₦airaland Forum

COOL10:
My main reason why DNA testing must be made mandatory at birth. Nigerian women are not number one in the world when it comes to paternity fraud for nothing. This high rate of male suicide must stop

There is no paternity fraud in this.
The woman outrighly told him the truth early enough.
She didn't fool him to accept the child.

What she did is what men also do when their wives are barren.
No big deal

Not a biggie.

Same way men secretly impregnate women outside to have children, if their wives are barren.

For me, pregnancy before marriage sure pass.
Make we both test ourselves and be sure.
A marriage without children.. Is no marriage.

danowena:
Nice write-up. Just a few comments having dated military ladies in the past.
1. Forget the uniform, treat them the way you will treat a normal lady (with respect)
2. Present a good appearance in dressing and communication.
3.Praise their efforts of women in military. Identify their challengea and think of solutions.
4.Demonstrate that you can meet and cater for their needs both financially, emotionally and sexually. They are just women in uniforms and sometimes are lonlier than their civilian counter parts. They have needs like every other woman just the way they bleed monthly lkke every other woman.
5. Respect their schedules and align your dates to their convenience.Let them be the ones to invite you to their barracks or homes. If you are good enough, they will want to show you off.

The military ladies you dated in the past, how many did you marry?

Rule number 1: NEVER EVER GO BACK TO AN EX LOVER.
ONCE THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER ,MOVE ON.IT IS OVER.
An Ex can NEVER and Shouldn't be a friend.
Either you never knew him(if the relationship ended on mutual grounds amicably) OR he is an enemy(If he broke your heart).

Men easily get back with their exes, just for the sex..you know sex is a trophy for them.something to use and boast..bragging rights.

In your case,I think it should be easy for you to move on.He hasn't slept with you.so what's your loss? To me,he is a good guy..just told you the truth straight up.
Forget about him.
You will not die.It may seem so hard at first but you will definitely be alright.

Adaego5:
Help! I Am In A Serious Dilemma!!

Please what does it mean when a man tells his woman that he is not connected to her?

I was in courtship with this guy late 2017, we were working towards getting married. we broke up sometime in 2018. Since then, it's been difficult for me to love again. I really loved him and could go extreme for him.

He has tried going into other relationships same as me but non worked. So we decided to give us a shot once more, I was happy and felt whole again.....

He is very principled. Now he is saying that he doesn't feel that connection between us. He said I am everything, intelligent, smart, beautiful, hardworking, a graduate, Godfearing with good home upbringing, from a god background, tall infact taller than every girl he has come across but he just doesn't feel that connection between us. When it comes to qualities, I am better than every girl he has met. He went ahead to tell me of a girl who he felt that connection with but she broke his heart. I am shattered and devastated once more.

Its easy to say move on, but easier said than done. It took me months to move on, i was only able to by trying to hate him. One of the reasons why I really loved him was because he never tried taking advantage of me as I am a virgin.

He never for one day talked me into it unlike some other guys I have met.I have been so good to him, he confessed that no girl has loved and treated him like I did. I have been trying to understand this whole connection thing.... Where am I going wrong. I am not a boring person, there is no boring moment with me. Most guys I have met always tell me that I am priceless and some keep coming back but I find it hard to like them.
I only keep remembering the beautiful memories we shared.
I am so devastated..... I really wanted us to work things out ..

A

Zombiekiller010:
When will she Celebrate her wedding anniversary

When will you have sense?

gypsey:
yes, it is for starters, it goes up to £80k over the years. or more with experiences.

I can't wait to complete my relocation outta Nigeria.. Never to return

abbeyty:
£30000 a year for a doctor?

Small money.. Just okay for a start.
With other remuneration, it's just fantastic

One man's meat
.another man's poison.

But I think the man is lying

zoba88:
While our elected looters seek medical attention for headaches abroad while the masses not only drum up support for them but go ahead to blackmail, insult and threaten those who call out their excesses,a doctor in a rural village is forced to improvise.

This is Dr Chibuike Joseph Chukwudu using a bathroom slipper to make a cervical collar for an accident victim at risk of a full paralysis who nearly choked to death.

Doc all I know is that the reward for your hard work can never be repaid fully even in the next 100 years.Nigerians are proud of you


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/04/nigerian-doctor-uses-slippers-as-neck.html

He thinks this act is heronic..
But it is extremely risky.
If this patient dies and relatives decide to sue him.
MDCN will find him guilty and defend it.
They will deal with him
He will regret the day he was born.

He should have referred the patient or document the absence and inability to get a cervical collar.

See, this is Nigeria.
Ungrateful patients and their relatives.
Poor governance.
Malicious Medical council body.

I will not go out of my way for any patient.
If what I need to work with is not available, I will document and leave.
That covers me.

Improvising a slippers for cervical collar in a hospital is totally unprofessional.
Doctor could have done it with good intentions but when the chips are down.. Tables will turn.

Lol.. Guys can pester ladies as long as they never chop kpekus.
After that, story changes.
Ladies will be the one pestering them.

