₦airaland Forum

kondogbia:
So those of us wey want buy car before the end of the year, which one we go buy

Buy Any Toyota or Honda Product

mu2sa2:
Unfortunately most naija people hardly do any research before buying used cars. A person would just tell a car dealer to get him a "neat, grade 1 tokumbo direct", without bothering to do even simple Vin check on the car. Even on YouTube you will see car gurus like scotty Kilmer giving useful car tips, but naija people wont give a damn. I know a man who bought Nissan Murano jeep and never enjoyed that car at all. I dont know the millions he wasted on the damn thing, but he wouldn't have bought it in the first place if he had done a little research. From the agony the man went through, I almost concluded that Nissan Murano must be among the worst cars ever made. Later I got to know that the issue with nissan murano had to do with the problematic CVT transmission. Infact because of the issue with the transmission nissan discontinued murano model, but people were ignorantly buying its tokumbo here as graded.

Nissan Murano is the worst of them all.
The tokunbo is very cheap in Nigeria

Ijaycool:
Hmmm so no one marry because of free sex

Sex is free,without marriage.
How can a man marry for free sex?
Marriage that he will spend money when he he can get sex with little or nothing

alezzy13:
Many of claiming the man is not the father are blissfully ignorant of the kind demonic anger some fathers are capable of.

I've seen some fathers who, once they start beating won't stop , can't stop, until they see blood. Usually the child end in the hospital.

And not just the children, even the wife. . .

Don't mind them..as if they don't know.
My father would not stop beating me until I bleed.
On many occasions,I was rushed to hospital.
My father was a very wicked man and God will continue to punish him.

Nigerian fathers and their method of discipline.
I remain grateful to God that my wicked father did not beat me to death.

Una dey condemn openly.
Yet fill up their DMs with "Hello Baby,Fine geh,Pretty..,I love your waist,your bumbum bigger than Bombay,etc"

The lady will explore and explore.at the end ,she will marry the highest bidder and live an affluent life due to her "immoral" display on IG.
Whereas the decent gehs,we know their stories.

internationalman:
Because she has always put me first before any other thing since when I was in her stomach...

You were not in her stomach.
You were in her uterus..called "Womb" in lay man's language

Time and Chance Changes Everything

The Pastor of the church may be the rapist.
Nothing these crafty funny greedy scammers can't do

Slim body..
Smallish stature
Plus money...

At 48,AY looks younger than many men in their 30s

Happy Birthday Man

The picture reminds me of my back as a child,up to teenagehood when I had opportunity of leaving home.
My father was a terror.
He would strip me and my siblings ,then beat us to unconsciousness..
If our mother attempts to intercede, he would beat her too.
He called it discipline..
Thank God we are free today.
Affliction will not arise again.

obi3x:
There u go...many thanks....do me a favour,go to the nearest bar around u,request as many bottles as u want,maybe some plates of pepper soup too...tell dem say na me go pay....no worries...I'm on my way

Welcome.
Thanks for the offer.
But a responsible LADY doesn't go to bar to drink alcohol

See packaging for pictures.
One would hardly believe he could do menial jobs at construction site.
Ehya..Unfortunate guy
RIP to him

obi3x:
I've heard this before...would appreciate if u remind me...think it has to do with football bet....many thanks again in adv

Akin Alabi is the owner of nairabet...A pioneer online betting site in Nigeria.
Thus,Betting site CEOs are generally called "Alabi".
So when bets are lost,it is said that Alabi has won.
Guess you understand

Alabi won again.
If you know,you know

Ronaldo24682:
lol the one funny thing about people is trying to look for that loophole. The lady was someone I knew before and didn’t you see the thread on the guy that the girlfriend of three years infected. Is that a fling too. I didn’t create the thread to be insulted, just learn bro. Ciao

The problem is people go into relationships and start having sex without knowing their status,or even going for regular testing in the course of the relationship.
Knowing your sex partner is not about how long you have been together

Dudeweedlmao:
You pulled out immediately you noticed your condom tore and still got HIV? Is your dick filled with open sore or what?

Don't mind him.
Dude was most likely infected before then..

hisexcellency34:
Very unfortunate. No amount of justice can bring him back to life. But what's he doing with a mother of two kids? Its like he was also chained to the bed??

What else would he doing than kpanshing her for papers sake?

miss00000:
We met in school during my pre-degree and dated for 7 years before he proposed to me. Before the proposal, both our parents had been pestering us to get married and start having children.

We started trying 6months prior, and 6 months after proposing I got pregnant. Few months later we did our introduction and got married (registry) march this year.

About two years ago, he met a lady where he was supplying his goods. According to him, the lady has been doing everything in her power to push his business. Every time I suspect there was more to their friendship, he always assured me there was nothing, that she's just a friend. sometimes he would even travel with her to Abuja to sell his goods which I had to allow since it was helping his business.

