Animegirl:
I want to go to a club and see for myself. It seems fun when my friends post on their snap stories.

If you have minimum of "obvious boobs " and nice or "large arse " all you need is a good spender ;yahoo or fraud boy taking you there. Just know your honeypot will take a hit. Nothing goes for nothing.

Not true oga.

Avoid financial exploitation from her. Once you do that your good .

I hope they know what they are doing. When you borrow to buy bullet proof land cruiser jeeps am sure you don't have plans to payback.

Nigeria under Buhari closed the boarders of Nigeria to the outside world during COVID 19 only for us to hear Dangote trucks loaded with cement from his factories where given a veto power to cross the closed boarders. Hmmm I guess his time is almost up.

Am sure you don't want to date a broke guy or bus conductor!!!

They are busy . Successful guys are mostly busy people.

Sex is transactional these days. With Nigerian women they can have sex for favours in whatever form with 2 people per day minimum. The difference is for the guy they are emotionally invested in their demands are fewer or non existent.

I can't keep a friendship with single mother talkless of marry her.

Your friend ( I hope it's not you) infected the lady with evil spirit( spirit of fornication) after the first sex with her. Unfortunately these spirits have worked against the overall interest of your friend. Sex is spiritual.

ohajame:
I have just been thinking...why are girls fond of doing this? Or is it just a naija girl problem or mentality?
A friend of mine told me about a girl he once dated. This girl was so churchy and looked so impeccable in terms of religiousity. She had never kissed a guy not to talk of being in a sexual relationship with another guy. When they met and began to date, he once invited her to his place. She came over and they subsequently had sex. He was obviously the first guy to sleep with her (she obviously bled much and all those stuffs that shows she was a virgin). Subsequently on another occasion, he invited her to stay over at his place and she obliged. She was in the university, so she could afford to come visit without her strict parents intervention. He obviously got Hot at night and attempted to make a move and woo her severally, but she firmly refused. This happened on two other occasions that they had sharp disagreement and they cut off communication. Before she left his place, he sternly warned her that even after she refused him touching her, she would still go meet another guy and easily open her legs for that guy. But that she should know that after that he would never have anything to do with her anymore because she would now become a used product in his eyes and would have completely lost her value before him. She even swore that nothing would ever happen.
My friend travelled out of the country and subsequently returned. They got back together several months later and this my friend noticed that this girl never put up any resistance when he tried to make love to her. Infact she seemed to keep asking for more after they were done. He asked her if she had been with any other guy since they broke up and she said no, that this was the second time she was having sex after the first time she had with my friend who deflowered her. My friend still had some doubts. They kept on meeting subsequently and same intimate stuffs always went down between them. Subsequently, my friend curiously decided to check her phone when she went into the bathroom and discovered romantic chats between her and some other guys in her university. He screenshot everything and sent to his phone and deleted her own part. When she came out of the bathroom he pretended like he had seen nothin and just maintained his usual niceness. He continued to meet her with the same intimate moments happening. On one day after he had dropped her off, he decided to probe her into what he had seen. It was then she confessed that few days after they had that first sharp disagreement and they cut off, she went to visit her male course mate and she never knew what happened and they had sex. And that she subsequently began to stay over at his place and each time they kept having sex but her conscience was really guilty. She then recalled that he had warned her about it that as she was leaving his place another guy would most likely sex her for free, and she would freely give that guy the stuff she was refusing him. And funny enough, this same guy she has been fucking is much younger than her. My guy discovered that even those days she came to visit him (after he returned), once she got back to school, she would visit this guy's place, cook for him and do the laundry for him and crown it up with sex. Note that she confessed all these when he calmly probed her, and reassured her that he just wanted the truth and that he would forgive her even if she did the worst. She felt reassured and began to divulge everything, every detail to him.
The point now is that, she has been begging him profusely with tears and even bombarding his phone with plea messages saying it was just a mistake and that she felt devastated when he apparently cut off from her but my friend now sees her as a second hand used product and would not want to have anything to do with her. He says he has the other option of just keep sexing her and enjoying her moments whenever he feels cold while his love and future isn't with her, but his conscience would not allow him. He also discovered that she was also in romantic talks with some other guys on campus on that same day he saw this stuffs on her phone. My friend just began to wonder how a girl that looked so righteous and whom he could swear would never do such a thing could turn out that way. She has been pleading to come see him but my friend has not even replied her anymore but ghosted her. He blocked her on every platform. What baffles me more was that my friend even warned her and gave her a sequential pattern of what might likely play out after she left and the consequences, and yet she still went in a committed such stuffs. She just made the guy look like a prophet. Now her body count has piled up.
I am just wondering why most ladies i have seen are like this. You have decided to have sex with a guy whom you're in a relationship with. You now form strict principles and say no romance, and when the guy isn't okay with that, you move on a day later to another guy and give him countless sex, not only at that instant but on subsequent days he desires it. That now increases your body count to two. When you realise that this new guy isn't it, you run back to the first guy who (if he is nasty) would just give you false hopes and keep enjoying your body. When he is tired, he throws you away and a third guy comes in to have his share and the cycle continues. I'm also wondering too, is this just a naija phenomenon or a global thing? Do ladies think of the consequences on themselves, in terms of increasing their body count and the piling emotional damage it would have caused them such that when a decent guy comes eventually he wouldn't be able to cope with the countless emotional issues she has accumulated and runs away or they start forming my past doesn't matter?

200k

They have been doing it

Who said. Coming generation will arrest the children and fathers that borrowed this money with Nothing to show for it. Pay which debt? Dey play

Ha ha. Nice

Nice. Tell him hunger is in the land. He caused it

Nice shot

Yes

Mad people

I like the guy. He is helping his family members and a good youth. No baby mama drama

That's what is called no refund after payment

Congratulations man your the father.

Who counted the ladies??

ukaface:

Yes sir??

. Rich and handsome single Husband fall on you next year I declare.

He is getting the message little by little. At least he can see for himself the effect of his foolish economic policies.

Two problems at a go. This man may not have any energy to achieve anything in life.

Call it off

Finances

Seek medical help

How is this anyone's business. Nigeria is not western world abeg.

FaithELEFAN:
I am asking on behalf of a friend. She wants to know. When one is going through health malaria, is it good to have have sex..

Yes. I tried it once on a girl that came visiting with fever/ malaria, after the hot session she became healthy and active . With that knowledge at hand I tried it again when another girl came visiting. This time around I was the one with the fever/ malaria, my erection was not as strong as it usually is but all the same I tried to continue. Am not sure how many minutes I spent but I know the lady was one of the people rushing me to hospital with only boxers on.