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RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 2:28pm On May 22, 2011
190:
Its not up to N50,000

Rather within N15,000- N25,000

Moet is bout N20,000

Thats my brand!
The question was: how much does Champagne cost?

CHAMPAGNE. Not just any spirit. Moet, VSOP and the rest cost cheaper than champagne.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 7:54am On May 22, 2011
annita19:
Please how much is a bottle of champagne in Nigeria club (s)
From N50,000 upwards. That is about $350 a bottle. In some places, it costs much more.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 11:41pm On May 21, 2011
omo_to_dun:
Pardon me, but some Nigerian men are amongst the dumbest men on earth when it comes to spending money on irresponsible women! How can you brag that you are a getting girls when they are scamming you. N50000 for a night with a woman? Chei, it seems someone had an A+ in Muguology 501 in graduate school. Why not date a woman who has her own money and does not depend on you for anything? You are not getting b[i]i[/i]tches, they are getting you.
You see, this is my point. Even the working class ones will start ordering drinks that cost N5,000 a glass, or order a bottle of something wey go reach N15,000 or N20,000. I have seen where a girl ordered a drink of N5,000 and took two sips only.

TWO BLOODY SIPS, AND N5,000 WAS GONE FROM A GUY'S POCKET.

These days, it seems there is no distinction. The ones wey dey do runs go tall you make you bring big money for night out, the working class ones will order expensive stuff when you take them out (and they will make sure they ask you to take them to one high class joint).

MY QUESTION IS: WHY?

I have journeyed a bit and this is peculiar to Naija babes. I wish some babes can throw more light and not deviate from the topic by abusing Abuja guys.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 4:31pm On May 21, 2011
toyemz:
@stagger
me thinks that Abuja babes are too hot and expensive for you
settle for the neighbour hood outlets ,wuse and kubwa  and try those that dont speak english
so that when you get into cloud nine and start chanting heaven and earth she will not understand you

Im pretty sure if i was sitting in a bar with my girlfriends and a guy came flashing at us, he would be carried out with a  broken head
but you guys think with your third leg, and of course not  forgetting the help of beer

if at this stage in life, you are not disciplined enough to to ignore the sight of a pantless girl, i fear for when you are married
same goes abi?
abi na only una siddon for bar?
What are you insinuating? That a girl has a right to ask for house rent just because she bleeped a guy? Or why should girl who I am not even sleeping with, order drinks that can pay two months salary of a bank driver?

Why should "Abuja girls be too hot and expensive?" Are Abuja girls more beautiful than the mixed Arab girls in Zanzibar or the Carribean girls?

The girl asking my friend to bring N50,000 for a night: does she have a crude oil well in her place?

Your responses make me wonder if you are reading the original thread to see the angle I am coming from. I see fine girls outside Naija and come back home to meet our girls who only think about money, money, money.

Are you justifying that?
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 4:19pm On May 21, 2011
Sorry I do not drink beer. Not done it since I started at 11 and stopped at 18.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 4:07pm On May 21, 2011
toyemz:
@stagger

what you seek is what you find
you go seeking all those that hang out in those places and then later complain
do you go picking up girls expecting to pay them later
that is glorified prostitution!

wiselet is right,Not every girl in Abuja is on the prowl,there are very good ones that would make the best wife ever
why not look for them  and have a long time girlfriend
that way you are building a solid and sound relationship
My sister, please read my initial post.

Me and my guys dey on our own. Then this girl comes and sits directly opposite me, crosses her legs like Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct (yes, with no panties on), and pretends to be looking through her BB phone.

Then another comes and starts doing a bootylicious shake to one of those fast-paced naija jams, right in front of us. Others join them in all manner of clothing. One practically had her bum falling out of her micro-mini jeans skirt; no undies.

The way I see it, we are not at fault. Guys are created to be sexually aroused by such sights. We can't help it.  

Besides, I do not recall having seen a guy wearing something showing his crotch in a place like Kryxtal, not even the gay dudes that go there. It's female flesh that assaults us everywhere.

Then go to a place like Zenith bank in Maitama and see the female bankers there, the extreme beauty of those bankers there only points to one thing and one thing only. The girls are specially selected. To what end?

This is where I disagree with Wislet.

