~Sissy~:

i wonder if he would have done exactly the same thing if it was his father.

very stup[i]i[/i]d

We all know the answer to that.

A ten year age difference is a lot. However due to a lot of social factors it is usually acceptable and even preferred.

I would not use my credit card to pay for anything in naija over the web. Why risk compromising your card? Plus the said cake may never arrive.  I'd Arrange this through someone who actually knows a bakery and lives in Abuja and not randomly over the web.

jennykadry:

Leilah have you quenched the fire burning in your own home?

I go die oh.

When he polishes off the soup bowl you set before him, that translates into love in his head. Why does he need to actually say it?

The kind of things you hear coming out of Nigeria you cannot make up!

Blood donation should be voluntary. It is a personal decision that should not be forced on anyone bcause his wife is in labor. Its an honorable thing to do but cannot be made mandatory .Did they even mention it would be a requirement during her antenatal classes? Or do they just spring it on you when she's already contracting and dilating and they know you dont have a choice? Nigeria!!!! What a country!!

okada men save the day

jayzee_guy:

@ All

Shut d , fu, k up !

Why are you blaming him, shame on you all, instead of finding out, and at least request for pics of the girl, 13 years old, what'd there? Besides she is Egyptian, not Nigerian, so you people just pop up with sort of nonsense and start accusing him for nothing. I still wonder why people will not think at all before posting something here. His religion give him right to do that, and you have different faith/believe with his religion, so why the blame.

And unfortunate some go to the extend of start using abusive words to Islam/Muslims, something we hate to see in Nairaland.

Please for the sake of mutual understanding of people/religious right, you better stop that. May be you can talk when you see the pics and found out that it happened to be a very small girls or something like that.

Just shut the hell up.

Are you on crack?
Religion is now an excuse for child abuse?? I shudder to think what he does to a child he bought for $100,000 behind closed doors. I do not care for pictures. WE believe it because it is not far fetched for some kind of people.

A thirteen year old has NO business having intimacy or being in a marriage. PERIOD.

A thirteen year old


What planet are these guys from

mama-gee:

Now, EFCC should take them to court and let them be rot in jail!
Buncha Criminals!

That's not going to happen.

Is he really an atheist or does he just not go to church? There's a difference. I believe in God. I havent been to church in years. 

All the virginity threads should be combined into one big hairy virginity thread. This obsession with this topic is disturbing.

Siena:

Lol. These guys think we have short memories, that's for sure.

How're you doing? Hope hubby and kids are doing good.

We have one kid. We're doing fine. Thanks

Hopefuly OP will resurface to defend himself. Lol.

No. I can only take so much righteousness.

@ Siena
You sure outed him. Lol.

^^^ It sure does.
How can I forget puppy love? Blissly naive of what life has ahead. Then there's college love and as a very young women when you think you are invincible and can pull down the sky. Then there's the practical love that womanhood dictates to you. **Sigh** What do I know about love? Im no expert. Im still learning everyday.

No hair cream or hairfood has that power. Im sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

With all the familities that are squeezed into 'face me i face you" compounds they do not have a choice.

You cannot help an abused woman till she is ready to break free. Usually it takes a near death experience to make the scale fall out of her eyes.

Right now for me there is this blurred line between love and my wifely duties. Im in love but it gets overshadowed by every day practicality and caring for my family. Love for me is having my husband help me so I dont drop from exhaustion from juggling everything.

gombo_s:

A group of professional people posted this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds,
“What does love mean?”
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined as followings:

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.” - age 8

"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth.” - age 4

“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” - age 5

“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.” - age 6

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” - age 4

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” - age 7

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” - age 6

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” - age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” - age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore,” - age 8

“My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” - age 6

“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” -age 5

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” - age 7

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” - age 4

“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” - age 4

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” - age 7

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget,” - age 8

At highlighted definitions. . . . Is it really love or just womanhood? I really need to start eating the best part of the chicken.

tEsLim:

There are lotta virgin guys out there. Though most men wont tell u this is there first time. But u should be able to tell from how they do it. I know friends that have never been there before. Lot of them. Grown guys, that flaunt around even with 'em fast cars etc.

You'll know alright when he doesnt quite know where to position his knees.

Why now?

Life is never that  bad that you cant stand up and fight like everyone else.

R.I.P. 

Some things are so incredulous! Nigeria!!!

evil666:

IF YOU DRESS WELL AND WALK THRU NEW BENIN MARKET IN BENIN, YOUR OWN DON FINISH, EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT CARRYING ANY LAPTOP. B4 YOU KNOW IT NEW BENIN POLICE MEN WILL ROUND YOU UP IMMEDIATELY AND TELL YOU STRAIGHT THAT YOU ARE A YAHOO BOY.
YOUR PHONE WILL BE COLLECTED, AND IF ANY INTERNATIONAL NO. IS FOUND, WAHALA DON SET. EVEN IF ITS YOUR FATHER,S NUMBA, OR your RELATIVE ABROAD THEY DONT CARE, THEY WILL SAY YOU ARE A YAHOO BOY AND YOU WILL BE DRAGGED STRAIGHT TO THE STATION.

IF YOU ARE SEEN WITH A FLASH, YOU DON DIE BE THAT,THEY WILL FORCE YOU TO WRITE STATEMENT THAT THE FLASH CONTAINS FRAUDULENT THINGS.

THIS IS NOT JUST JOKE, IT IS SO EMBARASSING AND PAINFUL.
MOST TIMES, THEY EVEN HANG-AROUND WESTERN UNION OFFICE, TO ARREST ANY YOUNG GUY COMING OUT AFTER CASHING $

I EVEN KNOW OF A GUY THEY CAUGHT AND LOOK AT HIS PALM AND THEY SAID FROM HIS PALM THEY KNOW HE IS A YAHOO BOY AND THEY BUNDLED HIM INTO THEIR BUS.

Surely you kid?
Are they that hungry? Or ignorant?

^^ It could also be for mature people who know that its not going anywhere and dont intend to waste any more time torturing each other.

chipmunkey:

I'm in the same shoes with poster just that she's right about her insecurities.

mjbaba:

all those bad belles doubting if the prize is up to $1m, why not drag your daft asses to google and key in "p square wins one million dollars"?

Why the venom? Is it a fighting matter?

Beaf:

@Kobojunkie

Why don't you at least try to start your own thread for once, instead of trying hard to derail other peoples threads? Surely you're not so daft that you can't start your own "dora I hate you" thread?

Even with a single brain cell you could start a thread. Are you so daft or what that you can't notice the title of this thread? It says "Jonathan To Keep Power Portfolio For Now". It has nothing to do with Dora.

kilode?
How the thing dey do you?

@kobo those functions you describe are the real functions of the job but as far back as the days of Uche Chukwumerije that position has been one of a paid piper disseminating propaganda. Czn one even work independently in that capacity?