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I will use myself as an example.
I took the UME exam 4 times, spent 7 years in medical school.

Right now, I am a resident doctor in one of the federal teaching hospitals.

I will say the many years I spent to bag a first degree is worth it.
In Nigeria of today, one can't get decent jobs without "connection".

As a houseofficer(my first job after graduation), I earned close to 200K.

Next was NYSC, I earned from 2 sources.. A total of 120K

Now, my take home is roughly 300K.

And I am just a junior doctor.

In a country plagued by unemployment and corruption, I am an edge above others... I know.

How many young Nigerians are earning 300K?
Many of my colleagues in secondary school who graduated a long time ago are either jobless, working outside their course of study and earning very meagre income.


I studied medicine for the passion... Not for people to bow to me.. Guess what, many people still do.
They hear.. Medical doctor.. And they are like wow. Lol.

Being a doctor has put enough food on my table, given me shelter.. And yes.. That Toyota Corolla.
Let me start with that.
It will get better.
4 years as a medical doctor... Just 4 years.. It's being fantastic.

doctormmusa:
what's the probability of someone to engage in nysc after gotten admission to study medicine and surgery at the age of 23 by July

It's almost impossible.
You cannot spend exactly 6 years in medical school.
Some months or even years may be added.
Wetin doctor dey find for NYSC?
those eligible to go for service are running away.. Making money via PP.

Just concentrate on your studies and graduate.
During your housemanship, begin taking foreign exams to leave the country.
Good luck

sikowitz17:
I went for the short service screening... Ordinary hign blood pressure , you'd be sent home...they tested everything... I was sent home cos they diagnosed me with cardiomegaly...and I tested in 3 other hospitals outside and I didn't have it..they take their medicals pretty seriously.. Somebody from my state was sent home cos he had flat foot...you can never make it in I you have HIV

High blood pressure is not ordinary in any case...
You cannot undergo military training with high blood pressure.

Ninethmare:
Please is there restriction for HIV positive person joining the military or para military in Nigeria?

Cause I very sure those with HIV will want to know

Please your contribution is needed.

Thanks

No. They are not allowed to.
Military training is "Bloody"
Exposes others to risk of contracting infections .

However, lots of military personnels are HIV positive.

This is coming from a medical doctor who worked as a civilian staff in a military training base, Airforce precisely

People who commit suicide don't deserve coffin.
They should be buried unclad wrapped in nylon Or paper in the evil forest.

Suicide is a taboo in African culture.
It is alien to us.
Why are we entertaining it?

LearnITsmash:
Those ladies are all dingbats who deserve to be burnt alive for telling your sister that illiterate crap

Hehehehehehehe..
But Nigerian men love fat ladies in real life and slim ones on social media.

Just like they love independent ladies on social media and prefer the leeches who depend on them for the very air they breathe in real life.

Even her husband has raised concerns, that she should become fat...

LearnITsmash:
Why are Nigerian women always fat after marriage lazy bunch

1. Status change.. No need to watch weight. Who she wan do fine geh for?

2. Pregnancy hormones and child bearing... Cause weight gain

3.Hormonal contraceptives cause weight gain.

4 Above all, the African society sees being on the fat side a sign of affluence and prosperity.

People expect you to be fat when things are well with you.

My cousin, after 3 kids... Is still slim and well packaged.. She is 41 but can pass for 32 -35
We attended a function and an old woman told her she doesn't look married... She looks likes a hungry lady desperately looking for a husband .

That she should try and get fat before people will think her husband is not taking care of her.

Many times, people make comments about her.. Because she has not become fat as is expected afte marriage and child bearing

adekhingz:
He will NOT drink Sniper. Please watch what you say oooooooooo

He is Stuuuupid..
Stuuuupid people drink sniper

stanliwise:
I smell transfer of aggression here.

Smell whatever you like...

Your nose!

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

I think say una be supermen.
Break up don't pain you guys


As women are too numerous,desperate and cheap.

