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RomanceRe: Promise Excel: "I Can't Marry A Lady Obsessed With Marriage" by SoapQueen(f): 9:13am On Apr 13, 2018
lexy2014:
my dear its easy 2 say marriage doesn't define u when u are below 25
Okay. Your opinions, your perception.
RomanceRe: My Chat With A Dubious Girl. by SoapQueen(f): 9:12am On Apr 13, 2018
chyckxx:
LOL. That's not my point. Your signature is the collective words or sentence(s) that appear under your posts; yours is blank, you perhaps mistook it for personal text or YIM. Your signature being under your posts (comments) gives you a chance to reach a bigger audience as not everyone will visit your profile.
Okay. I don't need everyone to visit my profile. That being said, in this context, my profile is my signature. Thank you.
CelebritiesRe: Sister Deborah Poses Nude In New Artistic Photos by SoapQueen(f): 8:00am On Apr 13, 2018
Olulinks:
Do you bath with those soaps? You look so clin.
Hahahahahahaha. No dear, I don't. I only wash with them. I don't /can't produce bath soaps now because of health concerns. I have to get NAFDAC certification first.
RomanceRe: Getting Serious Beatings From My Boyfriend Turns Me On by SoapQueen(f): 6:52am On Apr 13, 2018
Some persons are just weird and wired like that.

E no get weytin we no go see..

RomanceRe: My Chat With A Dubious Girl. by SoapQueen(f): 3:53am On Apr 13, 2018
chyckxx:
Do you realize that your signature is actually blank?
If I'm not wrong I'd like to think I mentioned "Soap", more than twice there. What's more? I wrote " Shoot me a mail".


Maybe, that it's not enough by your standards. I will try to do better.
RomanceRe: After Ignoring Me, She Contacted Me Years Later For Financial Assistance by SoapQueen(f):
bassey87:
There is this particular girl I met on social media. She is extremely beautiful with lots of guys trying to woo her. I am a financially stable dude with a good business that brings in steady income and continue to expand. Though she never asked me for money I sent her money willingly because I was really having it. I was more concerned about her attention though I got very little of it because she was in a relationship at the time. I guess she started having problems with her boyfriend and I really needed her attention so I could win her over to my side but she started dating a new guy immediately from what I saw in her post and pictures. I met her for the first time and tried to make love to her but she refused, I didn't feel bad about it because I really wanted her for myself and wanted a chance to access her character to know if I can build a life with her. She was willing to come sleep with me the next day but I left before she made the call that she is sorry about yesterday and will come spend the night with me. After that anytime I sent her a message she hardly reply so I got fed up and stopped talking to her and changed my phone without updating her. I was surprised she contacted me again after a long time and we got talking. Within a couple of days she started telling me about her financial difficulties that she needed money urgently to solve some personal and family issues, but the way she dress in all her recent pictures doesn't tell of one in need of assistance though I don't care because I really like her. She has been showing concern and always check on me ever since. Presently I am in a position to give her more than what she requested for but what I want is love but she is more concern about the money. I have been painting a picture of someone who is struggling and I expected her to have deleted me by now but that has not been the case. With her beauty I am even wondering why she came to me when she could easily get countless rich dude to give her all the money she wants by offering herself to them. I did a little investigation and found out some of the things she told me about herself and family are true but I couldn't get anything relating to her financial status. I have now concluded to continue acting poor to see if she will go away because I can't make a financial commitment without getting anything back in return. I can't really tell what is on her mind and why she really came to me.
I admire the fact that you came clean. You love this girl, sadly, she doesn't feel same about you. Sometimes, the people you cross oceans for won't even jump a puddle for you. Don't give her cash if your gut feelings tell you not to.


Try to move on. Apparently, you are still hurting. Forget the fact that you didn't get the cookie jar. Guy, gbágbè! There are millions of women on earth. You will find true love, again!
RomanceRe: Sex In The Kitchen By Married Couples by SoapQueen(f): 3:43am On Apr 13, 2018
samisj4real:
This your name strong ooo, what if you venture into acid production today it will now be ACID QUEEN ahbi?

