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nitlad: Arising from the above, then this was always a flawed argument to begin with.

yes..in your opinion.
..hasn't stopped it from being an arguement and doesn't stop it still!!
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I loved your initial position on page 1 of this thread...but then you got confused along the line..
Funny!!

Ezeed: Poster,you got things twisssted the moment you said that!

Madam,stop confusing your self.
Lemme help.
Here's what i said..

I do think a girl could be all of those qualities... [b]BUT[/b]then i believe there are certain extremities of both that cannot be found in one person!

its not my fault that you have failed to understand..
Read all my posts on this thread and if u still don't get it..its not my problem!

nitlad: Much as yhu try to make this less about pretty hot ladies are all beauty and no brains, and the not so attractive ones the real jewels, the more yhu seem to be hammering it home as yhur position. Yhu just cant group all women into two groups of Michelle Obama and Kim Kardashian, nah doesnt work like that!

..and i agree..my previous post below takes care of that.

slimyem: That's where the few exceptions and certain variances come in.
In this case i chose to group women in just two classes because their lives,visions and missions are extreme.
I didn't browse the middlepoint doesn't mean i don't think there is.

Now,what?

Hunger never wire am wella!!
Nansense!
Btw,tell us the rest of the story maam.

op,wetin con happen after that?

Ezeed: Slimyem, all i see in your posts is your perception of 'beauty' and 'intelligence/decency' as opposite poles. Its either you are trying to deny it because you've realised it doesn't make so much sense, orrrrrr, you simple do not know how to communicate well and put forward what you actually mean to say. That's my take on what is actually going on with you and your posts here.

believe what ever you wish..
People who understand have responded accordingly and that's enough.
Thanks!!

dm never born me that year..
Or maybe i still dey suck bwest then..
Na only 50k and one naira coins i use

If this topic makes front-page,
i'm sacking Seun straight-away!!
walahi!!
*touches tongue with index finger and raises it up*

@vivian...i agree with you to a certain extent!
That's where the few exceptions and certain variances come in.
In this case i chose to group women in just two classes because their lives,visions and mission are extreme.
I didn't browse the middlepoint doesn't mean i don't think there is.
My last immediate post addresses again the point a lot of peeps on this thread haven't gotten.
The issue is NOT about how pretty women can't be smart or intelligent!

nitlad: I thought most of what Sweetlemon posted made perfect sense.
Slimyem yhur argument is too loose, way too many loose ends IMO. It aint water tight at all.

water-tight?
Lol
go pour water nah..
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A woman who is all glamour and glitz,who enjoys rocking the latest things,enjoys being at the hottest parties/shows and enjoys media attention cannot all at the same time be a homely,dedicated, humble and responsible wife/mother.
There might be quite a few exceptions but those qualities are almost never found altogether in one person.
M.O represents one and KK represents the other.
Agree or disagree without bias!

Ezeed: Slimyen, i'm sorry, but you are wrong. Both can exist together. They arnt opposite poles. I know a certain young lady who is very pretty, at the same time, decent, and godly. Regarding intelligence, she has got it too: academically and otherwise. So, please change your perception that once a lady is very beautiful, she is automatically the 'stupidest' woman around. Its somehow.

No,thank you..because apparently you didn't get any of the points!

Sweetlemon: And what if I had an opinion that girls like you opionated, one-track minded, looking-for-a-reason-not-to-feel-too bad-about not super hot? I guess you will take that lying down cos I have a right to my views huh? Just accept that your views are offensive to some people and try to be more open-minded please! I ask again how many Kim K look alikes do you know personally?

when you stop taking this issue personally and start seeing it as just a topic of discussion which is what it really is,i'd reply accordingly.
Until then,cheers!!!

binger: its obvious to me dat u are a Michelle trying to gain acceptance in a world dat men drool over d likes of kim k.perhaps u are nt beautiful nd sexy,don't worry ur 'decency' and intelligenc wil make a way 4 u

Nothing is obvious to you!
You are only making assumptions..
...and btw,my way has been made already...
Save your prayers!

Sweetlemon: Excuse me I don't know who you are and neither do you know all the beautiful girls in this world personally so you have ABOSOLUTELY NO RIGHT WHATSOEVER to conclude that most super-sexy or beautiful women allow their looks get the better of them or whatever xter flaws you will love to brand them with just because they are beautiful. How dare you say that their physical attributes becomes the only desireable assets they have? How dare you?
And to all of you who have such views, how many super-sexy, beautiful ladies do you know that will make you conclude that most of them are like that

madam.why your body dey hot nah?
E pass this matter ni?
It is MY opinion that i have had reasons to come up with and you disagree..fine!
I HAVE ALL THE RIGHTS IN tHE WORLD TO MY OPINION!
I also have the rights to discuss it on a forum as this.
Stop getting all defensive and lets read what you think!
Haba![sub][/sub]

who be Ibrahim Musa?
This extraordinarily razz pikin?
Duh!
E never reach!

