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crazyabbey:
Am Currently experiencing my first heartbreak i don't want to go into all the details but the most painful thing is that my Ex- girlfriend moved on immediately after She end our relationship which means she was dating someone else while we were dating.

The problem now is: i can't stop thinking about her i keep blaming myself and feeling depressed. I will greatly appreciate it If you guys can tell me how to get Over this feeling or is there something wrong with me.

you may end up with a broken heart again if you don't learn...

Learn and thank me later through this link...

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need

united442:
there is a dating drill link someone dropped, go through that link and follow every bit of instruction/steps/warnings and advice and trust me, u might end up slapping your self for begging her

sounds more like my link...

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need (I started it in 2017 I suppose)

princfred:
Yeah I fell in love with her at the wrong time (when i wasn't ready or had plans for/to love), she fell in love with me at the wrong time (when i was no longer interested enough), her father got ill and died at the wrong time ( when we were almost ready to love and marry) and her mother got ill with the wrong sickness at the wrong time(when we were almost willing to try again), she got pregnant for someone else at the wrong time (when i was ready to love), gave birth to the wrong baby (when i was ready to accept her and the unborn children). Or all is for the best time. I loved her but every other thing was too wrong or right depending on the angle of consideration.
Maybe cupid is just having fun with us or its mental/emotional incompatibility.

wow... The god's are not blame...

popweezy:
Yep.. It's this stubborn girl in my area. I tried 4 almost 2 yrs but no positive result.. I nearly cried when I heard she had relocated to smwhr i dont even know.. LOVE NA SCAM ma broda

your case reminds me of a song titled " LIVING NEXT DOOR TO ALICE" by Smokie... You need to listen it and thank me

Omo this guy don get free food for the rest of him service year ...

What has Brass/Bayelsa turned to cos of elections

Nice

ogorwyne:
Already did.

Sweetbabe

AnalQueenluci:
hmmm..sex n vapour nawa o

Lol...

AnalQueenluci:
after dey wl stil comeback 2 barracks 2 disturb us

even married civilians still fvck single girls and make them use the vapour from hot water to treat their pussy after a very rough sex

ellapius:
don't think soo

okay dear...

Beautiful write-up...

LisaAnne:
Awwww hope it's not a sad reminder

very complicated... More of bittersweet... But she was one of the sweetest things that has happened to me... I guess we may consider settling down with a foreigner... A vegetarian and a former Hindu turned Christian... Anyway, thanks for the good memories...

ellapius:
don't mind the secondary school leaver sir...he is just too childish. He is typing from his car that shows he has none.

your moniker looks like our paths have crossed before...

LisaAnne:
Tell Her you have a girlfriend already

Or
“Hey, I am really touched, I am, but **insert name here**, right now, I simply cannot see myself in a relationship. I have too many things to focus on and I would not be a good BF to anyone. Therefore, I cannot give you what you want, ***if you want, you can insert what she wants here***, I am really sorry, but that is the way it has to be and perhaps it might be best for us if we have some space for now. Okay?”
Then you shut up. Don’t try to be overly nice, as it can be misconstrued. Don’t try to over explain. Stick to this and keep it short and if she asks questions or explanations, simply repeat this in a different way, so she get that you are honest but you are not going to change your mind. Just don’t be rude, and be kind. After that, leave, and go no contact for as long as you deem necessary. Voila.

nice advice... By the way you just reminded me of my ex Indian Girl Friend... She uses that word "Voila" a lot...

Lol...

Oyindidi:
I dey wait bring daddy oyoyo for me sha

hahahaha no wahala

Oyindidi:
Good, come early make we gist small before time.

hahahahaha make we see how e go... I miss una badly

[quote author=dollytino4real post=75912803][/quote]After God and money... Nothing sweet pass when man pikin wan CUMMMMM inside wet toto

Oyindidi:
Okay, we dey miss you

I miss una too... But make I also see how tomorrow goes well be Sha... I never write off tomorrow

At least four times a week especially when you guys are still looking for kids...

Where is Kashybaby... This list ain't complete without her... She is my Number 1 Nairalander...

Mark this write up... If you don't move on and you go back to her, you will regret going back to her... She is very unstable apart from the fact that she has lied to you that she was raped so that you don't see her as cheap since she didn't consent to the sex...

Finally, you don't have to change your good nature cos of her, just be prepared for break up at any given time in your next relationship...

By the way, go through this and be wise..

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need

Oyindidi:
I catch you.

You go come this Thursday?

hahahaha go be after the elections...

dollytino4real:
i tod him I want to tell my bros here on nl he is asking who is dat my bros here

tell him na.... That I am your number 1 Bros...

dollytino4real:
do i know the person first not like

okay na... You can start by being friends with the person offline if you feel safe/free with the person... Then any other thing, I am a phone call away... I know that you do take time to select what is good...

dollytino4real:
my guy somebody wants me here, wat do u think

do you like the person very well

I dey straightforward ... She is very cute... My spec...

Charmingrascal:
Bra if you don't look hotter after a break up the ex would think he/she is the reason for your happiness. Even if they are, pretend as if u dnt care
In fact the era of blocking someone on social media after break up has passed.
Here is my story. Lol
I broke up with my girlfriend on the 5th of September 2018 and a month after she started posting pictures of her wit one cute guy (I have to admit that) I became jealous and was regretting why we broke up. At a point I realized she was doing that to get me jealous.
I started working on myself I got myself some new wears and hit the gym, then I met this cute girl we became gud friends always hanging out together and I at least once in a week I post the pictures of me and my new friend online and I was very sure my ex was stalking me on FB.
Fast forward to my birthday January 22nd the first message (SMS) I received was from her then I discovered that she posted my picture on her FB wall to wish me a happy birthday. I felt like Superman Lol, My plan worked. To cut it short I called her thanked her invited her to my place we celebrated my birthday together. We got talking she asked about my new girl and that was wen we both opened up to each other that we actually played the showing off game to get each other jealous and both confessed how we have been stalking each other on FB Lol. I got to know that the guy is her relation and in fact we are good friends now she also becme friend with my friend.


The great sex on the night of my birthday after a little wine rekindled old feelings and we are back together now even stronger than we used to be

Lessons: Don't look tattered because you broke up or someone broke up with you

Any relationship that you don't quarrel break up and make up is not really sweet


It is a true story

nice story, nice make up... Happy for you...

Happy Birthday Dominique...

ashawopikin:
marine girls are different from mermaids

thanks .... But the OP was referring to the Marine...