Anyways me self na abuja based o, we fit link up?
Hi there, no actually. Not like I'd ever start producing acids. I think where I am now is a safe place.
RomanceRe: She's Divorced But She's In Love With Me, Should I Forge Ahead With Her? by SoapQueen(f): 11:08pm On Apr 12, 2018
Jonah1234:
Hi Nairalanders, this is my story. A long time family friend was dating her back then in school (tertiary). It happens that she's secretly admiring me which I didn't noticed.
However, this family friend is my elder brother's friend so I don't joke with the girl at all, so I don't disrespect him but the girl in question I am older than her.
It happens that he runs a studio and I do go there to take care of some things anytime he is not around.
As fate may have it, he was going to travel for a week for a job interview he gave me the house keys which part of it is also a studio and told me the girl will be staying at her place since she has been staying with him off campus.

I was very surprised to find the girl at home around 9pm when I was about to sleep. We started gisting late into the night and when it was close to 11pm I told her I was going back to my family house but she refused. I slept there, but before then she told me she has quit her relationship with my friend.
She tried all she could so we could helped each other that night, but I told her I respect my friend I wouldn't do that with her.
She later graduated and we lost contact for close to 7years. My family friend got married to another girl. She somehow got my contact and that same week she was about getting married too, which she did.
The problem is that the husband is abusing her physically by beating her because she was fighting a side chick the husband brought back home. She had to quit the marriage by divorcing him. She sent me some pictures of her wounded face from several punches from him. I couldn't keep the pictures I deleted them.
Now she wants me into her life. Would it be wrong if I forge ahead with her? Is there anything wrong to marry a divorced woman?
Please, no insult mature advice. Thanks
Everything is happening too quickly. The girl isn't in a good place now. Don't let sex or lust or being desperate cloud your judgement and No, please don't date her, yet.


Just try to be a normal friend( from a distance) while she slowly comes up for air. Let her heal properly. Then, you can take it up from there, slowly and see where it will lead.

Hope this helps.
RomanceRe: Promise Excel: "I Can't Marry A Lady Obsessed With Marriage" by SoapQueen(f): 10:50pm On Apr 12, 2018
Kinggnicole:
Thanks for taking the time to show him the definition of a feminist. Let's hope he doesn't forget it in the next 2 seconds.
I'm sure he won't, King. If he does, I won't hesitate to remind him.
RomanceRe: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SoapQueen(f): 10:36pm On Apr 12, 2018
Qsscruz:
I tried sending an e-mail across without success. I shall drop my number quickly so you chat me up.. I will edit it shortly afterwards..
Message seen and acknowledged. Let me know how I may be of help via email. Thank you.
RomanceRe: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SoapQueen(f): 10:25pm On Apr 12, 2018
Qsscruz:
I meant PM.. An acronym for Private Message..
Oh,yes. You can do that.
RomanceRe: Promise Excel: "I Can't Marry A Lady Obsessed With Marriage" by SoapQueen(f): 10:15pm On Apr 12, 2018
OrestesDante:
angry angry angry

☣ ☠


Goan charge your battery



☣ ☠
Haha...You are right!
RomanceRe: My Chat With A Dubious Girl. by SoapQueen(f): 9:54pm On Apr 12, 2018
Please, shift let me faint! This is hilarious. Damn. Some ladies though.









Check my siggy to know more about my dishwashing soaps.
RomanceRe: My Chat With A Dubious Girl. by SoapQueen(f): 9:54pm On Apr 12, 2018
RomanceRe: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SoapQueen(f): 9:38pm On Apr 12, 2018
kratosonofzeus:
HOLY MOLY Lwkmd cheesy HOLY MOLY Lwkmd
I don't know if I have committed a crime but from the way you sound, I prolly have. What am I not saying right? Please, tell me.
RomanceRe: Please Nairalanders I Need Advice by SoapQueen(f): 9:36pm On Apr 12, 2018
When it comes to money, you can't trust humans. They can kill and get killed. From what you wrote up there, this is a sensitive issue and should be dealt with accordingly. I could have helped suggest but unfortunately, we don't know the whole story (for a place like this, I advice you keep it so).


