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I'm amazed at how the marriage issue managed to stay secret all these years..
No even the bloggers thought to dig into her past despite the wedding being a not so closed one given the pictures..
..guess we usually do know people as much as we think we do.
Whatever her reasons were for keeping it away from the public,I respect it!
RIP Goldie!!

Btw,this is what my people will call "egbinrin ote".baa se 'n pakan ni kna n'ru

...guess i'm one of the few the craze and band wagon mentality never got to...
Never used a BB...
Never got convinced i needed one..

Some men like the 25idiot on this thread just can't stand women like Prettycindy who can speak up for themselves when situations demand it,Say NO and/or know when to move on.
That should explain their bitterness on here..
Prettycindy,I admire your strength through it all,the choices you have made and love your perfect responses to the nonentities on this thread.

obowunmi: Happy val's day to my baby Slimyem...

happy vals day to you too.

debrief08: 3. Is he just reacting to the fact that he could permanently loose you? The shock usually makes one react desperately, sometimes not because they are ready to work on the relationship but because they didint believe it will get this far.

I'm guessing it is this... and men like this are quick to revert back to their unpalatable and unacceptable ways as soon as they feel they are back in control.
Op,all the best in whatever choice you make.

jidegirl12: How's that possible? You mean they don't have gsm or a neighbour to receive call from? No address?

As per NL... welll

Yes,no address,no number(don't have it and don't know how to get it)
She used to be a friend a long time ago...stuff happened and we graduated from malice to being in comtempt of each other.
I had wanted to reach out and make peace for a while now(I have in my heart) and this thread just reminded me:-@ but unfortunately,I can't

What about people you cannot reach,contact or call?
...and as for NLers,I can't even start to remember the handles i hate..

^^Smh!!!

Born2fuck?
The Lord is goood!!!

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Na wa. Na jelosi I call this one. Flawless Yoruba mi toh bad!

Your VNs are very low in volume. It's hard to hear. Gimme a minute[/quote]Pls manage it... because I can't shout..
Like Sexkillz,I'm not a shouter

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Slimyem, my Yoruba version


Kandii, this is for you. it's in Yoruba

https://www.dropbox.com/s/t1fimgbhj9eqwf4/Voice%20004.3ga[/quote]Ileke,warris dis?
Its hilarious..no doubt..but please don't call it yoruba..
Come back home quick o..
You don dey lose touch with basics.lol
You try sha..

..my english version btw..

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Slimyem,

I see you o. I'm redoing my Yoruba version lol.

I was just messing around in the previous one jor [/quote]lol.
I hear..
..waiting patiently..
I want to do an english version sef...

lmao
Been skipping this thread on purpose because its exactly what i assumed it'd be..
Juvenile and unserious poster!!
Some people would give anything to have a father who'd show half the concern and interest your father's showing in your life.
...and for you to think his being jobless is gives you guts to disrespect him is just pathetic.
I would imagine that you'd have a different opinion of him if he was some millionaire gallivanting round the world and just crediting your account per month
Pinrin sense...you nor get!!
You seriously need to grow a brain!!
I pray it doesn't take you too long to understand and start to appreciate this man.

Seems like the man has long taken a walk for real.
...like he's only staying married and responsible for just feeding because he is obligated to.
Once a man has swayed this way,getting things back to the way it used to be is almost impossible.
Obviously he has lost respect for you as a wife and the marraige institution itself.It explains why he makes no effort to hide his irresponsible and inappropriate acts.

obowunmi: Dear Slimyem.....Olenu bi pon pon pon pon. Miss you boo.

Just sent flowers to your office.

lol..
I'm guessing your courier is late then cuz I haven't gotten them o...

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]OMG slimyem I loveeeeeeeeee your Yoruba. So flawless and harmonious!!!

They should use your voice for those Yoruba CDs for Yoruba classes. Just beautiful!!

