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samworthyever:
If you are not careful you will impregnate another girl. Take a bold step today and be a responsible father and husband.

No force people into life regrettable actions o. He can take care of the child and the girl without being married to them. Being responsible is a choice. Marriage wouldn’t make a man responsible.

Lamanii22:
you're such a clown!

This days one don’t know what to believe in Nairaland anymore. Too much of insane stories and narration everywhere. Attention seekers and Bloggers at work

Oduok:
Wow! This challenge is striking. How do I go about that? I only use softwares in my engineering endeavours. Softwares like HYSYS, MATLAB, EXCEL etc. I was not trained on building softwares. I would so much love to.

Then you outsource it. What platform do you want to have the software?

paulolee:
hmm...this wan na e be things o..gee imagine say na ur sister be dt girl and you here this talk from the guy wey gv her belle...watin u go advise d guy??

God forbid it happens to my siblings but being in such situation. I will never advice my sis to go marry a man because of pregnancy. Tomorrow I go come hear say she don loose one eye. Instead it is better she develop herself and take care of her baby as a single mother and if the said guy is responsible, the guy can support too.

LawBreaker:
Is it a good idea to marry a girl cuz she is pregnant for you even though you don't love her. I have till this month to make a decision cuz their parents say that if the girl gives birth in their house the child automatically becomes theirs and will never be mine. It is really giving me sleepless night, I am seriously having double mind. When she got pregnant, the parents dropped her at my place and say she is gonna stay here and give birth. It was not really easily living with her. She was always going through my phone and making trouble with my female friends. As a result, our stay wasn't peaceful so her parents came and picked her back to her house. Most persons say as she is already pregnant for me I should marry her. I don't want something I will regret later on.

Oga na set up o.
You’re only responsible for the well-being of the child and to an extent the Mother. Nothing more, nothing else.
Every other thing na setup. A Law court will always give you access to your child anytime and anyday. Just Goan look for money.
Take my advise, I don’t wanna hear a “A man murdered his wife due to frustration” tomorrow o

Freedom

Oduok:
Our Esteemed Data Analysts/Scientists. Please tell me what software I can learn to enable me manage academic records like register, report card, broadsheet etc - starting with primary and secondary school records. I just completed a course on Data Science/Analytics Intro with IBM and want to see how I can start to manage small data before thinking of big data, machine learning and artificial intelligence. Thank you in advance.

Why not create them yourself

Kenplay:
This simps are ruining are our society, the redpill is working but the rate of simp men in the society is still 90%.we need to do something, our society is falling apart. Where is the pride and dignity of the men folks?

A guy doing a public proposal to marry a girl and even publicly begging her to accept his proposal. Men have lost it, the F gender folks are now so entiletled because the knows simps are everywhere.

One just posted this morning about what to do about his double dating girlfriend, I felt like smatching my phone on the floor then I remember its a 50k phone. Men has lost control, the f gender has taken over. We now do the complain while the do the control. In that same thread one useless guy told him to just stick around and enjoy the punna, WTF!!! Is this how low the men folks have been reduce to?

How can a man spend his time schooling and hustling and after he succeded and meet a girl will now tell the girl “Am lucky to find a girl like you", what nonsense, she suppose to be lucky to find and not the other way round. I see men hustling and sweating just to bring the spoils of war of their hustle at the feet of a woman. A man will succeed and abandon his parents and siblings but all his hustling is going to a bitch. What is happening?

A girl will post on social media and the simp cartel will give her 1000 comment and like within 5 minute with comments like you are pretty, bla bla bla even flooding their inbox with useless messages. Where have the pride and dignity of men gone to? What happened to the dignity of manhood? What is happening?

Young men should be thought how to understand self value irrespective of who they are socializing with. I don’t see any reason why a guy will lower his value for girl in the hope she will be pleased. Everyone should have mutual respect. Attraction should never be a reason for stupidity.

ghettokid1:
God is wealth

The most insane comment to this thread.

stormborn28:
thank God you are also seeing it from my perspective. It is not that I don't advice like you advocated but over the years of my experience with girls... The moment you give them advice especially teenagers to stay away from relationships, you automatically become their number one enemy.. They will even stay away from you. Na day

people stay away from you the moment you appear judgmental. So try as you can not to judge people. Only tell them the consequences of their actions. This is true especially when this people are adult and grown enough to know what to do with their lives.

But on a second hand it is normal for people not to like you when you tell them the truth. So you owe no one an apology for saying the truth and you shouldn’t be concerned when people stay away from you because you speak the truth. It is normal except you yourself have ulterior motive with saying the truth.

Casandra25:
I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?

This is super story, a life of strife and sorrow ooo, This is super story, good food and housing

Omar09:
Be careful with what you say. And what part of “reply me when you are done being emotional” you don't understand?

