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Why don't you read again and tell me where I insinuated such?

Wolfbrother:
I dont see your point.... Both are bad... What's your point?... That because one evil goes unpunished other evils should also go unpunished?... Explain further...

Why can't you go back to your parents and start afresh?
Yes, they may insult you, deride you at every opportunity but at least they are your parents. you can understand where it is coming from. Beg them, be remorseful, let them help you, help yourself too by building a life for you and your kid.


In my opinion, you should not have gotten married because you were pregnant. But it has happened, it shouldn't't stop nor ruin you. I have seen successful single mothers. You can do it. Your low self esteem, lack of self preservation and self love and confidence aren't going to help you at all. Life is tough, love yourself, be confident, be selfish, do everything for yourself, undertand that no one can help you not even your parents. You can't continue to tell people why things didn't work out the way they should have because at the end of the day, they won't really care and they won't help you as much as you can help yourself NOW. They are only going to use your story as a point of reference. There will come time where your parents should be too worried about themselves to care about you and your siblings will be too preoccupied with their own lives to remember you, it is part of life and the more reason you should toughen up

It is not too late o stat building your CV. It is not too ate to gain some skills and experience. Please go back to your parents. Don't be ashamed. It s better you face the ridicule and insults now and watch your life turn out for the better than regret your lost opportunities eternally. Please go back to your parents .


I really wish you the best.

Benignasweety:
Before now, everyone knew I wld be leaving next week...

I guess I shld jex go off but I really appreciate d love here... I for don deykee myself with cry and coughs dat will be landing on his heart of stone.. Dix is wia I take a break for now... Thanks everyone...

Two idi.ots!

Like I stated, go and hug ISIS. When you see them, lap them up for me. If they ask you to shake your trunk, go for it, don't hesitate. Don't forget to tell them I wish you and them hell


I don't debate Non-Muslims. I did that shit ages ago. Guess what, I grew up. I understood that each to his own. You are not going to see me shoving my beliefs and qualms down their throats. I can't be bothered. I don't go about questioning their beliefs. Their truth is theirs alone. And mine is mine. You already know what Islam entails, If you don't like it. Good for you. Clap for yourself or would you rather appreciate a trophy? Too bad, I ain't got one. Do yourself a favour and do a lil twirl, your doubts about Islam is yours and yours alone, and not ours but don't go about sounding ridiculous and telling me to accommodate your questions. Darling, it is ain't no concern of yours what I choose to belief ba be vice versa. It is called a choice. Respect it or shut the hell up. I am not shoving it down your throat. It is you that has a problem if you can't let it go and face your agnostic life. If you are too stvpid to understand that religion is based on faith, too stvpid to understand that religion is a very sensitive issue for people and too stvpid to keep your logic to yourself, you are a lost cause man. Can't help you there, mate.

But please stop sounding pathetic, you ain't going to be the first Muslim turn Atheist/Christian/agnotist/new....And you ain't going to be the last. Being ridiculous is not cute, keep it to yourself.

tintingz:
Saudi are your fellows, you're facing their country when you pray namaz, you go there for tourism e.g hajj, ummrah. Even in Ramadan they decide mostly when Muslims should start Ramadan fast. If you're sunni Muslim you can't avoid Saudi Arabia, it is the bedrock of Islam.

Yes, most other religions including agnostic, atheist tolerate Islam, it is obvious but that doesn't mean they don't question beliefs, dogmas. Criticism, Debate, argument, questioning is part of philosophy, knowledge. We have intellect for a reason.

This is not my first time coming to Islam section, I have been a devoted Muslim for years, you can do yourself a favor and go check my past posts. If you have problem with someone questioning your belief then there is something wrong.

Lol, at bolded is ego, you haven't even argue with me yet, you already gave yourself a winning trophy.

Don't tell me you have never debated and argue with non-muslims before?

You are the first analyst who thinks Hilary lost because of gender.

Wow!

BekeeBuAgbara:
Have you forgotten that Madeleine Albright apologized for making such senseless statement? Which is one of the reasons Hilary lost the election, you don't bully people to submission.

Still smarter than you though

Fearlez:
Are you really this dumb or you're just putting on a show?

I am not going to contest whether or not they need do the above because it is irrelevant to the the issues you raised. I am trying hard to see their correlation


Can you tell me what vagina have to do with being a president? Please explain how? I find it very curious.


You know what, forget it. I have wasted enough brain cells on you guys today.

