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Age is nothing but a number. Truth is that most times you really dont know a persons age till they tell you. Being with a younger man is sometimes a challenge but then again being with ANY man is equally a challenge.! They all think alike.
I didnt plan in my wildest dreams to marry a younger guy. I did and he's my everything.
Good men are few and far between (so are good women) so if you find a good younger man, dont waste any time.

I am merciless. No!

babaogun:
Am not trying to be controversial, but if it was less than 1million, don't you think there would be more than 1,000 naija guys that can afford to propose comfortably to their wives with a billboard.
Its a control measure as well.

Even if it cost one naira per billboard nigerian men are not romantic like that.

yeah the big one. she got many awards including a golden globe and an oscar. It doesnt get better than that.

i live in the us and seriously nigerians at home are sometimes greedy. They 'flash' me awake at night. they know theres a time difference. They flash me at work, at home. at church, at everywhere. its annoying and i do not return flashes. I just dont. you can flash a gazillion times. the only time i called back was to tonguelash this dude who was blowing up my phone. I gave him the warning of his life. He never flashed me again. Initially on my visits to naija , i would stuff my luggage full of clothes, shoes, perfumes for everyone. I got everyones wish list. They would even request your luggage set and the clothes off your back. They were just never satisfied. They can never give you anything. Always trying to obtain from you. the ironic part is that they are not starving. these are people earning well and doing just fine! I have stopped all that non sense. I fly into nigeria, see my family and fly back. I dont give anyone anything. I'm sick of it.

Nwando you are right. It is in vogue. he's my Tiger. Lol.

Anyway you are not the only one listed on the cheapness register. I have decided to go cheap. For the first 3 years of my working life i saved nothing. I was young, ridiculously overpaid and was free from all encumbrances. No hangers on, no needy extended family, no kids ,no nothing. Did i save a penny? No! I blew everything. I just bought meaningless stuff that i could very well have done without. I did my hair, my nails, bought clothes and boughts more shoes than i knew what to do with. Then i read the book "The richest man in babylon". Oh my God! The scales fell out of my eyes. A book so simple did the trick. I did a complete turn around. I suddenly had the fear that i would retire without having enough for my arthritic years.
Besides my kids all 12 of must have to get the best education possible. I started saving money. I revell in my cheapness. the best part is that i dont miss those things because for me it's like "been there, done that". I can afford them easily if i want but i dont do stuff that like anymore.
Im the deranged psycho running around the house turning off all the lights to save on the electricity bill.
My car is a regular car. Nothing fancy. I could easily upgrade but this one takes me to the office and back so it will have to do for now. I dont compromise on food though. My refridgerator is stocked full always. so is my pantry. My sweetie once called me cheap. He does not believe in depriving himself of anything. Good for him. I told him he should be thankful that his wife is prudent. . Anyway i make sure that while im the one denying myself things that the money i save goes into MY account and not into the family purse. How do you say smart woman again?
My mother always told me its not what you wear but how you wear it. A beautiful woman will shine even if dressed in a potato sack. the best thing you can wear is a smile.
when it comes to material stuff ive definitely cut down and im better for it. I have savings. I am ready for tomorrow. no matter what 'Mr Spoilt' decides to spring on me this chick is covered.

WHAT DO YOU NEED A MAN FOR?

I sometimes crash weddings but i dont buy the aso-ebi if i dont know them well.
Just arrive in your aso-ebi and you are good!

As long as belle full. abi?

Horrible grammar. Good grief!

NO AIR- by Chris Brown and jordin sparks.
Its In my head like a mantra.

why do you guys give others your nairaland Id?
No one on the face of the earth knows my Id so i can blarb about whatever.

Back in the day before i was married i did.
I was this crazy chick down for whatever. Lol. Had been talking to this dude on the phone and decided to check him out. He was based in the U.S and i was still in Nigeria. The night he touched down in naija i went to his hotel room to check him out. He was hot!! Did anything happen?

N10 for unpure water? That thing is not safe. Drink the water you have boiled in your own house.

I realized long ago that Nigeria is a place where you can make money easily. Very easily. The stock exchange has made people like me millions of naira without lifting a finger and in a very short time span.
Find a good stock broker (i can recommend one if you want ) and you will have no regrets. I kid you not my sister. I kid you not.

NOT ANOTHER VIRGINITY THREAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I CANT TAKE ANY MORE DEBATES ON VIRGINITY . All these topics have been thrashed and re thrased in a gazillion other virginity threads. What is it? Did they use virginity to swear for you nigerian people?
THREAD CLOSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THREAD CLOSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Did he give you a big boogery kiss right after?

Lmao

he did too.

yuk.

he likes the reaction u give him. pretend you dont get those messages he'll tire. it will take a while but he will truly tire.

i still remember almost gagging over my dinner the first day i saw kenny. his head was so thick, geez!

I always use cotton buds or a nose pump to clean out my baby's nose. One day my husband said "give her to me". he proceeded to suck out every drop. Yikes!! I was so shocked that you could have knocked me down with a feather!
My husband is high maintenance and all aje butter i was shocked he did that. At the same time it scored him brownie points big time. He saw me gaping and he said 'she's mine, isnt she ? ". omigosh!

just when you think you've seen it all!

couldn't you just say goats instead of bearded goats. so funny! can't stop laughing. 

duh! because you are too young to be thinking commitment.

It is.

why the need to rate her?

why they destroy their music equipment after performing is the part that beats me hollow! 

Girl. she's my little munchkin.

@ didiomos
i wonder what he will have to say if you pass the night in the place of your ex. All hell will probably be let loose. Didnt i tell you to do him back so he can get it?