₦airaland Forum

mamaTB:
Please mamas I have attached the Hsg result performed at mecure, I must confess the pain was bearable though I took diclofenac an hour before the procedure and I didn't bleed afterwards,
pls am concerned abt the left tube. Do u think I have anything to worry about? Please I need your advice.
cc fv.ine, sug.ah and my able sabi mamas. Please don't waka pass.

I think the most important things there are 'free spillage' and bilateral tubal patency. You probably don't need to worry about the outline of the left tube.
Both tubes are open

Boeing777pilot:
Mrbigman

Those comments are not fair on female pilots

I actually prefer flying with female captains in our Boeing777 fleet they are some of the best. We go through the same rigorous training and nothing separates us in terms of competency.

I see you have apologized though.

Go and sin no more.

The guy is a repeat offender that's why I dint bother to respond to him.
First they claim national pilots make aircraft vibrate (in choppers), then they only do paperwork.
It's pitiable when people speak authoritatively on an issue albeit with an ignorant stance.

Monwojuoluwa:
congratulations to all mamas who made it to the end of the journey... I pray I make mine too. -and may God bless your lil ones

Thanks dear. He would give you double for your trouble.

iomoge2:
This one is not freedom o.
My belle is like tripplet preggy o.
Chioooo. I want vigilante joor.

I have been planning to go get a pedicure.......
I'm still planning.
Enjoy your freedom!!!

Deyoola with a previous myomectomy you are at risk of a uterine rupture if you go into labour. Not to scare you but with a uterine rupture your best case is death of child, worse case is death of both mother and child.

I'm not sure if your doctors took time out to explain to you why they said CS.
If you had multiple fibroids taken out of the uterus it means that the uterus wall was touched in different places. During labour (even before you start pushing), the contraction can cause one of the several stitches to rupture.
But if you had just a single mass taken out then vaginal delivery can be achieved.

Your doctor has your surgery notes and has told you its CS. So please listen to him.

elfmann:
They will either run away from the thread or say that is how it is supposed to be. Hahahaha

Don't mind them. Double standards all the time

Talk2Bella:
Consent
exactly

What about this scenario:
Husband and wife earns almost same thing (like 20k difference)
The wife is the saver of the two so the husband tenders his salary to her every month.



I'm sure if you take another poll and ask if husbands should remit all their salary to the wives, all the women shouting hell no for this poll would have a different answer

gunvi:
Nice info...Congrats to u.Pls can you help us to share d cost of delivery and hospital.my wife is planning to use methodist hspt.

Ermm broda, its the cost of delivery she shared that you quoted..... Unless you mean something else.

Vigilante

Pearlsuccess:
Trying to conceive has really been an issue for most women. Heaven help those who help themselves and am one .
There are lot of herbal supplements with right combinations which work for unblocking tube at least it worked for me and 2 of my tube were block . IVF was the only way out .
Well is better to try something which has no side effect rather than doing nothing.

If you live in abroad like me you will only pay for information and how you can use them. I will just tell your the herbal medication I took and you can purchase them. But if you live in Nigeria I will confirm the cost for DHL and herbal medication for you . Tell you the price if willing you pay me via PayPal. Contact me at otuita1(at)gmail dot com

Live in abroad

Zaynie very valid point.

When Dh and I bought our first property, he wanted to put his name on it...just cause he did not know we could both have our names on it.
So I started by telling him that if we had a child then the property should have been in the child's name ( afterall, all this hustle is for them)..... But since we didn't have kids yet, I'd want the property to have both our names.... So when 1 person isn't around, the other can still lay claim to the property. Then he offered to put it in my name only and I refused (even though I was tempted ) and gave him same reason. Then we found out we could have both our names on it and that's what we have been doing.
And its not Mr and Mrs surname o, its mr Mr first name surname and Mrs first name surname....., (cos there could be another Mrs surname).

Cc. Mnit

Akorkor:
Well that's my opinion. May not be good for everyone

Yes of course!
.........so was mine

Purity77:
Thank you so much Sugar.

That Kirkland was my first choice when I was going, but I didn't see it at that particular walmart so I switched to Huggies.
Which other place is it sold? And which size & particular type (if any) did u get?

Actually, only Costco sells it. You can also buy it online on Costco.com

I haven't bought any diapers yet.....I'm still using the one someone dashed me. Its a new brand called honest diapers. I still have over 100 pieces

Lexajen you don't need another mattress... That first layer is the mattress.
Don't know if its the same size as mine, but I use a pillowcase (100% cotton) as a bedsheet for it....I.e I put the mattress inside the pillowcase like a pillow so there are no loose clothings to prevent suffocation.

Akorkor:
First of all, my question is are you working or supporting your husband in anyway? The landed property acquired did you input some part of your money in anyway? If yes, then you are not being paranoid,you have right as much as he does to the name written on the document. If no, then please let him rest; he may decide on whoever names BC he desires to put on the document.
Also about court marriage issue, I think they have used corner for you. Just cry to God silently to change his mind and he will dance to your tone on that because I believe there is nothing God cannot do.

In all we need JEHOVAH in our home. And may the lord help us

I don't think this is a right attitude towards marriage. Its a marriage not a biz partnership. Two shall become one...that should include family, finances, properties etc.

Mnit:
thank you.
i cant really raise d issue of WILL now cos it will look like there is more to it.

if d court marriage was done,i wont be bordered abt whose name are on d properties or nt.

