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Romance › Re: Could She Be Cheating? Nairalanders; How Do I Tame This Madness In My Household by Spectre007: 11:10pm On Jan 06, 2020 |
Op access yourself,it seems that you stopped doing most if not all the things you normally do when you guys were dating before getting married.
Men are logical beings while women are emotional beings.
I'm sure that before now that she has been subtly complaining in one way or the other in your ears about how you have been depriving her of your prensence,actions that demonstrates your love for her,verbal assurance of your love for her and other things but you weren't listening to her attentively.
Play with her always, even when you both quarell still play with her.Be a man,stand your ground... Women don't like men that they can push around. Tease her... Playfully ask her what the problem is, if she resist.. Continue to playfully pressure her to know what the problem is.when she finally starts talking.. Don't interfere,allow her to pour her whole heart out.Tell her that you are sorry and also make up your mind within yourself to amend your ways... Draw her close to you,hug her and kiss her on the forehead.Tell her sweet things in her ears.Before you even notice it.. She's already smiling and playing with you.
See ehn...everybody likes happiness,nobody just wakes up and decides to be unhappy on their own.Take things easy... Enjoy every moment, remember to always add fun to the mix.
Goodluck. |
Romance › Re: Girls, Have You Done Anything To Impress A Guy? by Spectre007: 7:35pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
princesshansy: Impress a guy and he'll take u for granted and start discussing u with izz friends! Not all guys are like that. |
Family › Re: What's The Weirdest Thing You Have Ever Done To Collect Money From Your Parents? by Spectre007: 9:41am On Dec 15, 2019 |
Freehuman: I didn't even ask, I stole directly from Dad's drawer and my mum's handbag  Trust me when i tell you that they knew about it and still kept quiet. |
Romance › Re: As A Lady, Mention 3 Things A Guy Will Benefit From Dating You by Spectre007: 1:25pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
jessysparkles: 1 peace of mind 2. A strong push into becoming a better person/support him in maintaining the status. 3. Lots of love, loyalty and reasons to trust me nice one dear�� |
Phones › Isp Enugu State by Spectre007(op): 12:31pm On Aug 29, 2019 |
Please what is the fastest isp in enugu state? |
Computers › Isp Enugu State by Spectre007(op): 12:25pm On Aug 29, 2019 |
Please what is the fastest isp in enugu state? |
Romance › Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Spectre007: 12:02am On Jul 14, 2019 |
DESAN: He mistakenly or stupidly downloaded call recorder on his fone at a tym we just had a fight after which he kept promising to pay me bck with surprise. I then took his fone and found out he usually delete d recorded calls without him realizing he needed to also delete them in music app. To cut the long story short i transfered via bluetooth to my fone frequently called numbers from the music app and discovered he did not only toast my sisters but uncountable gals. Mr and Mrs Smith. |
Gaming › Re: What Is The Most Difficult Game You Played? by Spectre007: 4:05pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Devil may cry 3,PS2 dah year. |
Romance › Re: Guys Dont Train Ur Girl In School. dey Will Dump You by Spectre007: 8:23pm On Jan 25, 2019 |
xpac01: I won't even try that rubbish. in fact when I am kicking off a relationship with a student and she starts telling me her food stuffs has finished or she needs to buy some handouts, I will start Michael Jackson in the relationship. moon walk tinz  |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Spectre007: 11:06pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Galapagous: Then go and see it and stop this unnecessary argument. Cos to me, I agree with black manta. Under the red hood is so so strong, it was a big test for batman, answering one of the biggest question why he wouldn't end the life of that freaking JOKER. batman under the red hood is a masterpiece,I'm sure the person who played the Joker in that animation is the same Joker in the movie dark Knight,same energy and vibe.i love it like mad!!. 10/10 |
Romance › Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Spectre007: 10:17pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
em28: Solution 1. Next time someone does crap to you get in fight. People prefer fear to love... especially this generation
Solution 2. Find the most influential guy in the group buy a bottle of hennessy it's 5k or somewhat. Give to him and say... hey I know you like hennessy so I got you this.
