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sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

Continue collecting the strokes of cane na.
the time you used to type this distasteful thing online, you should use it to gather strength to collect that cane from him so he knows you are not a child but his wife . they will tell you to pray, biko leave that marriage before cane will enter your eyes and blind you and disfigure you in that prison you got yourself into.

na marriage be that? that isnt a husband, he is a principal flogging his students for late reesumption.

what a choice of a man to spend your life with.

We as a people in this country, we have no value for human life. The way we spill blood so easily in this nation is sickening.

For a piece of land? You rendered many homeless and made some widows and childless in this economy.


We need to do better. I even thought this news was emanating from the north, but it is happening in cross river.


What really is wrong with us as a people? Why do we lack so much empathy and love for ourselves as a people?

Let us start by asking if this blessing is married and in a marriage. Kai!

aribisala0:
Fashola was governor when oil prices exceeded $100 and Yaradua refunded years of allocation that Obasanjo had withheld from Tinu

So it is important to put context and facts into consideration

No governor IN THE HISTORY OF NIGERIA has had more money than Fashola had in real terms

What has having more money got to do with this? The deal is working and making an impact with available resources and having workable and achievable ideas that people can see when initiated.

Are you telling us that the Governors after Fashola haven't had money to be allocated to maintaining the environment?

How did Fashola do it and succeed that the once filth laden Lagos became clean? Was it difficult for Ambode to continue with staff that Fashola worked with? Was it difficult for Ambode to put a call through to Fashola to ask for ideas? Sanwo Olu nko?


So you see it isn't an issue of more money, it is about a shift of their main focus from what stood their predecessor out.

Fashola all the way. It's a shame that after Fashola left power no other governor has been been able to maintain the environment. The once kush green lawns are now loaded with filth.

Ambrose was worst for environment, now Sanwo Eko, isn't getting environment right either.

Rest in peace Mama Damasus. God comfort your family, kids and loved ones. Amen

Thank you Lord for life, for recovery and healing. Amen

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KanwuliaExtra:
What a woman can do. . . . A man can do best.

This wan fine pass the “natural woman” created by any “God”!

Haters goun hate!

With the heavy makeup to cover up the badly bleached skin revealing his green veins. Don't also forget these photos are heavily edited. Not to mention this is plastic surgery

OGA crusher!
After 7years, you are still giving fake promises. My family friend died when BH blew them up with the mines laid on the road.


Abeg swerve instead of crushing the terrorist, the terrorist are having a field day, same way banditry has entered the equation to stay.

Sebi you already said you won't be checking his laptop and phone again? Biko, don't check o! Play blind and deaf till that man knacks you HIV from his prostitutes. Then you won't say God didn't t show you o!

JaneYave:
Talented lady Happy birthday. I am disappointed in her present looks though, you used to be simple and alluring.

Like your disappointment matter one inch to TY Bello.

A fiance that runs to social media and forums to narrate issues he should have trashed in his relationship and home front, isn't that a red flag that after marriage that is how he will be involving the entire world and his family into their marital hiccups?

So you see, you see get your own red flag(weakness ) just as she does. It is the ability to manage the situation that is maturity. You either call it quit and get another lady who is domesticated or you remain with her and make up for her weaknesses by getting a nanny or a cleaning staff that comes to clean weekend.

Sit down and count the cost.

There are men whose wives don't cook and they have happy homes and they are living their lives and balling in their marriages to the fullest.

Like I said sit down and count the cost. In doing this you know you, and you know what you can bear and how far you can go.

Good luck!

ThatFairGuy1:
She doesn't deserve to be wife in the First place.

He should have known that before he created 2 children from a cohabiting triangle he has created. He is a man. He has brain to think.


Make dem dey continue to wire am with bulala there hahaha

What is her reason for using sex as a weapon? Who in their right senses starves or withhold sex in the marriage and expects the marriage to be a healthy one?


The deed has been done both ways. You both need to work it out with communication and forgiveness.

She needs to speak out on why she is withholding sex else it will keep re occurring and the marriage will head for the rocks.

Lily livered chicken say my wife hahaha
He comes out to say he hasn't married her and only did introduction.

Ogbeni the reason she dey beat you and scatter your head with wire and break your hand is because at your age you don't know you don't have a wife.


