₦airaland Forum

nwakibie3:
what has this got to do with the topic of discussion

burning the station was totally not called for only criminals will support burning down a station

immaculate1234:
no be only na scwazzenegar

bloggers should stop this trash they are doing misleading the public is very bad we need more cyber laws in Nigeria we dont know what to believe anymore ,other countries that know the dangers of spreading false news have put in place checks and balances .It is only in Nigeria you will read more than 10 different events for one story

rusher14:
Even mugshots don't exalt.

are you minding them parading someone holding underwear as if underwear is an exhibit don't mind the useless agency it is just unprofessional to parade a suspect and tell him to hold underwear that can be for his girlfriend or something too much unprofessionalism on their side

Nice one from the owner of the school ,the op should be more concerned about her child's habit of concealing the truth am sure this incident happened at home we were all once kids and we know how well these things go down ,just because you pay 180k fees does not give you any right to make the school own up for what they don't know nothing about ,since you can't extract the truth from child it is better they send off such a student before he teaches the others ,madam go and find another school this will be a lesson to other overzealous parents out there always using sledge hammer to break common egg

As a guy always know there are other shareholders but always aim to be the chairman board of directors ,naija women the only thing that can make them stay in one place is money ,money makes them loyal ,please dont get me wrong i am not saying money is everything but it is very crucial .Is it not a woman you are seeing pyhsically that you can propose too if the main guy was doing well and was staying in abuja or out of naija with the girl this other mugu no go see her for mall begin propose ,what nigerian women fear the most is trekking to where they have used benz glk to form big girl

martineverest:
one of the reasons why visa denial rate is high at american embassy......

you are only denied visa when you fail your Interview or you submit fake documents ,you are denied when you don't have enough reason to be in america ,most think it is all about paying the visa fees ,many people in america are suffering .It is not a bed of roses out there even people that are citizens are homeless and beggars . A lot of people think relocating to america is an achievement ,reality dawns on them once they get there ,don't sell your valuables (houses and belonging) when you don't have anything meaningful you are going to do over there .

Charmingrascal:
Davido obviously know this guy well well. I am waiting for David to give the guy total knock out now that it is confirmed that his ass will be in court. Shameless fraudster tarnishing the image of hard working Nigerian youths. Mompha and Hush puppi are next

be careful what you wish others ,this is a public forum and lots of people are on here you did not have to drag these two people into this ,this was the same way deji adeyanju came out of no where to say hush puppi should be arrested someone that has no business whatsoever with him at the end who spent Christmas in jail ? Many foreigners are on nairaland it is not good to paint people in a bad way when all the facts we know about this people are just mere hear-say

Lies from the pity of hell ,when will girls stop using this kidnap thingy to make them look like they come from a wealthy family ,that is how one stupid one kept on singing to my hears about how her younger one was kidnapped blah blah she was shocked when I shut her up and told her if she has ever gone through the pains of a loved one being kidnapped she will not take pride in talking about it every now and then ,it is a very horrible experience you won't even pray your enemy should go through such

I will keep saying it the parenting these days is so poor ,many families have turned infants (kids below 18) to adults over night they let this young adults fend for themselves and in some cases fend for the parents too .That is why we have lots of fraudsters and prostitutes all over the place ,gone are the good old days when you have to make up a big lie to defend a piece of jean you bought with your own money but you have to use one uncle or aunty to lie ,pushing this little ones into this harsh and sinful world without proper guardiance will always result to these kind of ugly incidents .May her soul rest in peace

Many you will walk a thousand miles for over and over again are not ready to take a step for you ,never ignore the little warning signs it goes a long way in telling you how your partner is especially when it comes to finances .I paid for flights countless times to and fro from abuja to Lagos cause she was a student thinking I was giving her comfort when in the real sense a wise student will actually keep the money for flights and use bus just to have extra am happy we parted ways

Whitewolf8:
We ve only known each other barely a month,but she act and behaves like we ve known for years, cooks,cleans, etc acting like we re about getting married when i obviously didn't say anything about commitment to her ...now she wants to have a spare to my apartment so she wouldn't have to be calling Me for keys anymore...,thing is I'm an introvert and I love having my space sometimes, how do I decline her request without making her feel untrusted or rejected?? or do you think I should give her??

make her understand you don't want to rush things cause you want the relationship to work ,the relationship is too early for her to have the spare key let things progress gradually

Shame on our judicial system ,it is a win win situation for Evans ,all of a sudden nothing is heard about his wife and kids again,obviously they have told her to go on low key .Sometimes the easiest way to get away with your crimes is turning yourself in ,am sure Evans is living large in prison better than many people outside cause he has money shame on our judicial system

Lordbellish:
Now this is the full story, I'm saving up funds to further my studies by September fall abroad...

Me and my family agreed I should finalize everything about marriage so that when I by year end, I will be going down the alter by 4th January 2020 ....

