Romance › Re: How Do U Feel When A Decent-looking Girl Tells You She Is Not Virgin? by Sterope(f): 6:50pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
 samyfreshsmooth: i feel depressed and suicidal 
honestly which kain yeye question be this |
Travel › Re: The Adventures Of A New UK Migrant by Sterope(f): 3:42pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
He can surely save up to £1000 pcm Lexusgs430: Let's assume £2100 is earned pcm (after tax). How could he save £14,000 per year? |
Celebrities › Re: Ibrahim Shatta Shares Pictures While Filming by Sterope(f): 9:41am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Sorry, your guy loves overacting. It is like his second nature.. doyinisaac: I am talking about the one that plays football |
Romance › Re: Nigerians React To Young Couple's Pre-Wedding Photos by Sterope(f): 9:39am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Haters are at play  |
Celebrities › Re: Ibrahim Shatta Shares Pictures While Filming by Sterope(f): 9:36am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Are you talking about the Odunlade that overacts? doyinisaac: Na wa oo,see epistle odunlade adekola is a better actor...stop comparing gala to shawarma |
Family › Re: Mother Ties Up Her Four Kids In A Viral Christmas Photo by Sterope(f): 12:52pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Nice photoshoot
Beautiful mum, beautiful kids. |
Family › Re: Marriage Palava part 2 by Sterope(f): 1:46pm On Dec 23, 2017 |
There is nothing you do that would ever right. Your family will come around sooner or later. It is good to compromise but you should draw a line when it starts affecting you regardless of whose ox would be gored. Take charge of your life, be a MAN. It is your job to protect your wife. Find a way to get back your wife and child. If your family does not respect you or your wife, it is not going to start now. Learn to be firm. deleSayo: I find it difficult to tell him to get out since he's my elder bro and I wanted to respect the age gap one thing is, my brother can be very manipulative and has a way of turning people against you. sending him away will give him a narrative to use to tell our family members that my wife and i threw him out when he needed help. he can do no wrong in my mother's eyes and she will definitely believe him was only trying to protect my wife's image by allowing him to stay |
Romance › Re: Date A Girl In Your Financial Lane by Sterope(f): 11:12pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
Bullshit! |
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Sterope(f): 9:01pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
You should be talking about your guy not your girl. He shouldnb ready to live a sad and miserable life if he thinks virginity qualifies a lady for marriage. |
Career › Re: Lady Quits Job Because Her Boss Calls Her "Sweetie" by Sterope(f): 6:39pm On Dec 21, 2017 |
It has to be UNWANTED. It is a form of bulllying. I don't like what you call me or what you do. You stop!!! You don't try to rationalise it the way you are doing. Also coming from a man to a woman in a workplace environment, it is awkward unless it is mutual Donjazzy12: So women who always refers to other women as sweeties and my love are sexually harassing them? If that is true, then every Nigerian young lady is a sexual harasser because I hear them call each other sweetheart every time. |
Career › Re: Lady Quits Job Because Her Boss Calls Her "Sweetie" by Sterope(f): 9:33am On Dec 21, 2017*. Modified: 6:32pm On Dec 21, 2017 |
Sexual harrasment is different from rape. Calling someone sweetie is sexual harassment. Sexual harassment is an unwanted sexual advances. Besides, IT IS A WORK ENVIRONMENT. You don't call your colleague ‘sweetie, dear, darling'. What happens to calling them by their given names? You should be formal and polite not flirtatious and sweet. How about the fact that she didn't appreciate the term and she made her feelings known several times but guess what he ignored it and even discussed it with a fellow colleague. That should not be acceptable. It can be very uncomfortable and awkward for the recipient. Donjazzy12: This is pure madness! Calling someone sweetie is not sexual harassment but in the West where men foolishly lost all their rights because of pussy, anything a man does is considered as rape until the woman says otherwise. |
Family › Re: I Want To Get Married, But My Parents Don't Like The Girl by Sterope(f): 10:18pm On Dec 19, 2017 |
This happens when your parents do not respect you  |
Career › Re: Lawyer Who Posed With Buhari's Daughter In Hijab During Bar Programe Speaks.PICS by Sterope(f): 1:18am On Dec 19, 2017*. Modified: 8:32pm On Dec 19, 2017 |
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Crime › Re: Man Narrowly Escapes Rape By Gay At A Private Party & The Comments Are Hilarious by Sterope(f): 9:27pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Men can be raped. |
Sports › Re: Thierry Henry Dressed In Igbo Traditional Attire (Photos) by Sterope(f): 9:49pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Very pathetic! |
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Career › Re: Firdaus Amasa Insulted Those Who Begged Her To Remove Her Hijab - Twitter User by Sterope(f): 9:52am On Dec 17, 2017 |
Law school is publicly funded and it is settled in Nigeria by the constitution and case laws that a ban on hijab amounts to infringement of her fundamental human right. Therefore law school cannot ban the hijab. It so unconstitutional. And it is not about the wearing but about the harm it would cause. We should also revisit how the whole legal dress code is influenced by one religion. safarigirl: if you don't want to talk about something because you assume it is not youe business, that is you.
