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Malory:
What the man did is not good but they should allow the matter to die a natural death. The deed has been done and I'm sure the man won't try it next time or should we kill him because of this?

It will die a natural death and resurrect when maid becomes pregnant for husband under madam's roof.


Do you think is the first time it is happening? The shameless animal of a man had to even bed maid on their matrimonial bed

Some men are sick in the head.

Chinchin for me. D

The more I read about this woman, the more vexed I get.
Who gets married and allows her husband to alienate her from her people?
Who endures this level of slavery and inhumane treatment to death and for what?

Why should any independent, hard-working woman who makes her own money have to endure this and she kept quiet? To what end?

See the beast she even chose for a life partner? What a choice she made.

After making the wrong choice, what kept her back in it? I will never understand some woman, marriage no favor them but na dem dey born reach 4 and above inside the hell wet dem dey.

Chai!


That man only used her as his cash cow milking her dry or the money she made. That woman never looked happy for me.

What a way to die and waste of ministry give to earth.

She killed herself by staying back in that hell called marriage to cover face for church and society.


Marriage is sweet depending on the cutlery you use to eat it( depending on who you choose to spend the rest of your life with).

She made her choice, even after making that wrong choice, she made another choice to stay back in it after people told her to leave him. Her actions and in actions( in decision) to leave led to her death. So she killed herself before he finally killed her.

See man wet she marry set telling her kids to beat her and stump on her. Women dey suffer inside marriage o!

This is a wake up call to all women or men in violent marriages to take a walk abeg.


Marriage certificate isn't criteria to enter heaven.

qekng40:
I'm so angry right now!

In Lasisi's voice.

Edited: To everyone quoting me and asking why I'm angry, hear this!

This man of God condemned the use of this thing from his gullible members years ago. We had a family friend then, they had TV and all but the boys didn't wear jeans to church because it was a sin to wear jeans, jeans oh. There are so many other things but lemme stop here!

Leave them. Our neighbor in Asaba years ago threw their TV sets away, and his children will be peaking through windows to watch other people's tv.

I currently have a neighbor who even plays Olamide's pawon in the presence of his 2 and 9year old niece and nephew respectively.

When people don't understand how they can use technology for good, they criticize it. Now e don dawn on them. Ordinary youth programme, they were condemning. Na wa.

Just imagine the senseless looting of noodles. A pack of noodles contains 40packs, so a family of 4 will eat noodles and be be happy they looted it abi? how many dem go chop wey go belleful dem?

When hunger has fried some peoples brains dey won't reason well again. They begin to steal even leaves on a tree they see.

immortalcrown:
Change your name from AntiMen to AntiChrist.

How can you be AntiMen and still have such feeling for a man?

Thank God you noticed it too.

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Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

Only 21 and you opened your mouth to mention" friend with benefit". Now benefit don hook you for throat.

Congratulations Daddy of the year.

Mschewww!
As if Jam jam of Tiwa savage isn't living a normal life. No be the twins she be dey use for one of her series? What is the name of that series again sef?

Abeg make I hear word. To what end?Even MJ's blanket is exposed today after year's of hiding.

SEGLIZ:
funny enough as it may, the guy brought is father to limelight not the other way round.

if not for this son of his who would have heard of adeleke even with his wealth? we know other rich kids trying so hard to use some dirty reality show to gain fame and break into the entertainment industry.

this guy fought his way through won the heart of the street where never belonged also learnt the rope, he became a passage between the street and the estates.

the has paid the necessary dues he deserves to be loved. he has even given more to the street where never belong since he found the street than those that came from the street.

#ONELOVEFOROBO

God bless you for saying the truth. Despite the wealth in their family, he grinds like say no silver spoon dey at all.

I love his large heart for people.
He should just continue being him and forget whether the people he celebrates or associates celebrates him.

Why is it hard for Naija celebs to celebrate Davido for his wins, but they will jump to donate 1million naira just to be in a list of donors so they can get benefits back from him in future.

Too bad.

You don't hate somebody simply because of his wealthy background, the guys is trying to make a name for himself na

But why will she even post his video to shame him again?
This Tonto must love to be in the news for all the bad things. Kai!

No, it shouldn't be.
Let them stay o!
When the cheating partner knacks them HIV, they can then leave or remain and be chanting HIV isn't a death sentence blah blah blah stop the stigma...

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Induced:
She said it was sarcasm, but nigerian bloggers will still draw their own conclusions nonetheless

Who in their right senses uses their marriage for sarcasm? Public speaker and mental health advocate wey no sabi wetin to talk for public, is that one a public speaker?

Only a matter to time.

When he recovers, he should go back and use his hands to collect worms as bait for fishes again. Dem no dey tell person. Since fishes seem to be more important than his life.

Since you promised and you know what her background is, you can go ahead and help her.

Please after paying the rent and helping her, don't start branching there to cool off when you and madam at home quarrel and resume gbenshing o!

Remember, you saw the bad sides that made you leave her, now don't keep a woman at home and from helping you goal be benching ex in the disguise of you going to check up on her because u paid her rent.

You did the right thing. As a female, I support you. You see in this life eh, where we clamour for men to be helpful to their wives, the sensible ones will know not to take their husbands for granted when the men begin to help out in the home front.


