Romance › Re: My Near Rape Experience. Young Ladies Learn From This by Smartguyboy(m): 1:00am On Jan 12, 2024 |
Jewessgratitud3: This is to create rape awareness and warn young girls and mothers out there to take precautionary measures to reduce rape cases because these things happen every now and then and those it happened to may not be able to disclose it to anyone.
Teach your girls never to trust or visit a man alone.
In my case it was a near rape experience on two occasions. One was in the 80s when I was still a kid and the other happened when I was already an adult.
The first one, I was playing with some neighbors children in our neighborhood. They were twin boys and same age as my twin and I.
As we were playing in their house with other children our age, their elder brother, a very big guy in his mid 20s then just walked in and as we all tried to rush out of the house, he just pulled me back, layed me on the bed and lied on top of me. I was just under his stomach struggling, kicking and screaming that he should let me go that my mom is going to beat me. Immediately he stood up and I ran out of the house. The other children didn't know what was going on.
I got home and told my Mom and she quickly checked my body and didn't see anything. She asked me if he touched my body I said no that he just layed on my body. she warned me never to go there again and I stopped.
The second one happened in 2013 after one of my chairmen fired me for turning down his advances. There was this man that used to give me a lift to work then before I lost the job. He would come to the bustop and pick me. At a point I started avoiding him because it was becoming too much. When he noticed I no longer stood at the bustop he started coming to wait for me in front of my house. When he came one day and found out I had lost my job, he promised to help me get a job in his office.
One day he told me that there's an opening that I should come let's discuss how I'll go about it. I went there and as soon as I entered his house he shut the door, threw the key in a far corner of his room and pushed me on the bed. Gosh! I felt like my life was over. I started screaming, I pushed and pushed and kicked until he got tired and stood up. I told him to open the door before I do something stupid he now opened and I left. God! That was so close!
Since then I never trusted anyone again. I kept to myself for long and till tomorrow none of my family members know about this. I couldn't bring myself to tell anyone except my then ex though we were not together at the time. I just called him and said see what happened to me and he blamed me for going there. I ended the call and that was it.
Please young ladies and mothers to baby girls, protect your girl child at all cost and always warn them of the dangers of going alone to a mans house.. many have been lured and even killed while struggling with a rapist.
Let's be safe out there I keep telling girls if you are not ready for sex there’s no need going to any guy house if the person is not your blood brother. |
Romance › Re: Dealing With The Mr. Nice Guy Attitude by Smartguyboy(m): 2:57am On Jan 10, 2024 |
Sometimes I am Mr nice if I haven’t gotten the mission complete. |
Romance › Re: I Never Knew Women Are So Manipulative Until I Got Married by Smartguyboy(m): 7:03pm On Jan 09, 2024 |
Wearetheugliest: I don't understand you o.. una two nor date ni abi wetin you dey talk sef They pretend during dating you will never notice any fowl play until you are married. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How My Father, TB Joshua Abused Me – Ajoke, Daughter Had Outside Wedlock by Smartguyboy(m): 7:13am On Jan 09, 2024 |
obonujoker:
The church is not a con business
David said, "Far be it from you to touch the Lord's anointed" even when Saul was lost already. Then how come whenever G. O die family member takes over even when they are not pastors? Eg Daniel Taiwo Odukoya and his family How come someone like this will become a pastor in Nigeria first in history.
