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thats why i said put her somewhere she will actually be working. Information ministry my crusty feet! Thats pure politics zone. What does all that propaganda benefit us? I was actually suprised she accepted it.

Why didnt he think of lady Dora? If she could fix the messed up NAFDAC she can fix NEPA. She will do good somewhere she will actually be working and not reduced to playing rubbish politics with the boys.

a little insecurity is allowed. No one is perfect. However, your girl seems to be extreme. She will not change. You did your best. Now run along and find someone who trusts you. Life is too short to put up with whiny women.

try wearing a catapult

why would anyone maltreat a maid. When she becomes disrespectful and starts trying to re enact things she saw in those crappy home videos i'll quietly send her away. I do not do drama. I am the type that will put you through university and you can even live with me in luxury till you marry. Being a maid is not easy. It requires humility. If you invest in me and my family, I will do likewise.

I dont understand why they have to disclose the full account numbers she commited the frauds on. To encourage more fraud?

spikedcylinder:
Wait, your pastor cured her of homosexuality? https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/13.gifhttps://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/24.gifhttps://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/24.gif

I tire oh!

Big deal. Eat out.

Your maid is like your wife's 'employee'. What I mean is that even if you want to caution your wife or you have an opinion on how she handled something with the maid you should NEVER do it in front of the maid. Men have this annoying way of alway butting into kitchen affairs. What they dont realize is that housemaids have their own share of feminine wiles and often act a certain way when oga is around (affectionately called eye service!) and when they are in the kitchen with madam they are passive aggresive, ignoring instructions, making rude noises, 'eyeing' her and disappearing for hours on end when sent on a simple errand. It is maddening.
men need to stay out of housemaid drama. The same way I never interefere when his driver is 'doing strong head' is the same way I except him to stay out of my business with the maid. Men always feel you should treat the maid like your own equal. , buy her the same things you buy for yourself. Anything short of that is maltreatment. I believe in treating your maid nice. However there should always be that distinct clarity of who is the madam and who is the maid.
The way I see it, its hard having an employee that lives with you. There is this familiarity that it brings that causes problems.

Weak.
Regardless of your situation a substance will not make it better. You only get a temporary high and go back to rock bottom.

@ika
what are you doing awake by this time?

the money you paid for you and your husband was for?
Visas dont cost that much.

People are still having unprotected s!e!x?

Sheez!

Go to the courthouse or LGA office to swear an affidavit then publish it in a major newspaper.

You are done growing. Sorry.

ikamefa:
chei! nearly went blind trying to read and understand your lingo

na wah oh! what are they teaching this young ones in school these days?

where is my oclometer? " "

They are teaching them izam!

nellaluv:
Spoilttttttttt dat was mean but i laughed out loud
@topic u and your bobo are not compatible, wake up and smell the coffee and give urself a break. From your story maybe its shyness, shakara or plain stupidity dat is worrying both of you.

I got dizzy just trying to read the post. it was full of Kyna, izams, eachodas, and poos.
Garbage!

Is he trying to sell some kind of charm?

Why should it be difficult? Or arent you cute?

People can only take over your home and your life if you let them.
Not in my house! Such things do not happen to me. I will nip it in the bud one time!

Intentionally mispelled words? seriously? I could not make out exactly where you were trying to say. Sorry. Write better next time. You sound retarded.

Agberos will come out enmasse to loot, harrass and extort. i will not be caught dead anywhere near that carnival.

^In Nigeria, a lot of the time, the cheating on the part of men is overlooked and sometimes as incredible as it sounds, the wives are blamed for their husband's cheating. Why didn't she make the house more inviting? Why didn't she take better care of herself? Why did she not beg him to forgive her for whatever she did that has caused him to dislike her enough to cheat? Who is she expecting to be a father figure for her kids?
In the end, seperating actually seems to habour more humiliation than remaining in the marriage. You obviously don't live in Nigeria, that is why you don't know how these things go.

@ Cyberfreak, you saved me some saliva.  
Women often take full blame for a failed marriage. For some men even if you chop your head off and lay it at his feet, it will still not be enough.
My husband has it good. I've gone over and beyond what a woman should do for a man in this marriage all in trying to be a good and perfect wife. The day I sense that it is not enough, I get the kid (of course I get the kid!  )  and fall off the face of this earth.  let him sit and wonder if the perfect life he had was a figment of his imagination.  

you should not have tried to get them to talk on the phone about it. A simple caution to your friend should have sufficed.

I am an advocate of cameras. You never know what goes on when you leave your child with another person.

How about during?

ayodele123:
This is not a joke and it is not normal
if it is a regular occurence, it is strange and a real spiritual problem.
i know of at least two ladies who had this problem.one was a spinster and the problem scared away many suitors while the crisis lasted for many years. she was cursed by a lover she jilted many years ago.
she eventually wedded at 40 plus when the problem was solved through divine intervention.
the other lady was married before the problem began and it almost ruined her marriage as her husband abandoned her.
she received healing via divine healing too.
whenever you pee,whats the reaction of your partner?
How can a full grown lady pee during love making?

Your ignorance is beyond belief.

Where does one even begin to enlighten you on how a woman's body works? Kai.

Why do people keep saying Ricky Martin came out? was he ever in?

Topic finish for town?