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Life is so unfair

Actually you just described who you are at the moment not me. You are still the same horrible person. What changed was the side you choose to attack, you are not different from Muslims who attack Christians at the Christian section.

Influence and indoctrination can be very powerful but at the end of the day, I don't believe they are enough to lack empathy. If you think you have freed yourself from them, you haven't. You are still obsessed.

tintingz:
The only reason you're sad and not happy about my change from an horrible person is because our ideology are conflicting.

I blame myself for my mistakes and failure and I tried my best to work it out but there is something called "influence" and "indoctrinate" when you're bound to these two such person will possess bias, sentiment, bigotry, that's what you are possessing.

Kilode
You hurt me

tintingz:
Mention you? Mba, Olorun maje!

That is because you are still a horrible human being.

You think you have changed, but you haven't. Change is when you blame yourself not others or beliefs for your horrendous attitude. Change is when you own up to your past instead of acting like a sissy and hiding behind something else so that you won't be blamed. If I knew you then do you really think I wouldn't have attacked you for being horrible to non-Muslims and women? Now you trying to pretend you are a better person but you still prefer to put the blame on something/one.

I am not falling for it.

tintingz:
I was horrible, agreed now I have changed, why are you still sad, stalking and raging, do you still want me to be a horrible person?

Don't forget to mention me after you have asked him your burning questions

tintingz:
k.

No darling, YOU were very horrible. A very horrible human being. You are still a very horrible human being. An acid wash ain't going to wash your horrible character away. It is skin deep like Atheist misogynists. Nothing can help you, darling. You are just horrible. No matter how hard you try to pretend you are better, you will always be horrible.

I would have asked about the environment you grew up in perhaps you know...but then I am a believer in taking responsibility.

tintingz:
Yes, I was once a women basher who thinks men have very right on women, and marrying them in multiple, I sound archaic and patriarch filled with ego of an average Muslim man.

Thank the Gods I'm no more that character. So please go and be darling your Muslim men that will make you cover your face and your body from head to toe, if you like talk any how to him na beating him go give you like Allah commanded. Stop stalking me abeg.

If your Muslim husband beat you, is he horrible?

You are thick, aren't you?

Let's do it this way. Call daddy and ask him your burning questions?

Hey! That sounds simple. Doesn't it? Prove to us you are a man, oya try am


PS: Conversion is different from acting like an asshole. You can convert to another belief however it is doesn't make you disrespectul. The way you act like an asshole makes you a disrespectul child. Or did you forget to mention that your mother acted the way you are acting towards her parents when she converted? If so, it is in the blood then

tintingz:
Lol, I can see how very irrational you're. So having respect is bound to religion?

So criticizing the religion my parents practice means I'm disrespecting them? Sorry madam, I respect my parents, I don't use religion to respect my parents, my being human through them and having loved by them shows they deserve my respect. Religion was also passed to them by their parents and for your info my mum was a christian before she converted to Islam by marriage does it mean she disrespected her parents?

If you have no reasonable things to say I will advice to shut the f**** up.

Our ancestors were not Muslims nor Christians but our fathers changed to a foreign religion and criticize traditional religion which is our root but your brain wont tell our fathers and mothers disrespeted our ancestors.

So if a belief is filled with gender discrimination, bigotery, violence i shouldnt critisize such belief?

Do you believe in freewill?

My father is not the terrorist bombing, so my father ain't the problem, your belief is the problem of itself. My father is just a disciplinary man and a very devoted Muslim like every other many Muslim parents.

Can't you read? Do you need some glasses darling? I could fundraise some money for you.

Take a long walk, puma!!!

JUDASiskariot:
Are you feeling funky



I'm not denying this, but would you also agree with me that there are x10 horrible Muslims of that Christians you know that had killed unbelieveea because the Quran and hadith commanded it,? Do you agree with me that there are x10 Muslims that wouldn't take unbelievers as friends because the Quran commanded against it?





