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Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Nonexisting1:
Was it not few months ago that Regina bought kayamatta? I knew she and her devilish mother have been up to no good. Uncle Ned has finally left the mother of his three children for jazz people. I see him going broke soon if he hasn't already.

Adebaba1:
Na zule zoo snub that year for one show. Awon miscreant oshi....I no go lie e pain me sha cos I was a fan

pepperdemzombie:
You better stop wishing for rubbish and face your front. That woman is a legally married woman to Freeze's friend and a concubine. They are not married!
Freeze go to fvck her in her husband's house when he is not around. She got pregnant and eloped with Freeze because his albino colour will reflect on the boy if they smuggle the pregnancy into the man.
They are both living in shame and hiding it, even the child's school insulted the shameless woman recently.
What exactly do you want to be seeing?

Fahdiga:
Reno is a selfish man. If his wife didn't allow him into her life how would he have conceived the daughter

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

darkstar6971:
Hello fellow Nairalanders pls I'm here for a suggestion and let it be positive pls ain't need no insult...
I'm having a girlfriend which is 29yrs and I'm just 23 years, We both love each other to the extent that we don't even knew the time we start the relationship... pls I need your suggestions here...


The fact that you are here asking shows that you ain't mature for the task of marriage ahead. Even in the marriage, you will be asking outsiders if you did right marrying her and also before you take important decisions you will ask outsiders. This post just showed me you won't even be able to defend your decision before family and society sef.

Please moderators help me to move this thread to front page so as to get more positive suggestions.

darkstar6971:
Hello fellow Nairalanders pls I'm here for a suggestion and let it be positive pls ain't need no insult...
I'm having a girlfriend which is 29yrs and I'm just 23 years, We both love each other to the extent that we don't even knew the time we start the relationship... pls I need your suggestions here...


The fact that you are here asking shows that you ain't mature for the task of marriage ahead. Even in the marriage, you will be asking outsiders if you did right marrying her and also before you take important decisions you will ask outsiders.




Please moderators help me to move this thread to front page so as to get more positive suggestions.

duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��

Afodot0022:
Good day my fellow nairalanders. Pls pardon my typo errors and will just make this brief as i can. I need your inputs in this scenerio that is giving me some sort of concern.

I have been married for close to five years now and have two kids to it. My marriage to my wife has been ups and down but have always tried my best to be a responsible husband and also father. I ensure I take care of my home financially to my capabilities.

My wife happens to be a good wife though with her own flaws as she is not perfect. She always has the notion that am cheating on her and have a side chick. But to be honest to you guys, i have never had sex with any other woman except my wife ever since i married her. Though at times the temptation might come to catch some flings out there but will later decline such thought and abort any action have made to do it on the long run.. At times my wife will read chats I do have with some random girls and have the notion that am cheating. I know i have been wrong in this but attimes a man will want to be a man but as i said earlier, have never had sex with those girls. Just random chats that all and it doesnt go further or lead anywhere.

So it happened that me and my wife had a very serious misunderstanding recently that resulted to verbal abuse and also almost physical violence from the two of us. The last time i intended to have sex with my wife, she denied me and this had been in my mind and got me so angry towards her. So it happend that she needed my help for something and did not help, she started shouting and nagging and this got me angry and i almost hit her but i didn't. During those heated moment she started saying things about my cheating and so on. She said if am not cheating that i should swear with bible but i refuse to swear that night. Upon the following day i decided to even swear with bible that i have never had sex with any woman ever sinced i married her. I know i was innocent and i truely swear that very day to make her change her mindset and perception about me.

After the swear, something happened that makes me confused till this very day, I ask my wife to also use the Bible to swear that she had not cheated or slept with any man ever since she got married to me. Could you imagine that despite all my efforts to make my wife to swear using the bible, she refused bluntly that she will never do such. I asked her why but she insisted she is not going to swear.

This got me concerned and was asking myself why is this woman refusing to do this if truely she is innocent and doesnt have any skeleton in her compound. Her excuse was that she cant use the world of God to swear but mind you she is the one that prompted me to do such at first. I even seized her phone that if she doesnt swear i wont return the phone to her but despite my threat, my wife didn't not.

This lasted for hours and I later gave up on the quest. Ever since then have not being myself and have been thinking alot. My wife doesnt look like someone that can cheat on me cos have not seen any traces as such but with this her action, its making me to have a rethink about her.

Pls house i dont know what step to take as i need your mature advice on way forward on this issues troubling me. Every input will be well appreciated especially from married and experienced people.

Lenny22:
Hello Nairaland peeps, my friend is 23 but looks 28. This is affecting his self-esteem, he has lost quite a several modelling gigs because most people think he reduced his age.
He developed facial hair at age 16 and started shaving at age 17. The lack of proper shaving techniques back then has resulted in hyperpigmentation. Is there any remedy?

tycoon3:
Please I need a solution to this ASAP

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse