₦airaland Forum

realstars:
This is good for the poor man, but they will mistakes it for vanity upon vanity things.
Jah bless all.,

And your point is?

madmohamed:
anybody who don't like better things should go and die. Just saying it for some people.

Better thing to who?
Many people are lovers of their oppressors because they someday wish to become the oppressor themselves.

naija which way?

why not prophesy about corona virus, Boko Haram and Ebola. HIV dey berekete, you no prophesy.
Prohesy when saraki, Oshiomole, Atiku and their kinds will pay for their loot of Nigeria

Instead you turn to a political prophet, so that when David Lyon wins he will come to your church with Ghana-Must-go Bag and give testimonies.

OsuAmaka:
Nnamdi Kanu buried his dog but couldn't bury his parents. No Ipob paraphernalia or insignia was in sight at Kanu's parents burial. I challenge anyone to show me a pic of Ipobs waving their akpu stinking flag during the burial. flat skulls could have rolled if ipobs had displayed their rags.


-Osu amaka

Is this not madness??

maasoap:
Time had been wasted, FG delayed and that chapter had been permanently closed



Not everyone has capacity to think deeply. There are kids in this forum, it's expected.

Thanks for your understanding and mature response.

maasoap:
My man, it's too late for evacuation, let's face the truth. Even Chinese government has locked down that state for now, that's to tell you how dangerous the situation is. This is not being heartless, it's being known what is at stake.

I clearly understand how deadly COVID-19 is, I am not even suggesting bring them back if we can't help them.
Instead I am saying we should stay away from some statement of hate simply because they went to seek greener pastures doesn't make them rebels who we ignore to their fate.
Many Nigerians are shining teeth because to them they are in an untouchable region where they think they have laugh best because they have laugh last. But I pray things doesn't get worse than it already is, if it does, this same people might beg for visa to wuhan itself. God forbid such.

AuroraB:
Make sure you indicate interest when volunteers are called there else you are another hypocrite
During Ebola, the few quarantined ones were taking to their heels thereby, endangering the lives of others. One ran to Aba claiming to wish to die surrounded by relatives.
These ones here may not have the virus but leaving their houses for the airport and all...What's the assurance they won't get it alongside their rescuers
Show me a quarantine facility for them here

Did I ever conclude they should be brought in without any medical facility? My intention with my statement is that they shouldn't be ignored as most Nigerian have concluded simply because they went to china with their own legs, it could be anyone. There is nothing stopping us from building a five start containment and laboratory. Rather we find justifications to abandon everything and fold our hands.

Openbusiness:
This is a most unfortunate hypocritical statement that lacks any sense of critical reasoning. In case you have never heard of it, there is something called "The Greater Good", and it supersedes whatever is "good". In this case, evacuating 50 people from a highly infectious incurable virus zone is good, but NOT risking the lives of over 150 million people is the greater good. Nigeria's densely populated cities with stone age prehistoric medical facilities CANNOT survive an incurable airborne coronavirus epidemic outbreak. They should have left Wuhan sooner when it was getting clear how dangerous the virus was, even if not abroad they could have gone to other Chinese cities that were not ground zero. Now, ground zero, aka Wuhan, is already on lock down, thousands infected, their government over stretched, they say it has gotten so bad that the infected are being dumped into medical camps and left to die, hundreds of body bags daily, bodies are being incinerated and cremated because the Chinese government is now trying to cover up their pandemic crisis from the rest of the world to prevent their economy from crashing, melting down and slipping to a recession they might never recover from. Right now, they are probably infected already, or not. We don't know, but evacuation from ground zero is too late at this time. If you think that is heartless, well don't you think bringing the virus here within the shores of 180 million people is more heartless? Do you think China that put Wuhan on lockdown is stupid? Do you think Chinese officers going around arresting infected people are stupid? If they don’t do that early and fast enough, the virus will destroy their country. But since you're so kind and loving, can you find the nearest leper camp and give those lepers a hug? They have been ostracized from larger society for a similar reason. Since you're not heartless, maybe you can invite and bring some of them into your home

Your overly conclusive mindset has not helped your long epistle, I haven't said they should be brought in back with our poor facilities, i have only stated that we can't make insensitive statement and make mockery of them because we are in a safer place. Many statement are just born out of jealousy, because many feel they went for greener pasture, their conclusion is that their cry should fall on deaf ears.
My own part.

