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EventsRe: Chapman,Cocktail, Smoothie drinks, Small chops and Cakes by SURElee(op): 10:55am On Jan 24, 2022
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CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Shares Bikini Photos by SURElee(f): 10:50am On Jan 24, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
What a woman can do. . . . A man can do best. grin

This wan fine pass the “natural woman” created by any “God”!

Haters goun hate! grin
With the heavy makeup to cover up the badly bleached skin revealing his green veins. Don't also forget these photos are heavily edited. Not to mention this is plastic surgery
PoliticsRe: Insecurity: I Will Crush All Terrorists – Buhari Assures by SURElee(f): 1:55pm On Jan 22, 2022
OGA crusher!
After 7years, you are still giving fake promises. My family friend died when BH blew them up with the mines laid on the road.


Abeg swerve instead of crushing the terrorist, the terrorist are having a field day, same way banditry has entered the equation to stay.
FamilyRe: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by SURElee(f): 3:19pm On Jan 16, 2022
Sebi you already said you won't be checking his laptop and phone again? Biko, don't check o! Play blind and deaf till that man knacks you HIV from his prostitutes. Then you won't say God didn't t show you o!
CelebritiesRe: WE ARE FIRE: TY Bello Celebrates 44th Birthday With New Album by SURElee(f): 11:50am On Jan 16, 2022
JaneYave:
Talented lady Happy birthday. I am disappointed in her present looks though, you used to be simple and alluring.
Like your disappointment matter one inch to TY Bello.
RomanceRe: My fiancee Finds It Difficult To Cook & Do House Chores, Is This A Red Flag? by SURElee(f):
A fiance that runs to social media and forums to narrate issues he should have trashed in his relationship and home front, isn't that a red flag that after marriage that is how he will be involving the entire world and his family into their marital hiccups?

So you see, you see get your own red flag(weakness ) just as she does. It is the ability to manage the situation that is maturity. You either call it quit and get another lady who is domesticated or you remain with her and make up for her weaknesses by getting a nanny or a cleaning staff that comes to clean weekend.

Sit down and count the cost.

There are men whose wives don't cook and they have happy homes and they are living their lives and balling in their marriages to the fullest.

Like I said sit down and count the cost. In doing this you know you, and you know what you can bear and how far you can go.

Good luck!
FamilyRe: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by SURElee(f): 9:02pm On Jan 13, 2022
ThatFairGuy1:
She doesn't deserve to be wife in the First place.
He should have known that before he created 2 children from a cohabiting triangle he has created. He is a man. He has brain to think.


Make dem dey continue to wire am with bulala there hahaha
CrimeRe: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by SURElee(f): 9:00pm On Jan 13, 2022
What is her reason for using sex as a weapon? Who in their right senses starves or withhold sex in the marriage and expects the marriage to be a healthy one?


The deed has been done both ways. You both need to work it out with communication and forgiveness.

She needs to speak out on why she is withholding sex else it will keep re occurring and the marriage will head for the rocks.
FamilyRe: My Wife Slaps & Beats Me Whenever We Quarrel, Denies Me Sex. I'm Fed Up! by SURElee(f): 8:44pm On Jan 13, 2022
Lily livered chicken say my wife hahaha
He comes out to say he hasn't married her and only did introduction.

Ogbeni the reason she dey beat you and scatter your head with wire and break your hand is because at your age you don't know you don't have a wife.


How can you call a woman you have married and paid her bride price your wife.


Make she beat you well well till you go get sense.

Abegi, swerve make I see road for better things for Nairaland jare
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Reacts To Mompha's Arrest by SURElee(f): 7:44pm On Jan 12, 2022
He will address you all soon, as what? The president of our lives that we can't do without? What value does the Mompha even add to our lives that Bobrisky is assuring Nigerians that he Mompha will address them soon?


These people are just bland jokes, walai!
FamilyRe: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by SURElee(f): 1:40am On Jan 12, 2022
Oga abeg park well make I see road. Was it not the beautiful make up and lashes you fell for, if not why didn't you know she is lazy and not a tidy woman? Didn't you date and court her? What happened to your eyes during courtship that you didn't see the signs you should have seen?

She eats and eats weird food cravings as if you don't know pregnant women have crazy unheard funny food cravings.

Instead of complaining, help her by studying her to know her weaknesses and help with domestic staff. And why is your plate you used to eat still left on the table? Your hand bend after eating? Can't you take your plate to the sink? Taking your plate to the sink after eating, will it reduce your manhood and stop you from being the man, head and daddy yo of the family and marriage?


Abeg swerve. Some things married people come online to complain about could easily be resolved without bringing it to social media.
CelebritiesRe: Dancer Kaffy Opens Up On Divorce From Husband Joseph Ameh (Video) by SURElee(f): 1:30am On Jan 12, 2022
Romanoff:
So people leave their marriages because "their destinies don't align".

