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Crime / Re: Money Ritual: Police Nab Five In Possession Of Human Skull In Niger by solreb: 10:48am On Sep 23, 2023
englishmart:
Ritual means “a repeated exercise “ so how does “money ritual” translate to “using someone to make money diabolically?
Ritual also means "religious or solemn ceremony consisting of a series of actions performed according to a prescribed order:
Politics / Re: APC Counsel Explains Why Kano Tribunal Judgment Favoured Them (Video) by solreb: 7:23pm On Sep 20, 2023
dmostcheerful:
Ndi Ara, but there rejected all the blurred documents Obi presented. grin
Because they presented legible ballot papers that were invalid (not signed) from one polling booth to the other but Obi presented nothing since what he came with were not legible. So he could not prove per polling booth what he scored or the infraction committed by APC

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Politics / Re: US Panel Terminates Gbajabiamila's Law License For Stealing Money - Gazette by solreb: 5:54pm On Sep 18, 2023
OkpaNsukkaisBae:
...."In a unanimous decision of February 26, 2007, the supreme court of Georgia approved the suspension of Mr Gbajabiamila for 36 months, after he admitted stealing $25000 from a client"...



See people wey dey associate with BAT...Ibori, Oluomo, Gandollar, Asari Dokubo, Gbaja e.t.c... I pity our national treasury. Chicago state university shld pls release his academic records.
His academic records adhis admission letter has been released by CSU

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Politics / Re: NNPCL Announces Management Changes, Appoints New Top Executives by solreb: 3:09pm On Sep 17, 2023
EmeeNaka:
Trying to please Tinubu with Yoruba appointment.
SS and SE are left out
One if then is Itsekiri, SS
Politics / Re: Appeal Court voids tribunal judgement, sacks Elumelu, reinstates LP's Okolie by solreb: 1:50pm On Sep 14, 2023
Watinhapen:
It has started. All these illegal verdicts given by various election tribunals will definitely be upturned by the grace of God. Darkness may take charge at first but when light comes, it will definitely override the darkness. There is still hope for Peter Obi who is Nigerians rightful President. God is still in charge.
Dreamer spotted
Family / Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by solreb: 8:23pm On Sep 12, 2023
ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...
I will advise against divorce and I want to commend you for your faithfulness. Your marriage can still be salvaged going by my experience in a similar situation and I have been married for more than 24 years. The twp of you should go for counselling and see a sex therapist. You can contact this woman Olawunmi Esan ( Olawunmiesan@gmail.com) whi is a certified counsellor ànd sex therapist.
Religion / Re: Why Is Sexual Sin Devil's Most Powerful Weapon? by solreb: 2:30pm On Sep 10, 2023
Lewiseze1988:
Sex is not a sin for a man, whether married or not.is only when a married woman have sex with another man that's not her husband that's when sex become a sin.or when an unmarried woman have sex with multiple men then it's a sin.so stop deceiving people pls.
Sexual intercourse between two people who are not married (fornication) is a sin. Use this link https://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-fornication.html to read all about the Bible has condemned it
Investment / Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by solreb: 6:56am On Sep 08, 2023
I am back. What is cooking with UNFI that has done more than 300% in a month
Politics / Re: Wike To Atiku, Obi: Election Petitions Cases Are Not Won On Social Media by solreb: 6:38am On Sep 08, 2023
Revolution2022:
APC are using public funds to pay party agents.When there was party agents was rigging not taking place?Were signatures of other political parties agents not forged?The reason for the transmission of results is to preve my all those and. make it transparent because APC can forge and influence agents of political parties.
LP got campaign funds which were mat to pay agents but they did not. Now all political parties rig. I have several video of rigging for LP in the South East, with some INEC agents even caught in the process. If there were situations where party agent signatures were forged or wrong result given to you, the court expected the petitioner to present that in the court. LP never presented not even for one polling booth. Is it the job of judiciary to present such instances in court. Obi simply took Obidients for a ride with the sole intention of squandering campaign funds.

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Politics / Re: Wike To Atiku, Obi: Election Petitions Cases Are Not Won On Social Media by solreb: 6:22am On Sep 08, 2023
Brainlight:
I WONDER ... WHICH KIND OXYGEN ....APC SUPPORTERS THEY BREATH....SO PEOPLE GO ... LIKE SUFFERNESS BACK TO BACK.

