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mazizi tonene: Ah ah...u sef...y u dey vex..ya blood 2 dey hot.
Dat was just plain humor.......anyways......

And this got 2 likes

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mazizi tonene: Ah ah...u sef...y u dey vex..ya blood 2 dey hot.
Dat was just plain humor.......anyways......

Lwkmd, so you can dish out but cant take it. I was only joking too

mazizi tonene: Were u sleeping on a bicycle ?

That's your ish not mine. I have a bed, try one!

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@ Freecocoa tell your friend to listen to her instincts. If she feels uncomfy about the situation, then she should not even lend him the money because she won't see it again, unless she is prepared for that. It seems like they are not on same level and i feel like once he gets the money, it will open gateway for him to be asking more money. This is why it's difficult dating someone not in your social status(below it) esp as a woman.

[quote author=Love_Decay]this changes the entire formula.

1. He is teacher - what kinda of school . British American, Greensprings... ?
2. Are they in the same social class - personally , i dont date chicks above or below my social class....

If the guy teaches in one of those schools where they pay, 13K/month. She should ask for details of the business, a collateral wont be enough in this case.

There has to be proof of life' so to speak.[/quote]I doubt those kinda chicks would date you

deols: Beautiful ladies are confident and don't settle for less. The not soo beautiful grab their copies fast!!!



Not too goodlooking guys have had to prove themselves worthy beyond their looks..what they have get them the pretty girls.



Goodlooking guys aren't too smart. They have been constantly aware of themselves and could be boring.


I don't mean to generalise. This is only a theory.

Gbam!! I see men who are extremely attractive usually don't have the great personalities to go along with the great looks. They are usually shallow and not that bright. I choose brains before beauty

Females seek out the strongest seed. Beauty helps attract a mate, but it's the intelligent ones who survive and advance the evolution of the species. Their time is spent expanding the mind and building the character, rather than simply building the body. If more women realized this and started choosing men for who they are rather than what they look like, there would be fewer divorces and way more happy marriages.

bestestgirl: I rest my case

Wonders shall never end. Have you looked in the mirror before posting someone else's pic as ugly

Shekson: Lwtmb. Solo vs Chilli. Una deserve one radio programme for family matters. I jz can't stop laffing.
Back to the curious preek, hau do yu solve Ι̥τ̲̅? I am waitin for the ansa. Then I will comment

Only 1 way. Chop it off

peggykorol: Am glad you didnt forget cos of my previous post
If i had confronted him immediately i would be treating wounds now or taking pain killers

This is why i always say that a woman should be earning some sort of income so when the shit hits the fan, she will be able to still support herself and kids even when the man starts his ish. Please leave this abusive relationship before you end up dead. Think of your kids. What a wicked man.

The gay guy killed it


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[quote author=Bleble-swag][/quote]Lwkmd , am not the one spewing rubbish here.

[quote author=A-ZeD]Thats outside Nigeria.
How can you be in a relationship where you do not trust your partner? For those who said they are not yet married (including Subom1), what is their relationship all about?[/quote]Exactly, i am not in a relationship with someone i don't trust. Secondly was refering in general, not only in a relationship. You also get friends who will not pay you back.

I am confused . Op is that you on your profile? If that is you, no offense but please take a good look in the mirror before you start talking all sorts about ugly girls with smelly character

Idowuogbo: It's a new relationship for God's sake! D new guy has nothing to do with d past. Personally, I'll test him and see if it'll help conquer my trust issues. I'll lend him an amount I can afford to loose and see if he'll payback. Love involves great risk, without trust deres no relationship. Come on!!! If d said guy signs d contract and does a runner with d money, Who laughs last?

I hear you

[quote author=A-ZeD]Its funny how people think the guy signing a paper automatically means the guy is willing to pay back.[/quote]Outside Nigeria legal action can be taken against him. Anyways you are right. The best thing would be not to give him. I cannot lend money to anybody i do not trust.

Donxavier: Let's look at it like this. For a real gold digger, does the contract signing mitigate what she is trying to avoid? Even if he signs the contracts and agrees to collateral blah blah blah does that stop him from walking away with the whole money?

Yes but at least she can take legal action and has proof. It's much better then he said, she said scenario. By his actions alone, even if he eventually wants to sign, i would not give him the money because i know i wont get it back.

Donxavier: Subomi forget all this sense knowledge you are typing here.

You need to get into a relationship in which you can trust with your life. It's rare and life experiences teach otherwise but that's the ideal way to go and the OP shouldn't be dating any guy she doesn't trust.

She should have just made up a story as to why the funds are tied up and she can't help.

Lol it is true but actually we also do not know how long they have been dating, how well does she actually know him etc? The fact that she is having doubts says a lot. A woman should always trust her instincts because majority of the time it is right. Unfortunately the world is not a happy place with honest, trustworthy and faithful partners so must you fool yourself or be in a dream world? Trust is earned, if i am in a relationship where for example my partner does not trust me 100 percent and we are both serious abt each other. If i have nothing to hide will do anything to prove my trust to him and he should do same thing. It gets worse when the person has been hurt before. It's human nature.

Idowuogbo: And u need to stop typing with d muscles in your anuz.I'll rada be blunt with him and tell him I can't afford to lend him money cus he has a habit of not paying back loans. Dats my way! If he decides to end d relationship, oh well! Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Did you read the story at all. The lady HAS the money, but she wants security because her last boyfriend borrowed money from her and did not pay her back. There is nothing said about him having a habit of not paying back. Like you said. Everyone is different. If i experienced a bad thing, i will surely be hesitant next time because that is how i am. There will always be those who will keep doing the same thing over and over then at end of day will cry that some ppl/men are wicked yet they themselves were mumu too.