How many do you now want to marry before your "destines align"?
Abeg help me ask her o! They no know say their destinies no align before them marry? She even went ahead to say people separate and come back together. Mscheww!

If their destinies didn't align for 10years they were married, is it during and after separation e wan align?


She say she wan motivate, who she dey motivate? Mschewww!


When they breakup, they become motigbenshional speakers.
CelebritiesRe: Nkechi Blessing: I Sold My Range Rover To Complete My House In 2021 by SURElee(f): 10:55pm On Jan 10, 2022
mmadu5:
Good work he is doing ?you must his accomplice . Fraudstes
You must be stupid for calling me a fraudster.

If you run a business and have ever taken a course on systems that make businesses work without the founder then you would know better than to just crawl out of your hole to call his craft a fraud.


If you have fallen for a scam then you were empty headed to have fallen for it.
CelebritiesRe: Nkechi Blessing: I Sold My Range Rover To Complete My House In 2021 by SURElee(f): 10:46pm On Jan 10, 2022
mmadu5:
Good work he is doing ?you must his accomplice . Fraudstes
You must be stupid for calling me a fraudster.

If you run a business and have ever taken a course on systems that make businesses work without the founder then you would know better than to just crawl out of your hole to call his craft a fraud.


If you had fallen for a scam then you were empty headed to have fallen for it.
CelebritiesRe: Nkechi Blessing: I Sold My Range Rover To Complete My House In 2021 by SURElee(f): 8:16pm On Jan 10, 2022
Afoime5:
you have a business and you want to learn how to structure your business to be stable and function like how big organizations and corporations do. I have an ebook that will help you structure your business to run effectively without your supervision or having to always monitor your workers before work can be done and help you maximize profit. For just 3k you can get the material for now before it goes back to 5k and I will also add you to a Whatsapp business group for free where you will learn more and connect. Contact me with the number below in my profile
This should have been a stand alone post under the appropriate section. Why hide it in comment sections of celebrity posts though?

Good work you are doing.
CelebritiesRe: Nkechi Blessing: I Sold My Range Rover To Complete My House In 2021 by SURElee(f): 8:15pm On Jan 10, 2022
Afoime5:
you have a business and you want to learn how to structure your business to be stable and function like how big organizations and corporations do. I have an ebook that will help you structure your business to run effectively without your supervision or having to always monitor your workers before work can be done and help you maximize profit. For just 3k you can get the material for now before it goes back to 5k and I will also add you to a Whatsapp business group for free where you will learn more and connect. Contact me with the number below in my profile
This should have been a stand alone post. Why hide it in comment sections of celebrity posts though?

Good work you are doing.
RomanceRe: Just Found Out I Am A Month Pregnant by SURElee(f): 8:13pm On Jan 08, 2022
eeewise:
Got a call from a friend who is 23 without much family support (orphans) that she ran some tests and is a month pregnant.
She needs advice on what to do?
She has little or no family support system to cater for a child

So thinking of termination of pregnancy but naive on how to go about it

Any suggestions on what to do exactlyhuh
Didn't she know she is an orphan with family support when she allow sex without protection?


You see put this here so we can massage her conscience to go for N abortion abi?

Abeg the year is just starting, let her carry your cross. We can't be bothered about an adult at 23yr who didn't sit down to count the cost of her actions a month ago.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Dies After Swallowing Drugs During Arrest In South Africa by SURElee(f): 4:06pm On Jan 06, 2022
Good riddance!
They can't be giving we the good Nigerians a bad name abroad.
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu: 'If It Was Wike That The CSP Disobeyed..' - Reno Reacts by SURElee(f): 1:39pm On Jan 05, 2022
Reno is right.
Sanwo Olu is heavy Baba so pe hahaha
Then Pontius plate here means Tinubu.

Reno says it as it is.
CrimeRe: How We Murdered RCCG Pastor Babatunde Dada Who Gave Us Shelter In Lagos -Singers by SURElee(f): 8:10pm On Jan 04, 2022
Mohammed 15years of age killing 46yr old Pastor. Hmm

To render help sef na was no wonder the scriptures says be not weary in doing good especially yo those of the same household of faith.


Some help that we do that backfire sef, we end up asking ourselves if we committed it to God before plunging in.
CelebritiesRe: Teebillz Reveals The Face Of His Son, Zayn (Photos, Video) by SURElee(f): 8:05am On Jan 03, 2022
He just dey born babies with different women up and down. Mschewwww!
CelebritiesRe: Dubai-Based Chef Ivy Buys A Home From One Cup Of Egusi And Rice (Photos) by SURElee(f): 10:24pm On Jan 01, 2022
I also started with one spoon of flour. Nonsense and motivational speech.
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by SURElee(f): 2:18pm On Dec 31, 2021
She left you when you had nothing?
Have you divorced her and asked for the bride price paid on her to be returned?
If yes, then her head needs to be screwed in the right direction.