FOR ME .... OBI FOR JUST REST.... IF THIS MAN FIT MANIPULATE AM FOR ELECTION.... MANIPULATE AM FOR COURT .... SUPREME COURT TOO GO BE BEANS FOR AM.
THE MAN IN POWER..... HAVE MORE ADVANTAGE AND MORE MONEY TO THROW.
I am truly disappointed in all 0bidients who still live in denial that the judiciary was partial. Obi and LP had no case and presented a watery one at that in the court. It was an easy one for the defence to trash. Obi had to justify why he spent all the campaign funds and that's why he went to court and not because he had a case
Politics / Re: Wike To Atiku, Obi: Election Petitions Cases Are Not Won On Social Media by solreb: 6:11am On Sep 08, 2023
Revolution2022:
The PEPT didn't rule based on the newly reformed electoral guidelines.Infact,they ruled based on sentiment and not the electoral law.

Many Nigerians who have not voted in their lives because they don't have confidence in the electoral system of Nigeria but decided to vote base on the transmission of election results into the irev in realtime.The judge has failed us.
Buhari pumped a huge amount of money into the election.Yet the judiciary and INEC didn't live up to expectations.
Nigerians expect more from the judiciary but they are only good at sending yahoo boys and phone thieves to jail.
It is not the job of judiciary to prove the case of petitioners. It is what you present before the court that they will rule on. LAW IS BLIND so the say. Both LP and PDP failed woefully to prove their cases. It is garbage in and garbage out. Now INEC did not promise real-time transmission of results. They promised to transmit the result to IREV after voting and the agents of the parties have signed the result sheets. Now tell me, how LP that do not have agents in more than 7000 polling booths will be able to defend their votes
Politics / Re: Don't Blackmail The Judges, Losers Should Accept Defeat - Mary Odili by solreb: 1:06am On Sep 04, 2023
ugodson:
I hope she hasn't been bought over
She has retired!!!. She is just stating the obvious for the Obidients that are expecting water from rock. How can one sow corn and is expecting harvest of yam. That is the sorry state of LP, PDP and in particular the Obidients

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Politics / Re: Tinubu's Records: Chicago State University Locks X Account by solreb: 12:12pm On Aug 29, 2023
CSU locked the account to protect the school community from cyber bullying you Obidients are subjecting them to. Atiku that brought the matter to the USA Court which CSU is already addressing has adopted a civilised approach but the Obidients have hijacked it and painting Nigeria in bad light with their roforofo and guerrilla tactics.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: France Bans Muslim Students From Wearing Abaya Dress In State Schools by solreb: 12:58pm On Aug 28, 2023
Racoon:
".......A LESSON FOR NIGERIA."
The protracted French riots, arson and insurrection is a classical case of what a well ocastrated state injustice and discrimination( especially ethno-politico-religious supremacist agenda as is the case in Nigeria ) can cause to a nation or country.

The Nigerian civil war costed both Biafra and the state a lot in human and economic wastage, but more than 50 years after the war, national integration have been a big problem with the warped mindset that the victims race deserves no national recognition.

Politically, the January 15 1966 military coup is only seen as an Igbo coup hence demonised as such, but the counter-coup and other subsequent ones led by the Hausa-Fulanis were not seen as such because most succeeded hence seen as heroes.

Fast forward to the 2023 era, an Igbo man contested in a presidential election, won in key states of Lagos and Abuja, but was heavily discriminated against because of his ethnic group. The racial and ethnic profiling that followed this controversial election is unprecedented in history. Yet the Nigerian state behaved as if nothing happened. #EndSARS riots were later visualised as Igbo agenda.

Now to the religious angle, many Christains in Nigeria are being delibrately persecuted and killed because of their faith. Yet the state that supposed to maintain a secular balance tends to be clearly promoting ethno-religious supremacist sentiments and agenda. Some classical cases includes the many well chronicled religious uprising down the core North.

The Chibok school girls kidnap, Lead Sharibu, the RCCG woman killed in Kubwa, the Christian woman killed in Zubwa, and last but not the least - the gruesome killing of Deborah Samuel in FCE Sokoto last year. The sad reality of all these is that, all the killers are often protected and shielded to escape justice by the religious power brokers high up in authority.