FX:
Sharap. He made lots of sense. Can the female gender go and arrest Evans or go to the burning grenfel tower in London and quench the fire. They cannot but they want to be president

It is not a very rare case. It is very common. You have access to google, please google away. Your ignorance is embarrassing.

FX:
How can your boobs be sagged already and you are still a virgin. It a very rare case. What and who sagged them for you

Making sense with a someone like that, I would rather die.

What does vagina have to do with ability to hold down a job?


If you think he is asking sense you are just like him. Grow up boys, haven't got time to teach you. I can bet with left a.ss that both of you are not even on my level yet you dare to speak of gender equality. Nonsense!

Daboomb:
Okay, make your own "sense" and let the world read you.
Just this your one-liner attacking someone IS NOT how to make sense.

I can't believe I read this abomination. Wat a way to spoil a day

You haven't made any sense. Contradictions left, right and center.

Go a get a job, boy:+\

TheUmbra:
No one will deny you your right to education and the opportunity to succeed but maybe men will start taking you women seriously on gender equality thing when you start dominating fields like the army, fighting terror in the thick of sambisa forest, dominate the police force, heeding a distress call in the middle of the night with your bullet proof vest on because you're sure some daredevil criminals are Ak47-armed and are waiting to ambush you; dominating the fire service where you brave yourself up with your fake brazilian wig and embrace a burning building, or the construction industry that requires heavy manual lifting of tools and equipment.

But you all never complain when the female numbers are next to non-existent in these fields, but you raise dust on executive positions and start screening your gender equality trash.

Fact is you all are greedy vultures trying to reap where you didn't sow.

Even the boundary in your village was carved out by the blood of your forefathers. The identity you have was sustained and preserved by fearless men of old who hid your great grandmothers in a safe cave while they charged to war to preserve their seeds. And you're here hiding in your little hut typing gender equality.

Not a reason

ethene:
most jobs employers have preference for single candidates.

Must you be an idi.ot like Tonto?

@sexybbstar

1) Non virgin females do not have sagged breasts. You have been lied to. In fact, sex should actually help the breast not the other way around. I am so sad if at this age you haven't met virgin ladies with sagged breasts including those with A-B cups. Sagged breasts is an as normal as anything else. Congratulations for making them insecure. Thanks for adding to the list of body parts to be ashamed of.

2) Vagina is a muscle. It will fix itself in less than a month without doing anything. Also, your opinion on wide vagina is an affront on women who are born with wide ones. Or do you really think that all women were born with tight vaginas. Congratulations for making them insecure. Thank you for adding to the list of body parts to be ashamed of.

I hope you are happy with yourself.

https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201109/the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women%3Famp


Seriously though, I can't understand a woman who is so ignorant about her body in this 21st century. Sorry, what do you spend all your time doing with your data?




That aside, men and women are not equal. That woman or man may not even be equal to me and I may not be equal to the next woman or man. HOWEVER, I do have a bloody right to be given equal opportunity/shot at things whether or not I am a woman or man.



PS: I am not encouraging pre marital sex. I believe both genders should wait till they are married. I also believe that the shape of your se.xual organ is not reason to engage in re marital sex or have multiple sexual partners

1) Saudi Arabia is not my business. Perhaps it is yours but don't ever assume that they are my fellows again. They could be yours since you are yet to renounce Islam. You could go a step further and embrace ISIS's ideologies too. Good riddance

2) We both know what makes a Muslim. Ain't gonna argue about that. I don't think I sound stvpid just yet. I live a greater part of my life with Non-Muslims including agnostics and atheists. They are always polite to move on when you answer the questions whether or not they agree with you.

3) You have a right to question everything including coming to the Islamic section and ridiculing it, abi?

By the way, if at this age you believe religion is and was all about logic, you have been mistaken. Faith is not logic. You have it or you don't. Do I agree everything with Islam prescribes? NO. Do I follow them? NO. Am I ever going to follow them? NO, not especially when they are against my sense of natural justice, fairness and respect. It is not going to be the first religion that is going to have some disagreeable matters and it is definitely not going to be the last. And I am not going to walk around and ridicule my fellow muslim brothers and sisters to agree with me. You can't possibly know about religions more than I do. You are so 2000 late with this questioning and answering, so stop acting all smart. You are just being ridiculous and it is not cute.

tintingz:
Where in mypost did I said I don't believe in Islam?

You said you believe in freedom of religion, maybe you should tell that to your fellows in Saudi Arabia.