If no, act on it asap and move on with your life. In fact go ahead and wife the girlfriend. Don't allow a woman who doesn't know the value of marriage to come back to disrupt your lives.

Some people have to know that life and marriage isn't all rosy.
Christianity EtcRe: Funke Felix-Adejumo: There Is No Perfect Husband Anywhere, Cover Your Husbands by SURElee(f): 4:34pm On Dec 30, 2021
If only when they preach these messages they balance it.

The men also should know there is no perfect wife from anywhere same way they as husbands arent perfect.

Is it only women who go about lamenting about the imperfections of their husbands? No. Men also do it about their wives.

Same way some wives involve their families and friends or strangers, is the same way some husbands open up their wives to bashings from outsiders too.


Make these preachers dey balance the message. The marriage will succeed when it is built by both husband and wife in it.

These preachers can't be hammering wives about and then leave the head out of it. Will two work together except they agree?

This is why we have some women doing all to make it work and the husbands tearing it down.


It is well. Udo!
Christianity EtcRe: If Your Bride Price Is Not Paid You Can Never See God- Female Preacher(video) by SURElee(f): 4:27pm On Dec 30, 2021
Ndi heaven's gatekeepers. They hold the key to heaven and they decide who goes in and who stays out.
CelebritiesRe: Charley Boy Mocks Ooni Of Ife: 'Na For Instagram Them Divorce You’ by SURElee(f): 4:21pm On Dec 30, 2021
festacman:
Freedom of speech is guaranteed in a democracy but I am sorry but Charly Boy is a fat head for judging Ooni unjustly. Everyone in this unbalanced world struggle with something.

Charly Boy struggled with poverty and as an adult, had to be supported by late Tina Onwudiwe and his late Father, Justice Oputa to stand on his feet. Even currently, he is dependent on his wife Lady Diana for sustenance in between handouts from friendly politicians. On the other hand, Ooni struck wealth very early in life.

On the flipside, Charly Boy, after some failed relationships, married faithful Lady Diana and is enjoying happy marriage while Ooni is struggling at it.

The realities are that the world no balance and nobody holy pass.
Is Charly Boy's post about who struggled with poverty or who was supported and fed by others?


Face the issue on ground abeg.

When a woman moves from men to men in marriage, what do we all say or what does it give as a signal?
when a man has his wives leaving him, what signal does it portray?


Let us leave sentiments aside. And say the truth and forget that a weird Charly boy is saying it.

As weird as he is, he has kept his home even if he has had failed relationships in the past. We all goof in life one way or another.


Those women must have seen what is chasing them out. The Naomi said the Ooni isn't what he portrays outside for the world to see.



The truth will first piss one off before it will sets one free. The Ooni should look inward and make amends that is if pride will let him see the man in the mirror.
EventsRe: Chapman,Cocktail, Smoothie drinks, Small chops and Cakes by SURElee(op): 1:54pm On Dec 30, 2021
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EventsRe: Chapman,Cocktail, Smoothie drinks, Small chops and Cakes by SURElee(op): 1:38pm On Dec 28, 2021
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FamilyRe: See The GUTS Of My Wife by SURElee(f): 1:27pm On Dec 28, 2021
Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.
It is your experience.
Did you check her lifestyle before you married her? I hear men say she has boobs and ass and a picture perfect body they can flaunt amongst their friends. I just laugh.

Did you look in-depth to her family background. Her family self can't caution her to order to stand firm when challenges come up. Na to drop pjkin waka straying to man friend houses.

I keep saying it, we are all products of our choices in life. You choose right, you reap it as our choices ultimately affect our well-being. Bad marriages affect tt moods, health and mental well being,
FamilyRe: My Wife Kept Kids Hungry And Travelled To See Mum by SURElee(f): 5:40pm On Dec 24, 2021
The time you used to lament more than the writer of lamentations, you should have used it to look up whatever you want to eat on YouTube and make them by writing them out and going to buy and making them.


The children are also your children. This is what happens when male gender can't cook, once madam is out of the house, everything will be in disarray.


Go and marry another wife from your state asap before she gets back. Akukuo
RomanceRe: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by SURElee(f):
Don't mind them.
Because some men insist on pregnancy before marriage, that is why some ladies dash them pregnancies that aren't theirs. Them think them wise. Them go continue to to suffer emotional trauma , raising babies that aren't their own.


Sebi na belle dem dey after, Dem to hear am for dubious ladies hand. Cunning man die, cunning man bury am
PoliticsRe: Ben Akabueze’s Wife Delivers Baby Boy At Over 50 (Photos) by SURElee(f): 12:18pm On Dec 13, 2021
Tedpgrass:
Hyperbaric Oxygen therapy
Quite expensive. 30- 40 sessions
With lots of side effects

Said to help low sperm count and motility
Patchy results from studies behind female fertility


Thank you


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