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TOPE2000!:
Gbam

Stop agreeing to what you dont really believe in. All these guys sef blowing hot and cold all the time.

Errr. . . . is that really blood?

the so called very experienced guys make poor lays. With the army of women they brag about, their performances are still usually shockingly bad or lack lustre.

Take it easy hun. she just wasnt for you. Better to have loved with all u have than to love half heartedly. You did everything right. Someday she'll realize what she lost.

She should have rounded it off to a cool billion.

You've been watching too many home videos with women potrayed in bad light.

I wear fake lashes. They have their uses. Flutter them, get your way

Girls tend to get really friendly towards valentine. Why would you fall for that?

I see your point. I totally get it.
Women are expected to forgive their men when they cheat. Society and the whole world expects you to forgive, forget and move ahead as one happy stronger family. Yeah right! Truth? Its hard to trust again. My take? Dont cheat only because he did. I tend to preach about financial independence so here we go. . Make sure your finances are in order and you can fend for you and your kids if anything happens. You know your man and if you still have doubts you know why. Next time you catch him call it a day. It was gracious to forgive the first time. Second time? No.
People alway sing and preach about the children. The children! The children. You dont have to endure infidelity and risk diseases or your sanity because you brought forth.

NEWSFLASH:

your dad is not going to stop cheating because you ask politely. At this point he's in his midlife crisis and thinking with his crotch.    My point?  Let the affair run its course and by the end he will learn the time old valuable lesson of not forsaking your family for some random girl. Dont they all?

Wasnt the thread about where is KOBO?  

Stop it you guys.

idstar:
Or is he having an affair? Has it crossed your mind? Poster? i mean, if the butterflies have deserted him too he could be tempted to chase new ones

I dont think its about a third wheel. We're talking missing butterflies.

Isnt Kobo a he?

Dont worry about Kobo.
He'll be back to roll on the floor and laugh his butt off.

Make time for each other. The kids will be just fine. Im known to drop the kid off with grandma or my sister quite often so I can have privacy to show lover boy what I can still do.

Everyday life can be overwhelming. Make time for just both of you. We also travel often. , alone, without the little one.