WHEN GUYS ARE VISUALLY ASSAULTED DAY IN DAY OUT WITH HIPS, BREASTS AND ALL SORTS OF FLESH, WHAT DO YOU WANT THEM TO DO? Gouge their eyes out?

Well I am not taking my eyes out. My only concern is that a girl should not ask me for house rent money after I have settled her for a night out. Simple.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 3:27pm On May 21, 2011
Wislet:
@OP, If you have so much money to throw away, why dont you save dat strength you're losing sleeping around with different girls, and use it to find a non expensive one to marry. Abi u no dey old?? Shameless men.
Are you one of the champagne chasers? Besides I am not losing any strength. Guys that are as virile as us are in hot demand. Just pains me that our brothers in other parts of the world are enjoying for free what we are paying through the nose for.

Or better still, if you are so concerned, come marry me, cheesy
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 3:21pm On May 21, 2011
But to continue my discussion, why would a girl be asking a guy to pay her house rent? Even after collecting money for a night out (which is supposed to end the contract)?
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 3:18pm On May 21, 2011
Take a good look at the video from Dr Sid's song on Champagne. See how the bills were scrolling upwards as the champagne was flowing.

That's what the champagne connotes.

You see, all this has spoilt the society so much. Now guys in Abuja want to do nothing but chase contracts. Instead of spending money on doing productive stuff, they keep forking out money for bidding fees, just so they can make money to pop the champagne and keep the girls flowing.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 3:05pm On May 21, 2011
xynerise:
@poster. This is just the preliminary stage. When the mugunary stage begins you will not see money to browse for cyber cafe again. grin
Can't happen to a guy like me. Infact, once a house rent demand enters my phone, I don delete the girl number faster than lightning.
190:
Exactly"

What's in that champagne that women flock after

Im not saying its Just Nigerian Ladies alone but virtually all blacks

Other races could have a cheap beer with their dudes and the guy is happy where as these blacks ( not only Nigerians but aficans be It AA et al )

start staring @ any dude thats on champagne  angry

This is been tested and trusted several times

walk into a club in abuja like kyrstal lounge or the bassment ( Pop your champagne and if you dont go home with 3 ladies that nite dont call me 190 )  shocked shocked
Kryxtal is like the sin city of Nigeria. If you want to carry twenty girls, it is easy. Just buy enough champagne and create enough effects. You will see girls flocking like flies to a dead carcass.


As for the last poster, I have been in Abuja off and on for six years now. I travel a lot and so I have a chance to compare behaviours and attitudes all around. So I do not think I am that "NEW" to Abj.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 2:51pm On May 21, 2011
toyemz:
@poster
Abuja girls have a name and reputation to live up to
they either belong or they dont
and by hook or crook oh
they must belong
Honestly it beats my imagination. You go to a club and see how girls flock around guys who buy champagne. And the clubs do not help matters with their VIP classifications that stipulate that you must either buy champagne, VSOP or stuff like that to be in the VIP.

And did I say N30,000 for a night out with a girl in Abj? Very conservative figure.

Go to a place like Kryxtal and see girls demanding for N50,000 for a night out. Meanwhile, cost of venue is not included yet.

I mean, how do ordinary guys compete? How does a salary earner keep up? I personally saw a guy buy a car of N1.2m for a girl he met in a club.

At this rate, the ability to buy a car or land in Abuja for a girl will now be used as a criterion for asking a babe out.
PoliticsRe: Corps Members Drafted For The North To Carry Firearms by stagger: 2:42pm On May 21, 2011
Yeah!

Then when such a corper roams the streets for two years without work, where do you think firearm skills will be deployed?

ROBBERY
MILITANCY
POLITICAL THUGGERY
HITMEN

ETC, ETC, ETC.

Don't forget that some of these corpers used to be cult members in school and so will have added skills to their already loaded violent CVs. I have never heard of such madness.  angry
RomanceWhy Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by stagger(op): 2:38pm On May 21, 2011
People help me out here.

Some years back, I went to a university and disguised myself. Dressed down, went on foot, just moved around like a normal student. I then went to a popular students' drinking joint where there were guys and babes, drinking. Then I saw two of my friends from primary school. One of them hailed me and being already drunk, was hailing me so loud (since we had not seen for close to 20 years).

