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uncastableodd:
Good morning everyone.

In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.

I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.

So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla..
I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.

I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.

I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..

She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.

Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?

In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.

You are an evil soul
Common mycoten to relieve yeast infection
When you should sympathize with her sef you are already accusing of infidelity and promising death.

God forbid bad thing

Zhuhilat:
Hello guys, pls how cold is Winnipeg manitoba? Also any idea on the cost of living? Thanks guys

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7eBExZPNXp0H0hXW4qKiQA/search?query=winnipeg

You can follow that lady on Youtube and watch her videos. I believe she is based in Winnipeg and she has some good videos on life there.

kunlesmiles:
Ur daughter is in her formative period, please find ways of spending more time with her. Since ur daughter loves music, maybe you sud av an arrangement with her whereby she goes for music classes after school like twice in a week. Use music as an incentive for doing well in school.

Spot on.

MrTeeo:
Hi guys, I have been reading for a year now without contributing. I am a PR currently schooling in SAIT Calgary, studying Information Technology software development (make I follow chop that IT money)
So if you need any help concerning admission and school I could help. Note I landed Alberta in October. Applied late November and got my admission. Student loan and grant also. Cheers

Congratulations. SAIT is a sound place

rotile247:
Getting a car and a driver's license must be very important o

Very very especially if one has kids.
I'm just waiting for spring before I take the practice test. Last winter without a vehicle. Jesu! Who did I offend?

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

Dust your CV and get back to the grinding mill. Your last job with the lawyer/politician is a common one where they are always in need of employees so hopefully, you get something pretty soon.

In the future, when someone tells you no, you should respect them and move on.
In Nigeria, we are used to walking up to total strangers, tapping them (sometimes on their arm, shoulder) walking up to strangers on the street, bank, offices and whispering close to their ear all in a bid to get their attention. We do not really understand boundary with strangers and unfortunately, you have learnt the hard way.

Chin up and cheer up. Soon, you will testify and even encourage others who may have found themselves in similar position

esterella:
Calgary this morning!

Honestly ehn, the last few days have been brutal especially for those of us still commuting with public transport. I sick sef ontop the whole thing

Oh well... the forecast starting from Sunday appears promising

CaptMarvel:
I'm just curious to know.
I would like to be more enlightened on this.

If my brother, I meant my own blood brother becomes an American citizen, I as a Nigerian, what do I stand to gain from it?

Will it increase my chances of traveling to America, will I have better chances to gain from institutions there, or and what other benefits do I stand to gain.

Better brother fit help you oh
He can pay for your school fees so you can go there and hustle yourself
He can link you up with a good lady/man with good morals who wants to settle down and you sef if you wan settle e fit work
He can do A LOT if he is willing

A14:
You can start by reading Millionaire Teacher 2nd ed by Andrew Hallam. As for blogs and podcasts you can check out Build Wealth Canada and Canada Couch Potato.

Hope this helps.

Thank you

A14:
I second this, Questrade is one of the few brokerage accounts that don’t charge you for buying funds, most charge about 10 bucks.

My people please don’t just use your TFSAs as a savings account. Invest invest invest!!!
If you’re not sure how to, read books, listen to podcasts....

This is me right here; I need epp. I know i'm doing something off by just saving but my ''Art'' brain cant seem to really understand this investment thing.
Ejo which podcast. I don watch Youtube video tire

Enonymous:
Interview Proper

Biological mother was called in.

The End!

This testimony put a smile on my face.
May God almighty uplift and uphold your family
Such selflessness is rare. Congratulations to you and your family

Happy New Year everyone. Your expectations shall not be cut short

Mcowubaba:
You may not be addressing me directly as I also quoted you, to dispute some claims.
I do agree that we may you the best, all we do here is for education, entertainment, assistance and information

You guys have derailed this lady's thread.
This is not the thread for human rights violation. Why not open another one to debate that.
She is a professional working in the uae. We understand conditions are tough there, we know. But she is working a professional job over there and sharing her experience on how she got it. Allow her do that in peace. Let others who want to follow her steps in getting PROFESSIONAL work in the uae do so. Some people will take that over living in Nigeria even with the tough laws in the uae. Allow those few individuals learn in peace. Thank you

Champagnemami:
You people didn't lemme finish my story. I would have gone on to tell how people stay here people would not lemme be.

I have no intention of working in Dubai but I love threads like this with first hand experience of life in other countries. But this thread was massively hijacked. Why not continue this thread in the diary section?

Its about travel but then its capturing your daily experience in Dubai. Request the moderator leaves your thread there n not move it back here

Pastor Nathaniel Bassey

Donnie

Bigbright7:
Greetings to you my fellow nairalanders,

My heart is filled with tears as I type this because today, the devil used Mr Joel in the recruit department of workforce group to be the stumbling blocks to my breakthrough.