Get out!

Omar09:
Reply me when you are done feeling emotional.

Rape apologists.
It is people like you who stigmatize the victims of rape and turn a blind eye to the perpetrator.
Get lost

stormborn28:
it is you that don't understand... You don't know some people are bent on self destruction? A typical case is pharaoh. God even told Moses I know he won't allow you to go

Like I have been saying your goal to advise people is not to save them from destruction but to create awareness. Not all people indulging in bad things are always bad. Some are just ignorance and full of youthful exuberance.
Creating awareness could help give a better mindset and maybe just maybe a change would happen.

HappyPagan:
Don't blame him. Blame God. God failed as usual.. like he failed all those Christians Boko Haram killed with bombs.


Sad story.

Then what do you say about the rapist?
God wouldn’t do for man what man can do for himself.

Omar09:
It's quite a pity we failed to see that this girl kept doing the wrong thing for a really long time that it felt right. It was just a matter of time for her to take correction, which she did, but can no longer implement it (rest her soul and may her killers be brought to justice).

To those arguing the existence of God on both sides (whether he exists or not) should understand that doing the right thing, in the right place and at the right time goes a long way in keeping one safe. And like physics taught me, nothing is ever 100% work efficient. But 60% one puts goes a long way in keeping one safe.

Our government failed us in providing security does not mean we should fail ourselves in giving ourselves security.

N:B for those emotional train wrecks that will come at me with "I am just a rape apologist" should ask themselves this question "what happened when I was in a place I was not supposed to be and in the wrong time"?

You are really sick and nothing but demented. How has her going to read in a church be a wrong thing for a very long time?
If you don’t have anything tangible to say, is it not better you keep your dirty teeth shut!
Instead you to criticize the lack of discipline among rapist of our present generation, you’re here spitting nonsense. I pray your unborn children don’t experience this.

Bade007:
Do i need frameworks in building web applications...cant i just use html css nd js

We have Frontend and backend frameworks. Depends on which stack you’re based. Framework provide all sort of library and functionality you may need as a web dev. E.g for backend dev you may automatically get mail functionality, file functionality, HTTP functionality, routing functionality and so many. All you need to do is to code your view and business logic then you’re good to go. But it ain’t necessary if you can get the functionality you need yourself.

Pharaoh350s:
Am serious
I just want many people to call her, so she will know how serious I am

Oga Na you sabi o. I sha don tell you my own. It is very disgusting and only heaven knows what strangers will say...
I sha don’t believe your tales.

Hypekolo:
am new to blogging please what is webspace

I mean get a website. Goto a reputable web space seller e.g GoDaddy, smart web or WhoGoHost.

Spiff20:
All these people saying it will end in tears, must every adventure end in tears? babe see this, if you truly loved the first guy you won't fall for the second. Now if you leave the first guy for the second, chances are that you'll still leave him for the third guy and the fourth and the fifth. So keeping moving till you find your last bus stop. This doesn't have to end in tears.

The tales of moonlight

bmdmixer:
I came to read lies by boys who are still dreaming of having sex

oya lie-reader make you hear your truth na?

Karemarealty288:
Someone I know once bleeped his girlfriend inside a Blindman's apartment with him at the corner playing Lucky Dube.........

oga Na you jare

Hypekolo:
please I have a script and I don't know how to upload or use it.... please how can I use it??
I need help

Get a web space and then upload the script

Pharaoh350s:
Am gud damned serious
Please help me call her

oga remove that number from a public forum if that is truely her number. What sort of nonsense is that! Hian.
Me sha know say na lie you dey.
Scammmer, so for our mind na girl we dey call abi?

NengakGodwin1:
Oga "professor" I wan learn from you oo

I am not a professor o. But girls don’t follow those archaic rules. Some do but if you are bent on that omo na express road you dey go o.

Bossmanly:
Good evening everyone

Please i joined this platform to seek for help because i know many people must have experienced this terrible issue.

My story goes thus:

1. I have a relationship which i envisaged to marry next year, but i always pity myself.

2. I have had encounter with ladies manytimes which i never knew it was a problem. Those days, when i had sex we were always eager to finish it, so i wud rush to release and let go...because it was always at the ladies family house.

4. The issue has now aggravated up to the fact that whenenever i have ordinary kissing with my fiancee, i would have released sperm and my dick will never get erected again....

5. I remember some times i had an issue with two ladies before i got my fiancee.....ordinary sucking breast would cause sperm to come out


Please what can i do to address thiss issue

Summary:

I release when i kiss few seconds
I release when lick or play with breast
When i try not to romance, 15secons i insert my dic..k i would have released...

Please help my life

oga you’re an overcomer. Don’t disturb us.

The curses of the past ladies is at work.

Abstain from sex! No! Una no go hear.
Now see !