Watch the respect grow.
Strategy 1. Taken from "Machiavelli " Strategy 2. Taken from Robert Greene ( gold and silver buy the hearts of men).
Strategy 2 is easier. Always remember it's about what you "can" do not what it looks like you can do, that why people post pictures of car receipts, se.x. videos and the likes.
Gotta back it up, and it needs to be when the enemy is at a disadvantage.
Truth is nobody but your family loves you... they all want you fail, so they can rise because they have one less competitor or so they can validate themselves.
Nobody loves you or owes you jack.
PS. Don't look down, walk with your head up no matter what. Why ? People have done worse.
You got Omotola pregnant, Shuabu has impregnated his wife and mother in law. People have done worse. machiavelii and Robert Greene,two dangerous authors.... Their knowledge and wisdom alone in the wrong hands could cause great wars,i love their books. |
Crime › Re: Moment A Man Scaled A Barbed Wire Fence To Burgle A House At Magodo, Lagos. by Spectre007: 4:03pm On Jan 16, 2019 |
rentAcock: Barbed wires don't deter thieves because they are never turned on. A Friend of mine has a customised drone armed with 2 pistols and a taser. His house has several motion sensors that are also solar powered, once motion is detected, the drone hovers around the house and it's on-board artificial intelligence chip from NVIDIA is smart enough to differentiate an animal from an object and a person. Once an unauthorized person is detected via facial recognition technology, it warns you to leave the premises, afterwards, my friend gets a live feed and has the option of shooting the intruder with a pistol or paralys them with a taser. Pretty cool stuff. in nigeria or outside the country?? |
Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Offer Your Man Your Money To Pay Your Bride Price If You Love Him by Spectre007: 5:58pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Yuceeluv: Yes I can. A 100%. But before i do such,ill know, with assurance that his condition is presently temporary and ofcourse i must be financially capable for both of us at the time, pending when life's storm calms.
There are many wives that are bread winners today. They've been bread winners for so long, it has become a part of them. Most, if not all of those ladies, had their bride price paid by their husbands. So everyone should just be realistic and drink water. wow... Wife material,i love your mindset dear. |
Romance › Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Spectre007: 4:45pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
OgaBuhari: lol OK ok ok all thru those countless moments we straffed, na pull out method oh. I never for once spilled in  u be Legend,i dey hail oo,pls try begin use protection make you no run out of luck one day. |
Romance › Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Spectre007: 10:40pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
OgaBuhari: contraceptives Ke? Raw oga. The risk was that I didn't carry her to the lap o know her hiv status and that was a huge risk u didn't get my point Oga,what i meant was... How were you able to avoid getting her pregnant while going raw with her all these years/months? |
Romance › Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Spectre007: 12:56pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
OgaBuhari: gosh my story bro. You really nailed it. Got entangled with a liability who had nothing to offer and had to deceive me up with sex and all in the name of trust, I lashed her raw without cd for nearly a year. Finally cast her out of my life after I realized she wasn't adding anything to my career. Now I lashed her without knowing her status  with pull out method or contraceptives? |
Romance › Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Spectre007: 12:49pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
Funjosh: Never say some words via chats or SMS. It's better to call or see the other person and talk f2f. it seems someone invaded her privacy and read your sms/chats on her phone... Maybe her parents,an ex,bad belle friends. Pls tell me more if you can,i would like to know more about what happened so that i can protect myself against any future occurrence incase should it cross my path. |
Romance › Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Spectre007: 5:07pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Lol, that's why you got to understand yourself. I don't have messaging apps for that reason because I know how I am. Things like that are a major trigger for me. They make me suspicious, jealous, angry etc. Basically, I become a lunatic  acrimony style  |