Because I'm a Muslim.

To know the truth.

If you can't question beliefs how then can you know the truth? How can you free yourself from sheeple mentality?

I'm not harming you either, if you say I have no right to question your belief then you have no right to preach your belief. Am I forcing you to answer my questions?

There is freedom of speech, so I have right to question anything . You welcome.

@Sino, your submissions are IMPOSSIBLE

I don't know anyone who is pissed at the other person, proceeded to beat the person ‘lighthly' I.e in the context your submissions are claiming. It negates the whole thing. I am not buying it. Whether heavy striking or light striking, I don't want to know.

@Al-baqir, I don't want to understand that verse. All I know is that ‘thou shall not touch me EVER'.

You don'tont believe in Islam....All well and good. I believe in freedom of religion

However,


Why would you be obsessed with it? Why must you question other people's faith. You are as guilty as other adherents of any beliefs who go about questioning other people's beliefs. You act arrogantly...just like them.

I am not harming you with my belief. I have right to it but you don't have a right to keep questioning it when it is none of your beewax. Thanks.

tintingz:
Yes our intellect has limit but it is evolving. Can you compare the intellect of the primitive people with modern people of today?

We choose or create our purpose.

There's no certain answer to this as there are biilions of people on earth.

Two questions, are you a Muslim by choice?

What's the purpose of animals?

Why must we do this to our kids?

Whether you wrote those BS since you were born ain't my business. What we know is that you hate women..

Toks2008:
And for the first time ever I I'll tell you to seriously hush it.

It is quite easy for people to blab about keeping mum in the wake of insults but I guess when it goes beyond insults to an attack on my persona I guess I will only be foolish to keep mum without setting the tables straight.

Someone wrote that my threads are just venditive when I could prove how stwpd the person is.

Tell me you did not believe that my threads are venditive as she claimed and tell me you are not surprised that I wrote this thread way back in 2014 and many more in 2013 when I was still very much enjoying my marriage.

So spare me this hypocrisy of saying I respond to shits and your indirect insults on me...keep your respect OK. ..this is a faceless forum but I'm not faceless because I'm a man of integrity so clearing the air is just needful.

I have written a thousand times that I'm not faceless and that us because I'm clean and have nothing to hide so please allow me to clear the air when necessary...at least the person I quoted now knows how dumb she was and how real I am.

Check all my responses and you will see that I'm very selective expecially the ones that needs some clarifications.

The fact that it is my thread makes it even more needful to respond to mentions and quotes that catches my fancy. Tayo please

PROVERBS 26:5
"Be sure to answer the foolish arguments of fools, or they will become wise in their own estimation"

Just that some fools are better ignored while I respond to the ones that tend to stain my image.

You are not a humble woman. When a man talk, a woman must listen.

The man says we should allow stupidity to reign in our lives because it has a penis

YelloweWest:
Your daughters may respect stupidity. Not mine!

Are you saying she shouldn't learn from her experience?

luminouz:
Thank God I never sent u a PM! Ur a killer in d making!!!!

He is a bigot. Deal with it!

luminouz:
Y don't u go to heaven n shout it in his ears? Efulefu!!!!

You need to move on. Be smart with people generally. Don't let your father ruin your life. Understand that when people are comfortable they tend to mess up especially in familial relationships. Learn to balance sacrifices i.e the one you will make for yourself and for the family.

I am not asking you to love your dad. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

missyadorable:
Doesn't matter as long as I love myself,my son,mum and siblings

The bolded does not mean shit. People marry from their tribe and die within a short space of time too. What should we call that? Your dad was a bigot. It is difficult to believe but he is what he is. Embrace it!!!

emusmithy:
His polygamous setup taught NEVER to entertain the thought.
It makes me so careful when choosing whom to date, so I can stick with just one.
He told us never to marry from a particular tribe.
Our eldest son did and he died in a short space of time.
He's with the Lord now!

Uneducated or educated, Yoruba people are the same.
2) I just told you that the word ‘Afonja' is a rogatory name. It is not a nice name at all

3) Perhaps something had happened prior to that event. Either way, they were st.upid. Also, you didn't tell me you visited all the buildings on the street to find out if they cut their lines. If they did cut your line out of bigotry, it is their beewax. But I will suggest you not to take it to heart.

I will pray for you

Benignasweety:
? Wow...1st am wowed u re following my diary gratia ma/sir...