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Christianity Etc › Re: How My Father, TB Joshua Abused Me – Ajoke, Daughter Had Outside Wedlock by Smartguyboy(m): 7:05am On Jan 09, 2024 |
Switruth: The British will always find a way to rubbish Nigeria. Up to date they’ve not been able to unravel the Mistery behind Princess Diana’s death. The Royal English family has committed more atrocities than anyone in the world. Nigerians!!!! Always with slave mentality If you watch the video you will notice the people confessing have been working with him for over 14 years and he have been using them. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How My Father, TB Joshua Abused Me – Ajoke, Daughter Had Outside Wedlock by Smartguyboy(m): 7:01am On Jan 09, 2024 |
Obakoolex: In every rumour there's always an atom of truth. But the question remains....what kept the daughter mute when he was alive?? At least she claimed others were brainwashed. Who could have believed her ? Did you watch the video? They were in prison there where you can’t go out . |
Christianity Etc › Re: How My Father, TB Joshua Abused Me – Ajoke, Daughter Had Outside Wedlock by Smartguyboy(m): 6:58am On Jan 09, 2024 |
Justnation: Why all these after the man's demise. What is the motive? BBC and Co should take a cold shower Ads you saying all those innocent people he enslaved there for over 14 years are lying even with evidence? |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Suspends Betta Edu, Minister Of Humanitarian Affairs by Smartguyboy(m): 6:52am On Jan 09, 2024 |
kenny160: you people obviously do not know who Tinubu is, you are just hating, you can blame him for anyother thing but beeing tribalistic? NO he is not Buhari. The man is the only Governor that welcome all tribes in his cabinet when he was a governor. So dnt talk like that again. I will remind you this later if she will resign or replace. |
Politics › Re: Rivers: No Regrets Making Fubara Governor, I Bought His Nomination Forms – Wike by Smartguyboy(m): 2:51pm On Jan 08, 2024 |
If I had wanted, nobody would have stopped me. Nobody had what it takes to even be near me.
What kind of power this man have to be speaking like this with authority? |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Suspends Betta Edu, Minister Of Humanitarian Affairs by Smartguyboy(m): 2:34pm On Jan 08, 2024 |
I can place a bet she will be replace by a south-west |
Romance › Re: How Would You React To Your Girlfriend Blocking You From Viewing Her Status by Smartguyboy(m): 5:25am On Jan 08, 2024 |
felasey1: So guys
How would you react if find our your girlfriend blocked you from viewing her status on Whatsapp?
Seems no biggie but what about the intentions behind? You are dating an olosho bro She will always block you while selling and advertising her good . |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Do You Sort Out Accommodation When You Travel To Another State. by Smartguyboy(m): 2:16pm On Jan 07, 2024 |
GloriaSabipeepz: Same o, got an interview Job from Leadway in Lagos this week but I can't make it because of accommodation issue You go look for cheap guest house nah or if the place is in island there is a place called Lekki phase 3 where Dey have batcher housing for rent and it very cheap. During my nysc in Lagos my colleague who came from far place rent house there just to stay for few days before my PPA gave us accommodation. I was coming from ikeja cantonment to ajah. |
Sports › Re: Meet the five women referees who will be at the AFCON 2023 (Photos) by Smartguyboy(m): 12:30am On Jan 06, 2024 |
God1000: Nice one, but no Nigerian female referee among them Nigerian male referee don’t even smell near come to think of the female. |
TV/Movies › Re: Tinubu, Atiku Hail Funke Akindele On 'A Tribe Called Judah' by Smartguyboy(m): 6:03pm On Jan 05, 2024 |
Cheryph200: Best movie I watched that is 100 interesting to me this year ..though na telegram I watch am as I no get money for cinemas Where you watch am for telegram? |
Romance › Re: Have You Noticed USA Whatsapp Have AI Tools While Nigeria Don’t Have ? by Smartguyboy(op): 2:43am On Jan 05, 2024 |
Lifeitself: There is AI chat bot for Nigeria too. Ask nd I will show u I don’t need it Just asking why USA WhatsApp have it and Nigeria don’t |
Romance › Re: Have You Noticed USA Whatsapp Have AI Tools While Nigeria Don’t Have ? by Smartguyboy(op): 2:42am On Jan 05, 2024 |
CareerBegger: You can't afford to to pay for the proper functionality of WhatsApp and Facebook. You are currently using the free version It’s free for USA WhatsApp users |
NYSC › Re: Mobilisation: How Undercover Reporter Breached Our System To Enrol Twice – NYSC by Smartguyboy(m): 5:06pm On Jan 04, 2024 |
Ireportlive:

There was no breach
In all database, the owners set a field to flag data duplication
In the case of NYSC Email and Phone number was used
There are many people with the same first and last name in Nigeria
The guy simply used another phone number
Does it make sense if NYSC calls you everytime someone with your Surname and Last name Registers
. How about biometrics? |
NYSC › Re: Mobilisation: How Undercover Reporter Breached Our System To Enrol Twice – NYSC by Smartguyboy(m): 5:00pm On Jan 04, 2024 |
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Romance › Have You Noticed USA Whatsapp Have AI Tools While Nigeria Don’t Have ? by Smartguyboy(op): 3:41am On Jan 04, 2024 |
The 1&2 is USA WhatsApp The 3 is Nigeria WhatsApp.
