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I expected better pictures

I hope they get them, that country is crazy. I doubt many people are convicted for stripping others naked.


In other news, this is someone's 9 months' pregnancy.

He is too young to be educated or learn a trade. Maybe a business, what if that doesn't work out?

See this as a learning curve, pele

That would be my high blood pressure not yours.

Asianjollof007:
If you continue living with this kind of bitterness, you may die of high blood pressure.

Lol. That is generous.

I have never assumed you had sense though.

Acidosis:
I think say this one get sense.

Eeyah. It is too early to hear about stupid people too na.

Acidosis:
Omo.. it's too early to be bitter na

Stupid people

You won't have existed if this were true.

aremuforlife:
This is part of their jihadis, they want to dominate other religion with their ideas, and they will do everything to stop other from dominating them.

The one funded with everyone's tax money? They took over most religious schools not just the Christian's ones though.

Sounds like an intolerance issue. Like when my grandfather and his dad to convert to Christianity back then and change their names to be admitted to school.

Same issue. Different religions.

Moblux:
The war has been on for a long time. I think the issue should be handled with care to avoid a riot. It is not a must for Abdul to attend C&S College now.

These schools were built by Christian community which government is not renovating and the Christians still contribute money to maintain their "legacy". What was the compensation paid when the schools were forcefully taken over?

The point is that it got so bad in Kwara that Christian boys and girls were not getting admitted to some of these schools in the early 90's. That was why C&S Laduba, Emmanuel College Tanke, Chapel, ESS Ganmo etc came up as private/ mission schools

No, she doesn't need to having a fling with him. Some people are just wired to be stupid and damaged

OblorOblor:
Your sister called you that she almost got raped. In the same breath she is making a case for the guy. I think your sister has been having a fling with him, but on this particular occasion, declined because she was in her period. Whatever it is, it's not nice to want to rape even one's wife, let alone someone who could pass as an acquaintance.

Attempted rape is a crime. Sorry for the mistake.

pocohantas:
I thought I am the only one decided on what to do. Let it slide? Are these guys okay??



Assault is a crime. I know I didn’t study law and not familiar with you guys grammar, but attempted rape is a “crime”. It is a criminal offense. It is punishable by law (or it should be).

My mistake .

Thanks for the correction

Sarsaproko:
Attempted rape is a crime under the Criminal Code and it is punishable with imprisonment for fourteen years, with or without caning. Section 359 of the Criminal Code.

It is. Attempted rape isn't.

Attempted rape should be a crime!

Sarsaproko:
Is assault not a crime?

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Your sister still need a lecture. Apology seems to be her weak point. Why should his apology matter? If he had succeeded, she would still encourage you to let him be.

RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped

Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.

I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.

My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.

Now I met her and asked what's up.

She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.

She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.

I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?

No insults please. Thank you all

They are concerned about the wrong thing.

pocohantas:
I wonder who told them I want to stop rape or evil. It will remain as long as men live na. My point was very clear, yet they are twisting and turning. Omo!!!!

Lmao. How does this nonsense relate to her? She is going to kil whoever it is, evil can continue to remain with you

angelfallz:
Just pray and try to make sure you don't find yourself in that situation. It's easy to say you'd kill, but it's difficult to carry it out. Movies and real life are extremely different.

Rape has been around right from the beginning, if the people of old couldn't stop rape with all their barbaric Punishments why would rape be stopped in this time?

Evil would always be with us.

*Added*

Regarding a woman talking about the alleged rape that happened when she was little.
I have always been against it. Why? Because most times there's no evidence to back it up.

So basically she is just making an accusation without evidence, that can tarnish a man's image.

Some may argue that, some women may take years to come out, and I agree. But. If there's no evidence what is she trying to achieve?

Talking about an alleged rape that happened when she was a child as a way of healing and talking about it as a way of getting back at the alleged rapist are two different things.

In the first instance she wouldn't have to name or give clues to who her alleged rapist is, but in the second instance she would have to name the alleged rapist without evidence that he did it.

Omo ale!

Asswipemod:
Bros if una no be fulani, police or army go treat your mess up. Wetin even concern me? Go spoil your family name naah. Knock yasef out. Odaran omo!

Yeah like they have killed all the armed robbers, kidnappers, ritualists that have rampaged your village

Asswipemod:
Are you Fulani? Because if you're not na kill dem go kill you o.

I really should go into crime

Better late than never.

This is the stupid reason why they speak wormen prefer their children looks like their husbands..mtcheww

He could have asked for her permission but he didn't.

He has a brother. She is married to his brother. It is as easy as telling him to be personally responsible for his guests.

But we are digressing here....

Katier00:
you don't know their financial strength, maybe she has planned herself for week. What if they are only managing. I am a woman and I won't like it if anyone goes into my kitchen without my permission. At least for courtesy sake. On top that she or he still had the effortnery to shout back at her, common that's not right. I'm sorry it won't happen again would have solve the matter

I don't think there is anything wrong in cooking and serving his guest. It is just food and kitchen.

Katier00:
Op it is very wrong of you to go into the kitchen of your brother's wife. Don't put your brother in the middle because he will definitely choose his wife over you. Respect yourself and tolerate more

Exactly, where is his house?

Mindlog:
Sighs.....Since you said you were involved in the acquisition of everything your brother owns as you both struggled for it, then it is an indication you can earn.......go rent your own space.

pocohantas:
Any Nigerian in-law that makes these two statements;

1: Calling a family house “MY BROTHER’S HOUSE”

2: Telling you how they suffered with their brother before you came in...

Is most likely a very troublesome, disrespectful, entitled, egoistic, irrational, unmanageable and petty in-law.

OP used those two statements with so much effrontery. Tells a lot about him. Anyone supporting you should take you in and you try that nonsense with their wives, let’s see how many days you last there.

Make no mistakes, the problem is not the pot or the kitchen, that was just a trap and you fell into it. After all, she knew you wouldn’t come into her room or try to touch her butt. So, she waited for you in the kitchen.

After taking tramadol with your U-27 friends, you come home and start rubbing shoulders with her. You must be sick in the head.

Submit to your brother’s wife and control that your sharp mouth.

13 years old?

They have given platform to too many people on that state

And have lung cancer too

Kapilta:
Smoking is nothing. Smoking isn't why people are evil. Smoking contributes zero to who you are personally, it only help people to relax and clear their head.