Christianity is just as bad and illogical as Islam, but you can't deny the fact that Islam is worse, can you,?



In other words you agree that there are Islamic principlea that are harmful?



If Muslims are terrorizing people by following their harmful manuals, it'd be stupid for me to walk off instead of finding a way to stop it, else I get to be the victim one day.




You have things you don't like with Islam, why don't you state them?



Continue bluffing! The op was a formal Muslim. He's questioning Muslim more because he is acquainted with Islam. Go to the religion section, you will see former Christians questioning Christianity and the Christians replying them to the best of their knowledge with crying foul like you are doing. Isn't that even enough evidence that there's a lot wrong with your religion that you don't want unbelievers to see?

Puma, thanks for jumping in.

I know many horrible Christians who do things because the Bible said so. Likewise there are many Christian principles are harmful, some just sound outright illogical. That is what most religions are. If you are looking for evidence, a simple Google search will open your eyes.

Oops! Don't tell me you it was righteousness that made you quote me in the first place. Sorry for bursting that bubble. You aren't safe either. If a particular Muslim don't like you, walk off? Ha! How hard was that? :-)


There are many things my religion say that I interested agree with. I have great Muslim friends who are with most or all of them. I am cool with them so far they aren't harming others. I can't see the relevance of ISIS and All Qaeda, are you trying to overreach, boy? Don't even think about it. Now do I try to be a better Muslim? Yes. Wouod I like to be the best Muslim! Amin to that. Will I be leaving my religion soon because if things I don't like? Never!

The issue people have with the OP is being your team digit IQ. It is your business if you are Muslim. It isn't if you a not. Please are you a Muslim? I didnt think so. Therefore, if you are looking for someone to take you on, please continue your search because I am done with you!!!

JUDASiskariot:
This is how you people have in your brains hence the reason why most Muslims don't think before doing things. Even Christians will not tell you the above plainly as you've done.

No wonder you people don't always think before doing things. Your manuals says you shouldn't make friends with unbelievers. Logic says it is wrong. Your manual says there are 72virgins awaiting you in your fairy heaven if you can die a matyr, logic says it's not possible. Your manuals say fighting is good for you, logic says it's wrong.

Now in your right senses, do you still think your manuals should be followed as Isis and al-Qaeda are doing? Or do you think logic makes more sense?




Why do you find it hard answering his questions? If you cannot, just leave him and allow others do. It appears his thread and making some Muslims reason which is what you people don't like. Your book is against reasoning.



How does asking question affect people? Either you answer or pass by.

At OP, keep up the good work.

Let me guess:


You were once a very horrible human being who hid behind religion to attack other religions and women. I came across one of coca.lav posts, wondering why you were not sounding misogynistic like your usual self.

Now, that you have been given the opportunity to use your brain and treat others like human, you think you can put the blame on that religion. DUDE!!! Blame yourself, accept full responsibility. Don't even blame your father, Don't use religion as a shield. You were a horrible person and religion had nothing to do with it. I am a Muslim and I am not horrible. I know lots of Muslims who are not horrible. What excuse did you have to be horrible then? You haven't changed either. You are still a very horrible human being.

tintingz:
Why are you stalking me.

Why are you trolling the Islam section?

tintingz:
Why are you stalking me.

Oh no! Who thought your lil cowardly self has respect for his parent? Yet you wouldn't stop mocking your parent's religion? Kills me the way you speak from both sides of your mouth? Hypocritical much? Why don't you tell it to their faces if you can?

I remember reading how you detailed the way your father handled you when it comes to religious matters? Clearly, he is the one you have a problem with, so why don't you stop dragging Islam and muslims into it. Go fix your problem! Run along, moana!

tintingz:
Why do you have to involve my parent?

This is what happen when some people tries to act like nuts

Why don't you meet you dad, sit him down and resolve your daddy issues?