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Travel › Re: Should I Keep My Federal Job Or Travel to the U.K by Smartguyboy(m): 10:07pm On Jan 03, 2024 |
mistacoco2: Hello guys,
For some days now I have been on a serious dilemma whether to resign from my federal government job that pays me above N200k for my current position and migrate to the UK or stay in naija and set up a business to augment my salary. I will be 34 years next year, I feel traveling to the uk for studies next year September will delay my chances of getting married, as I have planned not exceeding 34 years without getting married.
I belong to the school of thought that believes can make it in Nigeria despite all odds. However, considering the economic realities of the country, I have recently contemplating of japa and maybe get a Nigerian lady for marriage after my studies.
Please I earnestly need matured advice from you guys to know how to start the coming year. Cc:Justwise How una Dey take Get this federal job self ? |
Business › Re: Cosmetics Or Building Materials, Which Is More Lucrative?? by Smartguyboy(m): 11:41am On Jan 03, 2024 |
1) Don’t go into business you don’t know anything about, can you mix cream? Are you familiar with perfumes?
2) Business is all about foresight, because others are doing it and you want to do it, location matters a lot , I have seen people who open shops they did not sell anything till the shop expired and they pack out. |
Politics › Re: Clerk Of Rivers Assembly Says Hon Edison Ehie Was Not Elected Speaker by Smartguyboy(m): 6:26am On Jan 03, 2024 |
aribisala0: I think YOU are the one deceiving yourself
The speaker remains unchanged and Fubara will go and bow literally in front of him to present the budget properly I am sure Tinubu warned him to forget about any Federal allocation unless he complies and we know Rivers state cannot survive without allocation Who told you that ? |
Politics › Re: Clerk Of Rivers Assembly Says Hon Edison Ehie Was Not Elected Speaker by Smartguyboy(m): 6:24am On Jan 03, 2024 |
What will happen to the 2024 budget? |
Romance › Re: How Do You Control Urge? by Smartguyboy(m): 7:48pm On Jan 01, 2024 |
You been brainwashed 🧠 Nobody knows what is sin in the eyes of God . |
Romance › Re: I Am About To Cheat On My Partner For The First Time by Smartguyboy(m): 7:45pm On Jan 01, 2024 |
Just let them know you have a serious girlfriend so they will know their place in your life that the format I always used so you will not say I wasted your time and always use CD before Dey will tie you down with pregnancy 🫃. |
Politics › Re: Demolition Of Computer Village Powa Section by Smartguyboy(m): 3:57pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Just imagine you are in your village and you are hearing Dey are demolishing your shop. |
Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Set To End Year As Top Scorer in world football For 2023 by Smartguyboy(m): 12:32pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Arab league already fixed, they don’t attack him I watched one game the defender just allowed him to score no making at all. The other one was making him just stopped and keeper didn’t put any effort to save the ball. That why his not trending. |
Romance › Re: Best Pick-up Lines When Wooing A Lady! Share Yours Guys! by Smartguyboy(m): 12:22am On Dec 30, 2023 |
How much will it cost me to bleep you ? |
Romance › Re: Bride Price List For My Fiance From Ohafia by Smartguyboy(m): 10:47pm On Dec 29, 2023 |
Ahcu22: I am in Ohafia. I was in Okagwe for the Igba Ekpe since yesterday. Wow I came back today. |
Romance › Re: Bride Price List For My Fiance From Ohafia by Smartguyboy(m): 10:34pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Ahcu22: Yes, if the man is from Ohafia too. But if is Di mba, the list is slightly different. Note: I am from Elu Ohafia How far ? Are you in ohafia now ? Am from okagwe |
Romance › Re: Bride Price List For My Fiance From Ohafia by Smartguyboy(m): 12:09pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
colossus91: Edda Have so many class mates from their Edda . |
Romance › Re: Bride Price List For My Fiance From Ohafia by Smartguyboy(m): 9:43am On Dec 28, 2023 |
jamesversion: What about Item? Item Is in Bende L.G.A. not Ohafia. |