Go see doctor jare abi you want make Nairaland doctors use you do experiment?

hchiboy:
You are right, it is a simple thing,if you are not ready for a relationship stay clear and stop calling girls names.......after all mothers ask money from their husbands, and secondly if you meet a girl who is more interested in your money and you know you cannot afford such luxury let her go she will definitely meet her type of man

Oga better start behaving like a man. How is it because I am the man I am then responsible for her finances? Am I her husband or her father?
Abeg o

Millenniumlady:
Ralk is cheap

I wish you knew me in real life but I will leave you to your imaginations.

DaInferno:
as I d read am... I d picture wetin one babe for area the come my side come do, she no d want go back her house, she go gist sote gist go finish
but guess what, I never still ask her out
I have go this weird feeling that

if you want something, ask for it, no d do like say person dey ur mind, I'd respect that, besides, these days,na money boys d find
and I am reserved type of guy, I no d want jump into conclusions before person do me anyhow later

if you like her then invite her for an outing. Then the next for a date between you too. If she accepts then she open for your shot. You gat be confident man.

NengakGodwin1:
Lol. I wan learn from you oo my "ticha".

Those observation na ancient ones o. Behavioral engineering is the way to go. You find a girl, you understand what she may want and you look like it. Simple and short.

NengakGodwin1:
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Don't just read and relax.

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Let's begin...


Let me tell you a short story. 

Back in the days. 

When I was in J.S.S 2 in high school. I used to be a very SHY guy. I didn't used to feel free to express myself around Girls. 

As in bah... Whenever I see a "fine geh" I have a crush on. My heart will start beating fast. And then, I'll start feeling nervous like say dem ask one dummy to stand in front of class to answer a hard question. 

And he knows they'll laugh at him for giving the wrong answer. 

But, fast forward to today. 

Omo. Nengak don get mind. Lol.

I fit stand in front of babe and talk to her like say na my junior sister. 

So, how was I able to overcome that fear of approaching girls I like? 

Well, it's a long story. 

I'll tell you some other time. 

Back to our topic. 

My guy. You see, most times, when a girl likes you. She can't just start coming to toast you directly. 

WHY? 

This is because, right from history. Up till date. In the African society... It's almost always seen as a taboo for a GIRL to openly tell you she likes you first. 

So this social conditioning has made them a kind of reserved. They'll do their best to hide their true intends even if they're itching to let you know. 

So how can you tell if she LIKES you or not? 

They usually do this using cues and some non-verbal ways. 

Let me break it down for you, my guy. 

Although, there are so many signs. 

But, I'll only show you about 3 of them today. 

1.) Giggles & Laughs: this is usually when you say something that is not really comic but she still finds it funny. Or at times. She just sees you and keeps maintaining eye contact for a while, then keeps smiling at you. 

2.) Hair Touching: girls are fond of gently playing with their hair around guys they have a crush on. If you notice a girl doing this when you guys are taking then she's likely into you. 

Now, this may sound too good to be true. 

But, it's psychological and it's something they usually do subconsciously. Without even thinking about it. 

I mean, they just can't help it. 

If you think this is not real... 

Then, it means you're too logical. And we're talking of girls here. I mean, tender creatures that are largely driven by emotions. 

Okay? So, f**k logic. 

3.) Communication: this is usually in form of verbal or non-verbal ways. 

For instance; she'll try so hard to talk to you. Or maybe, just ask you a question about something so you can talk to her. 

Personally, I've had several instances where a girl will even know something but deliberately ask me questions about it. 

They do this to know more about you. Or see if you're a potential date. 

So they can get close to you, more faster. 

At times, she'll ask someone your name and keep calling you almost everytime with a sexy voice so you can notice her. 

Let's say I meet her for the first time and I press her emotional buttons correctly(topic for another day). 

And then, I collect her number. And also save it with her name. And I leave. 

Before I know it...

She'll start calling me in a sexy way with my name. Whenever she sees me. 

Omo! 

The first time it happened. I was kind of shock. Until I later realized that girls like to do that to guys they have a crush on. 

Another Way Is... 

They start tapping your shoulder. Sometimes she'll even touch you gently and say something like; "Hi, how's your bla, bla, bla..."

Then pause and expect you to say something(which is why it's good to know how to start a conversation with girls...) 

Because, that will also determine if she'll start avoiding you like most guys or see you as a badass guy she'll like to kiss, date and even sleep with.

AND, here's the truth...

Knowing if a Girl likes you is not ENOUGH. She may show you "green light" today, and begin to "form class" the next day for you. 

Heck, she may even snub you and start calling someone who's close to you with sweet words like;

"sweetheart", "my love" "darling", and that's if you don't even see her kissing or realize she's sleeping with someone who's not even BETTER than you... And that's why you need to bear these 3 THINGS in mind.

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