Brings tears to my eyes


LOL @ owo yii wa ni be e na. hehehe [/quote]

Idowu,wetin be the nonsense wey you do for that voice note?
You smoke mess?

[quote author=eagle,eye]keep dreaming. Even if such were to happen here, I trust Naija men to find a way to twert it.[/quote]

ileobatojo: Lol!

But what if this husband was one of the good ones?

I wonder if the guys did something to piss of the judges sha. Because I don't really know why the woman can't seek child support from the biological fathers of the children instead of the man she deceived for over a decade and a half! I guess it's also possible that the man still wanted to be in the kids lives (rightfully so) and maybe he was asking for custody or visitation. Not a lawyer but I wonder if in that case, you can't separate the two. You can't ask for visitation/custody as if they are your kids and then decline to pay their child support in the same breath.

Or could this be another case of the guys not lawyering up. Just like the other thread about the man abandoning the children, the foolish man did not bother lawyering up to fight his cause, meanwhile the woman used to law to her full advantage and now his eye is chooking!

lol.
That was just me being purposefully biased...
..anything to smile at a man's misfortune in cases such as this...
I think the judgement is unfair too.
No one should be forced to commit to such unpalatable situations.
Its like rubbing salt to one's injury.
Can't imagine how bitter it'd be for those men,
It should be strictly a matter of choice for them to take responsibility or not for the kids,
I guess they could go back to court and contest the rule if they wanted to though..

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]I hope that you all leave your VNs.

Will post them all in one page later today.[/quote]Ileke,yours is on what page?
I can't find it..

[quote author=acidosis™]omg...omg...omg...omg!!!

slimyemmmm!!!
owo mi o o ni gbe ni oru ko jesuuuu!!!! [/quote]lmao..

kandiikane: Ewwwwww! Old granny dey sex? ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!


Cringe factor

...ask your granny nah...

Idowuogbo: U wan crash server? Slimyem's voice dey make animals cry na! During sex sef, according to one guy wey she knack, as she open mouth talk "ouchh", he prickkk soft strx.

Morning yemz

you tooooooo dry these days...
Wetin do your lubrication?

freecocoa: Slimyem I wanna hear your sexy voice, do something.

...you mean my hoarse voice?

Wow!!
Interesting thread..
Had fun listening to some voices on here..
abiL's,Ogugua's;Sexkillz's,Freecocoa's..
Some very reals...some obviously fakes..,some dey talk like say hot yam dey dm mouth..some like say dey wan vomit..
Some just comical..
Una welldone o!!

where is the head and tail of this story?

Ivynwa: Ada Nwaubani made it sound like her parents didn't teach her and her siblings to respect and appreciate everybody whether maid or not. She is writing about a good topic but spoilt it by bringing in her family upbringing and relationship with maids therein. She said that it is in recent years that she learnt to accord due respect to maids (the "thank you" and "smiles" ), like was she treating them less than that before?

Why are you making it sound as if she made all those things up.
She relayed her personal experience just as it was to paint the desired effect which it did.
Like it or not,it is a vivid description of the relationship between average Nigerian families with housemaids back in the day and up till now.

Some of us lived with maids while growing up and still appreciated and respected them. One of the househelps I grew up with was getting same stuffs, dresses etc parents bought for me, it was as if we were twins. We were taught to treat them like our own siblings too so it isn't every family that looked down on maids as nobodies.

On that note if Ada had cut out that part about the maids and concentrated on her topic and found other good examples and areas where the poor are snobbed and the rich exalted in our country that would have been a nice write up.

@bolded...speak for yourself and family.Stop questioning Ada's angle.
Its an interesting read depicting the sad angle of Nigerians' social and economic lives.
Would you have preferred she says things are they are not instead?

hehe!
...woman beating men at their own game...
Men cheat and think they can get away with it....women cheat and bring the men bastards as souvenir..and the judges say they can't do jack about it except accept responsibility..
Sweeeeet judgement..
When will it start to apply in Africa/Nigeria?