll take it!

@bolded, there's no question about if I'm going to remain agnostic. Religion is simply deceptive!

Liekiller:
Yep, it sure does, and after this post i have a feeling your mind is actually made up. If you know already that this is not how you want to live and you don't see any convincing development after some serious talk, i would advise you to move on and find someone who thinks like you. Everything else would most likely only lead to constant arguing and frustration on both sides.

My mind isn't made up. It worries me day and night. I make sacrifices to put things in shape: whenever she's around, we go to church together. Moving on won't be ideal for me; what happens when I move on and fall in love with another christian? I move on again? And again? I'm agnostic and not an atheist, at such, frivolous things as religion and existence/non-existence of god doesn't border me for once.

I want to spend the rest of my life together and can even accommodate her religious excesses (as long as it doesn't affect my finances and future children) but will she be willing to do same? My greatest fear!