Sweetlemon: Here we go again! Generalizing things! I'm sick and tired of people saying things like "would you choose a beautiful sexy woman who is dumb, or not endowed with good personality or a plain woman who is intelligent, smart, warm, etc" as if one can never find any woman who has is even more beautiful and sexier than Kim K and more intelligent and warmer than Michelle! Please this nonsense of painting beautiful women as nothing but dolls and trophies must stop NOW abeg. mtcheeew!

madam,relax!
Did you read my post at all?
Did you read where i referred to both of them as successful?
I purposely did not mention intelligence or smartness an an attribute of any of the two women purposely because of comments like this.
The truth is MOST super-sexy women usually let their physicals get the better of them..and become the only desirable attribute/asset they have.
Calm down abeg!
I didn't generalise my post in any way!

there's a certain 'una don suffer' id constituting a nuisance on the MO/KK thread.
Pls call him/her to order!

how and when did this topic turn around from whether or not one should read a spouse's SMS to the anus issue?
Where did i get lost?
What is the relationship between SMS and anus?

caseless: Slimyem, u mean "in ur 20-somthin year"? Hahaha! They came 2 limelight frm difernt platfom. Kim is famous 4 doin notin or bein naughty nd michele is knwn 4 bein a MOM-IN-CHIEF. On wat bakgrnd ar u comparin? I dnt undastnd d Qstn! Kim? No!

i made comparisons based on their differences..
If you don'understand,just say you don't!!

op,the guy is what my people call abelejayan'
Im dey smoke fish for person wey get fish.
Tell am welldone o!!

This is some real Nonsense!!!

Next please!!

[quote author=D-Explorer] Modify this rubbish young woman. Will your tears correct those blunders [/quote]she nor fit modify nah..
Why u dey trouble the young woman?
Haba!

You CANNOT invest in her academics because she has lots of references?
C'mon man!
You are selfish and its not fair!
Like everyone else has said,your wife hasn't changed a bit from the woman you married.
You are the one whose priorities have changed..who thinks its okay for her to do business even if that's not what she wants...who thinks she has to abandon school because she has references...
Why won't she nag you when you've given up on her already?
You think its wasteful to try to help and support her in school?
Haba!
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She doesn't want your business,she wants school.
Help her to have what she wants so you can have yours.Support and encourage her for as long as she chooses to keep trying.
She's your cross man...and you chose to carry her against all odds.
Deal with it and quit complaining!

Cuddlemii: I am not a Kim K or a Michelle Obama

I will love to be a combination of some of the women that inspire me:

Mother theresa
Oprah
President Cory Aquino
Bimbo Odukoya
Angelina jolie(because of her commitment to humanitarian service and welfare of poor african children, her kick arse roles in movies and raising her own children)
Shakira(for her simplicity & down to earth personality)
etc.....

hmmn,love to be a combo of some of the above and more too but then again,i chose to limit my comparisons to these two for their extreme differences.[quote author=Ileke-IdI][size=18pt]I rather want to be like Janet Ekundayo, a woman of many words. A perfect reflection of God's passionate love for his children.

In 1969, Mdam Ekundayo decided that she would spend the rest of her life caring for abandoned children (orphans). In 2007, she took in her 469th child.

Did she ever get verbal or physical award for what she did/is still doing? No!! Her action was altruistic in nature.

[/size][/quote]hmmn...
Love mama too all the way..
I admire her passion and strong wills against all odds ..and the fact that she does it all for neither fame nor fortune.
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This thread is not just about your humanitarian nature.its more about what kind of a woman you can be beside a real man...except there's no and won't be a man in the picture now or later..

[quote author=Mr. Globe]she. male are you also slimyem - f. Damn bro, you keep creating this ids like it's gonna fetch you millions later.
Please don't place the people you mentioned with j. Cole and kdot. They are on another level of lyricism

Congrats wale. even though I feel that list is bogus. Some earn higher while others are lower just like nicki minaj said.[/quote]hello?
Are you ok at all or do you need me to call for help?

[quote author=D-Explorer] ..and to think slimyem is scared to identify herself with a Kim or a Michelle. Huh [/quote]lol
what am i scared of?
I know what i am and what i'm not.
I just don't need me to be a focus of this thread.
I started it for you and everyone else.

[quote author=Mrs..Chima]Why don't some of the liars keep it real. Many of the liars know damn well they will step over Michelle to get Kim because their dick will do the talking and not their BRAIN.

Kim is a cute dummy and Michelle looks good to be 40 plus. Let see how Kim looks when she is Michelle's age.

Black skin definitely do not crack. [/quote]my point exactly!!

shymexx: They're both highly intelligent - but one is more educated and decent than the other... Kim K is an intelligent capitalist, forget everything you read in the media. She's a very smart women who made millions of dollars by doing absolutely NOTHING, and she has no talent dammit.. It take a high level of intelligence to be able to pull that off, and still make successful men fall in love with you..

Since they both have massive batty - I'd choose the black woman, and she's more decent and highly educated..

Michelle Obama..

i strongly agree with all of the above!
You'd observe i didn't mention anything about being intelligent or smart because i believe both are all that in their own ways.
One is just loved more for how she looks and the other for the values she represents.

vivian chinaza: @slimyem: Don't you think a girl could be sexy, hot, head turning yet decent and homely? OR is there a rule that says hot, sexy and head turning ladies are automatically bad girls?

I do think a girl could be all of those qualities...but then i believe there are certain extremities of both that cannot be found in one person!

ayobase: .....and what is it with u about guys lately?....u need to let it out babe.....u r so bitter about something.......dont try being a good girl that wanna go bad as Rihanna said just cos of one asshol.e!

this has nothing to do with bitterness or whatever else blah you just typed.
It is a topic borne out of the comments bothering around Michelle's speech of yesterday!
I have discussed it offline and felt like bringing it here..
Say something else if you will!