Angelfrost:
Sticks and Stones sir... Sticks and stones!!!

The Truth is what it is... If it comes out "Heartless and Insensitive", then sincere apologies, but it remains so.

Maybe you clearly missed my last statement with regards to this country's health ministry... Bringing them back is not the issue (actually so simple that a single individual can handle or fund it). The real issue remains "Quarantine and Testing"!!! Do we have the necessary facilities to hold and run necessary precautionary tests for 14-28 days??!...

I can join you dear "saint" to act all empathetic and sympathetic to their plight, but we will still arrive at the same junction of this nation's glaring unpreparedness to handle the immigration threat of the virus. Thank you.

The opposite of being empathetic is not heartlessness..
You statements was born out of pure rejoice of the fall of those you feel have taken the decision you didn't.

I fully understand the complexity of bringing them back, it is fine if we can't bring them back because we don't have medical facility yet.
But does this lead us to the path we start digging up past of how they left the country for greener pasture.
Remember this are just men looking for what to eat, they are not terrorists or rebel who has mastermind destruction for Nigeria, They left to look for daily bread, you can't start to bring them stones because they made a choice of survival in the past.
If hospital and lack of medical facility is what is stopping us. why lets not swallow our pride and accept our pathetic failures as a country and start putting them in place and maybe we can save some when things are fully in place.
INSTEAD OF MAKING REJOICING AND ARROGANT COMMENTS ABOUT HOW THEY LEFT OUR FAILING COUNTRY FOR A GREENER PASTURE.

Notasaints:
I thought they always scream Nigeria is a zoo Nigeria is a shlthole? let them stay there biko.

So in other words, you're happy they are suffering in their greener pasture. right

Na God know why e put me with people like you on this planet.

So full of insensitivity and common sense. Just pray that Corona virus doesn't creep into Nigeria.. see you will beg for visa to run to Libya or Gambia.... You still don't understand some fundamental principles of living.
Your Government can't follow the footsteps of advanced country and bring and quarantine it people, and here you are shining teeth and nodding head like agama lizard. Fully in support. It was the same way, we have unknowingly supported our government with their failed leadership till this moment because we thought at that time, we were revenging.

Angelfrost:
Bring you back to where??! What quarantine facilities do we have in this country??!... Ironically, some of them would have made derogatory and condescending remarks about their country few months ago, before the outbreak. All of a sudden, they are begging to be brought back.

Well, Health minister and ministry, over to you!!!... Come and explain why detection and quarantine facilities are not fully in place for such exigencies.

Such a heartless and insensitive statement from a typical Nigerian. later we complain of how bad our government are. Now you're in a safer Haven, just look at your callous statement just like when our politicians get power.
Let me ask you, so advanced country that prepared facilities and brought in their Citizens are stupid right? They didn't feel that those citizen left for greener pastures right? The didn't think that those people may have made terrible statement right?

Heartlessness is in our nature as a typical Nigerian, we have been treated like that So I understand your behavior. But if we can use our head better, may something could change.

fvckchina:
there is no free lunch.

this is called "the cost of earning quick money in china".

they choose not to earn 300naira everyday in nigeria , then they should not feel sorry to risk their lives earning 300 dollars in china.

pray it doesn't creep into Africa and Nigeria, you will come back and delete this statement. Just because they need your help now, you're finding justifications to be insensitive. Are Nigerians the only people in wuhan?
Don't we also have Chinese in Nigeria. Because they left Nigeria, does it make them bad?

Please let's think while we talk.

The typical psychology of women is that they need someone who can be able act like a man.
If you can do it, they have no problem with you, whether you are so so old or so young.

The girlfriend is so pretty , Chai minus one for guys o.

excanny:
We go seize all her cars and assets. Haha.

And after that what will the papa Churchill tell his son he did to his mother by the time his son is fully grown?

While planning, take a glimpse of the possibile future even if it is just for a moment.