Oya, drink sniper.
Nonsense and ingredients

AnalQueenluci:
Every1 who knws me ar afraid except u 2 ..
By d time i arrange 2 hardened gaymen to fxxk u ,ur tears will make me laff aloud ,since u dont respect women

Just imagine what a so called military woman is threatening to do.
You are disgrace to the Army.. Honestly, your training and education at all levels is a waste.
I feel sorry for your parents too.
You are lost.

Stuuuupid Indian hemp smoking, numerous dicccks fvcking pusssssssy

AnalQueenluci:
Livecamp09 and Spiceadole u av d effontry ,the nerve and the tenacity to gang up against me ,

...dis might be a faceless forum but i wl use u 2 as a scape goat , i will trace u in a week and i will drill you in my favorite torture waterloo ie locking u 2 up in a watersilo for days ,u eat drink and shit in there ... Pray ur guardian angels saves u from my hand..

U really crossed d line __
I will tell you am nt ordinary major in d cam-amba army

This useless lady is really shameless.

With a behavior like this, you expect reasonable men to take military women serious.
Just imagine the way you are blowing up online, threatening fire and brimstone. Lol..

Calm down, you can't do anything.
Even if it were to be on facebook.
You are just a noise maker.
You don't even know who the next person is.
Military pass military.
You are worse than a motor park tout.
Spitsssss

Livecamp09:
They are slutty, brainless and power drunk, their superior always use them for sex specimen cos they have no better life and they are nothing but a sex object.. imagine that idiot saying she can track everyone down as if Na her papa be world monitoring tracker �... imagine that tadpole soldier insulting all her ancestors here ...

Exactly...
I worked as a civilian staff in a military recruitment school, Airforce to be precise.
You won't believe that the personnels were having sex with female recruits despite their "unclean" and stressful condition .And most don't even use condoms.
Very appalling.

Military job is not for responsible women.
Imagine this cockroach soldier making unnecessary noise on a faceless forum.
This one has been fvcked and fvcked by her superiors.
Senseless shameless lady
Mtcheeeew

Livecamp09:
You are rude and arrogant..

Don't mind her..
Rudeness and arrogance is military lifestyle..
Worse in their women.
Very dirty and uncouth people.

Responsible women do not join the military.
Responsible, even irresponsible men do not marry military women

Lucky girl.


Unlike those judging and condemning her.
In relationships with broke uncaring men.
When the men manage to become comfortable, they dump them and move on with new ladies.
Congratulations Regina..for choosing the highest bidder for your pvssi,not some riffraff boy that will fvck it, make it loose then come to social media to insult you.

Enjoy it while it lasts

AnalQueenluci:
i just want a crazy monikker dats all , i might not like luciana2 or queenlucy ...i just want sometin crazy ,an ironical monikker

Apologise to me ,n dont judge me next time
because i can fish u out

Lo.. See this rascal.
You are already threatening me..
In a faceless forum.
Honestly, military women are touts.
Reason why military men don't even marry them.
They only use them for sexcapades
Apologize my foot.
Spitsssss

AnalQueenluci:
i just want a crazy monikker dats all , i might not like luciana2 or queenlucy ...i just want sometin crazy ,an ironical monikker

Apologise to me ,n dont judge me next time
because i can fish u out

Lo.. See this rascal.
You are already threatening me..
In a faceless forum.
Honestly, military women are touts.
Reason why military men don't even marry them.
They only use them for sexcapades
Spitsssss

chineloSA:
Just so sad. Troubles follow this man.

May he find peace and comfort in these trying times.

Lol.. Chris has no problem.
once he is cleared from the case, he will move on to wife number 3.
Men no dey send

Foxie:
And you my friend is sick upstairs to come up with this!

Call me whatever but in reality,i may not be far from the truth

This is too much emotions displayed.

Let it be just that and not that he had any amorous relationship with his daughter.
Concerning how men are these days.
Won't be surprised if he was shining her kpekus.

It's women that cry during marriage.
Brides cry..
bride's mothers cry.
A crying groom is fake
A crying bride's father is not well upstairs

kikelomojessy:
Aww. So young and cute couple.

RIP abass.