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Nairaland General › Re: What Weakness Do You Plan Overcoming In 2019? by Spectre007: 2:00pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
Chuxz311: my insatiable love for bumblebee action figures  wow cool!! |
Crime › Re: Angry Mob Beat Thieves Till They Look Like Identical Twins (Photos) by Spectre007: 7:10pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
They both look like musicians that are about to drop an album.  |
Romance › Re: Lady Dumped By Boyfriend On Christmas Eve, Rescued After Drinking Sniper by Spectre007: 8:42pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
davillian: My gf travelled out for masters 2yrs program came home with a child . That's enough reason for some idiots to take snipper. Aspa the kind person way I be I just opened my heart for some other person to come in. Ive learnt not to die for anyone who doesn't share same blood with me. Pussy come pussy go till death and to the Muslim brothers even after death. wow!!,you be legend oo,would really like to be mentally and emotionally strong like you man. |
Romance › Re: 20 Things Every Girl Wants But Will Never Ask You by Spectre007: 10:17am On Dec 23, 2018 |
jerkins247: "talk dirty to me"
gutter poto poto...rotten beans...spoil agbalumo
baje tomatoes hahahahahaha.. Your head no correct  |
Celebrities › Re: Timaya Reacts To Runtown's Ban From USA by Spectre007: 8:12pm On Dec 19, 2018 |
shongy: According to Johnson Adumike, the General Manager of his erstwhile record label, Eric Many Entertainment, Runtown and his brother's secured the US visa though the label but his brother's refused to come back, thus staying in the United States illegally on expired visa . . In his words, 'the P-3 visa (which allows an artist or entertainer, individually or as a group, to enter the U.S) that Eric Many got for Runtown and his brothers to enter the United States has expired and Runtown's brothers did not come back causing their visas to expire. . . Eric Many reported this incident to United States immigration, so when Runtown and his mother went to reapply for their visas, they found out that they have been banned from traveling to the US simply because America believes that both him and his mother may decide not to come back again just as his brothers'. its comments like this that makes me not to give up on nairaland yet,thanks for your detailed reply. |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Replies Lady Who Thinks She Is 'Overrated' by Spectre007: 8:17pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
Tamarapetty: Some fools would av involved the girls's MOTHER and unborn generation. Jim iyke  |
Car Talk › Re: Elon Musk Reveals What Will Happen If TESLA Gets Hacked ! by Spectre007: 12:30pm On Dec 15, 2018 |
icjunior: The movie upgrade also. that crazy moment when you mistakenly piss someone off and then the person reacts by saying "STEM takeover!!".   |
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Romance › Re: Mention One Thing You Will Never Do Again by Spectre007: 12:24pm On Dec 01, 2018 |
Biglittlelois: Friends with benefits  u ended up catching feelings,right? |
Romance › Re: Please, Is There Any Difference Between F**king And Love Making?? by Spectre007: 6:06pm On Nov 29, 2018 |
seniormallam: To F**CK u need alomo, monkey tail, ponkiriyo, opa eyin then one wrap of Igbo, no romance, the only thing you will hear is OYA OPEN at d end d girl might end up with bruise, tear or faint, because until d guy damage something he will not believed he has performed.
Love making - take bath , plenty romance , milk & malt ready for sipping not necessarily had to last 30min self, but the satisfaction that comes with it no be here o Lwkm  |
Celebrities › Re: Lola Omotayo Okoye Reveals How She Handles Negativity by Spectre007: 4:24pm On Nov 27, 2018 |
HunWI: Marrying a Yoruba is like inviting spies in your household. Yorubas remains saboteurs right from birth. In my office its horrible always poke nosing looking for who to tarnish their image to gain favour Exactly,thats their signature...most of them tho. |
Romance › Re: She Is My Friend, She Flirts Big Time With Me But Has A Secret Relationship by Spectre007: 10:09am On Nov 27, 2018 |
She is toying with you indeed,for the meantime... Give her space.. Act like she doesn't exist.
Do what makes you feel happy on a daily basis or probably use another girl to make her jealous.
From your post... It seems u haven't had s*x or wanked in a while,lolz. |