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Politics › Re: Kaduna Farmer Arrested For Feeding Herdsman’s Cattle Poisoned Cassava by Sterope(f): 9:48pm On Jan 10, 2021
Yes, that is plausible grin

But it could be negligent, I don't know how that can turn out without access to all the information


79733139:
As long as he insists that the poisoned cassava were for rodents and not cattle, he should be able to walk away free if the case is heard fairly. It would be difficult to prove that he did it intentionally for cattle. But, it is likely that the soldiers would just torture him till he confesses to committing all sorts of crime (that he didn't do).
Politics › Re: Kaduna Farmer Arrested For Feeding Herdsman’s Cattle Poisoned Cassava by Sterope(f): 9:38pm On Jan 10, 2021
Unfirtunately, both are criminal acts under the law
tidalstorm:
I swear, the herdsman should be arrested for stealing and vandalizing.
The farmer kept the cassava at the side of the road before the herdsman stole it through his cow.

When all this fulani go enter person farm clear 1mil+ investment, nobody go talk. But because cow die na him dem arrest innocent farmer wey na victim for this matter.
This country sef. huh
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Homosexuals Have A Place In God's Kingdom? by Sterope(f):
Who is a gay man hurting? You?

You could have made sense but comparing them to abhorrent people is silly of you.
Godszilla:
I have friends that are pedo and rapist and that's how they were born,some of them are really nice and really help when you needed one. They feel really hurt the way society see them as that's their nature not their fault it who they are. They are normally attracted to little children and love non-consent sex it comes naturally to them. All they prayers in this world won't change them cos it their nature what they are born with. It's cruel society treat them and judge them unfairly. Sad
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Homosexuals Have A Place In God's Kingdom? by Sterope(f): 4:07pm On Jan 10, 2021
Exactly! I was never a homophobe. I was curious. The more you read about their experiences, you understand that nothing can prevent it.

It is as natural as it comes.

From the religious angle, it is a huge burden on these people. They have no choice in this matter. They didn't create themselves. No forthcoming solution other than to be doomed to live and die alone. It is unfair.

Young042galaxy:
Exactly, my brother that is gay, there is no kind of deliverance and prayer we have not gone for backed up with sex therapy but all is not working.
He grow up being attracted to men only starting from childhood and we all know about it but thought he will change over time.
Those saying that ppl are not born gay should do small research themselves, they will be shocked by what they will discover.
Have been opportuned to discuss with some of his friends and 85% of them started being attracted to men from childhood b4 adolescent.
Only very few were influenced by the society and I believe they are the ones that can easily be delivered or decide to quit easily.
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 3:23pm On Jan 10, 2021
Alright.

I have issues with grooming, submission, and him. In another context, I understand submission and grooming differently.

There are many Christians who care less for that word now.



bukatyne:
Assume for him?

When I stated I look at the meaning of a word and not individual context?

It appears you had issues with the word 'grooming' and 'Submission'. Hence my asking if you are a Christian.
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 3:12pm On Jan 10, 2021
Now, you are trying to assume for him because that is definitely not what he was communicating. I was chatting based on his silly context and meaning.

I am not interested in the predatory meaning of grooming. Which was what he was talking about with his submission jargons.



bukatyne:
Well, I look at a word at its meaning, not the contexts individuals decide to apply them to.

And grooming is easier when the people involved are younger.

Less habits formed, more malleable and coachable.

Little can be done with dry fishes.
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 3:07pm On Jan 10, 2021
I am aware both parties should help each other be the better version of themselves.

In his context, that was not what he meant.

bukatyne:
Never mind.

Submission in Christianity is viewed different.

Good day.

Saw your response on bride groom also.

Yes, means husband and speaks to the role expected of the husband.

In reality, both parties groom themselves.

That's why how Taju behaves when in a relationship with Tori is different from his conduct with Tara.
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 2:43pm On Jan 10, 2021
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Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 2:42pm On Jan 10, 2021
No, why?
bukatyne:
Are you a Christian?
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Homosexuals Have A Place In God's Kingdom? by Sterope(f):
If Mr A told me that water can activate baking soda. That Mr A could be chemist or a baker or a random person.

I will say, okay. Then I will try to verify. Many chemists and bakers will try to verify that claim. If I don't get the expected result. I would mention it to someone else that Mr A is claiming that water can activate baking soda but I tried it but it didn't work. The person could try it. If he doesn't get that result. The first guy must be a fraud.

We would rely on true, trusted and unbiased source to verify that claim.

So CBN is an issue because they are biased. Their claims cannot be verified or recreated. Many Christian gays would have experienced a better life then and now. Their supplications would have been answered and our society would still remain steadfast against homosexuals.

Have you sought to understand the experiences of gay people when the society was righteous and holy? If you were gay, you would give anything to be 'cured'. You will feel safe to come forward and receive God's forgiveness and blessings.