All I'd say is; just be careful. My friend's dad died some years back because he was expecting some cash and a promotion letter. I wouldn't want to go into details.

Best of luck!
RomanceRe: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SoapQueen(f): 9:20pm On Apr 12, 2018
Qsscruz:
I reside at Apo legislative quarters.. Do you receive PMS?
I'm lost here, Sir. Please, what does "PMS" stand for? Premenstrual Syndrome or Premium Motor Spirit?
RomanceRe: Promise Excel: "I Can't Marry A Lady Obsessed With Marriage" by SoapQueen(f): 9:07pm On Apr 12, 2018
PcNnews:
Really? What about having a possessive husband
I wouldn't tolerate that in the first place. There is enough room during courtship to detect such. Most possessive men are always about themselves. It is only fair that for the preservation of your sanity, you flee.
RomanceRe: Promise Excel: "I Can't Marry A Lady Obsessed With Marriage" by SoapQueen(f): 8:59pm On Apr 12, 2018
Sheuns:
Male feminist?

Okay na. Keep giving them hopes.
I mean honestly, I don't know this guy but I think I like his persona. I respect the institution of marriage. I respect men and respect their position as the head of the family, but no, marriage doesn't and will never define me.

RomanceRe: Man Finds Out His Girlfriend Got Married After They Quarreled For Two Weeks! by SoapQueen(f): 8:51pm On Apr 12, 2018
TheGoodJoe:
Sorry if I came on you in a hard way. However, there is no other side to a story if a lady had problems with her boyfriend and ends up married in two weeks.

That means cheating on her boy toy and fiance. Whether she collected money or not is not the worst part of the episode.
No, it's fine. No bad blood.

Newton's law states that ; "For every action there must be an equal and opposite reaction" I honestly do not know what must have prompted the girl to act so inhumane but there is no smoke without fire.

Conclusively, what is bad, is bad. The girl hasn't done well and I'm very convinced she might still cheat in her husband's house.
RomanceRe: Man Finds Out His Girlfriend Got Married After They Quarreled For Two Weeks! by SoapQueen(f): 8:43pm On Apr 12, 2018
TheGoodJoe:
No one falls in love and marries in two weeks. The guy was just slow not to read the signs that the girl was playing him while she was engaged. She was working her way to the alter and cheating on her fiance with her boy toy.

She just took the break for the marriage and collected money for wedding bills. No need dressing the lady like someone good. She is a terrible person and a cheat.
Hi there,
I can't see how I am dressing the Lady as good girl. No, don't get me wrong. What she did is downright seedy. Such a terrible thing to do. Taking money from him means she is building her marriage on lies. However, we haven't heard her side of the story and we never will.


Until the Lion learns to write, every story will glorify the hunter.
RomanceRe: Man Finds Out His Girlfriend Got Married After They Quarreled For Two Weeks! by SoapQueen(f): 8:34pm On Apr 12, 2018
Twoclans:
They were both not in love with each other. When people genuinely fall in love 24 hours is too much for a quarrel to last not to talk of two weeks. I don't even know how people define love this days.

He is only crying wolf because she outsmarted him. Before I forget he should go and collect all the money she obtained from him within that two weeks. She is even a cheap swindler.

Abeg make I carry my wahala dey go.
RomanceRe: Man Finds Out His Girlfriend Got Married After They Quarreled For Two Weeks! by SoapQueen(f): 8:29pm On Apr 12, 2018
OMG! Ladies are getting more heartless. The guy might probably be one of those guys that like to form and ghost their girls. Off/on relationships.


