₦airaland Forum

Well, don you think that they could have arrested you for breaking the law?

ChristyB:
This is no longer the era of people taking rubbish from policemen.
2 of them standing by that Oniru market bus stop stopped me, (truth is i wasn't wearing my seatbelt cos i just drove out of somewhere very close to the market)

I opened my door for one to come in, next thing i heard was "Can i see your driver's licence"? i just kept quiet and drove him into the market park. Immediately i parked i asked him "do you really have the right to ask of my particulars? do you know your job as a police officer? then his other colleague came and started forcing my door, i told him if you break it you will pay.
Continued with the one inside my car, next thing he said was "But sister you never do new year for us"
I made it clear to him that if he knew why he was employed as a police officer he won't be controlling traffic.

I shah did the "New year" for him and still reminded him that he has NO RIGHT to ask anyone of their driver's licence, na so the guy offer to excort me enter market.

So thing is, if you truly know your right and how to defend it you'll see the fear in their eyes when you start speaking.

She didn't slap him while he was carrying out his lawful duty. Assault is a crime. In saner climes, it would be possible for her to arrest him for assault.

Harrynight:
u probably dont knw its a serious offence to slap an officer.... thank god u survived it... Most police will arrest u for that and at their station, seriously denied touching ur butt... And Nigerian Police i knw well u sure gonna spend some cash there for them

pocohantas, let's take notes

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ubunja:
my nephews are secondary.thats why they call me uncle NOT brother. my loyality is to that man who calls me brother.him i will forsake all else to stay true to.

Are you forgetting your nephews, aren't they your blood?

ubunja:
if you want to call me sticking with my brother "ruining him" then whatever!

You will support your brother to frustrate the mother of his FOUR kids without any justifiable reason. That is not love or solidarity. It takes a good amount of bitterness and hate to want to ruin your brother and your nephew's lives.

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

His money might have broken his heart.

tytunji29:
Uhmmmm tru bt sha at a point in life you have to think dat way cos ur hard earn money cnt brk ur hrt

Sorry ehn but you need to stop thinking that money equals care and love.

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People have time and money to waste.

It is not for every guy

Seriously? It is sweet though.

Social media is going to be the death of us.

She didn't tell us why she went in for a virginity test, it is usually a test not series of test and also no one asked for the information, why is she volunteering? If she doesn't like the way she lost it, she should count her loss and move on.

Uyi168:
..what makes u think she's lying?

Bad liar! Hymen can break due to excessive sport but why would your doctor conduct virginity test to begin with? I doubt if it is a series of test.

He is hilarious

They can't do that all the time

RabbiDoracle:
This question should not come up if there is a dish washer jare!!!

All of them(man, fiancée, sister and mum) should put hands together, wash the plates and rinse the plates. They can even continue their talk while the washing is ongoing. Mama can be supplying them water while they wash to use and rinse.

This is my reason:

If sister washes alone, in her mind she will say the fiancée doesn't have respect.

If fiancée washes alone, she will ask in her mind if this is how they will use work and kill her.

If mama washes alone, she will say these kids don't have respect for allowing an elder to wash.

If the man washes alone, your guess is as good as mind.

But with the man using his head and telling his fiancee and sister to join him in washing and also engaging mama, there is division of labour, joy in washing plates and "Tori" can continue in the process.

Sheldon didn't understand algebra at 3

Mirallas:
Sheldon should actually be smarter as he himself said that he will lose 60 Iq points to actually be compared smart l.e his IQ in the sitcom was just estimated.Also he was a physicist and they are the smartest in the world with average in of 133

I like smart people but I don't wish I or anyone I care about would be like him. If smart people can be annoying, I can imagine how super smart people would be. Sheldon would be tolerable compare to this guy . You wouldn't get to have a normal life, lack of emotional intelligence and it will damn hard to relate to other people.

I was against the arrest because the police seemingly did not have a justifiable reason to arrest the man. They were hammering on his shrine and ‘mass graves'. If they acted on information or 'confession', well the man walked free until.his rearrest -I didn't hear of a bail or a trial.


