Family › Re: My Sister Wants Traditional Marriage In The City: Is It Normal? by Sterope(f): 9:31am On Dec 14, 2020 |
I understand. I think its survival is based on other Igbos enforcing the same. A growing nonchalant attitude towards the rites might change that narrative though. Yorubas don't have that at all. Even where both roots are in the same city, there is really nothing except maintaining family togetherness. pocohantas: I can’t explain it well, but Igbos are deeply tied to their roots and togetherness. You don’t really know a person except you know his/her ancestral home and that can never change. SanwoOlu can decide to demolish our house in Lagos, but that can’t happen in the village.
Various rites in Igbo land are also stressful, so no matter how long it takes, something must bring you back to them. It is better you start identifying with them early. |
Family › Re: My Sister Wants Traditional Marriage In The City: Is It Normal? by Sterope(f): 8:52am On Dec 14, 2020 |
I am curious. Why is the village very important? pocohantas: Majority of the people saying it is fine are not Igbos. The only people I know that will live, marry and be buried in Lagos without knowing their hometowns are Yorubas, no offense, but Igbos do not do that.
As woke as I am, one thing I will never do is my trad in the city or even marry without knowing the village of my partner.
All these woke Igbo people running away from the village saying “village people”, yes they could be a handful and I hate that- but a day will come when you’ll need those village people. I have an aunty that did Lagos marriage when I was a teenager, today she regrets it.
Even if you wake me from deep sleep, I will show you the way to my parents house IN THE VILLAGE. I can also show you their own parents houses as jara, that is my ROOT. |
Food › Re: Has Anybody Noticed This? by Sterope(f): 1:19pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Lol. I apologise then @zzor I am not familiar with the username. pocohantas: Don’t mind zzôr. I am sure she knows it doesn’t make him stingy, also surprised that people still get worked up over her comments.
She plays too much.  |
Food › Re: Has Anybody Noticed This? by Sterope(f): 12:53pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
I agree with you, but the 'stingy' assumption is farfetched. pocohantas: It is the same way mechanics behave when a woman brings her car to them. Even ordinary vulcanizer would try to scam you.
It is simply because they don’t see men doing it often and they assume you don’t know the prices of those things.
Make una leave Zzor for me abeg.  |
Food › Re: Has Anybody Noticed This? by Sterope(f): 12:34pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
She is silly. Not every man can afford the additional cost that comes with sending someone to the market. Anyone can go to the market if they want to. talktrue1234: Wow, so because I am single now I have to look for someone to buy what I am going to eat for me. Our mentality is just mad.
First I think you are right, that is actually what most women believe, you are the second lady telling me this, but I am not actually stingy, I just like being on my own.
I don't even have friends in my street, but I will work on your input, thumbs up. |
Food › Re: Has Anybody Noticed This? by Sterope(f): 12:31pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
 Davash222: Heaven will rejoice the day you borrow sense. |
Family › Re: Lady Calls Out Her Husband, Pius Angbo, A Staff Of Channels TV, For Beating Her by Sterope(f): 10:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
 pocohantas: For 6years you haven’t had peace and he hasn’t either. But you two have been able to sustain erectiôns and a slimy vagina- enough to have 4kids in 6yrs. |
Travel › Re: Pls Help Me From Transit Visa Wahala Before Chinese Visa Expires in 3days Time by Sterope(f): 10:06pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
You can apply for the transit visa, there may be an option for a fast-track. Immigration officers might help but I won't hold my breath on that. Or find another airline with a stopover in another country like Turkish airline. It might be more expensive, better find the money. This is the best alternative, Chinese immigration laws are rigid. Deola2020: Hello Nairalanders.....A close friend of mine was to return to Nigeria from china early this year but due to covid-19 pandemic decided to stay back a bit till everything was clear...
Fast forward to now after booking for his flight ticket which has a stopover in hongkong,he was denied boarding a plane in Shanghai cos he doesn't have an hongkong transit visa which he never knew of or told and his visa expires in 3days and getting the hongkong transit visa takes 4 weeks.....
Please experienced nairaland travellers and guys currently residing in China, please what countries can he has stop-overs or connecting flights to that doesn't require transit visa... .
Pls help urgently so he won't overstay his visa or have issues with Chinese authorities because he is operating under a low budget after expending so much to exorbitant flight tickets rates and other Chinese authorities wahala....
Please I need y'all advice before I book another flight ticket for him before 7am Shanghai time |
Celebrities › Re: Duncan Mighty Accuses His Wife & Her Family Of Plotting To Take His Properties by Sterope(f): 8:21pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
That never happened. Everyone in the village would know. If they had the internet, the whole world would know. Kondomatic: I sincerely miss the time when family problems stayed within the family and certain things remained in people's heads.
These celebs should learn to handle their shits without disturbing our space, we have our own problems and we don't bug them with it |
Celebrities › Re: Duncan Mighty Accuses His Wife & Her Family Of Plotting To Take His Properties by Sterope(f): 8:18pm On Dec 04, 2020*. Modified: 8:38pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
What spin? His story is the oldest trick in the book of abusive husband vs wife. Nothing unexpected! One4me: Uhuun, l talk am! The Spin has started.  |
Celebrities › Re: Duncan Mighty Accuses His Wife & Her Family Of Plotting To Take His Properties by Sterope(f): 7:34pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Social media say he has always been abusive towards her before and during marriage. pocohantas: When a man marries a bad wife, he’ll turn into a philosopher. Now it adds up. He seemed to love his wife though, at least from social media posts and all. She no try. |
Celebrities › Re: Duncan Mighty Accuses His Wife & Her Family Of Plotting To Take His Properties by Sterope(f): 7:30pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Rants of a lunatic  |
Islam › Re: Can A Person Be Possessed By The Jinn When He Is Keeping Up With Adhkaar? by Sterope(f): 11:19am On Dec 04, 2020 |
Yeah |
Politics › Re: Buratai: Terrorism May Persist For Another 20 Years In Nigeria by Sterope(f): 11:25pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
Of course.
