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NessaFresh: I hate long posts but because of ur comment I decided to read his post and I must AGREE with him. That Girl IS A MOTHERFU!CKIN Disgrace to womanhood and a BIG FO!OL!! His anger in his post is justified thoroughly!

What makes it justified?He was even mannerless to have read through the girl's messages.
Besides,haven't you met or seen nastier people?

obowunmi: Now, I mostly fly first or business class - problem solved.

when I was a student, I suffered in Economy class -

Stop bragging!!

lafflaff123: No habits by anybody annoys me in the plane and as my friend told me BUY FIRST CLASS if you can't stand the things you see in the economy class and until then,i will continue taking in the good,the bad and the ugly of the economy class.

And at POSTER i don't know how often you travel,but if you travel a lot like me then you should have out grown looking out for faults or habits in other's as people can not be like you,act like you or be like you want them to be.

Just want to add an experience i had sometime last year and it was sad.

As a veteran of ECONOMY CLASS i was coming from Nigeria via Delta to the US and on getting to my sit there was a young girl(later discovered she is yoruba)on my space,looked at the boarding pass and number to be sure and told her excuse me please that's my sit.

I always take a sit by the aisle because i am tall and so can stretch my legs,she had the middle sit and on the third sit there was a very old man and i said hi to him then sat down.

Just siiting down and noticed this girl was restless and kept closing her nose with her hands and chatting fervently on her blackberry,raised her head up and asked me if we can change sits and i told her no. She started looking around urgently for an air hostess,spotted one and asked her if they can move her and they told her the plane was full and all this happening while the plane had not even taxied yet.

So i am wondering what's up with this girl as her restlessness was starting to bother me,especially as she had that first timer traveller look(over dressed to impress or give the impression they are well to do to the immigration at the port of entry)and after a few minutes she stood up to use the rest room and left her BB by my arm rest but i did not notice it.

Later looked at what was poking me and it was her phone glowing with her BB Chat open. Did not mean to read but the first message there caught my attention and this girl had been busy bashing the old man and texting,chatting and telling everybody via her phone that they put a smelly old man close to her.

I did not smell anything so wondering what the girl was smelling. But above all as an African i have respect for old people and even in my private thoughts i dont disrespect them let alone what the girl was doing by holding up her nose and blatantly insulting the old man by letting the old man know she does not want to be close to him.

We all eventually become old and i hope when she gets old people will run away from her.

She tried to make small banters with me but i ignored her and later when we were filling up our landing card,this stupid girl brought out her passport to fill and it was a fresh Nigerian passport and her first Visa was the US one and the old man she was calling a smelly old man brought out his US Passport.

So i am thinking this stupid girl has this attitude and have never even left Nigeria before and how will she behave when she starts living outside Nigeria.

This might sound mean but i prayed she ran into problems at the port of entry with the immigration people,but since she followed the line at the immigration point for visa holders i did not know how it ended.

Why did i get angry and still angry?my parents are very old and travel at least once a year to visit me for medicals and stuff and just the thought that one supid girl will call my parents SMELLY OLD PEOPLE just because they are OLD makes me get mad. That man did not stink and his only offence was being OLD.

You must be so angry to remember the details and to have typed this epistle.
There are spoilt and nasty people everywhere in the world.Its not about tribe or being a Nigerian.Lose your anger.Its not worth it!

Am I the only one who thinks all these pictures are ugly?

Nothing's wow about this room
It looks more official than cozy/intimate..

Nothing wrong in trying to secure one's future as we've come to know time and time again men are not to be trusted but everything wrong in doing it secretly.
Though it doesn't show a united front,sometimes one has got to do what one's got to do.

carefreewannabe: First of all, married men are out of question for me.
Second, I am not a fan of polygamy and I wouldn't accept my husband marrying another wife.

But I still don't get why people in this society have a problem with girls dating married men when at the same time they accept polygamy

....the hyprocritical side of some of us..

In 2013?
Hell No!!

I love Ayo Mogaji buut this dress is a disaster!
When did she get this big sef?

Lynxxx Has Never
Been Turned Down By A Lady...

..and so?

Babymumsy: U wanna no the whys?

Wen BBs turn to a man's darling
Wen football matches bcome more interesting than communicating with the wife.
Always nagging about this and that
Wen a wife cant just do a silly tin witout bin criticized
Wen u wanna try out a new sex skill and ur hubby tells u "u shd not do that,u're a prostitute"

So many reasons ohhhh! Marriage takes God's grace to work!