Now, the Muslims are suffering same in France. Same thing happened between the Tutsi and other ethnic groups in the inglorious post Idi-Amin era in Uganda leading to needless bloodshed and deaths.

Two wrongs does not make a right. One good turn deserves another. "An injustice anywhere is an injustice everywhere." This should be a lesson and warning to all. I rest my pen here.
No injustice was done to Obi who lost a presidential election because the larger population did not want him and not because of his religion or tribe. It is the Igbos that make it a tribal war. In democracy majority carries the day. You tainted your write-up by slotting in Obi's matter.

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Politics / Re: Nigerians Flood Atiku's Tweet On Tinubu's Educational Abracadabra by solreb: 4:51pm On Aug 27, 2023
Kingosytex:


It seems you lack comprehensive skills. Tinubu is a first class graduate for heaven's sake, let him tender the certificate. It might make the younger generations to work harder.
He has already tendered one if you are careful to follow the matter but Atiku is claiming it is fake and wants to dig further asking CSU for more information which BAT considers irrelevant

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Car Talk / Re: Tell Us Your Car Fault Lets Assess And Fix Them by solreb: 6:50am On Aug 25, 2023
I use a 2007 Nissan Xterra which will not start moving automatically when you change to Drive gear, until you throttle the you experience very slow movement. On the other hand the car move in Reverse gear normally. While waiting for traffic light to change on an elevated portion of the road the car did not have enough torque to move forward. I had to reverse a couple of meters and then use sped to climb. I have replaced the gear oil with Nissan recommended Matic J and wash clean the filter. Yet no change. I need help
Car Talk / 2007 Nissan Xterra Does Not Move In Drive Gear by solreb: 6:49am On Aug 25, 2023
I use a 2007 Nissan Xterra which will not start moving automatically when you change to Drive gear, until you throttle the you experience very slow movement. On the other hand the car move in Reverse gear normally. While waiting for traffic light to change on an elevated portion of the road the car did not have enough torque to move forward. I had to reverse a couple of meters and then use sped to climb. I have replaced the gear oil with Nissan recommended Matic J and wash clean the filter. Yet no change. I need help
Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by solreb: 5:22pm On Aug 24, 2023
addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

1. The first 5 years if a marriage tends to be like this generally based on experience. I have been married for 24 years and your case was similar to mine.
2. I advise that both of you go for counselling. It does help. And if sex is primarily the issue you can try this certified counsellor and sex therapist.
3. Finally how is the spiritual lives of both of you. This is very important as if both of you are well connected to God and love him there are bible verses in the Bible for instance that deal with sex and (also anger, love plays etc) if observed as true children of God they will help resolve the issues. A Christian counselling will take you all through these but your love for God and obedience to his words are key.

But the most important thing is the commitment of both parties for anything to work

I wish you the best. But my advice to you is for you as a man to have a lot of patience.
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Storms Edo To Engage LP Governorship Aspirants (Video, Photos) by solreb: 5:25pm On Aug 21, 2023
BoldBrainz:


Na based on popular and high demand na.

This country for juss experiment dual presidency for once make we check something. We for Niger Delta and the North Central and the East go get Obi as President, then Yorubas and abokis go get Ebola. Make we for see where both regions go dey in six months. E sure me die say the other people go begin pack bags for night dey smuggle themselves enter our region to enjoy good governance.. grin
You have overrated Obi who performed poorly as a governor

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Politics / Re: Kids, Market Women Rock All Eyes On The Judiciary Polo by solreb: 6:06pm On Aug 18, 2023
Bluntguy:
Those judiciary people are under pressure to do the right thing.
They can't do otherwise.
Billboard or no billboard, all eyes are on the judiciary. grin
And for you Obi must be declared winner and Tinubu removed when Obi knew he did not win and never presented such arguments at the court. Judiciary can only rule based on the evidences presented before them. And Tinubu's victory will be upheld
Religion / Re: Pope Tells Transgender Person: 'God Loves Us As We Are' by solreb: 9:34pm On Aug 05, 2023
jeff1607:

You know the bible more than the people who have you access to the book?