How hard can that be?

tintingz:
Keep on wailing.

I wonder why you try so hard to be a nuisance

tintingz:
I guess satan is not a muslim, i wonder why muslims always trouble satan and vice versa.

1. NO one sees him as a Yoruba man
2. Don't you think it is stu.pid to use political parties to analyse a Nigerian politician?

PointZerom:
I said it yesterday that this is a planned game just to test the waters but some Afonjas were insulting me. The truth is that Saraki is more of PDP member than he is to APC this informs the reason why a PDP sinator was first to move the motion. It baffles me that some Yorubas are still seeing Saraki as a Yoruba man. PITY.

Wow! What an intelligent question! Wait a sec while I ask Google

tintingz:
One question, Is satan a muslim?

A troll wannabe

tintingz:
Madam margaret thatcher wannabe Go and look for your darling elsewhere.

You are a troll. This is Islamic section for Muslims not for Non-Muslims.

tintingz:
You're troll, I'm not. I have not break any rules so far in this thread.

You are darling because you are thick

I meant your whining and moaning. You sound like reta.rd whenever you try too hard to be thick and annoying.

tintingz:
Who's your


darling?

Keep whinning and moaning ehn.

You are thick one, darling

Last time I checked, this isnjot thr first time I would be telling you this. Frankly, I don't think I am the only one that is tired of your whining and moaning. Stop acting like a brat!

tintingz:
Good, religion is not logic, your fellows here are trying all their best to make religion sound logic. Thanks for your honesty.

I highly doubt that

jokepearl:
Yes they are exposed to a mother breastfeeding a baby. It may not be more than that.

It would be totally ridiculous in the UK for kids that age to be exploring with themselves. It would be utterly ridiculous if it was between a boy and a girl of those ages too. So lesbianism is not the only issue with that scenario. If they grow up to be sexually attracted to people of same sex, it is between them and God.


Methinks you are the one with problem.

Evaberry:
It's like there is something wrong with the op brain

what's wrong with children exploring and enjoying themselves. same sex are the best kind of love to feel.
it is utterly evil for any to beat a child because of who he or she loves or fuvks

That shouldn't be end of it. Apparently, someone has been abusing one or both kids OR someone had been exposing them to some adult scenarios.

You need to tell both of their parents to find out.

rhajaan:
To say I was shocked to my marrows is an understatement. The act itself was not what shocked me but the ages of people involved. As I was walking round in the house, I just heard some footsteps close to the window one of the rooms we don't use. Our house is the only house in the compound as our gate is always open. As I tried peeping through the window, the next thing I saw shocked me... The 7 year old girl was sucking the 10 year old's undeveloped b##bs...As I still stood there frozen, they graduated to touching each odaz womanlinz...I left and rushed to call my wife...She came and saw nothing. Later they resumed their sucking and that was when my wife saw them. The most shocking thing was that when they resumed, the 10 year old's 5 year old brother was there starring at them while they continued their ungodly act..My wife advised we come out and challenge them. We came out and they could not deny it. As we were deliberating and interviewing them, the 10 year old's father walked by and saw the two small galz kneeling. We had to tell him what they did. He gave both the beating of their lives...so parents,we have to be careful....lesbianism starts early...we have to watch our wards....May Allah help us and guide our wards.

Sit her down and let her see reaons. If she refused to change, speak to her parents, siblings etc

Sorry about your experience. I hope she changes for the better

Analog95:
I think she is not just ready to be a wife. but as per she having a lover somewhere,I'm sure she doesn't. the reason being that we schooled in the same same. I did mechanical engineering and she did accounting. and we dated for 4years before she got pregnant. though, during courtship she is always after me everywhere I go because I use to be a celeb in school then and she go with me everywhere to scare every other girl she thinks I might be having something with.
now. I'm really afraid to divorce her because of my daughter. because I'm also a product of broken home and I know what I went through to get to where I am today. and I will never pray for someone I know to be a product of broken home because it is hell.
The worst part of it is that her parent insists we must do court wedding and I accept that.

