₦airaland Forum

Ferdinandu:
What you are saying is really true but whether she loved him or not doesn't matter again, he is dead and she is not being suspected of killing him as I can deduce. Why waste time crying over a spilled milk. We will all die one day, if you can mourn your death a day as Muslims do and move on the next. As you mourn the death your own time of death is coming closer.

ityP:
Yes, they will still declare them inconclusive unless one of the victims bring substantial proof

okonja:
So let assume the wedding was on Saturday, then the exam was written on Sunday...abi?

MPESA:
You ain't making any point here.

theButterfly:
The way they showed up at their house wasn't right

Pharmoscandy:
Hear mumu talk...if u can't be governor... Resign na

Unconquerable:
One of the reason a lot of parents will face the wrath of God is how they raise their children. This is really sad.

dominique:
Trash. The day you get drugged and raped through your anus by hòrny gay men, I hope someone will come to say it was consensual and your family should not pursue the case because they're broke.

Even after the culprit confessed to the crime, you're still looking for ways to exonerate him and blame the victim and her family. The useless police are only interested in ripping both culprit and victim's family, they don't care about what is right or wrong even with all the evidence staring at them and the bastard rapist didn't deny the allegation.

In sane countries, prosecuting a criminal comes with no cost but here, they're asking for money for this and that and you see nothing wrong with it. Rape will continue to thrive because of people like yourself and our highly corrupt criminal justice system.

dominique:
Trash. The day you get drugged and raped through your anus by hòrny gay men, I hope someone will come to say it was consensual and your family should not pursue the case because they're broke.

Even after the culprit confessed to the crime, you're still looking for ways to exonerate him and blame the victim and her family. The useless police are only interested in ripping both culprit and victim's family, they don't care about what is right or wrong even with all the evidence staring at them and the bastard rapist didn't deny the allegation.

In sane countries, prosecuting a criminal comes with no cost but here, they're asking for money for this and that and you see nothing wrong with it. Rape will continue to thrive because of people like yourself and our highly corrupt criminal justice system.

Graduateacher:
Seems you rape. You sound like a rapist. Hmmmm let me not say my mind sha

Graduateacher:
Seems you rape. You sound like a rapist. Hmmmm let me not say my mind sha

dominique:
You're either a rapist or a rape enabler

This is a clear cut criminal case. Even if the rapist settles with the victim, he must go to jail. If not that our police force is useless, the victim's parents are not supposed to spend a kobo in prosecuting the rapist. That police station should be sanctioned and the officers penalized

TheWrita:
You and I know that once they do it,millions of Nigerians will TRY to troop to SA.

Don't pretend.

fujirice:
Well, let’s just agree to disagree.
Following what the Op shared, this one is different. Someone that turns in her tips at the end of the day is to be trusted if you ask me.
It’s not as if it’s a one-off something. She has been tested over the year and the business grew in that respect as well.

Adakintroy2:
Abeg leave that thing..character no DE hide. If you miss something others will see it. If she has been working for some years that is enough observation
The rest can be work on. Plus people give good remarks not only him. So there are no sentiments.

My guy you done see wifeoo

truthsayer009:
LOL my only worry is if he now hires another girl and she is also well behaved and now start liking him. What will then happen?

I know some women behave differently in a relationship as opposed to employee and employer relationship.

fujirice:
I don’t agree with your last two lines.
The girl in question is already treating the business as hers. Making her the official co-owner will just be the icing on the cake.

ellalina:
My male bestie confided this in me too. He is also a Nairalander.



I run a sharwama and agent bank outlet for over 3 years and it’s been a good business experience for me expect trust issues with my sales Girl. I have sacked over 6 girls in space of 2 years for attitude and fraud related cases.

One of the days when I have to stay at the shop because my sales girl did not come to work, a young lady walked in with her CV. She said she saw my vacancy outside, I collected her CV and went through it. She is a 22 years old ND holder who studies communication.

I asked her why she would not return to get her HND. She replied that she wants to continue at the National open university where she can work and learn.
I have her 1 week trial and that is the beginning of good things in my business.

She is so consistent, All customers I mean all of them always leave a good remark about her and why they keep coming back. When ever I return from my office to the shop, I notice how people keep giving her tips and she declares it everyday but I don’t collect it from her. Sometimes she makes up to 5K daily in tips.

Fast forward 1 year, I have taken another shop and expanded my business. I cannot remember the last time we recorded shortage in the shop. My business has become so profitable that Am thinking of quiting my job to expand the business as my salary is like 20% of what the shop now makes for me.

To reward her, I picked interest in her education, I bought her the direct entry form at the open university and she has started.

These days I noticed she has suddenly changed towards me. She doesn't ask how my day was, she avoids me and don’t look into my face when we talk. I was really worried because I have grown fond of her. I have admired her as a lady but I maintained a professional relationship.

There are times I want to ask her to follow me to events and outings but I keep controlling my urge. She called that her mum was sick so she would not be available. I decided to surprise her by paying her a visit, she could not believe her eyes when she saw me at her door step with a bag of provisions in my hand. I greeted the mum. The woman prayed for me a lot before I took my leave.

On getting home, I could not understand myself anymore. My experience at her home further boost her interest in my heart. I could not sleep that night so I picked my phone to chat with a random friend online. I saw Lucy was online too. So I called her at about 12:30 am. I asked her why she is not asleep. She said she has an emotional support that has been bothering her for days. I tried to convince her to tell me but she declined, I figured it’s about a guy although I never saw her with a guy or call one at work.

I told her I was worried too and she is the cause. I told her how she has been of immense blessing to my life and how I wish she would play a bigger role in my life. She went silent. She later hung up and turned her phone off.