I went for an interview with workforce group gbagada, and during my credentials check, Mr Joel accused me of tampering with my D.O.B on my Waec certificate just because it was laminated and the ink looks faint. Mind you the D.O.B on my O'Level corresponded with my ID card and my birth certificate.

I tried to prove my innocence, but rather he chased me away from his desk, and that was how I lost the job as I wasn't interviewed. I almost cried right in front of everyone there, because I have been searching for a job for months now and this happened.

I don't know who needs to hear this but please, do not laminate your credentials, so that you can be able to defend the authenticity of it when your recruiters touch them.

A young man in the name of Ayo who also works in that department saw how downcast I was and walk up to me and encouraged me not to be troubled, that something big will come my way. Thank you Ayo for your word of encouragement. God bless you, I believe something big will come, and when it does I'll share the news.

Thank you too Mr Joel, you were only doing your job. Cheers �

Please move to front page.

Do not weep. God's way is not man's way. Your own will come my brother

computergeek:
Update On The Wife Battery Case: She Went Back To The Abusive Man

You did the right thing. Continue to stay out of it. And just so you know, you are now considered an enemy. That's how marriage matters works. Just stay out. Greet from afar and stay out.

Dannieln1:
Ted Bundy of nigeria

well spoken

ladymarshall:
[color=#000099]PPR HALL OF FAME pt 9

THIS SPACE IS RESERVED FOR THOSE WHO GOT PPR IN THIS PART

Wonderful job being done, thank you. Is it possible to have these names (people who have gotten their PPR) done so it is clickable?

ijustdey:
https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2019/10/17/who-will-fund-aishas-office-pdp/

Who funded Patience Jonathan's own? That lady was an authority unto herself. So please PDP don't throw stones when you live/LIVED in a glass house!

Freeopod:
My friend that landed in Edmonton last week is already confused. His eyes started turninoneown after he bought two bottled water at 5.58 CAD,dude converted to naira after making the payment. Long story short sha, dude has bought a water bottle to fill with water from home when going out.

This is normal, JJC levels happens to all of us just once. Afterwards we know fast food place is not the cheapest spot to buy water or pop. Once he settles in very well and knows his way around, he will start buying his water from the supermarket (better deals there) or continue drinking from tap.

Also once he starts working he will not compare CAD to Naira anytime he spends. Congratulations to your friend.

BrutusOj:
Because he is not as successful as 2baba doesnt mean you guys can label him as you wish when he raise an alarm. Blackface did law to some level to understand business law. Just like someone stated above, if we were in a sane clime where copyright act works, he would have been vindicated for long. Some of you wont even read through posts, once you see Blackface and 2face in a thread, you will start typing insult without knowing the bone of contention, too bad of you.

You are right sha. Sometimes I wish he would just stop being hateful but then I remember that if indeed he wrote that song (African Queen) in a sane clime, he would have sued and gotten money back in huge chunks from Tubaba. Even that film that used African Queen as a theme song, him for chop International money from that angle. Wherever that song is sang, Black Face will benefit financially. Alas, we live in Nigeria. People don't respect copyright laws as such and for the lay man going to court and pursuing it all the way to the end is immensely expensive. Look at a song like ''Blurred Lines'' for instance where they refused to allow Robin Thicke and Pharrell drink water and drop cup. I listened to blurred lines and the Mavin Gaye's song in question and tried hard to understand where the infringement was coming from. Still at the end of the day, Pharrell and Robin eventually payed
https://globalnews.ca/news/4762693/blurred-lines-copyright-lawsuit/

Abroad artists sue for all sort of things. When you even take their image and put on clothes and don't pay them, they sue you and win.
https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-23514738

They sue if you steal their design and make your own look alike copy. And they win!
http://www.thefashionlaw.com/home/forever-21-puma-settle-lawsuit-over-copied-fenty-footwear

If this happened in Nigeria, we will call Mavin Gaye's Estate a hater but that's not how things work in the West. Lets look at Rihanna suing Top shop and Forever 21. Is she a poor woman? Is she bitter? NO. At the end of the day, it is about justice and their hard work and sweat, which they put into their craft. Heck it could even be their image you stole. They will sue for anything.
In a sane climate, he might have gotten justice and moved on. I actually do feel bad for him. Justice denied is a bad thing oh

yincah38:
At times you dnt find closure , you just have to move on
When i was 7yrs i was sexually molested by a lady (our neighborhood daughter) she was around 16yrs back then kept on for lyk a 2yrs. We later move to lagos cos of my dad's job everything was normal till we had this house girl she was close to 23yrs then and i was just 13yrs . She started flirting with me and we started having sex for like months before she left... Am in my 30s presently , i have a wife and a child . i just have to move on with life what type of closure will i be looking for ? I dnt even know where this people are cant even remember the name of our neighbors daughter . Fatoyibo surly had sex with Busola no doubt but was it Rape ?? NOOOO .. There is difference between Rape and having sex with a minor