Still, the girl did bad. Very sad.
RomanceRe: Why Do Girls Feel They're Doing You A Favor When You Have Sex With Them by SoapQueen(f): 8:21pm On Apr 12, 2018
laphta:
To be frank, not much on offer.
Ditto. It's the 21st century, not 1916. Women aren't as dependent on men as you think. Pray tell, what do you have to offer?
RomanceRe: Why Do Girls Feel They're Doing You A Favor When You Have Sex With Them by SoapQueen(f): 8:05pm On Apr 12, 2018
majamajic:
grin what else can she offer u ??

bro that's their selling point
Prayers, encouragement, laughter, (money, if she has), and the list goes on..As for me and some awesome ladies out there, our selling points have never been and will never be our bodies.
RomanceRe: Why Do Girls Feel They're Doing You A Favor When You Have Sex With Them by SoapQueen(f): 8:02pm On Apr 12, 2018
dauntless15:
When two people are dating, they're sure gonna have intercourse unless both parties agreed to a no sex policy which is very unlikely because we're humans and when you like or love someone, you'll be sexually attracted to that person and that attraction is often reciprocated except in one sided relationships, and when they have consensual sex, its a two way thing, both parties enjoyed it,

why is it that girls feel they're doing guys a favor when sex happens? If you guys break up unfortunately, they'll be like, HE USED AND DUMPED ME!! I don't get it, how come you're the one who was used? The male did virtually the same thing the female did, so what's the one sided verdict about?
Why do men feel like they are doing us a favor when they have sex with women? More so, it's because men promise heaven and earth when they want to get down with a woman. It's a two way thing, stop bringing women down.
RomanceRe: Fears.....what If Buhari Wins by SoapQueen(f): 7:32pm On Apr 12, 2018
We are all saying Buhari should go, how many of us have our PVCs? Sadly, just a few. I haven't even collected mine.



Let us all get up and do the needful.





Check my signature for your dishwashing soaps.
EducationRe: Is It Possible To Cross Over From Nursing To Medicine In The University(ui) by SoapQueen(f): 7:24pm On Apr 12, 2018
Successvibes11:
Thanks so so much. I really appreciate this.
You welcome, Queen. Nursing is a great course too! It's worth it!
RomanceRe: Sex In The Kitchen By Married Couples by SoapQueen(f): 7:22pm On Apr 12, 2018
BabbanBura:
Your biggest customers fit be the unmarried - hand jobs and some clean ups, though vaseline sure pass sha
I'm done with y'all! Funny! Hehehehehheehehehehe. Lol. So, where the unmarried peeps at?
CelebritiesRe: Sister Deborah Poses Nude In New Artistic Photos by SoapQueen(f): 7:17pm On Apr 12, 2018
Olulinks:
The next time you put out your advert here I'd personally ban you! Btw, you have a pretty good pic in your DP. Keep it up.
Oh! For real? I sincerely apologise. Though I've had previous accounts on nairaland from 2012, I'm only just hearing about this. Forgive my oversight.


Thank you for your comment.
RomanceRe: What You Don't Know About Big Boobs by SoapQueen(f): 6:52pm On Apr 12, 2018
Successvibes11:
Thanks so much for this comment ma.
That's the problem I'm facing. No matter how decent my dress is, many guys still drool and see me as olosho. The verbal harrasment alone made me question God at a time, asking him why he made me busty. But I'm glad I now know someone who overcame. God bless you. smiley
Awwww.. You said "overcame" like it's a curse. My dear, you are Awesome the way you are. Some women shell out some dollars to have bigger boobs. Nothing do you jor..


Please check my signature if you need good quality dishwashing/laundry liquid!
EducationRe: Is It Possible To Cross Over From Nursing To Medicine In The University(ui) by SoapQueen(f): 6:49pm On Apr 12, 2018
Successvibes11:
Please, I need enlightenment on change of course after admission, especially for those willing to change from nursing to medicine.
No dear, it's not. You could cross of Human Nutrition and Dietetics/Biochemistry/Physiology when you are in year one , with a very, very high CGPA. I'm not sure about things now, this was some years back when I was still in school.


I hope this helps.

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