*Water cannot activate baking soda.






jesusjnr2020:
You said you were willing hence my effort to show you real instances of people who were former LGBTs whose lives have been transformed.

I don't think the CBN should be an issue if you were really willing as you said especially if the report had some level of credibility.

You would be able to hear the stories of real people, their struggles. Some are not even completely there yet but still a working progress.

But it's up to you though. You can still look up other sources if you want to.

God bless.
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Homosexuals Have A Place In God's Kingdom? by Sterope(f): 1:36pm On Jan 10, 2021
With CBN as the news source? No, thank you.

Do you know how many lives that would have been saved back then when everyone was religious if it was real and true?


jesusjnr2020:
Okay you can perhaps google them out. But those guys you see in the pictures on the Op were actually former LGBTs whose lives were transformed by God. Hence the change slogan.

God bless.
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Homosexuals Have A Place In God's Kingdom? by Sterope(f): 1:30pm On Jan 10, 2021
Exactly my point. I don't want a CBN news source.

I want an independently verified source.
jesusjnr2020:
If you're really willing as you say, go to this link and see those ex-homos whose lives have been transformed:
https://www1.cbn.com/cbnnews/us/2019/october/former-lgbtq-members-say-their-changed-lives-prove-homosexuality-isnt-permanent?amp
Crime › Re: Did Amotekun Kill 7 Kidnappers Or Innocent Fulani Herders In Oyo? by Sterope(f): 12:50pm On Jan 10, 2021
Amotekun wil go rogue. It is a question of time.
It is great that they want to go after the criminals ruining farms, taking lives and kidnapping people.


I don't share the same opinion with you on Fulani people. Keep your bigotry to yourself.

FYI, many of these cows are not theirs. More often than not they belong to your tribesmen, people in your community. lipsrsealed

JoeEeL:
And they have failed.

Amotekun has me seriously impressed. Cant believe this grin

THey need to track and hunt more of these Fulanidiots like game!
Health › Re: Why Nigerian Dentists Always Suggest Extraction by Sterope(f): 11:58am On Jan 10, 2021
My apologies
Damian457:
You’re the person that needs to be schooled on the title of the thread. The thread is a Counter thread and I annotated (REsmiley
Health › Re: Why Nigerian Dentists Always Suggest Extraction by Sterope(f): 11:52am On Jan 10, 2021
I won't buy dental treatment on the roadside. If I have a dental issue, I would go to a teaching hospital or a proper Dental clinic.

A dentist created a thread of why Dentists offer Extraction based on some assumptions except for that last reason, though. Did you read this thread, including the title? If I visited a Dentist, I would expect to know options including the pros and cons, whether he can offer that service?

I don't want him to 'Always Suggest Extraction' because that is what most of his clients would go for.


Sewasaunt:
Your comment is also highly irresponsible ma'am.

Dentists hardly make choices for people, but it is not irresponsible nor unprofessional to suggest it if it the obvious option to save that tooth(and others around it too).

We Nigerians should also improve, let us enlighten ourselves about our oral health, and present early to the clinics when the tooth or teeth can still be saved.

Most people would rather take all sorts of drugs and dental powders sold in traffic or by the road than go for a proper check up.

Then when the tooth is grossly broken, already shaking, causing swelling and severe pain, they run to the hospital and start dictating and making unreasonable demands.

Try to be better, learn to do better, spread the proper message about proper oral health care.
Crime › Re: Did Amotekun Kill 7 Kidnappers Or Innocent Fulani Herders In Oyo? by Sterope(f): 11:37am On Jan 10, 2021
Some people are trying their hardest to vilify Amotekun.
Health › Re: Why Nigerian Dentists Always Suggest Extraction by Sterope(f): 11:36am On Jan 10, 2021
grin grin grin
Damian457:
Are you sure you visited a Dentist or you visited an auxiliary dental professional?
Health › Re: Why Nigerian Dentists Always Suggest Extraction by Sterope(f): 11:35am On Jan 10, 2021
Well, maybe but I understood his point. Quick money and an under-regulated sector, I won't be surprised.

godstino:
No. But the Op yesterday erred when he said Nigeria Dentists suggest only extraction. That was a fallacy of hasty generalization.
Health › Re: Why Nigerian Dentists Always Suggest Extraction by Sterope(f): 11:29am On Jan 10, 2021
Do you actually believe all Dentists are ethical?



godstino:
And you actually believe the Dentist would go straight to extraction without giving the other options to the patient? Anyways, if that's what you think, then it's okay.
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 11:25am On Jan 10, 2021
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Goodluck with your life
freeman5050:
His is my blood and I have 99% power to raise my son as a good father for him to have same subconsciously.
Health › Re: Why Nigerian Dentists Always Suggest Extraction by Sterope(f): 11:24am On Jan 10, 2021
That is not my experience and my family's experience of the Nigerian health care system.