She called in the morning to apologize for cutting the call. By evening, I was back at the shop. I opted to drive her home but she refused. This was very unlike her so I insisted. As we approached her neighborhood,I parked under a roadside tree. I asked her to open up to me what the issue with her was.

To my greatest shock, Lucy confesses that I was the cause of her issues. I went quiet for a while trying to figure out what she meant. I asked again how am I the cause, at this moment her eyes were laden with tears Lucy told me she could not stop thinking about me and can’t control herself around me. She said she is confused because the feeling she is having for me get her scared.

While I sat and steer at her, I knew I felt exactly THE same way for her. This time I was the quiet one. I just drove her home and back.

I am 29 and she is now 23 going to 24. I have a job and a good business. Why can’t I marry her.

She has helped me grow my business. She is adorable and well trained. I want to ask her to marry me any moment. I am strongly convinced that we can grow together and build a good business network.

What do you guys thing. Is this a wise move?

Omoslim26:
if nt dat u av been destined to b foolish forever u might understand dat xenophobia is lyk an ideology nd even if u take away Nigeria frm d picture it wont make dos s/african animals less xenophobic bt i no expect useless dead brained person lyk u to understand
u tink se na only u get curse for mouth u met u match u no go die beta bastard sombori

Omoslim26:
1stly u called out my parents first so dont patronise me wit symphaty card 2ndly in football trolling is part of d fun dis people are animals dats y dey cant understand dat it a sport dat shud unite us 3rdly stop trying to justify their beastly art oloriburuku, opkonu

Omoslim26:
1stly u called out my parents first so dont patronise me wit symphaty card 2ndly in football trolling is part of d fun dis people are animals dats y dey cant understand dat it a sport dat shud unite us 3rdly stop trying to justify their beastly art oloriburuku, opkonu

Omoslim26:
e no go beta for dat bastard idiotic fada wey no fit use condoms nd unknown disease go distroy dat useless virgina wey u com out frm so na only naija dey do all dis bad thins wey u mention ba? They are bad peeps evrywhere let d security do the job of curbing dem useless bastard lyk u wey dey mention person papa nd mama bcus ur own don die.

Omoslim26:
nd ur useless brain is telling u dat its only Nigerians dat have d monopoly for crimes right?

Crofton:
This act of wickedness are always perpetuated by lazy black South Africans.
But I blame our government, their failure has reflected across the continent and we are just starting to witness the repercussion, but rather than aggressively rebelling against our government we are playing their petty games of tribalism, Pogrom and hate .

Harrykaey:
Can't imagine despite the degree of sanity everyone is portraying, a lot would still decide to be unnecessarily irrational.

Before you judge kemi olunloyo as being paid or whatever, is she lying with her findings regarding the incoherence in Busola's story?

It is blatant here some things don't just add up. I really can't tell what is true or what's false until theres a fact to back it up. All insinuations of Olunloyo has been backed so far by some facts which can be readily falsified.

Even if she has been paid to do this, I believe it is wiser to support a part of the discuss that can be verified than stick to believing something someone said just because we want to deliberately hate a pastor or the church for whatever reason.

I leave it to you to judge, between Busola and olunloyo's statements, which one add up more to the common sense?

Good morning

Rik500k:
if this investigations are found to be true, then this busola of a woman has a lot to tell Nigerians and world at last, she has a motive or she's being sponsored to do so. You told us you were meant to nurse a baby who from ur claims was born in 1999, from this investigation, the man's first issue was in 2002, you said he banged you on top of his Mercedes-Benz car trunk, which investigations found out he never had a benz till 2003.
even if she was raped as claimed, this evidence alone can turn around the whole issue on her and her family.
even from the way she told the rape story, she enjoyed every bit of it, she sounds like one who likes to be dominated during sex

Adakintroy2:
I hate to put it this way but i feel timi dakolo fell for one of the old trick in the book when it comes to women.." prove to me you a man" ..show you can defend me" ..fight my course"

In primitive lifeforms such as animal, the female hold back aggression and watch the male go at each other. The strongest or dominant of the species eventually get the mating right. This behavior is not out of touch in humans even as so called highly evolved species, We still display this premitive side consciously or unconsciously. need to show strength on the part of the man and need to feel like a won trophy and a thing to be protected and cherish on the part of the woman.


If timi had understood the term of his contract implicitly with his wife, he would have know that his protection rights start from the day their relationship took off. He is not oblige to go back in time to address every School boy or uncle that ever had a bad running with his wife. Unless he has been compelled by the " woman force" to do so. Which I am incline to think now.

Many women employ us this way wether we are aware of it as men or not. Wether she tell you a story of how she was coming from work and two men tried to touch her butt Or she tell you of a guy who try to rape her in secondary school..the point s she is testing to see how strong you are,..zeal to defend her and take side with her at all times.

Busola is a pretty bride. One that wish to be won by the "alphas" He needs to know if timi is "alpha" enough for her

Slay this dragon and win my love forever. Prove to me you can deal with any man who tries to intimidate me. Prove you not my man, prove your the man. Take him "coza" from my dream or thought of fear and worry and extall yourself there permanently.

Tim could have dodge this bullet. This is not his to fight. This posture is a false show of bravado. Highly unnecessary. He was in an alternate time line when this event happened. Coza man dI'd not know him then. So he could not have hurt him possibly with his act. If the case was treated back then, he would not have been remotely present. Therefor wisdom should have allowed him air on the side of caution.

In a bid to please his wife he could have confronted..he just need to prove he is a man to stand up to coza. He did not necessarily has to fight him to prove he is a man.

He should have let him know his wife is hurting because of his act. If he is smart he will apologize and he would have won a friend. This road is not a smart one. Again
The guy did not offend timi.

Timi is taking his husband duties too far in my view.