So me and my patents with some elders went to her village with Palm wine 2 jars according to tradition and we collected full list and gave them Easter as our return date... check my previous post, I made mention of getting list from her family against my coming by Easter...

maybe she's misbehaving cuz I don't spend like I used to before but she should understand that I'm entering into a huge project that will better the lives of our unborn babies

like I said she doubts if you will come through cause of the huge financial responsibilities before you that is why they misbehave at this stage she is doubting your ministry oga you need to buckle up and do the magic ,this is where many women get it wrong venza will toast ,glk will toast ,Benz squad go do their own but to be honest it is not really easy for the ladies too,we men have no idea how many toasters this ladies have to go through week in week out guys far better than their current partners but just try to get your partner to be on the same page with you but don't force it if she fails to see reasons just act along and expect anything my own two cents

joshboo:
Bro pls I beg you in God's name just open the wine and drink it yourself (if you've) bought it though cos you not the only one carrying wine to her house

bros we should be asking the op when did he engage her ? When is he planning to do the wedding proper ? Op you better buckle up or be ready for heartbreak any moment from now ,a lady behaves this way if she sees no signs of the wedding anytime soon and she knows too well the financial status of the op is far from one that can sponsor a wedding op if you are truely in love with this woman and don't want to lose her better get your acts right and stop forming boss cause.of mere engagement MAKE E NO GO BE. LIKE FILM FOR YOUR EYE

Lordbellish:
I'm just playing nice guy honestly..

no body has the monopoly of misbehaving, me I can too just that that not part of my agenda now

when did engaging a girl and marrying her become the samething it is a norm now for guys to engage a girl all in the name to tie her down you can be claiming you are serious and in the real sense you are not serious ,no right thinking girl would make herself available to other men if your intentions of marrying her are shown and known in this harsh buhari weather oga your story is incomplete my own opinion though

seunfly:
State government are extremely useless, common fire service is not available in many states in Nigeria.

How much does it cost to buy 2 fire fighting trucks in each local government and employ firefighters for emergencies like this.

Every Nigerians needs to starts asking questions from our governors they have more inpact on us than government at any other level.

simple ways to create employment but they use hundreds of thousands on drinks for touts and irrelevant visitors monthly we the electorate really need to check this crooked politicians

Seenyo:
I've been there done that, BUT for your own good...


RESPECT & ADORE THAT LADY!


#SHES ONE OF THE FEW RARE SPECIES fast going extinct!

#A WORD IS ENOUGH.

you are so on point let him be over reacting there he his only pushing the girl away and if he his not careful he wilk regret in the nearest future she might actually be ready for the long wait ( which in the real sense is not really long if they both know what they are doing )

AryEmber:
Poor thing was just trying to secure her future but some ladies are funny sha oh, who stays with a guy that told you he does not want commitment?

atleast he his sincere and only acting according to his present situation better than wasting your precious time on deceivers that use these words "I AM LOOKING FOR A GIRL THAT IS READY TO SETTLEDOWN"all cause they want to get in between your legs

They just collect exhorbitant gate fees no form of safety whatsoever and the volume of alcohol and hard drugs sold on our beaches is something the lagos state government should look into ,drinking and swimming is not advisable some measure should be taken or the fun seekers should be restricted to some parts of the beach,you cant down a full bottle of ciroc and the next thing in your mind is to go swim na go be that ooo

Codeine

His money his business people do anything for the gram daddy freeze should shut up when he was buying those useless wrist watches at ridiculous amounts without any visible cash windfall did anybody question him ? Yes I would rather go on the street and throw cash into the air for anybody to pick rather than spend thousands of dollars just to check time ,when almost every device today has a clock .Daddy freeze should check himself well before posting rubbish agbaya

God forbid it is the night I sleep here things will go wrong I know so no need

I like open ladies like this woman ,when she eventually gets married her man will enjoy her and the marriage will last ,most ladies die in silence and believe such topics is a no go area ,if your man is not performing enough feel free to discuss it with him so he can up his game and if your man is over performing still feel free to discuss ,in as much as many think she is lieing about it of what point is it having days of pain and discomfort after every sexual encounter with your partner it is only natural for the lady to avoid or deny the man sex on the long run and that is the road that leads to divorce and cheating

Richnero:
Some people might slam Ifu Ennadu and label her "stingy" but she to me, is very very right. You do not go about begging for things as thriftless as a photoshoot.