From your article, there was no mention of offering that choice. What I see is how you assumed that because they can't afford one option, you offer the other one automatically.

You are part of the system. You can attack me all you like and delude yourself otherwise. It won't change my experience or others'. That was exactly what yesterday's thread showed.

godstino:
you obviously don't know what you're saying. A professional is supposed to suggest all options available and the patient will choose. In Nigeria, most of the patients opt for extraction outrightly even after been given the treatment options available. No Dentist will do an extraction without the INFORMED consent of the patient. Some of you just want to show yourselves whereas you're nothing.
Health › Re: Why Nigerian Dentists Always Suggest Extraction by Sterope(f): 10:54am On Jan 10, 2021
It is still irresponsible and unprofessional to suggest extraction. You owe your client that choice and your professionalism.
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Homosexuals Have A Place In God's Kingdom? by Sterope(f): 10:43am On Jan 10, 2021
I am willing to change my mind if there is a high probability of prayers and fasting converting gays to straight. Not those lies and propaganda everyone is peddling around.

Till then, it is cruel to deny people who have no responsibility in their creation the choice to love and be loved in this bitter world.
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 10:40am On Jan 10, 2021
Lmao. Anything to make yourself feel good.

Your son would hate you for doing that to his mum. She would hate you too.



freeman5050:
Baby girl good morning. How was your night.

Back to your question, I have to keep it secret for now because I wouldn't like to loose her; ...
(1) Because irrespective of her recent attitude I still value and sherish (Love) her.
(2) I don't need to put my Beloved and wonderful Son in a psychological trauma
(3) I hate divorce.
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 2:24am On Jan 10, 2021
I am not interested please
Oluromantic:
I've sent you a PM. I promise not to judge your views about what we discussed tonight
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 2:22am On Jan 10, 2021
I have a problem with you thinking women should be groomed and submissive. I am not that open-minded, please.

Oluromantic:
You should learn to believe in the great things you don't know you can do o. Do you know yo can be friends with someone ignoring your differences? Come on, you can share interests on areas you're United. I don't judge people at all. It's the thread's topic that brought about tonight's argument. I'm so sure there are lots of fascinating things about you aside this.

I'll PM you joor. Emi on shey olukoso o
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 2:11am On Jan 10, 2021
I don't share the same feeling with a man that thinks I need to be groomed. I would rather choke and die than think otherwise.

Oluromantic:
Lol. I hope on maturity for you. You'll change beyond your imaginations.

BTW nice to meet you. Where are you located?
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 2:09am On Jan 10, 2021
Do you pay attention to children?

1. Without a philosophy class, they already grasp the elements of fairness and justice
2. Before they are two, they realise that adults' knowledge is limited to what their eyes can see
3. They argue and ask questions
4. The smart ones will correct you when they believe they are wrong
5. They learn to lie when they realise you don't know everything
6. When they grow up, they chart their own lives despite their upbringing

Toddlers and Children understand you are faulty

Then you expect a human to believe you are more than this because you have a penis? grin





Oluromantic:
No you should. Submission is your Creator's command. Any exposure that disregards that command is absolute rubbish. You didn't create yourself and you don't have to be religious to understand. It's simple. His duty is to love, yours is to submit. Align your life towards that
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 2:01am On Jan 10, 2021
My God didn't ask me to submit to another faulty human. Submission is for him only. If he did, he should have given me limited ability to decide and should have made men so purrfect, so smart. We won't be fighting wars on so many levels and all countries would be perfect to live in and many women won't complain about sexual assault, rape and domestic abuse. We would the absolute trust and confidence in men. If I am not acting according to plan, that can't be my fault.

You are an example that God did not intend u to be a leader of anything, not even a baby.

Oluromantic:
No you should. Submission bus your Creator's command. Any exposure that disregards that command is absolute rubbish. You didn't create yourself and you don't have to be religious to understand. It's simple.
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 1:52am On Jan 10, 2021
Whatever
Oluromantic:
Lol. You have a contrite heart, you need a broken spirit.
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 1:49am On Jan 10, 2021
Yeah plus the fact that I am human, not a dog. I wasn't brought as a caged animal either. I went to school, met people, can read, can write, can talk, can critically analyse, can question silly norms so I expect another humanoid to treat me like a human. The way he treats his friends, so respectfully, his parents, so considerate, the way he conducts himself in teamwork, a great team player.

Too much to ask? Is his insecurity driving him to where he needs submission to communicate with another human?


Oluromantic:
Oh okay. You have a long way. Guess your upbringing moulded you
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 1:28am On Jan 10, 2021
Why are you doing it secretly?

Did you inform her before you married her?

freeman5050:
Cruel huh? But why do you call what is in the bible cruelhuh

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