Soon enough, it became obvious that we were money earners and not students. The population of girls (whose off-campus hostels were close-by), suddenly increased. Many of the girls started dancing to the loud music, including a few who were not wearing undies and were really shaking what their mamas gave them.

Bottomline: man no be wood. The three of us eventually got hooked up. Boy, campus girls are hot and very sweet. But then this is where it gets interesting.

After discharging them the next day (with money and recharge cards, as usual), one of them called me sometime later to demand for money for her house rent. I was furious.

Same thing repeated itself when I found myself in another town on business. Same demand. Money for house rent.

Recently, a friend of mine hooked up with one babe who virtually used her eyes to tease him throughout. They hooked up, and soon enough, money for house rent now came up. This was after a demand to buy a new phone and lodge her in Transcorp Hilton Abuja as a pre-condition for any "action" to occur.

Recently, I and my guys took some working class babes out. The one I hooked up with ordered for Screw Driver (at N2,000 a glass). She kept drinking glass after glass of this stuff and I was left wondering why our girls are so merciless in accumulating bills.

Meanwhile, a trip to East Africa and the US shows that this situation is far different. In these places, a girl likes a guy, they hook up, have fun and go their way. No money demands involved.

I mean, in a place like Abj, a guy needs to budget about N30,000 for a night out with a babe that ends the next day.

So I ask: what is it about our girls that makes them so money conscious? embarassed embarassed
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Do You Do When You Are Feeling Very Sad Or Depressed? by stagger: 1:59pm On May 21, 2011
I just eat my my out of it.

Of course, nothing cures male depression than a good pounding from a fin' lookin' babe. Or maybe two of them at once, depending on your taste.

Anyway, can't remember the last time I got depressed.
CrimeRe: Hafiz Lecky Is A Scammer: Please Avoid Him by stagger: 3:05pm On May 20, 2011
All of you who have lost money to Hafiz Lecky did one thing wrong:

DID YOU BOTHER TO FIND OUT BY WHAT BUSINESS MODEL THE GUY WILL MAKE YOUR MONTHLY DIVIDENDS?

This is why people lose money. They never bother to ask questions. They just take money and throw at any money-making scheme out there.

Guys, be creative. Start a business where you create a product to sell or a service to render, and stop all these cheap and easy short-cuts to making money that take you nowhere!
SportsRe: Caf Unveil 2014 World Cup Qualifying Format by stagger: 1:37pm On May 18, 2011
This is a spectacular decision by CAF.

By the time a qualifier emerges from this rigorous process, you can be sure they will not go to the World Cup to disgrace Africa.
CrimeRe: Olamide Robbed At Gunpoint by stagger: 12:22pm On May 18, 2011
Part of the problem is the public profile of musicians. And some of them do not make things easy for themselves by how they live their lives.

This is where I duff my hat for Ramsey Noah. The few times I have seen him at Kryxtal Lounge in Abj, he kind of hides himself. Some others will make so much noise, buy champagne and announce to everybody that they now have a few coins in their kitty. The result? In a place like Lagos, they get robbed. First it was Tuface. Then Funke Akindele. Wizkid suffered the same fate. Now Olamide.

Na wa o!
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Denies Ex-US Envoy, Campbell, Visa by stagger: 7:34pm On May 17, 2011
It is high time we start treating enemies of Nigeria as such.
BusinessRe: Pres. Jonathan Orders Reduction In Cement Prices by stagger: 5:14pm On May 17, 2011
Why not order landlords and landowners in Abuja to reduce the cost of renting a house or buying land in FCT by the end of the month?

My problem with these quick fix solutions is that they are not sustainable. If a company has to buy black oil at exhorbitant rates to generate power to produce cement, how will prices come down?

We dey watch.
BusinessRe: 35 Days To Make N300, 000 For Rent Or Lose My Apartment! by stagger: 5:20pm On May 16, 2011
You have lots of time to achieve your aim. You need N3000 from 100 people to make it.
BusinessRe: CBN Imposes Limits, Penalty On Cash Transactions, Again! by stagger: 6:05pm On Apr 29, 2011
Before people begin to scream and shout, we have to ask ourselves: WHAT IS CASH?
Answer: A medium of exchange.

In bringing out this policy, I am quite sure the CBN will roll out other methods of exchanging money for goods and services such as deployment of POS terminals everywhere.