At least I hope you are his next of kin?

Mnit:
He feels i dont lack anything and he provide all we need n even do house chores n what hv u so i shldnt complain abt this.

Of course its an issue. The question is not if he can provide for you now, its if he has made arrangements to cater for you and especially his kids when he is gone.
If he doesn't want to include your name cos of what his brother might say, then he should write a will and make sure you and your kids are the sole beneficiaries.
Also, taking out life insurance is a way to secure the kids future.

Your first issue, can't help. I didn't do court wedding either. We chose not to cos we are not expecting a divorce...maybe I'm just naive

Purity77:
Abeg Mamas I get queshion...ftm things.
I entered Walmart & got confused as to what to buy. Said let me ask first then go back.

1) Pls which size of Huggies am I supposed to start with immediately after delivery? Does Huggies have different brands & features like Pampers, and which is the best pls?

2) which baby wipe is the best or do I just buy any type of huggies wipe I see?

3) Pls which baby formula is the best to buy?
Am thinking of Aptamil (is that OK? or is there something much better we are supposed to use as I don't see the popular Nan here)

4)Also is baby formula different from baby milk cos I saw someone here saying her newborn baby is on formula without baby milk? (That was confusing).

5) Please which car seat are we supposed to buy & go to the hospital with during delivery?
Is it the regular car seat any child of any age can use or is there specific car seat for infants which one must start with for newborn, then buy another one in few months when LO is older.

Thanks in Advance!

1. Do not buy diapers before birth. Your hospital would provide you with diapers ( most likely pampers swaddlers for newborn) that might last you a few weeks...then depending on the weight of your child, you would start buying afterwards... I'm not a fan of Huggies so I don't even know if they have different types. I prefer Kirkland's diapers and wipes
2. Kirkland wipes is rated one of the best.. But I bought parents choice (Walmart brand) while I was there. I totally loved it.
3. Again your hospital would give you baby formula... Maybe you should buy the brand they give you. Mine gave me Enfamil.
4. I'm not sure, ftm tinz too
5. Infant car seat...( can be used upto 2years or so, check the weight limitation) cos they have a handle you can use to carry the seat around.

We did not use anything for Ayomide's umbilical cord. We were just told to ensure the cord is dry...and after the cord fell off, use alcohol swabs to clean the inside of the navel.

For circumcision, rub Vaseline on guaze pad and use it to cover the p**is. It helps protect the p***s from touching the diaper and from poo.

comtem2011:
sugah, how is baby Ayomide? how far about d rashes?

Thanks dear... We saw his pediatrician last Friday and she said it was a fungal infection and she prescribed mycoten (1% clotrimazole). Used it for 2 days and the stuff cleared up but returned when MIL applied baby oil to his hair again.
Im thinking of using pure coconut oil instead for his hair and hoping he wouldn't react to that.

switlolly27:
Missed thread cutie yesterday, mamas meet my princess oluwadarasimi olive.

Indeed a princess!

BeeBlossoms:
Sabi mommas, abeg o, I had preterm labour on Tuesday and was placed on salbutamol and paracetamol since then., but reading online is making me see that salbutamol is a steroid and has bad side effects, does it make it unsafe for me and baby?
Also, if I am to stop it, would it be cold Turkey style of can I just stop abruptly? Please don't read and pass o

#teanJanuary

I know steroids are given to help mature the baby's lungs in case of preterm labour.
Do not stop the drugs without consulting your doctor.

BritneyStacy:
Biko my sister's, maybe am over using the powder ooo. I use it every time he has his bath, after using the masage oil on him ,I rub the powder all over his body too. He bathes 2times a day. Then on hot afternoons, I rub the powder all over his body too. What am I not doing right ooo...

What exactly is the function of the powder? E be like say you don turn the thing to body lotion.
Remember, apart from the respiratory ish powder would also clog the pores. Let your baby's skin breathe.

tipsyjules:
In my hospital it's 35k. In USA it's 1500 $ That's about 7500 thousand naira if am not mistaken .So it's cheap here but thats if it will even work.

My dear, dollars don reach 470...that's about 705,000 nairas (as oyibo man would say)

jazzyjazz:
Hmm epidural is so expensive in naija! My hospital say it costs up to 100k

100k is cheap compared to how much mamas pay for it abroad

Princealoba you haven't left naija yet and you already have the 'southern drawl'

Page 666. Mark of the beast. Tufiakwa.

Similoluwa1 Etihad would ask for visa at point of check in..so you need to get visa/naija passport or etc

Ogbenyalu (I love your moniker. Especially in this buhari economy ), I'm not sure when exactly they open, but they were open when I flew with Etihad.

Momo13 this your bill be making my head spin, darn!

nwapastor:
Greetings to all mamas old and new, waddling and vigilante especially September and October mamas (suga..h, feddy2..7)
I don born since September 27th, BBG weighed 2.8 vaginal delivery.
I have issues with my phone hence the long silence and absence.
Birth story loading....

Congrats dear.
Congrats to all the already offloaded October moms

zaynie:
FearFear

Teegali:
Alhamdulilah, welcomed my BG around 5:30pm 09/10/16 via VD,weighing 3kg.[b]I can't sleep I just want to keep watching her.[/b]Thanks my e family for your love and prayers. BS later

I understand what you are going through, my friend had exact same thing after an initial loss, but be rest assured that she has come to stay. God would keep her safe