Don't impose your views in life on mW, I want to talk about someone wearing hijab to law school because she is wearing it to the Nigerian Law School, not to the Mosque. If anyone brought up payment of tithe in Law School, everyone would talk about it. If she was wearing her hijab in a mosque, nobody would care.
This is Law School, it is my business. It haff do mbok, dem kuku never call her back. If they did not call Kayode Bello, is it this one Law School will have time for? That place is a cult, dem no send anybody outside their cult. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Grandfather Was A Native Doctor: Is The Generational Curse Phenomenon True? by Sterope(f): 9:33am On Dec 17, 2017 |
Only you they suffer from all these  You are the reason you have issues not your grandfather. Stop overthinking everything. Most of the things that has happened to you and will happen to you, are very normal. It happens to everyone. What we do not do is overthink it. It happens, we thank God and move on. You need to start living life and see a mental health specialist |
Career › Re: Firdaus Amasa Insulted Those Who Begged Her To Remove Her Hijab - Twitter User by Sterope(f): 9:28am On Dec 17, 2017 |
You can talk about tithe because you are Christian. I am a Muslim and it is not my beewax. I wouldn't make it mine now or anytime soon. Considering that hijab does not affect anyone, you don't have a reason to make light of the situation. Let's be civil and mind our business. safarigirl: you can talk about it....unlike you, apparently, I don't take religion personal.
I talk about tithe, I laugh at Christians when they divide themselves according to denominations and slate each other.
I did not say "minding my business" is a hobby....I said I cannot kill myself on top of anything. I can comment on it, but I will not take anything personal as long as we stick to the topic.
Nigerians are too sensitive, see now, small hijab and everyone is crying upandan, small tithe and everyone is shouting upandan, but mention good governance now and so many will be quiet.
You have bigger problems in this country than some hijab-wearing chic that will cause the death or imprisonment of an innocent man one day  |
Career › Re: Firdaus Amasa Insulted Those Who Begged Her To Remove Her Hijab - Twitter User by Sterope(f): 9:18am On Dec 17, 2017 |
On hijab, it doesn't affect you in anyway. You can't tell me how important how it is whether you are a Muslim or not. It doesn't stop her from being proper dressed. If you adopted that strategy you would minded your business and just ignored this thread and other related threads. Well, religion is sensitive. I wouldn't go about talking about other religions or their issues like thithing or how other Christians do not see catholics asbtrue Christians. safarigirl: there is nothing with this level of popularity that does not affect everyone in some way, do not assume that because it is a hijab issue, it only concerns Muslims. It concerns us all in one way or the other.
It happened in the Nigerian Law School, not an Islamic Law School, so it will affect Nigerians generally, be they Muslim or Christian.