Budline1:
It's simple...Here is the honest truth..Money is the only language they understand these days. Some won't even agree to be just friends if you've got no dough.
Imagine one telling me to pay her house rent, I didn't, she refuse to talk to me again. Another asked me to buy foods for her sister on our first date, I didn't, she no pick phone again, and many more like that...Some will quit talking to u immediately when they notice you aren't wasting money on them.. Only for you to later see them hanging out with some G guys with cash or big men..
Even one fine Muslim girl wey dey cover head was claiming to be a virgin but at the same time looking for the highest bidder to date, I just weak
Meanwhile, spending on them don't guarantee that you'll still get them... They scam a lot too.. Learned the hard way, they don't know what 'appreciation' is coz a lot of guys r willing to spend on them. You've got to be very smart when dealing with a Naija fine gel.

One is comfortable too..House, work, car, cuteness, confidence, package dey but many beautiful gels eyes don tear pass all those ones in the recent times...

Most of them are aspiring to be like Chioma and Regina Daniels now.. And looking for men like Davido and Ned. You'll be shocked to see how these so called fine girls forming hard for boys send DMs to very rich guys and celebrities online. It's all flawed..

There is no more romance in Nigeria.

But you have forgotten about "The Game"

Attraction isn't a choice. If you like a girl, you can get her if you understand her psychology.
If you know she is materialistic, show her money instead of spending it. If she wants marriage, flash the marriage right in her eyes but don't marry her. This is what we call the cat string theory.
Also girl uses this against guys to test them too, the only way of girls cat string is to appear unmoved and unshaken.

franchasng:
The first time a girl wooed me shortly after my WAEC, I warned her and told her to repent I was so shocked because I saw it as a big sin because I felt she wanted us to have sex bases on my mom's preachings

I remembered this girl shading tears as I walked away angrily praying she repents fast so she won't go to hell because we used to watch cinemas then showing that the world will soon end


Very fine girl oh, I later realised my mistake years later and she was gone

Toseenlove:
90% of Shiithole Scums & Simps can't do without that stinky thing under the Skirt. Their lives revolves around It and depends on It. They will actually run mad and go beserk without Women. Don't let anyone them Idiot deceive you. Nigerian Men are the lowest of all Creatures.....

Your father and male children included.... Nonsense and ingredient.

AshiraWealthy:
Veeeeerry true.


Once we the decent ones tell them we dont club, we dont drink, we don't subscribe to premarital sex, they'll lose interest and immediately stop chatting. But I'm not bothered cos it simply goes to show what they are after and im not ready to compromise not even for millions of naira which they dont even have to offer.
That is why many of them run back after marriage lamenting how their spouse is cheating on them.

#likebegatlike

You don't understand do you?

Omar09:
What is an “Alpha Male”?
An alpha male is a man who takes charge, one who imposes his will on others, not the other way round. Other men want to be him, women want to be with him. An alpha male intimidates, he's unquestionably in charge, no matter what the situation. But it doesn't necessarily mean that an Alpha male has money or he is a billionaire. He is just confident in what he has and own them with pride (this is for those who always compare Alpha Male to those rich billionaire). The essence of an Alpha Male or his predominantly goal is to have as many women as possible and yet not be under control of any of them. An Alpha male is one who doesn't stick to one woman. Yes you heard right. Now let's take a look at how nature defined Alpha Male. In the lion kingdom, lions are divided into tribes. There are different tribes in different territories. With their territories marked and defended heavily. A young male lion once wined off its mother will leave his own Tribe he once lived and loved and was loved to another territory to displace the already Alpha male. Once the the Alpha male is displaced, the new one will take over. Now what is the Alpha male measured in the animal is strength and number of female lions. Look at the walrus, the strongest gets to mate with as much females as it wants. Even in the days of our forefathers, it was strength and women. The number of women you are married to determines your managerial skill, determines your reputation in the society. It was never amount of money.

To those who think Alpha male are those making that cash, it's never about the amount of money. It's about the number of women you have which you are not loyal to.

And to those who say NL Alphas are always about women. It's the number of women we can have and not loyal to determines our Alphaness.
Alpha is always related with sexual dominance and not necessarily finance or otherwise.

Cc ubunja Martinez39s Michellekabod2 AstroG1

There is nothing as alpha male in the context you're putting it.

Empowerme63:
the topic and story doesn't align..