But in your embolded, am sure you saw wia I said only d educated ones... I didnt jex specify dat itz an alround afonja thingy...
Well dos Nepa pipo made it very obvious dey had a beef with us! We paid 5500 out of 7000 Nepa bill and dey still cut n rolled our wire in, normally itz not done like dat!
Besides dia fellow Afonjaz leaving around, dey didnt disturb dem... I had to go ask one Iya ibeji how much she paid and mrs told me 3500naira! Why wasnt hers cut?
Another granny afonja was jex telling dem if you enter my house ehnnnn and dey wia like Ekusheee ma, jex pay anytin and she gave dem only 1k for my koro koro eyes...

Well, thanks to Seun Osewa Nairaland, I for noknw wetin Afonja mean o, na nairalanders spoil me sef...

WE ARE ONE NIGERIA
LETS LIVE TOGETHER IN PEACE AND HARMONY...

Happy Sunday n dont forget to pray for me...

Politicians are no different from kidnappers

Try imagining what people go through because of corruption in Nigeria..

Try im

Wolfbrother:
Do you know what the people he kidnapped went through?, do you k now what their families went through?, do you know how many lives he ruined? , do you know how many paongeople went into debt to pay ransom? do you know if he has killed? Do you know what they do to those that dont meet his ransom conditions? .... you are very very very very very stupid for this statement

Don't you worry. I will take you with me.

frenzyduchess:
your signature say it all,we are just waiting for you to blow yourself up

Don't you know the music producers contact details?

Do I look like I care about what you believe? Abegi!

frenzyduchess:
then stop all this lip service ,we all know you folks rejoice when non Muslims are attacked,my only problem is with liberal non muslims who can not see through this deception

From your diary

1) Afonja is a derogatory term
2) Afonjas sha, I no support tribalism but tru tru Afo joro ndia njo well well)

3)Nepa yaff cut our lyt stupid Afonja people! only the Educated Afonjas have sense every others are just too wicked and tribalistic!
Lyt wey we pay #4500 e remain just 2300 yet, they still cut d lyt, pulled the entire wire and rolled it inside our compound like say wey bin don dey get personal beef with them all because our Landlord is Igbo

I doubt if you know the whole story. Your Landlord is not the first Igbo Landlord in Lagos or the first landlord in Nigeria. It is worrisome if you think they cut the light ecaue he was Igbo. You better ask that landlord to tell you the truth instead of putting the blame on others.



4) They left all their afonja compounds house! NO WAHALA!!!... Lemme see how any of dem Afonjas will enter our compound to fetch water when light no dey.

How would you know? The Nepa I know don't leave houses that default whether Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba. When you default, they cut your light. If you reconnect without paying off your debt, they take away your wires.



I have been insulted by Igbo women traders before but I never summed it up to tribe because anyone from any tribe will do the me to me. Have I been insulted by Yoruba women traders before? Yes, times without numbers. Igbo traders be misled me before but I didn't see the tribe because anyone from any tribe can do the same to me. And have I truly been misled by Yoruba traders before? Yes, it happens every time I go to the market without my two eyes.

You can say you are not a bigot but indeed you are.

Benignasweety:
Tribal bigot kwa? wia did dat one emit from? certainly not my diary.
But come to think of it, Nigeria has made it seem d Northerners are honest people, Southerners liars, Easterners very greedy and then Westerners very wicked...

Am not Hausa so U see, I dont even stand in for any so to say.
Plz throw more light on how I castigate God's creations cuz I dont seem to get it...

Thanks for calling me out but I need to be lectured more on why you so think am a tribal bigot.

Why should I bother about convincing you?

frenzyduchess:
your first paragraph says it all, let them keep deluding themselves till the next terrorist attack, but wise people see through all that lip service this apologists put up (I call them closet terrorists) . If only they use this same energy to face their brothers ,we will not need to be convinced

I don't know the kind of Muslims you mingle with But in my circle, I am yet to meet that Muslim who jubilates when others die.

Also, Muslims condemn terrorism day in day out. It is not my fault if the press is selective about what it chose to show. I can't control them. Therefore I don't need a video to tell me what I should think of terrorism, war and poverty. My signature is enough reflection on the issues.

Seun:
Most of the people moved by the song are actually non-muslims who desperately wish that muslims would embrace the message in the video.

Can you imagine a world in which a person shouting "God is great!" in Arabic while you're on a bus/plane doesn't cause you to wet your pants?

Rara sir

Toks2008:
Soro niyen?