For him not to totally condemn them means there's something we don't know or the contents of the remainder books
The bible is the only reference to use and apply by all Christians against any interpretation given by anyone irrespective of title. A sin is a sin no matter how we coin it and appear to be politically correct. God's standards have not changed. He destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of their sins of which homosexuality was one Gen 19:1-12)). Shall we continue in sin so that grace can abound. God forbid... Rom 6:1-2.
Politics / Re: Shell To Sell More Oil Assets In Nigeria by solreb: 1:11am On Aug 05, 2023
Islie:


https://leadership.ng/shell-to-sell-more-oil-assets-in-nigeria/
Yes it is true that Shell had en trying to sell some of its assets onshore and slow waers in about 2 years now, but it is very unlikely that the will sell to Eroton who has failed to manage the OML 18 oil and gas block they acquired before such thar NNPC had to take it over from them.
Politics / Re: 2023 Election Most Credible In Nigeria’s History – Tinubu by solreb: 10:46pm On Aug 03, 2023
Jostoman:
The most credible don suffer for this man hand.

All eyes on judiciary
I hope you will not be disappointed because both Atiku and have no solid case against PBAT

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Education / Re: Rivers State University SUG President, Miracle Anele And His Personal Bodyguards by solreb: 10:18pm On Jul 29, 2023
ravensckar:
Trust me, it's a normal thing in some schools. But in O.A.U, on the slightest suspicion that you belong, you'll be dealt with. Back then, our motto was; 'Zero tolerance for cultism'. angry angry
I graduated in 1991 from Great Ife. I am happy to hear that my Alma Mater still maintains the motto of No cultism
Politics / Re: Peter Engages Nigerians On Twitter, Speaks Out Many Issues Bothering Nigerians by solreb: 10:07pm On Jul 29, 2023
Bethel4Life:
I was surprised that no one created a thread on this


Peter Obi is Live Now, Tune in to listen
Peter Obi the twitter President of Nigeria

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Never Claimed That He Won The Presidential Election - Reno Omokri by solreb: 11:12am On Jul 29, 2023
Luckysbab:


He didn’t come close to 25% in Ekiti. Nowhere near.
And he did not come to court to present his he was massively rigged out in those states the person you quoted was referring to. The conclusion is that Obi knew he didn't win but somehow he had sold the lie to the Obidients tht he won and they still hold on to the lie in view of what Obi presented at the tribunal. I just don't get it. It is bad enough that their messiah lied to them but even wen that messiah had stylishly informed them about the lie they still believe the lie and try to turn it to the truth in thier head and dreams

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Politics / Re: Gov Mbah Appoints Ekweremadu’s Son, 14 Others Commissioners by solreb: 10:54am On Jul 29, 2023
IconicR:
That's good , I don't know why Ekweremadu is still being held unjustly. That boy involved in his saga isn't as innocent as people thought but the hatred Nigerians have for the rich folk will make them blind to the truth. Once you are rich in Nigeria, you are guilty of everything.
Is it Nigerians tha made Ekweremadu lied to havest another person's organ without going through due process?. His cup was full and UK giovt. nailed him. He fully realise UK is not Nigeria were the rich and connected are above the law.
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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Never Claimed That He Won The Presidential Election - Reno Omokri by solreb: 2:12am On Jul 24, 2023
mrvitalis:

Examining the process would bring out the real winner
How do you examine the process if you did not present the necessary documentation which will ratify the process is well followed or not. Obi just wanted to remain relevant hence his court case and the Obidients bought the lie and have been looking for his "mandate"

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Never Claimed That He Won The Presidential Election - Reno Omokri by solreb: 2:08am On Jul 24, 2023
mrvitalis:
Obi was clear... We are not challenging the outcome but the process

Obi is only asking inec how they arrived at the results they called
But Obidient Phillip like most Obidients claimed Obi won the election

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Politics / Re: Tinubu Never Challenged Forfeiture Order - Peter Obi Tells Tribunal by solreb: 2:03am On Jul 24, 2023
REALretep:



You didn't also read the one bolded grin cool
Keep turning the law upside down in your head grin
The key phrase is "under a sentence" meaning a conviction has been established that resulted in a fine or imprisonment. But Tinubu was not sentenced or convicted hence the $460k seized was not the fine.

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