How can you call a woman you have married and paid her bride price your wife.


Make she beat you well well till you go get sense.

Abegi, swerve make I see road for better things for Nairaland jare

He will address you all soon, as what? The president of our lives that we can't do without? What value does the Mompha even add to our lives that Bobrisky is assuring Nigerians that he Mompha will address them soon?


These people are just bland jokes, walai!

Oga abeg park well make I see road. Was it not the beautiful make up and lashes you fell for, if not why didn't you know she is lazy and not a tidy woman? Didn't you date and court her? What happened to your eyes during courtship that you didn't see the signs you should have seen?

She eats and eats weird food cravings as if you don't know pregnant women have crazy unheard funny food cravings.

Instead of complaining, help her by studying her to know her weaknesses and help with domestic staff. And why is your plate you used to eat still left on the table? Your hand bend after eating? Can't you take your plate to the sink? Taking your plate to the sink after eating, will it reduce your manhood and stop you from being the man, head and daddy yo of the family and marriage?


Abeg swerve. Some things married people come online to complain about could easily be resolved without bringing it to social media.

Romanoff:
So people leave their marriages because "their destinies don't align".

How many do you now want to marry before your "destines align"?

Abeg help me ask her o! They no know say their destinies no align before them marry? She even went ahead to say people separate and come back together. Mscheww!

If their destinies didn't align for 10years they were married, is it during and after separation e wan align?


She say she wan motivate, who she dey motivate? Mschewww!


When they breakup, they become motigbenshional speakers.

mmadu5:
Good work he is doing ?you must his accomplice . Fraudstes

You must be stupid for calling me a fraudster.

If you run a business and have ever taken a course on systems that make businesses work without the founder then you would know better than to just crawl out of your hole to call his craft a fraud.


If you have fallen for a scam then you were empty headed to have fallen for it.

mmadu5:
Good work he is doing ?you must his accomplice . Fraudstes

You must be stupid for calling me a fraudster.

If you run a business and have ever taken a course on systems that make businesses work without the founder then you would know better than to just crawl out of your hole to call his craft a fraud.


If you had fallen for a scam then you were empty headed to have fallen for it.

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Good work you are doing.

eeewise:
Got a call from a friend who is 23 without much family support (orphans) that she ran some tests and is a month pregnant.
She needs advice on what to do?
She has little or no family support system to cater for a child

So thinking of termination of pregnancy but naive on how to go about it

Any suggestions on what to do exactly

Didn't she know she is an orphan with family support when she allow sex without protection?


You see put this here so we can massage her conscience to go for N abortion abi?

Abeg the year is just starting, let her carry your cross. We can't be bothered about an adult at 23yr who didn't sit down to count the cost of her actions a month ago.

Good riddance!
They can't be giving we the good Nigerians a bad name abroad.

Reno is right.
Sanwo Olu is heavy Baba so pe hahaha
Then Pontius plate here means Tinubu.

Reno says it as it is.

Mohammed 15years of age killing 46yr old Pastor. Hmm

To render help sef na was no wonder the scriptures says be not weary in doing good especially yo those of the same household of faith.


Some help that we do that backfire sef, we end up asking ourselves if we committed it to God before plunging in.

He just dey born babies with different women up and down. Mschewwww!

I also started with one spoon of flour. Nonsense and motivational speech.

She left you when you had nothing?
Have you divorced her and asked for the bride price paid on her to be returned?
If yes, then her head needs to be screwed in the right direction.


If no, act on it asap and move on with your life. In fact go ahead and wife the girlfriend. Don't allow a woman who doesn't know the value of marriage to come back to disrupt your lives.

Some people have to know that life and marriage isn't all rosy.

If only when they preach these messages they balance it.

The men also should know there is no perfect wife from anywhere same way they as husbands arent perfect.

Is it only women who go about lamenting about the imperfections of their husbands? No. Men also do it about their wives.

Same way some wives involve their families and friends or strangers, is the same way some husbands open up their wives to bashings from outsiders too.


Make these preachers dey balance the message. The marriage will succeed when it is built by both husband and wife in it.

These preachers can't be hammering wives about and then leave the head out of it. Will two work together except they agree?

This is why we have some women doing all to make it work and the husbands tearing it down.


It is well. Udo!