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Orikinla: [size=18pt]Grand ma your fish smelling toto disorder still dey make you delirious and jealous of the success of others hiding with different IDs. Because you can never be a celebrity, except a cheerful giver of your toto?[/size]

shut up and sit down old man and learn to keep your orgasm1c meeting moments to yourself or get a diary!
...and wtf are you PMing me for btw?
Please keep my handle off your bent and wrinkly fingers else Ogun renders them totally uselessss for you.
Agbaya!!

petokey: okay am sorry for doing that, since the mistake has been done what should i do?

Tell her point blank you are sorry you led her on but you don't think you can keep up with it or give her what she seems to want.
It should be that simple if you are bold and stern enough

..and btw,I'm not interested in your blog or "other stories".Thank you.

Grandpa,what manner of nonsense is this?
What should we do with this of epistle yours?
You met Olisa again..so what?Don't you have a diary you can put that in?

Women remain their own enemies...
Those cuts are so deep i doubt they'd heal without scars.
Foolish girls fighting over an irresponsible fellow.
Oshi!!

lmao @Mr.Cork and the peeps replying him.
They obviously don't know he is a joker.

Billyonaire: I wanna be buried in my Mausoleum right in my compound, where I can be worshiped by my kids, grand kids and great-grandkids, just a mention of my name and thunder will strike their enemies. I will be so powerful in dead and a new religion shall be formed, called Billyonairology.

You are vain!!!

Wow!
That was fast!!She looks more like herself now.
May the good health be permanent.

agiboma: MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

...more like GREED/discontent

HQ: Your browser may be out of date.

That's the link to the NL Careers thread.

Of course you know that's not the purpose of this thread.
Post links to a gist or a dirty E-fight instead.

[quote author=Mynd_44]After that your diary update? Smh[/quote]

HQ: Check this thread for your answers:

https://www.nairaland.com/1049481/nairaland-careers-now-paying

Mr headquarter,warris dis?
Is that why we are here?

Idowuogbo: Gbefila! Gist don dry joor! Na d usual pi kiri Animashawun soundtrack. Awon Iya oni protein.

Duh!
Mo fi jo e..
You wey be number one solo makinde for this land.Oya,tell me better sointon.I wan see fowl yansh..

free2ryhme: no be my mouth you go hear say teacher pickin die oooo .. Badosky is watching

mtcheeew..
who be badosky and why you dey fear am?

Free2rhyme,I know say we nor too be paddy but please give me full gist.
Person don give me half but e never do..

Does this mean we've been punk'd?

jidegirl12: Ladies first is what they say.... Let them model Good behaviours and see if those useless kondos won't back off!

You cannot place that responsibility on a woman.doesn't make sense!!
We(male and female alike and individually) owe it a duty to ourselves,our marriages,our beliefs/Gods to live right and if anyone fails, he/she is to be fully responsible for such failure no matter what!

jeffizy: @slimyem..... I am directing it at the ladies not to be chauvinistic . Rather, i feel it is the ladies who can put a stop to these men's randiness .
The men are guilty too. But i beleive a thief that steals palm oil from the shelf needs someone to releive him of his loot.

Its a cycle that has been for a long time and as long as the bait remains,there's always a fish to catch.
How many ladies can you preach the gospel to and how many will accept.Like i said to Jide,it is the society today and its almost becoming the norm.An hopeless situation!
If i reject a man offer,there's always another girl waiting to embrace it and that's what keeps it going.
You can only preach it to the women around you-your daughters,sisters and female cousins and hope they live by those qualities that make a woman virtuous

jidegirl12: Slimyem! Agreed everybody is accountable for their own actions/ rash behaviour ...that being said a good and well mannered lady should be able to say NO when a shameless married man approach her if not cause of their long throat and greed.

That says a lot about them at parties and gatherings , displaying themselves & all over married men. Smh!

I'm just justifying any party.I'm just mad at the op for the bias.

However,being good and mannered and virtuous is a quality lacking amongst most women of today.I am equally disgusted by these kind of women who have cheapened womanhood and femininity in everyway but it takes two to tango and I cannot blame one and ignore or absolve the other.
Its a rotten society and these men and women encourage the rot equally.

What Will Make A Single Lady Date A
Married Man and what will make a married man date a single lady?

Fix and rephrase the question like that and stop being bigoted!
Why focus on the lady and not the man when in fact the man is the one who is supposed to be responsible and committed to his vows?
Both of them have non-justifiable reasons for being involved and both their immoral actions should be questioned here.That's fairness and sense!!

The man has a duty to respect the institution he is in by looking away even if the lady's butt is wriggled in is face and the lady has a duty to defend her virtues by saying NO if she has any.They are both guilty.Focus on them both!

CAMEROONPRIDE: says who?

C'mon!
Its hardly rocket science.Look around you.

CAMEROONPRIDE: if he asks you to stop wearing it that means he doesn't like It and won't admire ladies on weaves common sense.

the men I know say that stuff to prevent their women from being attractive to other men.Its insecurity.

CAMEROONPRIDE: What if men start wearing weaves? Will you like it?