A minor cannot give consent
Also sorry about what happened to you. The fact you were a boy (then) does not make what happened to you normal or acceptable
It is just as bad as what happened to Bisola and the millions of women and young boys the world over
And just because you got out of yours stronger and better today does not mean others can and would move on so easily
As someone who went through abuse, I am somewhat shocked you feel what happened to Busola at that age is not rape but consensual sex.

When I hear stories of rape or even Busola's, one name always comes to my mind and would never leave
I remember the late Tokunbo Ajayi of NTA. I would never forget that lady
@yincah38, you are in your thirties you say so perhaps you can remember her
Do you know why she committed suicide? Do you know? Educate yourself
https://twitter.com/umariayim/status/419807877369712640
https://www.nairaland.com/3347155/remembering-late-tokunbo-ajai-16
Not everyone is strong and can move on smoothly from rape. Never forget that

Love4God:
A lawyer defending a criminal (land grabber, etc) that they own a property when they know that the criminal(land grabber) is not the actual owner is not a noble thing.
If a king defends a criminal (land grabber)at the expense of the real land owner after knowing the truth can that king be referred to as a noble king?

Even serial killers have lawyer representing them and fighting their case. They can be fighting for acquittal (if they believe their client is innocent) or fighting for life in prison or mental hospital as opposed to firing squard or death by lethal injection.

It is the law that every man must be defended. The lawyer is not the problem. They are merely following the law and practising their vocation

Bozzyironlady:
I didn't know, I thought I was working with people who genuinely likes my work.

Someone who genuinely wants to do business with you will not be sending you upndan message to make calls. Also someone you have never met and the person is already talking how to add money and share with you is not a good person.

These were the major red flags for me. Thank God you didnt fall for it

Love4God:
Law is not a noble proffesion .
How can a lawyer defend a thief or killer even after knowing the truth just because his or her family must feed not minding the threat the thief or the killer would pose to the society if released or what pains or agony the family or persons who are denied justice would pass through ?
Lawyers who defend criminals after knowing the truth are also criminals.

Every man must be proven innocent until he is found guilty by a competent court
Every man should have his day in court. If we start doing otherwise na u go first complain

lol

Jayslicky:

Fatoyinbo will be like my KRESTable busola happy birthday.

Nawa 4u sha

Ifemide123:
I'm really sad about this. I have a shop I run here so except I get a good job outside our town I can't just leave. The best bet is to rent a place and stay on my own but No! I am not married so why should a single lady live alone in same town with her parents? Yet they won't give me the freedom I should have. I can't stay beyond 7 outside, I can't visit a boyfriend in his own town too.

Nawa o but how person dey do am those days wen dem dey uni?
You even hv your business sef.
Cant you meet potential friends in open places or at your business? The more you get comfortable with dem you bring them home or visit them at theirs. Whats hard there? Dont tell any man about parent's house on first date or wen planning a 1st date. You will scare them away.
If your parents want you to settle happily, surely they cant be mad about a familiar face man visiting you at their place unless there is something you are not saying here. Aren't you old enough

princeFAD:
@op, haba, how could you be taking anti retroviral drug when you are not confirmed to be hiv+. You need to stop taking it. Go for test first. And like others have said, the virus cant survive outside condition, so you could hv been invected like that

He took PEP and is not on treatment for hiv. Why not google it?

nairalanduseles:
U cant be positive the virus can not stay alive in its own for 5 seconds so be rest assured you re not

True. As long as the blade had been exposed op is fine. @starke

Starke:
I am a young professional sharing a room and parlour self contain with a frie I am scared shitless and if this happens to make me HIV+, I am seriously considering suicide.

Pls help me people.

Pls help me to move this post. I need to get as much input as possible.

You are fine. By God's grace you dont have nothing. You took PEP within the required time. Besides unless that razor blade was dripping the infected blood when it cut ✂ you only then you may be infected. Chances are low. Do a test for your peace of mind n repeat again in 30days. You are going to be fine.

If all fails then remember hiv does not kill. Take your drugs religiously and you'll be fine. Its untreated hiv leading to full blown AIDS that kills.

Finally move out of that house. I suspect your flatmate. He knew the girl was infected yet put her blade in your bag. Who does that? I can bet he had unprotected sex with her and has hiv himself. Hiss. Misery loves company