Dear husband, since she complained she was having headache and tired, my advice will be that she gets her blood pressure checked to rule out high blood pressure after that read riot act to her as the head of the home. The fact that you help out doesn't mean she begins to rant at the top of her lungs to you as her houseboy.

There should be decorum o!

This has always been my fear, ladies with daughters remarrying, the probability of the female kids being molested by their stepdad is rife.

But society will only applaud them for being able to remarry after being single mums. The marriage is like an iceberg, you only see the tip not what is beneath.

Lightorder:
oga, good and peaceful marriages run in our lineage. My parents had it for 54 years and we didn’t even know anytime they had misunderstanding. Before marriage in my family, riot act would be read to your hearing and a long time would also be given to both parties to chew and chew on. Marriage no be by force. If you can’t make the sacrifices, just leave before it starts. Don’t come and start and later tell stories, you will be made to regret your existence. Expecting my marriage to crumble, you might need to just wait for next life and not this one. Thank God my in-laws have stricter rules . I am the most blessed and successful married man I have ever met in my life. Even older folks ask me how we are making it. My wife is everything I had ever wished for in a woman. In spirit and in flesh o

God bless you. God to see somebody with a mentality that marriage is sacred and must be work at not let go easily.
God bless your home more and more

I'm not surprised.
The way the girl opened her mouth to blab about how much the boy paid as her bride price years ago after their wedding,I knew she was way too loud for that young quiet son of Olu Jacobs.

Even after the marriage def, na her voice loud for social media, she lives off social media. E dey her body. Like I said I'm not surprised.

Now she wants to begin to shame and drag the family that have kept it down on social media. She doesn't know that by dragging her husband, she is dragging his family name in the mud.

God will give some ladies sense o! In this era of wokeness.

Sebi, it was in the news she had worked with Joke Silva before? She don go, she don see, she don jakpa. This is what happens when you're superficial without understanding that marriage is hard work. It takes a lot of hard work and commitment to make it work.


You don't braggarly enter and rush out to begin to feed social media content.

Kudos to the Jacobs family who have kept it down.

SmartProf:
I'll love to meet the motivational speaker that gave this man hope to the point that he went to purchase a nomination form for the office of president for that cost.

He has forgotten so suddenly how he got just 1 vote years ago when he contested. I was left wondering if his wife and family members didn't believe in his ambition to vote for him.


Anyway, he has money, from his Ovation business venture, let him spend it in Nigeria.

The Dele Momodu who ran away from Nigeria with his Ovation business to Ghana suddenly wants to come to rule Naija, maybe he will come to fix the power issue here that he said made him leave the country for Ghana.

Well naim he see do for him people. Them never reach to her bore hole. Once Nigerians get into power, their brains automatically fry.

Just imagine, this waste of political seat.

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President of kwara state you mean.
He is using this to lure the youth to his side. We know better.

What explanation do you think you deserve even after God showed you the signs via their posts that would have saved you from the tears you are shedding today?

You still went ahead to send him his wedding invite like you don't know God just saved you from a man who will still cheat on you if he had married you.

All you are focused on is the that fact that you are 31 year old, so what? Haven't you seen or heard of ladies who married early but have no peace in their homes for one reason or the other?

Sis, don't look back, God is bringing wholeness to you henceforth and it is in your future not in you looking back at the wasted 5yrs you spent with him deceiving you.

Look up to God. Daily you wake up, kneel down and thank God for taking that guy from your life and destiny and only then will your God given spouse who will value you show forth.

My prayer is that when he comes, you won't be battered, shattered and crying over a none entity so you can recognize him when he comes.

Golan007:
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Sharap.

My experience in my own household is that all 5 of us left home, the very day we graduated.

In fact, in my case, I had already left home from when I had my IT.

When I completed NYSC, I came back to live with a a friend who accommodated 7 of us.

We all ended up leaving from his home to get our respective jobs, and those who went abroad, launched out from there.

Not a single person from my nuclear family went into fraud.

None or the boys with whom we all shared a home went into fraud and we all ended up well and independent, spread across Nigeria and indeed the world.

You too shut up.
Your use of language shows you can't state you opinion without insulting people..

In your "own" house, you said.

Not every body's home is like yours where they leave home to go squat 7 people inside a friend's house.


And did I say you turned to fraud? As if you don't know some people, when life happens to them, they pick up vices.

Next time reply people with decorum online and don't be an educated tout

Golan007:
Eject him from the home.

Eject him to where? To the streets so he goes to learn yahoo plus abi?

As a father, has he spoken to him, did he bring him up to be responsible or to be self centered?

If the father likes, let him throw him out to yahoo gang outside, and expect to reap from him when God turns his fortunes around, sebi he is 60 already?

What words has that man been speaking into the life of that young man trying to find his path in life? With the tone behind his write up, it is obvious the man has been unpacking his frustrations on the young man.

This is Nigeria where graduate struggle after having certificates o!

Is not about commissioning the computerized gadgets only, will they function? Will they be maintained? And finally, hope they won't be carted away.

This market always has beggars lined up in a seated position in the road median as if na their shop location for daily transactions.


These photos are just fine, it isn't the true pictorial, the market is dirty.

So where will this talent showcase take them? To solitary confinement awaiting death row I think.