Anyway ladies if we liked straight we would marry white girls in mass. So drop the weaves.

If you wear weaves and it looks good on you,who is to complain?

Stop the hypocrisy and we'd drop weaves.

adaobi123: https://cdn.madamenoire.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/finger-curled-short.jpg
https://woohair.com/large/Natural_Hairstyle_For_Black_Women_11.jpg

Only a few can rock natural hair and look that good.

CAMEROONPRIDE: she doesn't l, we should stop deceiving ourselves, will you obey if your boyfriend asks you to stop wearing weaves?
The answer is no
You call us man-bit.ch or stingy when we complain

You mean the boyfriend that asks me to stop wearing weaves and then go on to admire and desire women on weaves?

IIIIxRoyalxIIII: Slime, Combing your hair does more harm than good, to Common Negro Textures.

Why Must you people always deny the obvious just to fit into the Caucasoids Brainwashing.

If Combing your hair was Meant to Be, Then negroid Women would not complain about How much it hurts....

If Combing your Hair was Meant to Be, Then Negroid Women would not whine about headaches from coming Un-chemically Burnt Hair

If Combing your hair was Meant to Be, Then Negroid Women would not buy weaves and perm their hair to avoid pain and breakage.

...Using "Forefathers" as an Excuse to Justify Ignorant Logic Makes no sense

...our Forefathers did a lot of ignorant foolish backwards things.

The Fact Of the Matter is, Combing Certain Textures of Hair does more Damage than Good

If you can't even comb a texture unless it is Wet, then that's nature's way of telling you it should not be combed

If you Break Teeth off of Combs...then that's nature's way of telling you it should not be combed.

The Natural Balance and Body of Native African Negro Hair, Embodies the Direct Opposite of the Purpose of a "Comb".

The only reason why you comb your hair is because you think...as you say "Nappy"(your words) is bad hair.

Don't deceive yourself and try to claim "combing" your texture is "managing" it.

You know Damn Well when you comb your hair when IT IS NOT WET, half your damn hair gets stuck in the comb, or it breaks

Stop It.

I'd assume you are just being silly.
Why would anyone not want to comb their hair in this age and time except they are locking it?
We live in a consious environment now and your proposition is ridiculous at best.
Uncombed hair is unkempt hair and its neither neat nor attractive.
Some of the ingredients used in perming hair come from natural products so there's no crime in embracing products that make life easy for us.
If nappy hair were meant to be that way,these enhancing products won't be discovered in the first place.

pleep: NO, you cannot pawn that crap on us. As seen in the responses to this thread, black women wear weaves for themselves not for us.

Dont play both sides, yall do this because of your own issues.

https://www.nairaland.com/997200/men-what-think-weaves

Duh!!
The responses on that thread are hypocritical typical of Nigerians.
I ask again when last did YOU appreciate,woo or chat up a woman looking like this?

IIIIxRoyalxIIII: LmL@Long Nappy Hair is Difficult to Maintain.

You got headaches because your mentality is that of a Brainwashed Being.

Negro Women should not be combing their hair in the First Place

A Comb is nothing more than an Instrument to Recreate the Fabricated Fallacious Deceptive Image of "Straight Hair"

One Could Theoretically Argue the Self Hating Principals Behind Using a Comb is of no different origin than using a Perm

#ImJussSaying

Sorry About Your Headaches Slime.

lmao @black women chould not be combing their hair in the first place.
that defined by who?
You do know what an uncombed hair is going to look like...don't you?
Even our forefather had combs(African combs) before the slavetraders came so its nothing close to brainwashed mentality.
Hair grooming and the crafting of
ceremonial or art objects made for (and
from) hair was an integral part of family and
spiritual life in thriving villages of African indigenes.
Nappy hair was never supposed to be left uncombed or uncared for
Btw,its "slim" NOT "slime"

CAMEROONPRIDE: they don't exist anymore or don't go out/clubbing like this ain't our fault.
Could you please tell us why it is justifiable?
So your great grandparents were ugly?

why would they exist when no one pays them any attention?The weaves and permed hair obviously attract y'all so its just hypocritical to condemn the same thing you find attractive.
Who called anyone ugly.Those kinda hair ae beautiful but not widely accepted or appreciated in this age and time like it used to be so what the fault in adopting what appears to be more comfortable and appreciated?

pleep: Don't get me wrong ma'am, i fully understand why you do it. I just think the excuses are silly. Just admit that you think straight hair looks better, no biggie

The excuses are not silly they are genuine.
Long nappy hair is difficult to maintain.Had my hair shaved sometime last year because i wasnted to grow it from scratch and get all natural.By the time it was two inches long,the headaches that came with combing it was not something to look forward to.No one had to tell me to get it relaxed before my head falls off.
You might not understand but please don't call our reasons silly excuses.
Even those that don't use relaxers get it stretched with a straightner and the effects is usually not lasting.

Seriously,comparing permed hair and weaves with skin bleaching is laughable.
One is reasonably justifiable and the other is not!One makes you better-looking and the other makes you stink,repulsive and ugly!
...and y'all claming you hate weaves and permed hair are just hypocrites or when last did you chat up a chic looking like this?