However, with the way we are handling the fight against terrorism, 200 years is more like it.
It is a lucrative and powerful business. |
Romance › Re: Man Confronts His Baby Mama After She Left Their Child To Hang Out With A Man by Sterope(f): 11:23pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
Look at the other comments. We can't get anything right with these elots! pocohantas: He is not okay. Did she leave the 5yrs old alone or with a trusted person? If it is the latter, I see nothing she did wrong.
You won’t marry her, you no gree. You no want make she mingle 5yrs later. |
Celebrities › Re: 'My Body Is Dedicated To Wizkid' - Curvy Lady Offers Sex To Wizkid (Video, Pix) by Sterope(f): 11:26pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
I would rather not have a child, God! |
Politics › Re: Governor Zulum Recommends the Use of Mercenaries to Defeat Boko Haram. by Sterope(f): 8:43pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
They could use that money to buy proper arms and gear for our military. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Can I Be Free From Sin Completely? by Sterope(f): 9:24am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Do you want to compete with God? |
Islam › Re: Subhanallah! A Transgender Hijabi by Sterope(f): 4:34pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
I don't understand how this would work. |
Celebrities › Re: Reno Omokri: 'Agbani Darego Did Not Bleach. Yet, She Is Married, Has A Child' by Sterope(f): 6:40pm On Nov 26, 2020 |
Mangoes and oranges |
Politics › Re: Canceled South-South Meeting: Garba Shehu Reacts by Sterope(f): 7:28pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Lol. They called for the meeting and they couldn't reschedule when a 'security issue' came up. |
Music/Radio › Re: A Review Of Davido's "A Better Time" Album By Iamsynord by Sterope(f): 2:59pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Either a hit or a miss  |
Politics › Re: Arabic Script On Naira Notes: Culture Clash Over Nigeria's Rival Alphabets by Sterope(f): 2:39pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Written with Arabic characters I think Farsi also follows the same format ThatFairGuy: Sighting this 1000 note as an example, The Arabic inscription on it simply means NAIRA DUBU(Hausa language) in Transliteration which means #1000.
It's Hausa language but written in Arabic.
The Arabic word for a thousand naira is ألف not نير دوبو as it's on our thousand note.
I can also write egberun naira (Yoruba language) in Arabic as we have it in Hausa language (but written in Arabic) on our note. As well as in Igbo.
أيبر نير egberun naira (#1000). IT'S JUST A LANGUAGE as explained in this write-up, nothing like ISLAMIZATION. We all need to look away on some certain things if we must live in peace, Which is ESSENTIAL.
I can sight some examples of what we're also using in Nigeria that are related to Christianity but no fuss from Muslim side.
WE NEED TO STOP ALL THESE UNNECESSARY FUSS |
Romance › Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Sterope(f): 7:13pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Yes |
Career › Re: My Brother's Employment Letter Was Withdrawn by Sterope(f): 11:09am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Well, it was an internal recruitment. I hope he gets something better soon. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Chris Oyakhilome: It's Not Trump That They Hate, It's You, The Christians by Sterope(f): 5:17pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
How? By sexually harassing women? Insulting women? Cheating on his wives? Engaging in pre-marital sex? Demeaning your skin colour? dokie: They are anti-Christ. Simple.
Trump, while not a model Christian, is willing to stick out his neck to protect Christian rights. They don't like that.
Anyone who has followed dems in recent times, knows they want to build a godless society. A society where anything about God (most especially, the Christian God) is completely eroded.
One message for Christians though is that regardless of the outcome of this elections, Christianity is going back to the catacombs in the near future. Serious persecution. |
Family › Re: Reno Omokri: Bride Price Is Only Paid For Virgins, Scripturally by Sterope(f): 4:53pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
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Sports › Re: Ike Ibeabuchi Released From Prison After 20 Years ain US Jail by Sterope(f): 12:58pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Your choice of words is unnecessarily degrading! FBI doesn't investigate such matters. PlaysNigeria: The FBI isn't interested in investigating a hoe vs black ape case (sorry to say), if you get a rape allegation and luckily someone stands as witness, my dear you are a gonner. There are too many black cases than to pile up another for an investigation no one is interested in. Even if it's a deal gone wrong or set up, as long as you are black, orange is your uniform. |
Sports › Re: Ike Ibeabuchi Released From Prison After 20 Years ain US Jail by Sterope(f): 12:40pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Are you saying that she stopped being a person because of her career? Pipefitter: America has saved a lot of people and ruined the lives of many too, sending someone to prison for 15 years on the account of a stripers statement and another 4 years for an old warrant.. where is the justice? Trump and his friends are known molesters but his is being protected by American SS and fed with tax payers money. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Election Results: 6 Votes Remaining For Biden To Win by Sterope(f): 2:06pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
You are black, why would you support a proud racist? Self-hate? Icelandicboy: Only God knows why Muslims across the world are fiercely against trump. Anyway may the candidate that would be of benefit to America and Nigeria win |
Politics › Re: Soldier Who Flogged Woman In Ibadan Over 'Indecent Dressing' Arrested by Sterope(f): 9:56pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
This is not about training. It is about culture and consequence! Evidence1000: Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. This is what happens in a country where most soldiers who join the military do not undergo full training but become soldiers as a result of connections. |
Health › Re: I Finally Took The Hiv Test And The Result Is.... by Sterope(f): 10:48pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
Bellotelli. you did not pay attention during the pre-test counseling. |