₦airaland Forum

chrisj2:
I disagree to some extent on the issues of misogyny and African men not be able to adjust. Some have been abroad for many many years and have had relationships with western Washington men both black or white. There is just something different about bringing someone abroad and those brought over developing serious wings even when the men are no different from their white counterparts. Oyinbo men too do misogyny and their women too can be as submissive...

Black women at times have the Jezebel complex and get too angry...

Mikehot:
who told you the issue is about chores?

If you went through this post from the start you would realize the women are not complaining about chores but that the man shouldn't feel he deserve a say "for mere bringing a woman abroad" they say that abroad isn't heaven hence whenever the woman finds her feet financially she can choose to go solo if she wishes just because "she can't be a slave to the man by contributing in one purse and using it together"

Regardless of how the man spent his all to bring the woman, raise her up at his own expense.

pocohantas:
If my parents didn’t have the funds to train me in school, I for go learn hairdressing.

Education is a lifetime investment. Anyone who gives you that has given you a lot. That’s too much power in the hands of a Nigerian man that isn’t ones father. Me no fit guarantee you say I go marry you and I no go like make you come dey cry “after all I did for her”, e no dey hard una.

No train me abeg. Go train your mama...

JovialJune:
Better dont kill yourself from unnecessary hate, or have HBP.

JovialJune:
Funny thing is that, you are a Muslim

If non Muslims were to be all over you guys restricted threads, y'all will be all over the place complaining, look at way you've been castigating a man you don't know from Adam

You Muslims are known terrorists, and you're saying Oyedepo terrorised his family, the falsehood and irony lol

Who said Oyedepo will live forever? Pls learn to read well.

JovialJune:
You all will continue to cry and wail till eternity,

Oyedepo and CU will continue to exist forever, he has placed a mark on earth and through his school, has put Nigeria in the limelight academically, go check the stats,

I am a proud alumni and will forever be

You, my dear full, will continue to be an inconsequential and a nobody(except God intervene in your life anyway)

Best believe.

odu2007:
See enn, only God would help us. Many youth are always speaking against discipline. I graduated from University of Ilorin, and you dare not try and wear skimpy dresses or barb one stupid hair style, you will be charged and expelled. They already told us all this things right from the day we were writing post ume and yet people will still complain as if they were not told. The man of God is running the school for kingdom's sake, that is you were a bad boy before came to CU, you must repent before going back, the school is meant for God.

JovialJune:
You all will continue to cry and wail till eternity,

Oyedepo and CU will continue to exist forever, he has placed a mark on earth and through his school, has put Nigeria in the limelight academically, go check the stats,

I am a proud alumni and will forever be

You, my dear full, will continue to be an inconsequential and a nobody(except God intervene in your life anyway)

Best believe.

JovialJune:
If you are not from Kwara state or Omu-Aran, or part of his family to know this, God will judge you for lying.

pocohantas:
I can’t explain it well, but Igbos are deeply tied to their roots and togetherness. You don’t really know a person except you know his/her ancestral home and that can never change. SanwoOlu can decide to demolish our house in Lagos, but that can’t happen in the village.

Various rites in Igbo land are also stressful, so no matter how long it takes, something must bring you back to them. It is better you start identifying with them early.

pocohantas:
Majority of the people saying it is fine are not Igbos. The only people I know that will live, marry and be buried in Lagos without knowing their hometowns are Yorubas, no offense, but Igbos do not do that.

As woke as I am, one thing I will never do is my trad in the city or even marry without knowing the village of my partner.

All these woke Igbo people running away from the village saying “village people”, yes they could be a handful and I hate that- but a day will come when you’ll need those village people. I have an aunty that did Lagos marriage when I was a teenager, today she regrets it.


Even if you wake me from deep sleep, I will show you the way to my parents house IN THE VILLAGE. I can also show you their own parents houses as jara, that is my ROOT.

pocohantas:
Don’t mind zzôr. I am sure she knows it doesn’t make him stingy, also surprised that people still get worked up over her comments.

She plays too much.

pocohantas:
It is the same way mechanics behave when a woman brings her car to them. Even ordinary vulcanizer would try to scam you.

It is simply because they don’t see men doing it often and they assume you don’t know the prices of those things.




Make una leave Zzor for me abeg.

talktrue1234:
Wow, so because I am single now I have to look for someone to buy what I am going to eat for me. Our mentality is just mad.

First I think you are right, that is actually what most women believe, you are the second lady telling me this, but I am not actually stingy, I just like being on my own.

I don't even have friends in my street, but I will work on your input, thumbs up.

Davash222:
Heaven will rejoice the day you borrow sense.

pocohantas:
For 6years you haven’t had peace and he hasn’t either. But you two have been able to sustain erectiôns and a slimy vagina- enough to have 4kids in 6yrs.

Deola2020:
Hello Nairalanders.....A close friend of mine was to return to Nigeria from china early this year but due to covid-19 pandemic decided to stay back a bit till everything was clear...

Fast forward to now after booking for his flight ticket which has a stopover in hongkong,he was denied boarding a plane in Shanghai cos he doesn't have an hongkong transit visa which he never knew of or told and his visa expires in 3days and getting the hongkong transit visa takes 4 weeks.....

Please experienced nairaland travellers and guys currently residing in China, please what countries can he has stop-overs or connecting flights to that doesn't require transit visa... .

Pls help urgently so he won't overstay his visa or have issues with Chinese authorities because he is operating under a low budget after expending so much to exorbitant flight tickets rates and other Chinese authorities wahala....


Please I need y'all advice before I book another flight ticket for him before 7am Shanghai time

Kondomatic:
I sincerely miss the time when family problems stayed within the family and certain things remained in people's heads.




These celebs should learn to handle their shits without disturbing our space, we have our own problems and we don't bug them with it

One4me:
Uhuun, l talk am!
The Spin has started.

pocohantas:
When a man marries a bad wife, he’ll turn into a philosopher. Now it adds up. He seemed to love his wife though, at least from social media posts and all. She no try.

pocohantas:
He is not okay. Did she leave the 5yrs old alone or with a trusted person? If it is the latter, I see nothing she did wrong.

You won’t marry her, you no gree. You no want make she mingle 5yrs later.