I know death is inevitable but dating or marrying some1 that is always assign to the war front is a no no for me.

Anytime they ask for a date (God pls forgive me) I always look at them like dead man walking (you want to bring joy into my life then you will just go and die and leave me helpless). I know how many people close to me that have lost their lives in the B.H war. The ones that pained me the most is the ones that just got married and have no kids yet.

God knows best.

How do you even give a military man the opportunity to talk to you?
Those people are walking corpses.
Only very fooooolish women agree to marry them.

Military men have very high record of promiscousity and deadly sexually transmitted diseases.
They use intimidation to molest, harass and rape ladies.

Military lifestyle is so dirty and unstable.
They live like animals in their barracks/base/ships.
Today, they are in Sokoto, tomorrow Maiduguri.. Next tomorrow, Lagos.. Etc
They keep tossing them upandan.

Then sent to war front, poorly armed to be killed.

Pls don't give any useless military man chance to talk nonsense with you.
They are not human beings

No Jobs... Thousands of young men are joining the military

No husbands... So Women still marrying military men.

AnalQueenluci:
Camerounian military is far more better than terrorist inspired nigerian military ,i av degree nt just any dirty soldier

There is no difference. Military is military
Even your moniker here depicts an irresponsible lady.
You have no point to prove.
Give up!

franchasng:
My brother, I love my life so much that the fear of HIV and STDs have made me to remain chaste like a monk for many years now, the highest sin I commit is touching myself when tension is high lol, which to me is safer than sleeping with ladies oh whether with condom or without.

Sex is dangerous, I dread it eh

Well.. I am a lady.. Sister.. Not brother

From every 1 lady who met her husband on facebook and other social media platforms, there are hundreds who met their Waterloo same way.

Same applies to men.

Facebook and internet stuff ain't serious.

Some ladies are so daft.the mention of marriage, they loose guard.
All the bleeping they did, did they use protection?
People don't even fear HIV/AIDS again.

A man wrote an article to praise men.. And expected to trend?

Guy, you should have written an article to praise women..

Unlike poles attract

AnalQueenluci:
A lot of myths have been spread about women in the military (Absurd) while some ignorant men believe they have been made rigid through the rigorous trainings they go through ,A big LIE though

These are some main reasons you should date an army lady rather than shallow brain mamas : -

,Emotional

Women in the military have been trained to be brave and courageous .They are by profession fighters who have been toughened by various phases of trainings ,however ,the trainings they have gone through haven't shielded them from the traumas accompained by love.

They embrace motherhood easily,


While so many people share an unreal belief about military women been wrecks when it comes to marital bliss ,some of them are married and they embrace motherhood with a shocking interest .
NB: They put everything they have into use to ensure their children live normal lives...GREAT.

They are supportive

Most people believe military women are mean and therefore avoid them. They could be excellent friends when people get to know them more. Same way they could be tough and intimidating ,they could also be fierce when it comes to fighting for their friends and their loved ones ~ this is what all guys want!

Physical beauty and sexual favours : -

Army ladies always look sexy(figure with a firm and well Cupped breast due to yoga-like trainings (yummy).
Not every woman in the military sleeps around ,some are virgins unlike slayqueens we see at lekki or VI , know it that most military ladies have dignity and have been able to maintain healthy non- sexual relationships with their superiors

Long live Army ladies gang(A.L.G)

I worked as a civilian staff in the military. Airforce to be precise.

I came to the following conclusions.

1. A woman should not be in the military.

2.No responsible, decent woman joins the military.

I am a woman.. But I can never have any intimate relationship wit a military man.

Military people are sexually promiscuous,heartless and wicked

Even to "graduate" as a tailor no easy.

And that madt Man said doctors can be tailors.

COOL10:
My main reason why DNA testing must be made mandatory at birth. Nigerian women are not number one in the world when it comes to paternity fraud for nothing. This high rate of male suicide must stop

There is no paternity fraud in this.
The woman outrighly told him the truth early enough.
She didn't fool him to accept the child.

What she did is what men also do when their wives are barren.
No big deal