Not a lot of things are important to me, to be sincere. I find that many people build their lives on things that don't matter and give credence to what they shouldn't. So, I have adopted the I cannuh comman kee myself strategy, it helps you live longer 
Y'all need to stop being so sensitive, it's never that serious . |
Christianity Etc › Re: Christians Who Converted From Islamic Families Share Your Stories by Sterope(f): 9:11am On Dec 17, 2017 |
OP: let's talk down about Islam You: I think I know all about it but Christianity doesn't make sense either. It is funny how people enjoy castigating other religions like theirs is perfect and can measure up to any human logic  . Statsocial, you are only going to end up shooting yourself in the leg with your stu.pid thread. hakeem4: My father was born into a Muslim polygamous family, while my mother was born into a polygamous Christian family
I grew up with my mother so indirectly I was a Christian but had a Muslim name. I started reading both religious holy book and found out they’re don’t make sense with a lot of scientific errors in them. So I started to question my belief, I was an agnostic at that point
Until I started asking my father some questions about religion but he couldn’t answer. So I became an atheist |
Career › Re: Firdaus Amasa Insulted Those Who Begged Her To Remove Her Hijab - Twitter User by Sterope(f): 9:06am On Dec 17, 2017 |
Still it is funny how you judge the importance of certain things to someone based on how important it is to you.... especially something of a religious nature that doesn't affect you in anyway. safarigirl: she must have a big head if the wig is not enough covering 
I am not planning to stand up to anything in that useless legal profession, even the allure is now lost on me. Everyone is hypocritical, everyone is biased and there is no equality or upholding of justice in the Nigerian legal profession. It is as useless as the nation itself and has served more as a means of oppression than elevation's
I just want to be done with it |
Career › Re: Firdaus Amasa Insulted Those Who Begged Her To Remove Her Hijab - Twitter User by Sterope(f): 8:58am On Dec 17, 2017 |
Yes. The more reason why she couldn't have been there. Guests didn't share the same entrance with the aspirants, staff or dignitaries. Nelsizzy: Imagine this one. And you were there  |
Career › Re: Firdaus Amasa Insulted Those Who Begged Her To Remove Her Hijab - Twitter User by Sterope(f): 8:48am On Dec 17, 2017 |
Bloody liar, you couldn't have been there. |
Career › Re: Firdaus Amasa Insulted Those Who Begged Her To Remove Her Hijab - Twitter User by Sterope(f): 8:47am On Dec 17, 2017 |
So because she has committed worse sins, she should commit all sins...wow! What a way to reason? How do you sleep at night when you easily dismiss other people's religion? Who are you to talk about the sins she has comitted or would commit? How does it affect the use of the hijab? Religion aside, it would be hypocritical of you to stand up to some sexism rules in the legal profession when it finally brews. We are not allowed to wear the wig into the hall and the wig is not enough head covering for some heads. safarigirl: abeg leave these people. They need something to hold on to and religion is it, else, I don't see why a hijab is so much of an issue as if she has not committed worse sins previously.
The wig is enough head covering in my opinion |
Career › Re: Firdaus Amasa Insulted Those Who Begged Her To Remove Her Hijab - Twitter User by Sterope(f): 8:30am On Dec 17, 2017 |
She was not over zealous. Any muslim would tell you that covering of the female hair is extremely important. If some Christians choose to fornicate and some don't, it doesn't not make them overzealous. She does not use makeup even if her had, I really do not see the correlation between the use of hijab and use of makeup. It is her problem to deal with, not ours. The use of Hijab will not affect anything or anyone. She still appears well dressed for the ceremony. Just like thithing, this is a religious issue you wouldn't understand because it isn't yours. ifyalways: Hahaha.
I soooooooooooooo hate over zealous, religious people with their over Sabi : Christian or Muslim.
Meanwhile she did put on lipstick and eye shadow, does her religion permit that?