Mr Aboki: If he wanted someone who would make him sign a surety or put down a collateral, he would have gone to a Bank.

Whats the point of having a partner that you cant fall back on. Even I would be offended and if you arent offended that your girlfriend asked you for such, then you probably have no self-respect. I would rather borrow from a stranger with collateral and interest rather than sign a surety and leave a collateral with my girlfriend..

Exactly, that is why he did not go because he knows he does not want to pay back as well as all the interest. The girl could have easily lied and said she had no money, but she wanted to help her boyfriend but she wants security as she has been played before. If you are dating a girl and she wants to borrow 1million and you give her and she doesn't pay back and then the next girl comes along. Will you do same thing without any hesitation. If you are looking for a relationship where you can borrow large sums of money from women then i suggest you get yourself a sugar mama

Idowuogbo: I repeat, different strokes for different folks.

I agree. The ones who borrow money and do not like to return it will take offense to this

Idowuogbo: Excuuuuuse me! U dis wayo babes sef, so bcus he dey vex,dat automatically means he no wan payback? If na u nko? ur bobo tell u make u sign contract before he lend u money for okada, u no go para? Abeg comot ya brain from ur azz mehn... He has every bloody right to b p!ssed.

By their words you shall know them. Stop thinking from your anus. If you went to a restaurant and the food was rotten. Would you go to that same restaurant and eat from there again? It's human nature to be more cautious when you have had a bad experience(unless you are a certified Mumu). If he really needs that money and after what he knows his gf has been through, signing will not be a problem unless in his heart he is not planning to pay her back.

freecocoa: Bado walai I don't know what else to say again, this people aren't even talking marriage yet and you are comparing them with people wey wan buy wedding dress.

She is living in a fantasy land. Not every relationship leads to marriage, if they are engaged or about to get married then that's a different thing. I heard a story of another lady who lent "her bf" money, only for him to use it to pay for his wedding to another lady. Till today she has not seen that money. At least if there is a contract, she has proof and it makes it easier for her to take legal action if things go wrong.

Ayee Idris: Na wa for Nairaland o! If a guy had given a girl money, the guys here would be calling him a mugu or a maga. The guys here believe that Nigerian girls cannot be trusted to be faithful, hence the need to have multiple girlfriends. Yet they come here to talk about trust. Which yeye trust? The average Nigerian guy has a back-up girlfriend and can dump their current babe at the twinkle of a eye, yet a girl is just expected to trust you people abi? With 400k? What if that's all her savings?? Trust is earned not expected, whether you are in a relationship or not.
Some are saying that it is better to lie that she doesn't have the money. What's the difference? Won't the trust get broken if he finds out she lied about having no money. People find it hard lending relations huge sums cos of the difficulty with recovering, talk less of a boyfriend. Judge Judy's court majorly consists of people trying to recover money loaned to their now ex boyfriend/girlfriend and many times they can't even prove it was a loan.
Never a lender or borrower be o!

GBAM!

She's a correct babe. That man would not have returned the money or taking ages to bring it back. He is only a boyfriend and not a husband. More women should take note of this. Good riddance to bad rubbish, the boyfriend should understand especially since am sure she has told him that she has been in such a situation before. Once burned, twice shy.

InHim4Him: Whether in Ghana or in Nigeria, one can see how WOMEN reason. WOMEN I hail ! Stella. Victoria. Patricia.

What a stupid comment! Women reason? You do know that corruption is not limited to women only. This ASUU strikes is really taking a toll on some people's brains

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What I do not understand is why some people are taking panadol for another persons headache. Why are people obsessing about Dbanj so much? Will it change your lifes in any way. Yes Dbanj may not be making any great songs now but you cannot take away his success. Every artiste will eventually fade out, but that does not take away the good they have done. Even Beyonce was once booed on stage. This is so senseless arguing about how wack or not wack he is. If you don't like him then cool, everyone is entitled to it but there are also those that like him, if his fans are not happy or complaining then why should you die over it. I hate lady gaga and think her music sucks, but you won't find me arguing about how much she sucks etc online or anywhere, because that is so childish and the easiest thing would be to not listen to her music. So those who hate Dbanj and do not like his music. Stop listening to him simple. I am not even a big fan of Dbanj but there is no need to discredit him.

Already broken up!!! I guess the deliverance did not work

TrickofTech: I spy another woman who does not trust men

It is all good though. I am learning why it is important to express your feelings to a girl quickly. I have never done this. I have always hidden them. But I have made the leap and I am moving on. She is still stuck. By playing games she was dragging me down to her level again. Now I am aware, I can move past this.

I now see why men cannot really have female friends that they are attracted to. It must be one or the other!!!

What does trusting men have to do with your tales? Its so obvious you are a fake oyinbo. Your stories are now becoming redundant and boring, if you are like this in real life then am sorry to say i dnt blame the girl.

lomomike: Well, dayumm!!!

190, Mr Cork, Andyblaze, Onila, Yuzedo etc Na characters wey get special case file. Choi Na wa for NL. Everytime I get to see these peoples threads/replies I start laughing uncontrollably.


Anybody wey dey serious about this andyblaze thread dey try Oº°˚˚°

I sometimes feel they are all one in the same person.

weazley: they v chosen for me aready,d topic should rather b 'would you marry d man or woman chosen by ur parents?'
wel mine is a no, d babe chosen wasnt dat cute, but d size of ha nicki(breast) and minaj(bombom) gives me a hard on for a week, stil hopin to enta the gates of jerusalem sha, but no marriage,

Arsehole , before you enter the Jerusalem, at least let your intention be clear that you are not going to marry her