The lady is right for ignoring him.what does he want I'd not pvssy.
The only part I don't subscribe to is her posting it to brag
It's unnecessary

Biafra robbing Biafra

drlaykay:
Lazy students. This can't happen in medical school

True.. Nothing like Easter Holiday In medical school.
If you are lucky not to be on call, you will glue your a. S. S to read during that period and resume lectures immediately.
I remember writing test on Tuesday, after Easter Monday.
Medical school is indeed different

The woman is lucky.
The man decided to marry her after all.

Many men would have dumped her for a much younger woman,tagging her evening newspaper.

Good woman.
Good man.
Congratulations to them

When they display their pictures on social media, you think its all so rosey.

Reality...The more they display their lovey dovey pictures on line, the more Somebody is suffering ,usually the woman

Starting by 7pm.



Stake high.

FC chiasso Vs FC Lausanne Sport

Correct score : 2-1

Odds: 11+

Thank me later

matify83:
Where is the wife that prayed and fasted for your success?

She isn't good enough now.
Money and power has come.. His taste has changed.

That's what men do.

it's better they both died together.

Nobody left anybody behind to languish in pain and heart break.

Their love must have been very deep.
They will marry at the other side

May their souls rest in peace

TooNoisy:
This girl is way too young for what she is getting herself into. Where are her parents? I will really love to hear their views.

Shattap.. Jealousy.
How old were you when you started having sex?
What did you gain from it?
She is 18

Jamesonbrown:
You still have millions bro

bet you think only guys can have millions in their bank account.

She is a woman though

dominique:
Her post is against feminists, read and comprehend

Ignore him, English is hard.
Besides, attempts at finding fault and blaming the lady makes him blind

I have known Marshal and Gloria for a while.

When I saw his post on facebook this last night, I suspected the lady cancelled the wedding due to infidelity... Involving her close family relative or a close friend.

He is playing smart by trying to paint the lady black with his long epistle.

Trust Nigerians, it's always a lady's fault without finding out what happened, what went wrong.


The real question remains what did Marshal do that made Gloria take such decision?

Answer : He was also involved with her younger sister.
She suspected he was cheating on her but couldn't quite place it.. Until she decided to find out who the other lady was.. Lo and behold, it was her kid sister.


Going through Marshal's facebook timeline, it's easy to see how he was fond of displaying and showcasing Gloria, always writing epistle of love about her.
No one would think he could even look at another woman, how much more her sister... In a time they were preparing for their wedding.

But it's the nature of men.
Men can never be satisfied.

Marshal, however, dishonoured Gloria. He should have at least, gone for another woman... Not her own blood.

Marshal should come clean and tell the world what he did.

Gloria has made a good decision.
All those blasting her on social media don't matter.
Good luck to both of them.

Ralphjoe:
I recently got a job at a company and there is this girl, that is my colleague in the sales department, we've been close friends ever since I joined the company to the extent that even her best friend there is jealous of our friendship.

The crux of the matter is that am beginning to have a crush on her and it's eating me up, am kind of afraid to let her know of it because I think it will affect our friendship.

What do you guys think I should do here, should I go ahead and let her know about my feelings for her or should I just keep it to myself. I want a matured and reasonable advice. thanks guys.

You sound like the type that sleeps with ladies at work place.

You are crushing on her now, after succeeding in fvcking her, the crush will be crushed.

Better face your work and take your lust elsewhere.

Say No to office place romance

If this were to be today, Nairalanders would have said his wife is evening newspaper.
Lol. This site has spoilt me

Watford 2 Vs Arsenal 1

Correct Score.

luckygeee:
sent her a message on facebook messenger, she read but didnt reply. 4 years later was going through my messenger and saw this message i sent to this cite girl and decided to engage her in a chat but this time more maturely, viola!!! a year and 4 months later we are tying the knots on the altar of bliss.

4 years after, no serious guy.
After they don chop her finish, she finally decided to give you a chance...
She surely looks older than you.
Wonder how she will look after child birth.

The babe don hammer. It's not easy to be old and still get married to a young guy

Congrats to her.

Charelsz:
The bride looks like evening newspaper

But she don marry.
While many morning newspapers are side chics and slay girls

I thought they said 7 women fighting over 1 man.

So men can fight over a woman..
Shameless men

Calm down and use him very well.
Keep pretending you haven't found out he is married.
Milk him dry to the last bone.

When you are satisfied, strike him with madness for lying to you in the first place

And move on.

Who helped me when I was struggling?
Now, I am able to survive and people expect me to help others...

Let God be kind enough to enrich the whole world.
I will not bear the burden of other people.
Thank you.. Your view doesn't apply to me

Blisplendor12:
I'm sure you're getting younger everyday,

A man's age doesn't matter.

Men don't grow old.

Men have all the time...

And can marry the woman of their choice whenever they are ready .



Unlike women

Blisplendor12:
I'm sure you're getting younger everyday,

A man's age doesn't matter.