And you know the kind of problem with getting divorced after being married legally.

The guy is already contradicting himself. It is always a woman's fault for everything wrong with another human being. I agree with all your points. Some peeps just find it harder to see women as humans.

PaperLace:
My point to him was simple.
1. Lack of respect and love is what leads to abuse of power when rich, and both gender are guilty of it.

2. Some women act that way because their men were tyrannical when power was in his hands. Let's call it payback time.

3. Some women are plain wicked and materialistic.

4. Marrying a woman that he is richer than doesn't guarantee long-term (true) respect.

He couldn't get this simple point. He wouldn't get yours either.
What he saw is that I am supporting my gender. Yet he claims to be the one with understanding .

Mo sin e je

Awon obinrin ile ti o ti jade ni o banwi

Alaileko Omo!

taiyesoul:
By their comnents u shall know them.I bet u are d unfortunate womam who did this to the poor footballer hence why u open up your smelly gutter and spit out nonsense.Go ahead and do this to your husband if he wont deface u.Oponu oshi

It s natural to act arrogant when you feel powerful whether you are a man or a woman. I don't see gender when people act like assholes because they have money. Stop trying to sound like men don't act like assholes, threatening to send a woman's back to her husband, telling her to look the other way when you cheat etc are also abuses of power.

It is also normal for people to feel insecure and see issues when there are not any when they realise that someone is richer than they are. Which basically means that some/most independent women may not be assholes but men actibg insecure.

It is human. It is nature. It is the liabilities that come with power for either man or woman. You and the OP should deal with it.

Papiikush:
First and foremost why will you marry a woman who isn't financially liberated? That is more like a liability to me.

You are being fallacious here ma'am.

Face the truth, women don't do well when they are financially in-charge keep trying to paint the truth to favour your gender.

Hypocrisy much! You are also guilty of same and not LL Muslims or non Muslims concern themselves with non Muslims or Muslims respectively. I'd you want to champion Non-Muslims causes, limit your interaction to Muslims who are guilty of it.

tintingz:
Same question to you why are you and your fellows concern about non-muslims?

Religion =faith not logic

I doubt if anyone needs an IQ of three digits for that to sink in? Why then do you act so desperately to appear thick?

You are not the only one with doubts. It is either you accept it or you don't but please let be people who have chosen to accept it. It is not their fault you had a father who raised you with fear on religious issues.
Please let be!!

tintingz:
Salaam Alaykum.

There are things about the issue of hijab, jilbaba, burqa, niqab, khimar which Muslim women put on.

It is said in the Quran and hadith that the women's hair, face, hands, feets, the whole body are awrah(intimate part) and they are commanded to be covered including their face.

The questions are,

- Why did Allah create the women's hair, face, hands, feet, that makes Muslim men arouse?

- Why is it not same as men?
There are many handsome good looking men that can make ladies drool, why are they not covering their face and whole body like Muslim women do?

- Why do women need to apologize for being feminine?

Are you a seer? I was bout to change it

FemiEddy:
Ur signature will change for the best soon, Amen

Lol. You will see them insulting their mothers now. I am certain that man had women who genuinely loved him but he decided to go for the Miss perfect, mis submissive, miss cook BS miss clean and fresh

Nofuckgiven:
After shouting women and insulting all their female relatives,men still have kids outside and nobody has killed them yet! Hypocrites!

Jokes aside, I feel for the man sha. Such news is devastating. I think it should be a criminal issue, that level of callousness should not go unpunished and should be strongly discouraged. I can't begin to imagine what it would do to the kids too.

Are you sure you know how to use that brain? Just admit you have no idea what domestic abuse is and you have nothing worthwhile to contribute to the issue at hand.

taiyesoul:
Small time they will say domestic violence is not good.Fathering another person pikin for over 21 years