Large amounts can always be paid via cheque.

Ideally speaking, we should not be carrying cash around. We are in the 21st century and we should start transiting from obsolete methods of doing things to the modern way, which is introducing a cashless society.

When there is no cash to exchange, robberies will cease, because there will be nothing to exchange for stolen items like cars, electronics, etc, and no cash to steal.

We are however going to see an increase in crimes like IT related thefts, such as hacking online accounts and possibly stealing and attempts to POS terminals. It is a natural transition.

For the budding entrepreneurs, this presents an opportunity. We are going to see deployment of modern methods of exchange. We will see opportunities for IT areas dealing with cyber security, cyber forensics, deployment of software solutions, transactions via phone applications, etc.

Rather than scream and shout about the policy, we need to tap into the opportunity. I am already meeting with my team to decide where the cash will come in.

My only problem is the politicians; they are the ones who launder money, spray cash in parties to show off their wealth, and use money for elections. They will definitely try to kill the policy.

Let's watch what happens.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Must Barca Cheat To Win! by stagger: 3:55pm On Apr 28, 2011
Barca play good football, then spice up the fine play sandwich with deceptions, diving and outright cheating.

They are a bunch of cheats! People like Sergio Busquets are a disgrace to football.

If I were FIFA president, I will have such players banned for bringing the game into disrepute. angry
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Get A Brand New Mini Laptop For #14k! Enjoy Up To 70% Off From April 26-april 28,2011 ! by stagger: 12:13am On Apr 28, 2011
I know the website where these laptops are obtained. Many of the SDE internet marketers tried selling me the manual for an insane amount of 4,000, only for me to do a thorough online search and come up with the website, in minutes.
PoliticsRe: Orji Wins Abia State by stagger: 5:38pm On Apr 27, 2011
Truly happy I have no business with Abia state. Anytime I have to travel there, I feel sorry for Abians for the kind of governors they have had over the years.
CelebritiesRe: D'banj, Don Jazzy Acquire A Bentley Each by stagger: 12:10pm On Apr 22, 2011
Congrats to them. Generally, I am happy for our musicians. At least no one wants to see any of them self-destruct like Majek Fashek.

However, I would advise to spend their money and invest for the future. In showbiz, the glamour is all gone too soon. It can happen in a very fast 10 years.
PoliticsRe: Final Results Of 2011 Presidential Election By Jega by stagger: 11:10pm On Apr 18, 2011
I am seriously considering if living in Nigeria is such a good idea. Look at the level of hatred and bigotry spewed out on so many threads on this forum in the last 2 days. What will happen in 2015, the year the US said Nigeria runs the risk of splitting.

If GEJ makes good his promise not to contest in 2015, I am out of Nigeria for good.
BusinessRe: I Need A Laptop For Less Than 15k by stagger: 9:29pm On Apr 18, 2011
What f I show you where you can buy any of these two attached devices at a cost of N20,000. and have it shipped to you right here in Nigeria?

PoliticsRe: Joy In Kano Over Rumour Of Military Coup In Nigeria by stagger: 4:37pm On Apr 18, 2011
johnkent:
Make we divide. Thats what we've been asking for. Please lets go our separate ways
If all these people chanting "let us divide" here on NL have been to Bosnia, Croatia, Slovenia, Kosovo and other republics that fought each other after the break-up of Yugoslavia to see the himan carnage that occured, no one will be saying this rubbish.

What will be the border of the new "divided" Nigeria? Poster answer the question.

There are just a few persons creating problems for this country. They should be identified and dealt with. Followers only practice what their leaders preach.
PoliticsRe: Joy In Kano Over Rumour Of Military Coup In Nigeria by stagger: 4:22pm On Apr 18, 2011
johnkent:
Make we divide. Thats what we've been asking for. Please lets go our separate ways
If all these people chanting "let us divide" here on NL have been to Bosnia, Croatia, Slovenia, Kosovo and other republics that fought each other after the break-up of Yugoslavia to see the himan carnage that occured, no one will be saying this rubbish.

What will be the border of the new "divided" Nigeria? Poster answer the question.

There are just a few persons creating problems for this country. They should be identified and dealt with. Followers only practice what their leaders preach.

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