₦airaland Forum

obembet:
Almost 95% of married men are into this nonsense. To marry they scare me self

Its actually 99.9%.

The difference is the extent to which they take it to

Pocchettino will be a relieved man now.

Nothing Special about Mourinho anymore.


Man Utd will beat Tottenham again on Sunday.

Ighalo to score.
Stake your kidneys

ValCon888:
If only you spent your 21st birthday jejely at home, all this shìt won't have befallen you.
Now you're a baby mama to an irresponsible man and a dropout. I'm not bashing you. Just pointing out the facts.
The least you can do right now is to be upfront with your fam. Tell them about your child and the fact you've not been going to school.

Your child is a blessing and you're a young girl. I'm confident you can get your life back together.

She could have still spent her birthday out partying and get home in one piece.

A lady must not give out contacts and befriend every handsome man she meets.

What concerns a 21 year old woman with a man with so much baggage?

One of the many disadvantages of living and working in Lagos.

5am ..when sleep dey sweet.
Person dey rush to commot for house


He must have thought he was pushing his wife(as usual).
Many Nigerian men get physical with women(partners) and feel justified.. A way of discipline.

Prayer doesn't do(change) anything.

What will be ,will be.

bigiyaro:
una for go hospital nah! RIP to the dead.

You don't know Nigerians.
Native Medicine and Spiritual homes first..before hospital

proclinician:
Are u saying it's too small and should be like 100%?

Its actually 100%.

All married men are unfaithful,at one point in time

Alanzazani:
A friend of my shared his story with me.

He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant.

The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10-week-old pregnancy.

He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly advised him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please

Typical of married people.

They hate any and every form of contraception.

Prefer to have abortions when pregnant and not ready for it.

Then they come online and start condemning abortions,pointing fingers to single ladies as the chief culprits of abortion.

Lies.

Married women in Nigeria have more abortions than their single counterparts

SultanOfAbia:
Baby Mama Association of Nigeria(BMAN)
In Conjunction with Angry Yoruba Women Association (AYWA)
Cordially Invites You To Join Us Protest
Theme: "Chioma Must Go 2020"

Guest Speaker: Kemi Omoluyuo

Hahahahahahaha.

Will you make heaven laik dis?

Everybody seems to be carried by the OOIN comedy.

Even Tonto

spiceadole:
Chelsea Vs Bayern Munich.

Possible Outcomes

1..B/Munich win or draw
2.B/Munich Win
3.B/Munich goals 2-3
4.Over 2.5 Goals
5.Over 8.5 Corners
6.B/Munich Win & over 1.5
7.B/Munich Win/Draw & over 1.5
8.B/Munich Win Or Both Teams To Score
9.B/Munich Wins Either Half
10.First to score: B/Munich

Stake your testis.

Thank me Later.

9/10...Correct.

Not Bad

Number 5 ended with Over 7.5 corners.

Napoli Vs Barcelona

Possible Outcomes

1.Barca win or draw
2.Barca Win
3.Napoli to score 1-3 goals
4.Barca to score 2-3 goals
5.Messi to score : NO
6.Over 2.5 goals
7.Over 10.5 corners
8.Both teams to score

Stake your "gala".

Thank me later

Chelsea Vs Bayern Munich.

Possible Outcomes

1..B/Munich win or draw
2.B/Munich Win
3.B/Munich goals 2-3
4.Over 2.5 Goals
5.Over 8.5 Corners
6.B/Munich Win & over 1.5
7.B/Munich Win/Draw & over 1.5
8.B/Munich Win Or Both Teams To Score
9.B/Munich Wins Either Half
10.First to score: B/Munich

Stake your testis.

Thank me Later.

YelloweWest:
I lost my brother and I almost died not to talk of losing a husband and child the same day. A burden too heavy to bear but this too shall pass.

Kobe went to church that Sunday morning before his death and had Holy communion, I believe he is in heaven

Its not by that.

Do you know his hidden sins?

Mum --100K
Dad --Zero naira

Eye Service.
Crocodile tears

WilliamsTheGrea:
Hello everyone, my name is Williams, I'm a young guy of 26 years old currently engaged to a very pretty young lady who is 24 years old

I do business online and earn good income before I decided to find a lady and settle down with and luckily I found a good one who is decent and don't flirt around or do social media's like whatsapp or Facebook. Hardly receives calls, not friendly with males lol (I managed to woo her through a church member)

We have been 1 year into the relationship now and we are to get married next month but guys the problem I am having now is that she has a child for another man which is her ex she was with when she was young she gave birth at age 20, we dated for about 7 months before she told me this.

Ever since then I haven't really been myself, the child is a male child who lives with her mother but recently the mother called her to come carry the child as she can no longer look after him due to him being a very stubborn boy, the child is 4 years old.