8 months into my pregnancy I noticed a drastic change like coming home very late, he hardly eats at home, he barely talks to memos he's always on his phone. I knew something was wrong and every time I talk to him, he always assured me that everything was fine.

After the delivery and naming of my baby I expected things to go back to the way it was, but it became worse. he changes his phone password almost everyday and still hides his phones from me.

One day I cried and begged him to tell me what was going on, after hours of begging, the first question he asked me was "where was it written in the bible that marriage has to be between one man and one woman and not with different women", "why can't a man marry two or more wives if he has the resources to take care of them equally"(the lady is a muslim btw).

He confessed that he has been dating this lady for over two years and has no plan of leaving her, and theres a possibility he's going to marry her. I'm just 26yo with a one month old baby, I didn't sign up for this.

While growing up, my mum has always warned us against polygamy. although he's promised to be there for me and still wants our marriage to continue, but the thought of my husband being with someone else is killing me. I've tried to reason with him several times but I end up hurting even more. I've been praying but still no change. He's been trying to compensate with gifts and money but thats not what I want. he doesn't want me to tell anyone and I feel reporting him to his family will even worsen the case. We've always settled our issues ourselves without involving anyone. I've tried everything I can just to take my mind off it. I need someone to talk to, prolly a friend or a counsellor. I've been crying for days now, I've not been eating well and I have to breastfeed my child. I never knew my life would be this complicated. I don't know why he got married to me if he already had this in mind. I hate my life right now.

Pretend all is well.
That you have accepted his decision.
Draw him closer to you. Then strike!.

Find a way and feed him Slow Poison.
Do it intelligently.
Eradicate him and have your peace .
Good luck

The black skin is a curse.
Even black skinned people in Africa are bleaching.
Everybody wanna be light skinned.
Men wanna date/marry light skinned women.


Black skin is usually associated with hardship, poverty,hard times,stress,suffering,ugly.

When someone says "You don black o", He /She is just telling you" You are suffering,things are tough with you,you don't look good,etc".

Then when you start bleaching and you start becoming light skinned,the compliments start flooding in
"You are glowing"
"You look good".
" E don better for you oh",etc.


#Reality

midolian:
I just feel... REGARDLESS, there are some things in life you don't use to mock others...e.g poverty, lack of children, deformity in children, etc

SS is not a deformity.
It is as a result of stupidity and ignorance of the parents

khatea:
Reminds me of a nollywood movie I saw recently public property

Nollywood movies are eye openers..especially Yoruba movies.
Wonder why many Nigerians completely write them off

Yes,there are .

But very few..like 1 in 100.
Your friend needs to do a lot of background checks.
A 35 year old comfortable(even the struggling ones too,their women tend to fend for themselves) Yoruba man may have 3 wives..
1 in Lagos
1 in Akure
1 in Ibadan
And many concubines littered all over the country.

Yet be in Port Harcourt,Owerri,Abuja and be forming single man looking for wife.

You think they called "Yoloba demon" for nothing?
Naaah!

hahn:
I dey tell you. Basically they just created a shopping list for single ladies looking for guys who they perceive will be financially capable to take care of them.

And the men won't have to bother anymore. Men will be like "yes, my name is on the list. I am only here to fvck you"

Better ..so that those who want married men strictly for money and sex can get them.
And not married men deceiving ladies looking for serious relationships

The guy only misses the kpanshing.
I won't be surprised Juliet Ibrahim will interpret it as sincere repentance and reunite with him.
Women no get sense

emeijeh:
Her family did not do well by telling her to remain in an abusive marriage.

But that's the standard.
Which family in Nigeria will ask their daughter to leave her marriage especially Igbos.
She will remain there...Until she dies.
Its better being killed in a marriage and dying as a Mrs than being a divorcee oooh

Clean look.
Why selling so cheap?
What's the fault(s)?

Hot18:
Pls advise everyone.

When you are dating a guy and his mother hates you and asks him to end the relationship but he is still with you and insists on continuing with the relationship.

What do u do pls. I need ur contributions.

Thank u.

CC Seun

CC Mynd44

CC Lalasticlala

Save yourself future problems and end that relationship ASAP.
Sooner or later, the same guy insisting on continuing the relationship will dump you.
He will definitely listen to his mother

This one has sacrificed his young family for power and wealth.
Next,he will become extremely rich and remarry.
Tueh!

Shadbay:
I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.

Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup.
I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.

I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.

I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.

The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.

I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.

I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.

I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.


Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".

I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you.

You date a girl for 7 years..Not ready to marry her.yet you don't expect her to move on.
You are more wicked than Satan.

Your problem is poverty.
Make money and you won't be crying over one woman.
After all,guys always boast about having numerous women and changing them like boxers.

Congrats to the girl.
She made a wise decision... after all if she continues wasting her youthfulness waiting for you,its the same you who will turn round to label her evening newspaper and dump her for a younger girl.


Women need to wise up like this..when a relationship isn't getting to the altar, move on.
No time!

Boyfriend is different from husband