₦airaland Forum

Temismith: Peoples and their hateness! What is d inocence gal done now??

Ms Nas: Upgrade? Can I call mine that? What I do is....I keep buying clothes in ones and twos. It'll will get to a point when I notice my closet is full, then I get rid of the oldest stuff and the ones I don't wear anymore.

greatgod2012: Im still using it to scare my youngest kid, and sometimes, when im very busy and wouldnt want to be disturbed, i asks my oldest kid to do "ojuju calabar" for others, he will use one black piece of cloth to cover his face, hold on a stick and speaking with cracked voice, believe me, they will run inside their rooms, and most of the time sleep off as a result of too much closing of their eyes......lol .....
And sometimes, when "actions" is to take place, especially b4 night, my hubby use to tell the kids not to enter our room, because one "ojuju calabar" is hiding therein......lol, little kids sha......
May God forgive all of us.

Guitarlife: slimyem, the logic behind this post suggest thorough scrutiny of both parties from both parties. He asserted the need to ensure nothing is in doubt as a prerequisite to a lasting marriage. That should include sexua.l compatibility too right ? The bible says the things that we see are temporary while those we don't see are eternal. His post represents a faithless persons opinion. Toba, no offense o. Am just a bit disappointed......dats all.

Guitarlife: anytime i read such flawed arguments from supposedly enlightened and exposed christians, i cringe. Exactly what your pastor told you without weighing it on the altar of rationality.
The worst form of incompatibility is sexual incompatibility and going by your logic, 'brothers' and 'sis' would be rightly justified to test drive in a bid to clear all doubs huh?
This mentality is a textbook casw example of the carnality most christians bring to bear on the issue of marriage. It's therefore not surprising why so called christians today are the ones leading the pack when it comes to divorce.
God cannot be restricted but how would your pastors retain control over you sheeple and your money if they tell you that.
God asked hosea to marry a harlot but how many people would agree to such a 'devilish' leading today ?
Grow up dudes and stop taking milk.
Humbled, you got bursted again but i expect you to deny which ya did.

causewahala: I think u're up to something. Anyways contact born2fuck! It will be his dream come true to get a chic on NL.

emerald1: Thanks every one for ur advice I told him I wount abort it.so he has agreed for an emergency wedding.

Harpesin: To All men reading this, please neva make such mistake cos you will leave to regret it....Am talking from experience....After my wedding, i followed all the advises given to me during marriage counsel, which one of it is that we should make our salary known to each other, my wife is not a salary earner but a fashion designer, i made mine known to her and whenever there is an increase in salary i do let her know but i discovered that i went wrong by disobeying my own father who had earlier told me that i should not be carried away with woman's love in marriage that love does not stop them whenever they want to perform their wonders (act) that i should only make 40% of my secret known to my wife that the remaining 60% is what makes me a man......I thought the man is acting on his village experience.....but now....kudos to him....After some times (2yrs) of my marriage, i notice that my wife always come with different kind of demand all in the name of children, house things etc without considering ao i manage to survive for the month, i was doing it to avoid wahala in the marriage but killing myself gradually, i hardly fuel my car, i hardly dress the way i used to, i hardly meet up with a lot of things cos her own bill is getting higher ......not until I return to my old man to apologize and ask for way out....now I can tell you i have my way out and her bill stop increasing.......dont know ao to share the secret here cos once they (women) know it, it will be useless.

nat138: Awww thanks all for the responses. I really appreciate them. They are almost mostly non-married older men.

As Ify rightly pointed out, I act a lot more matured(na first born syndrome o) for my age and people are always surprised when I tell them my age.

Haba , 2nd or 3rd wife ke! That one no fit possible o, unto say which excuse I wan give abi men don finish ni??