Now she has gone to bring the child to our home, a two bedroom apartment, I'm a kind of guy who loves peaceful environment with no single drop of noise, now ever since the child came in about a week now, I have not had peace, we have quarreled several times because of the child, I'm not really comfortable with the child because I can't love another man's child as my own

My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.

Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.

Now today is the child's birthday and she is asking me for money to get him cake and take him out.


My people of nairaland I cannot accept another man's child no matter what I love the mother but not the child the connection is just now there because the boy isn't of my character I'm a calm man, very calm but the boy is very radical and stubborn children irritate me so much.

I don't know what to do.

Each time this child topic comes up between I and my girlfriend she becomes bitter.

She says she will never take the child to the father or the family of the father that she must raise the child herself.

I don't think I can help train anothrr man child whom in the end will go and find his father after he is all grown.

Please I need advice, she says over her death body will she return the child to the father

I'm not comfortable in my own home.

A lot of things running through my mind like to break up with her for peace to reign

Or rent another apartment for her and the boy to go live in.

Please I need matured advice

What's the issue here?
Break up with the lady and find another.

I am a woman..and I vowed I can NEVER be involved with a man who has a child with another woman,dead or alive.

Once I know he is a baby daddy,end of relationship.
If the child appears after marriage,I can NEVER accept such child into my home.

Why is yours so difficult?
End the relationship...Let her go with her baggages . Its not a do or die affair

I have always wanted and loved my own space.

He has his own room.
I have my own room.

But we sleep in his room or mine...when its convenient.

I can't imagine being in the same room with my husband every time...
I will choke...
My space is essential for my peace.

And he cannot pay pensioners.
Useless governor

Ighalo will come on and score!

Up Man Utd

Live stream pls

Playboy3030:
Me; Stealing meat from the pot and I was chocktalize...

"Drop yours"

Watching porn on my phone

He should go and use his relatives(mother,wife, sister,brother or children) for ritual money.

After all,he is an Igbo man

Typical example of a good wife material.

She stood by him & supported him when he was caught red handed in sexual scandal with one of his Daily Manna Publication staff

iphi:
she's not like our Nigerian bosses, she has never showed any pride or ego since I started working under her

Okay Na.

Oyinbo puzy dey shack you.

By the time she calls you a pervert,you will understand

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

Being older than her doesn't matter.
The fact that she is your boss is what matters.

Keep your valentine to yourself...else risk losing your job.

Women and men are wired differently.
A male boss doesn't mind flirting or having a serious affair /outing with his female staff.
But female boss? Your position as her staff already makes you too small.


Mind your business oooo...
Else begin job hunting

Tovard:
We are inviting our friends on this forum to come and celebrate with us come April 18th 2020 in Kabba Kogi state

Congratulations.

But don't cheat on your wife oh.

Parade don change oh.Women are no longer smiling

Hot water bathe
Stabbing
Cutting of preeq
Slow poison.. Admist other methods
Be faithful ooh

taylor89:
Una too small and young to marry

But not too small & young to have premarital sex,abi?

Mstick:
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

Nigerians are big hypocrites waiting to ruin others lives meanwhile they do the same thing they warn you against in secret.


How will a reasonable person ask her to keep the baby for a man that has shown he doesn’t want it?

See some of them already accusing her of trying to tie him down with pregnancy.


Even on nairaland see the hurtful things being said about single mothers. I would gladly pay for OP’s abortion.

It’s not worth it. So many women shouldering responsibility of kids they made with runaway men without any help or respect from this disgusting society of ours.

And I would glady terminate the pregnancy for her..free of charge.

nijabazaar:
It is merely a foetus. Not born yet.

If my parents had aborted me. There are still chances that they could have other children. Procreating Offsprings are not predestined but rather a natural process like the very act of respiration.

If this lady is not financially capable what is the point of having that child? What is the point of raising an offspringthat u can not nurture to its full potential? Wishful aspirations can get us only an inch.

Oil dey your head.
Well scripted.

The way Nigerians are anti abortion on social media...If I wasn't a doctor and practised in Nigeria,I would not have believed almost 90% of women including the married ones have had at least 1 abortion.

They are not anti unprotected premarital & extramarital sex...Its abortion ,that everybody begins to preach against.

Funny!

This lady will be a very big fool to keep that pregnancy.
The same people,especially men,advising her against abortion..will be the same calling her derogatory names for having a child out of wedlock.

I'm glad I left Nigeria.
Our hypocrisy is sickening

martyns303:
Better a 30yr old single lady, than a 30yr old single mother.

30 years old single lady
Single mother

Double tragedy in Nigeria.

sassysure:
Abortion done by professional is 100% safe.

The people who do abortion most in Nigeria everyday are married women not single ladies.

You know it all.

Married women are top of the abortion list in Nigeria.
They don't accept contraceptives.... Rather get pregnant and terminate it