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You need a good mini van.
Simple, Do you need to add that price tag

Abetterperson:
The first time I woo a guy I liked I was 15

The boy was dark and kinda my type even if I was young I knew teen love is a stupid love so I first didn't want to tell him.
I saw he was getting close to one girl in my area and even if am far more beautiful than she is, she is more out spoken than me which I know he loves
I felt insecure about her so I decided to tell the boy my feelings.
one night called the boy to meet me in one store in my area and told the guy my feeling for me
the guy laughed and told me that am like a sister to him

I swear e pain me

he and the other girl are now dating but is okays sha

but look at the brighter side of it.
He was cold but he was truthful, that guy should be your true friend. They are rare.

AfroKnight:
I’m just curious. Why did she think it was appropriate to “hiss” and walk away? All these entitled babes who are actually trying to hide their abysmal communication skills... Rubbish.

you na sabi guy jare.

excanny:
Make she go spend some time for jail.

And what will churchill tell the baby when he grows up into a man.
That he jail his mother

Oga calm down, when two people in a relationship are fighting as much as it isn't violent or destructive just keep looking at them.

Pelon:
That's right... But,the way you put it,might make people think acting cold,unmoved or rigid around women might get them attracted to you.. But putting it this way I concur

They could still get attracted to you, not all of them though but some.

excanny:
Surprised this guy is just waking up. Long overdue.

After paying, her mouth and brain go dey alright.

Na you wan borrow tonto the money abi?

shogsman:
She won't enjoy it so much when the Court orders her to pay him like 50m

Ehen from where?

Youngzubi:
Does Every Guy Experience This?

Good Day My Fellow Nairalanders..

I just felt like sharing my first experience trying to woo a girl, it was like hell tho... so funny

Each time I remember this event it always make me to wonder if it was normal or maybe I wasn't bold. Some times ago I was on my way to visit a friend when I came in contact with this edo girl, she was so pretty that I kept on staring at her forgetting that i'm supposed to cross to the other side of the road cos where I stood was a very busy Junction.

I dismissed the idea of visiting my guy and followed her closely. I wanted to know her street, that was mission accomplished as I was able to get exactly where her house was and asked some dudes for few information about her.

Her name was favour, from then I started preparing to woo her after which I showed her to my friends secretly, trust niggars they started pushing me to confront her but the problem was how best to approach her and do the wooing tricks.

Two weeks later of cramming some lines and tricks, I wore better clothes with my neighbor's perfume. Minutes later I was standing at their street and it wasn't too long when she came out I guessed to buy something, I swear the more she approached was the more my heart beat increased, sweating profusely even it got to some extent that my legs wasn't steady anymore, so I pretended I didn't see her as she passed.

Oh my God, my urine was hot as I rushed to the gutter to ease myself I don't even know if removed smoke sef.. that one passed, months passed still I was not able to approach her.

One day I made up my mind to approach her. It was more like do or die, I wore my clothes dressed casually this time and memorized things again both how to greet her and all that, God made it easy as I saw her before I got to her street, she was walking and gisting with a female friend. I began to feel cold inside as I approached but I kept walking towards the due.. her friend stopped a bike and bade her good by so she turned and started walking to her street.

I quickly walked up to her and said Hi! She turned and stared directly into my eye.. Jesus I froze instantly, my people I said hi to this girl like four good times, every down thing I memorized had now flashed off, my head was empty in fact I regretted ever confronting her she stood for a while trying to figure out who I was cos the expression on her face showed it all, emm please can we be friends? That was what I heard myself say, immediately she heard that she hissed loudly and crossed to the other side of the road and walked away.. I swear I couldn't sleep that night..

Abeg my people is it that I don't have liver or its a normal thing in guys, but i see guys do wooing anyhow as if it was their calling... let's discuss about it..

Modified..

you don't understand women psychology, also you put too much pressure on yourself before approaching her. It was a mission failed before it even started.

If you're a priest for today abeg gather here.

iphi:
bros wait small make I rest I nearly get heart attack for this one.. Honestly I will jokingly tell her my heart I have no plan of doing otherwise, I emphasize on joking because I started talking with her using jokes, then started chatting with jokes same way I do for patients this is me... So far she has never acted funny or awkward towards me... I really like her man

A moment will come when you may need to phase shift!

iphi:
it has finished, she said 1 hour break use it for date, so I got a 1 hour date with her she has another date in the evening

Abeg wetin u plan to use that one hour do?