This marriage is ridden with problems that can be solved if both partners are ready to make it so.Married people should realise that the solutions to their issues is not outside and cannot come from on end chatting
or whatever relationship with somebody else.If anything,it only draws the marriage apart.
Why remain married if you are done trying to make it work?

biolabee: Not really but somewhat

As some people pointed out relationship and marriage are two different dimensions

Women want that illusive quality and once they achieve it inherently strive for that undefined thing

In a relationship where romance and chit chat boku, they want stability

Now they are married, they yearn for romance and the works again

Women wanting what they want doesn't make them dramatic.More like insatiable and its isn't just a womanly quality in this case.Its a human quality generally and there's no crime in that.
As long as it doesn't stretch beyond certain limits,its every husband/wife's duty to make sure that his/her partners needs or desires are being satisfied and where it cannot be,communication should suffice.
Stop making it sound like what women want are unreasonable just because some men find it difficult to keep up.

nikkyshyne: Reminds me of 'Hint magazine'. I put it in between my text book and pretend I was reading way back in secondary school. Oh well

Exactly!!
Next "tales by moonlight" please!!

Even the men on this thread are turned on..

...but seriously,this thing go fit kili porsin o..

Their videos are usually clean.Would love to watch this..

Undecided..

This thread....

A cheat is a cheat and there will always be an excuse for it but one who is is faithful and true to the vows they made would never find the right excuse to do that which shouldn't be.They instead would find ways to make the marriage work and be all that they want it to be.

biolabee: I siddon opposite you lookin and drinking my ice cool palmie


Women have too much drama

...in relation to this topic you mean?

[quote author=BABE!]For where? See how dry this joint is? Sahara ain't gat nothing on this topic.[/quote]Haha!
My lips are sealed..

The married women on here who engage in e-flirting and e-sex should come out to tell us the whys..
It would be interesting to know where these husbands have gone wrong..

First of all,I don't see the correlation between 0ral sex and trust and/or love or as a vehicle to build those.
It is a matter of choice,preference and agreement.
That one isn't willing to try it with a partner doesn't mean there's no love or trust.Some people find it disgusting,distasteful and unacceptable while some see it as pleasureable and an important ingredient of sex and intimacy.

...and why do you make it sound like its abominable for a born-again christian to want 0ral?
The bible doesn't state it as sin as far as i know though people have their own misgivings about it.
The couple in this case have a problem on their hands as this is a topic that should have been discussed prior to marriage.However,in this case,someone would have to compromise/give in to the other at some point or ot could be the beginning of real issues.

maclatunji: Instead of enduring and looking at the good things of their spouses, some people seek excitements outside, which men do all the time. But which women should avoid at all costs.

Here we go again....

Make i just shut up and watch how this would roll..

greatgod2012: i know an elderly man whom they did this to, for over 14 years that this old man's son died, its one lie after the other till the old man finally kicked the bucket.


@post, some old age get as e be, i dont want to sound offensive or inhuman but im always an advocate of "ka ku lomode ko yeni, o san ju ka dagba ka ma ladiye irana"

may the dead rest in peace and may God comfort the family, especially the mama.

The word!

petokey: did u just say i shuld give her what she want?

Is there a comprehension problem here?
Tell her you CAN'T give her what she seems to want!!

Why are peeps blaming the op?What makes you think she wanted to wait till marriage?Maybe she was just waiting for the right person all this while and thinks this is it.Can't we just leave the judgement of her decision alone and focus on what she actually needs help for?

Oh well..

Royal Roy: Slimyem I hope u are not talking of my grandmother here? Lollz.
She was actually praying for death every morning just for the fear of having to watcvh her kids die!! She later became a liability unto everyone! We did our best till she passed on peacefully.
I guess I will dare to pray like my grandpa did that if it comes to People having to take him to the toilet or wearing his clothes for him, then God should take him away. Age is a blessing but in this scenario....hmmm....I can't call it a cause!!!

lol.It can't be your grandma o as the one I'm talking about has lost most of her sanity talk less of knowing to pray for anything(no pun intended).
Thing is..i have seen a few elderly pray the same prayer your grandpa prays-that they don't live to the point of senility and a burden to their children

toofine765: It is better to let him know you misplaced it, with that all he will need to do is go stop the cheque with his bankers and then issue you with another one. If you don't tell him he might be tempted to think you felt the value was too low which was why you didn't cash it. All the best.

The bolded is the why you should tell him but do not ask for a replacement.That should be at his own discretion.

No one has control over life or death and no one can truly explain or understand reasons why things like this happen except HE who gives and takes or so they say.

jidegirl12: Baba na politics this kain story belong na?

May his soul rest in peace. So HID still dey? Lord I seek that kain life oh!

Be careful what you wish for

I know of a great-grandmother.Most of her kids are dead and the ones that are living are praying for her death as she has become a burden to everyone.Wees and poops on herself,can't walk,can't do anything for herself,only eats and sleep,doesn't know/remembers her children's name or who the are,doesn't know whether it morning,afternoon or night.

Even though,it feels like a blessing to age and live long,cases like this woman and Mama HID's would make one not want to wish for it.No mother would want/pray to outlive her children
May the Lord comfort her.