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bknight: Make contact first on NL.
1. When u see a moniker u like, engage her on her post/topic being discussed first so she notices ur handle.
2. Next, follow her on NL. If she follows back (expectedly, at this stage, she must have delved beyond ur profile page into ur comments), then there might a bit of luck.
3. Send the PM, then find a thread she's on and tell her she's got a mail, if she replies...

Goodluck.

kenny1795: an IBO mind must b behind dx

bad meat: 2013=catfish pepper soup and Heineken
2014=chicken pepper soup and hennesy!

symbian123: Those ladies who do stuffs are like that are totally immature and should be avoided... I honestly hope you ain't one of them cos it would definitely break my heart. Lol

yinkard4me: My friend has never used a condom before, not dat he doesn't buh his rod always tears it. And he's a monogamous guy, he has just one galfrnd in his life aside his lovely pregnant fiance back @ home and DO dis babe like morning, afternoon and evening(we dey serve so d babe get him tym well). He uses withdrawals method and d gal has never been pregnant for Him. Mind u, he has a pregnant fiance back @ home. My long epistle implies dat some guys are really good using dis method.

toshmann: [size=28pt]Hush
Some of us still dey 2013 [/size]

DailyNews: Haven spent some considerable time on this forum reading peoples' comments, threads and participating when necessary, I have come up with a list of the best female nairalanders that other females on nairaland should emulate.

This is to encourage them to keep being nice, cool-headed and mature not just on nairaland but in real life even beyond and to also encourage others to try and emulate good thing.

Disclaimer: this is my personal opinion based on my own long observation. I don't know most of the people I am going to list here, and I don't intend to know them beyond nairaland...but if I were to recommend a friend, a lover or a wife for any guy I like- be it my brother, cousin, friend or colleague, I would definitely recommend any of these females going by their nairaland character and carriage.

I may miss some names, I am not a span bolt to know all handles, but from the few I know, these handles represent the best females on nairaland.

Pls if your name didn't appear on my list, don't feel bad...its just my own personal opinion and observation, doesn't mean that u are bad...maybe I haven't observed u much.

0. 190 (the best nairaland transgender)
1. Specialguest
2. Sanb
3. Winneygirl
4. Sweetlemon
5. Ogugua88
6. Mukina
7. Carefreewannabe
8. Uniquexty
9. Caracta
9. Ijebabe
9. Cuddlemii
10. Carmelion
11. Kulye (aside her negative feminist ideologies)
12. Lorreta U
13. Iynpetra
14. Skydeep (very matured lady)
15. Michele
16. Wislet
17. Bernfame
18. Phiozy
18. Adaeze ...something
19. Idowuogbo (something tells me she's just acting most of her e-bully attitude, maybe to while away time or for a reason best known to her)
20. IvyBlue or Ivy something...can't remember again.
21. Rubi96
22 Maya2Pretty
23 Chaircover (sorry I forgot this name earlier cos she was on my initial list)

Lastly to all genuinely single guys honestly searching for a girl/lady online via nairaland, try the above names...some maybe married, engaged, etc...go figure out...u won't regret...and if u really want to find a reliable and worthy female friend on nairaland, pls look beyond romance section. Try literature, family, fashion, business and job vacancy sections. Goodluck and merry Christmas in advance

dave07: Nice development. Just looking forward to it stopping the custom &immigration from dipping hands into personal lugaggage in the name of searching and subjecting helpless travellers to frequent bag opening and closing. Like someone also noted, this is needed ASAP at the Arrival hall

DailyNews: You guys are still on this issue I am here angry that a very potential and able wife material has been snatched away just like that and u guys are here arguing abt who called Daddy and who didn't call Mummy. Anyway, I give up!!! #UnfollowsTeamFulani

Orikinla: Thank you tpia.
1000 Likes for your reply.

What is wrong in calling your pastor Daddy?
In our African culture among Igbos and Yorubas, we often call our male elders "Papa" or "Baba" and female elders "Mama" or "Mummy".
It is for RESPECT and a blessing for humility.

DailyNews: Ho!!!! Special u are getting married Jeez!!! What's happening to me Ok, to d question, u aren't wrong at allllllll...don't mind some of the so called pastors' wives jareh! U are a lady na, u ought to know that u peoples' wahala plenty

#NotHappyStill

Mintayo: You are just too correct!
I wonder what she stands to gain by posting it on NL,i guess she is enjoying d attention she is getting...smh.
I will say it again,i don't believe the Op.
Op,when u get married,call ur inlaws by name ok?

Yield: She does not.


Yes, I did. And I found nothing rude about them, just a woman standing up for herself.
The other post of hers I've read - a few months ago - was about how she has been taking care of her mother, so I know she's someone with a good head on her shoulders.


Not at all.

bknight: He's a pastor. And his name is sunday Akpan?

Jst refer to him as Pastor Akpan.

kulyie: abi.you can imagine.thats how some so called pastors wives will use their behaviour to chase away genuine christians from church and christianity.mshewwww.pastors wife my foot

Mamacita007: Looooool maybe you looked so beautiful so she wanna protect her husband. if i were u, i will stay there & see that pastor daddy g.o. let her go & die if she wants to looool

Woged2005: It's Ok to respect people. However, respect is earned and not forced on people. My Rev Fr once said "if someone have to remind you he is a Christian, he's probably not, because Christianity is seen in your style of living. Like a lamp, you cannot light it and put it under the table. It shows people the way to life"

At no point in life should someone give up power over him/herself to someone else be it a Governor, pastor, or bishop. You can only have respect for the position they occupy. Over the years human beings have shown they are untrustworthy, selfish and unreliable. Most couple who allowed pastors to meddle in their marriage are divorced today. Start now to avoid that. The next thing they tell you you must 'Obey your Daddy and Mummy'. He is not your 'Daddy', he is your pastor. Period!