Yeye |
Islam › Re: Muric To Hold A Press Conference On Firdaus Amasa's Hijab Saga by Sterope(f): 9:20pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
You are mixing things up. One goes straight to one of the fundamental human rights, the other does not. I don't like unrelated examples. They do my head in. Yes, they have two heads. They did what they should not have done and they know it. What else? Islam didn't say she shouldn't study law. And regardless of what Islam says law school has no right to bar hijab. Focusing on the issue right at stake, law school does not have the right to bar hijab. WaleOsu: There are so many rules that aren't constitutional,but must be adhered to,for example;you need 75% attendance to sit for exams,if you dont have up to that then no exams, but depriving you of the right to sit for exams isnt constitutional,but that is the institution's rule,there's nothing you can do about it...there are hundreds of muslim ladies in her graduating set,do they have 2 heads? Like I said,we should put Islam first in choosing our career,that is why you hardly see devoted muslim ladies in football |
Islam › Re: Muric To Hold A Press Conference On Firdaus Amasa's Hijab Saga by Sterope(f): 9:09pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
Murif is doing something good for her first time |
Islam › Re: Muric To Hold A Press Conference On Firdaus Amasa's Hijab Saga by Sterope(f): 8:57pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
Are we talking about the same common law affects you as a resident/citizen of Nigeria or what? There isn't anything wrong in studying common law, you can always choose to specialise in areas that won't contradict your religion. You would be tried by the same law whether you are muslim or not. The so called laid down rules are unconstitutional and goes against everything a liberal society proclaims. A government funded institution does not possess the power to make rules that harms a part of the society. WaleOsu: Truth be told,we muslims shouldnt make an issue out of this...there was a laid down rule, and you have to follow.If you cant follow the rules,then pick other courses to study...when I was way younger,my maleem would always list some courses that arent appropriate for muslims,law was one of those he listed because as a lawyer,you'll have to lie to be successful which is haram...the truth is,if you really want to reflect Islam in your career,pick a career that accommodates the teachings of Islam,dont just pick anyone and later start complaining of injustice...its that simple!
Modified: some are quoting me already,advise your loved ones to choose their careers with Islam in mind...if she really put Islam first,she wouldnt study common law,common law is filled with injustice,and that is technically haram. Please,dont let's play the religion card...lets put sentiments aside for once...salam [size=8pt][/size] |
Career › Re: PHOTO: Muslim Lady Denied Being Called To The Nigerian Bar For Wearing Hijab by Sterope(f): 12:45pm On Dec 15, 2017 |
What are you trying to say? Who the hell are you to dictate what is acceptable in a multicultural and multireligous society especially where it does not affect any thing or anyone? I really do not need your tears right now encrypt: I don't have a problem with the hijab. Where your right to wear the hijab ends is where my right to dictate an acceptable dress code begins. [/b] An issue doesn't need to be in court before it is discussed. Something shall be done about it, that, we are very sure of.  If you are so sure of the merit of the case go to court!! Isn't that what you trained all these past years for? Quit whining and go to court! [/quote] |
Career › Re: PHOTO: Muslim Lady Denied Being Called To The Nigerian Bar For Wearing Hijab by Sterope(f): 11:51am On Dec 15, 2017 |
Are you speaking for us now? I was a chicken like many others. It wasn't unnecessary. It is very necessary. I commend her for it. Although we were too much of a coward, we will stand by her. It is about time their bigotry blows up in their faces. You are getting more irrational with your examples, they don't apply to the issue at hand. Hijab does not mean that she cannot deal with male clients. It does not affect professionalism whatsoever. If it can be proven it will affect her SAFETY, it would either be removed or she will excuse herself. The case has merit. There are Nigerian case laws as well as other persuasive case laws. If you don't like the hijab, your personal problem, don't make it our problem. encrypt: Emotions?? Perhaps you added your own emotions when reading my post. That said who said the others were too chicken?? Perhaps they recognized that this was unnecessary. It's just like fanatical Christians who believe a lady should not wear trousers and want to thus wear skirt in camp. It is not done! The wig comment was based on her image that was displayed. Regarding the conflict what i meant is do your due diligence...you can't opt for medicine and decide not to treat male patients because you may be exposed to their unclad bodies. The question i have for her is this " if she was an engineer at site and hard to wear a hard hat without the hijab for safety reasons would she refuse? And lastly all of the noise makers are lawyers right?? Why isn't anybody being sued?? Deep down you know the case lacks merit! I don't need to study law to know that. |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Set To Wed Her Polish Boyfriend: "God Sent This Man To My Life" by Sterope(f): 9:07am On Dec 15, 2017 |
You don enter this one  pocohantas: Help me beg him. Dude claimed we broke up. Since then I haven't had rest, from spilling personal mails, to going about the whole NL painting me as a demon. I no talk... Now if I make a comment, hewill claim it's directed at him and start bombarding me with mails. If I have a beef with someone, another mail...telling me he isn't the person.
He crowned it all, by mailing a NLder he thinks I am dating. Telling the guy to appeal to me to stop cyber war. What nonsense is that?
No o. I am doing no private chat with him. Before he posts my mails here again. |