As for Abdulfataiz I really don't know but there is a confession sha and I am not sure of it would be enough to hold him.

airmark:
Sterope, I remember your position when they arrested someone connected to baddo last year and his shrine demolished.

You were against the move, what is your position on this abdul-fatai and his baddo shrine?

Don't you think the police are naive for trampling upon the man's right like you opined last year?

Black successful men need to be careful when they marry in western countries. The same scenario would.play out of he had married a black woman. I applaud the spirit behind the law that mandates the more successful partner to provide for the less financially capable partner but the reality is not ideal. They are better off investing their money in some countries where the law of their domicile will not apply.

Also, prenuptial contract does not work in some countries. In the UK for example, it is rarely upheld.

Chevronstaff:
lol...Funny reply

However, Black successful men really need to be careful when marrying white women so they don't lose everything they worked for. Emmanuel Eboue's story comes to my mind...

If you want to marry a white woman, especially in her country, you need 10 different lawyers to read the terms and conditions to you 5 times a day and twice on Sundays!!!

When you marry a white woman, expect the unexpected during
divorce.....#BeGuided

Yes, it seems like it but then they may be fighting their personal demons and were prolly too chicken to come out to me. I will like to give it one more try to satisfy myself that at least I fought for them.

ednut1:
tell me more, a child that deceives his parents for 4 years does not deserve anoda opportunity na

I would not advice disowning such a child. There is room for one more opportunity.

ednut1:
Withnessed one. The guy no cross for 100l but he stayed with us for my hostel compound till we graduated. Na to disown am o

No surprise visits?

No academic discourse?

She is on a long thing

Quit being silly.

Private university students can make independent decisions. Their rules have not stopped their students from being or acting like adults.

AnodaIT:
Pls is there any private university that doesn't treat adults like kids
No matter the cost, I want to recommend for my nephew

The father says he is training him to be a manager, that the rules of private schools would not help his pikin in independent decision making

Basically, you can't afford it. You don't need to hate.

Private Universities in Nigeria are good, their students can stand shoulder to shoulder with public school students. Most of you hating cannot prove why they should not be rated, you hate them because you acnt afford them.

@OP, the only con in your write up is campus fun. Others are hogwash.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Well written, I would rather go abroad than to study in a private university in Nigeria.At least the universities that are manageable in this country are public universities.

Girlfriends need to be careful of friends rape allegations. Some girls are too stupid or too vengeful that they will stop at nothing to make false claims.

Scammmmmmmmmmm

You are sick!

HeyCorleone:
Lol.. As much as I'd blame the man, I believe rape is a two way thing.

Tell me the lady had no idea the man was going to make advances at her and if she wasn't gonna be cool with it, why did she agree to go in the first place. Ladies are smart. They can sense what you want from a mile away. She must have known "okay he'd want sex and I'm not cut out for such so I'm not going". Now he raped her. Going by her chat sef babe doesn't sound like a novice. Guys can smell a prostitute from a mile away.
Baba must have known "okay if I persuade this girl well she go open legs". Even the ladies know. They might tell a guy no, but after much persuasion, they'd open their legs.
And why would she just ask for the restroom in the home of a guy she barely knows or trust? It's just amiss. She should have stood her ground and not left the car at all.
Then again we need to hear the man's side of the story. If you check the first screenshot, you'd notice they had talked something before.
.Besides the story is bugged with inconsistencies.

Still he wanted sex and she didn't want to give him. He should have just relaxed or asked for a hand or mouthjob instead. He shouldn't have raped her. It's just plain wrong. No means No.

shaybebaby:
It's a £12 bottle of bubbly, a tenner without VAT. Actually the one here looks better than what he posted but still doesn't the fact that it's cheap plonk.

How did you end up like this?

dahmie2013:
Y don't u & ur mum embark on a fasting & prayer session 4 her. Dere is nothing God cannot do, prayer changes things & people. Pls I will recommend u get dis book by Bishop David Oyedepo, "Walking in the newness of life" & "Conquering Controlling Powers". She has started beating ur mum, dis is no more a battle u can fight physically, take it 2 God, she herself will come begging.
It is well.