#Live within your means

yes I like what ifu did these days this cyber begging is becoming something else

hausadreturn:
becoming rampant in Lagos I must say. Before you know it, she'll be an expert in begging.
And na person dey even send am.

it is really worrisome especially for these kids some have even advanced to stealing ,breaking into cars or stealing the car logo yes car logo the camry logo ,benz then the cover to fuel tank ,i keep buying those alphabets at the boot if they dont steal the C they will steal the Y ,it shall not be well with the parents that teach their kids all this rubbish

One has to be extra careful in lagos especially this festive period ,alot of people actually wake up and leave their houses on a daily basis looking for who or businesses to take advantage of ,they dont have any particular destination in mind they just go about until they see who dey can prey on .Dont focus on only men ,women and children are also into thi samething ,earlier this year i paid my dad a visit in his house at ikorodu i came out of the gate only to see a little girl with her tray and some kegs she was crying i asked her what the problem was she said she mistakenly poured away the kerosene her mother told her to sell and she cant go home cause her mother would beat her i felt pity for her and i gave her some money ,fast forward to some days after i went to a bar to cool off with friends still in the same area but a bit far from my dads place when i got out of the bar lo amd behold i saw the same girl she gave me the same story i was too used i did not even know what to do ,we all need to be careful this xmas season

"paying a debt you a drunkard to him in a beer parlour "na wa

Op I am sure you aren't normal I don't intend to insult you first you met her on Facebook ,you both stay at two different ends, the relationship is just like 6 months and you are ranting like this ,better stop taking the relationship to a level it has not gotten to,you are just mere friends with this girl ,I wonder why people keep finding love in the wrong places ,even the girlfriend that lives on the same street with you is hard to monitor oga you are the architect of your own problems .

RighteousI:
you are the biggest liar here. ain't no Nigerian company will pay 1.5 million per month to an entry staff and this means you never worked in such a company, you only wished you did. even regional manager of first bank and access bank don't make that much. if she makes that much it means she is gold digging those Arabs.

it is really irritating the length Nigerians will go to rip others off

bikefab:
A Buhari that cannot speak fulfude his mother tongue, is that one a Buhari?

I tire oo what kind of sickness will make you forget your mother tongue why did he not forget English also too spits it boils down to this "you can't give what you don't have " this clone theory is beginning to look right learning a language is not what one can do overnight

LegitBoyy:
Your comment reeks of sheer ignorance and it is either you're a Yahoo boy or one wannabe. You even had the gut to use the sim card analogy which is a pure business mechanism.

To know how shameful your country is, Sims were even first brought from South Africa and not even Europe or the Western world. As human we pay for everything you're ignorant of. The money that was deposited over there were taken there by the whites ?

You don't even have a point. It is even better you take your phone and start it than putting out some watery defences when you're not even gaining from it.

like I said I don't support cheating people off their money ,these westerners should blame themselves cause we are where we are today as a result of their greed and their inquisitive nature ,most of the scams perpetrated by Africans are more of scams of persuasion and greed on the victims ,the more sophisticated scams that involve hacking and phishing they are the cause ,they design and program softwares and viruses to monitor what others are doing so they can be a step ahead now these tools fall into the wrong hands and it is used against them so who is to blame the inventor or the user ?

DonX001:
Don't be deliberately silly.
Is it not your fellow Nigerians that will import fake drugs and white chalk as drugs, and sell them to their own fellow countrymen at expensive prices of real drugs, for huge profits?
You're just justifying the unjustifiable.

The fact remains that very many Nigerians don't want to work but want to live large, and see crime as the easiest way to get that.
And the saddest fact is that the majority of other Nigerians (including you!), see nothing really bad in it, or find silly ways to justify it.
And you want Nigeria to get better.... Never, with that kind of mentality of the general population.

so it is this westerners that want to work when you can go on social benefit just for a broken finger ,so it is simple logic Mr A rips Mr B off totally to take care of Mr C so what is bad if Mr b decides to rip both Mr A and Mr C off . Rip off is rip off bad is bad nothing like good bad.For over 20 years now the looted funds stolen by Abacha running into millions if not billions is yet to be returned even when it is evident it is stolen ,they have been using this money to trade over the years when it should be returned so what are we saying here ?They use different words and processes devised by them to hold unto this money .They would claim the matter is been investigated ,the stupid black man will be romancing that word investigate when the normal thing to be done is return the stolen money to the owner what is there to investigate again wise up bro ,only Gods knows how long they will use that word "investigate" to hold onto what is not theirs after they have double the money or triple the money they will now return the principal amount (100 naira as at year 2000 is not the same as 100 naira in year 2018 ) they will return the money when it is worthless.To me Abacha is even better than them cause he was in possession and control of monies belonging to naija for 4-5 years but they have been in possession of this stolen money for more than 20 years (even if they are preaching they have the intention to return it ) now this is where the point I have been trying to prove comes in .These western countries and their financial institutions will claim and treat this money as LOOTED funds (to avoid paying interest on it )whereas in the real sense it should be treated not differently from a FIXED DEPOSIT ,cause the only way any bank or financial institution can be in possesion and control of such huge amount of money for the duration of 20 years is when that money is a fixed deposit cause whomever kept it with them wants interest .But they have been using this money to trade on a daily basis cause it is in their banking system