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Lessons123:
I have a wife and blessed with a daughter, I earn extremely high and I am in a debt of over 2m monthly as a result of paying for a loan monthly to set up a business for my wife which has gulped over 30m and still a failure though this is the second failure of business opened.

I decided to open the business as we both agreed she should resign as her salary as a teacher was the same salary with one of our two maids.

The issue is despite doing very well financially, my wife always gives me issues and there doesn't seem to be any love apart from me being her daily ATM.

There was actually a phase when I had challenges financially and she was the only person to mock me.

I need your advice as the quarrels are becoming too constant and the severe quarrels are majorly related to my brother in laws and sister in laws. Mind you my brother in law has been living with us and disrespects me and she defends him. Also before the marriage she was a very humble and tolerating lady until the business was opened. Sometimes I feel guilty as my dad had to sell his house in lekki and is in the process of buying a house in Ajah because he needed only 10m to complete his house in the village, which I could have easily provided if it wasn't for my indebtedness through my wife.

Mature advise please.

You married a wife, before you married her, sis you see if she had entrepreneurial spirit? You asked get to resign and set up businesses for her that she can't manage and maybe they were never her life of passion sef.

Some women prefer to work in an office or teach. Did you ask her if she really wanted to resign?


Now kasala don dey first for your head.

What sort of a man are you? How can a man use his money to marry a wife and house his neither inlaw and brother go dey disrespect am for him own house?

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Oh! So you are waiting for nairalanders to ask you to sit up as a man in that home? You are waiting for us to tell you to kick they BIL out for his disrespect to you so the sister who is the wife you married can know who is the man of the home?

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If you like continue to be lily delivered let a BIL and your wife as siblings wreck you, they kuku know you have money so they are misbehaving.

The choice is yours to make

Once they break up or have issues, they become motigbensional speakers hahahaha

The Macaulay son asking for an apology from Charkes Idibia went ahead to call The Idibia Matriach a bitch. So which apology does he want? It is now inlaws insulting MILs na.


If they like they should wash their dirty linens in public and entertain is more.

It is a September to remember.

This kpokpogarri is a shameless man, going round to follow all Tonto's friends she has had beefs with. From Bobrisky, Halima and shouting out to Churchill to form alliances with them to pepper her.

I blame Tonto who keeps falling for wrong men all in the name of being a celeb who must follow money bags. Kai!

Gbagam!

So Tubaba just did an elaborate Dubai wedding for Annie Macaulay? Hahaha.

The decisions/choices we make in life will define us and affect us whether good or bad.

Onyi22:
Who is Zubby
Is he married?
What does he know about marriage
He should pls shut up, See how easy for him to say that Annie lacks home training

Whether he is married or not, doesn't stop him from being right about calling out her husband on social media.

He was right when he said social media is market place. She just ended up making a mockery about herself and her family, how is social media going to help her fix her home? Social media will only be entertained as they dredge up more mud as they fight as a family with no shame.

Viking07:
He was a cheat before the marriage, expecting him to suddenly change after getting married is like expecting a lion not to attack you because you’re a vegetarian. It was inevitable.

God bless you guy.
I have always known that the reason Annie is cool with Sumbo adeoye is because she is married and now has her own husband but still scared of Pero for being single.

It is glaring for all to see that Annie has been covering and stomaching a lot behind closed doors.

Now bubble don burst.

Joysticks:
Up till now,I cannot tell who is Peter or paul,but I can identify Jude because he is bigger in size among the brothers.

Peter has low cut and he the Usher Raymond wanna be and Paul aka Rudeboy is the one with dreadlocks that hates Lola Omotayo.

Rest in peace seasoned actor.

MVLOX:
This life cha.... Like play like play people don forget dis guy ooo.... E name no almost dey ring bell � again self.... Anyway congratulations on his Marriage Anniversary.....

People remember him o!
But he isn't out there all over the media because he is off the camera working behind cameras. But followers of the show know him and again some people choose to live their lives off social media for stability in their family life.

Daddy freeze is right here, but Christians who don't like the truth being said will still bash him for saying it as it is.


The Nigerians who deal in drugs that haven't been caught by the law outside and within the country, will return back home to their various states at the end of the year to give testimony and brag to other people living legitimate lives how God has blessed them with Grace and blessed the works of their hands.


Yes, Daddy freeze is right.

VoltageDivida:
How can a pastor marry a traditionalist?

Imagine talk.
So you think they just got married?
You didn't see the news where a photo showed him and his wife?

You think he got married after his recent coronation. They have obviously been married for some years before his recent coronation.

So the Pastor wife should now divorce her newly crowned traditional ruler husband abi?

[quote author=Dagah2 post=104992488][/quote]Thank you

Dagah2:
Abeg...
Check the divorce papers making rounds, it was actually the petitioner being accused of adultery. I'll get it and post then you tell me whose excesses it was. She can't stand Rudeboy after everything even with Rudy trying to keep it low low

Hmm
Pls post let me see.

I respect Kemi Olunloyo, she said it a few years ago when Rudeboy was bashing Lola omotayo that one of the Psquare wives will leave.

Now e don manifest!
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Now the Okoye family can see that it isn't tribe and marrying a younger woman that makes a marriage work.

This Anita goes don manage Rudeboy excesses for so long. The manner he publicly berates and age shames the other wife is appalling. As his name implies he is rude.
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This is sad news to wake up to. I won't lie. But if marriage isn't working out, I can't force them against their wish.

PeaceJoyLove:
I dont fancy Joshua, but talking against him is not bashing. They said the truth as it is, but there is no need. I dont know why people just allow themselves to be brainwashed. I told many to go and watch Joshua's old video...and gradually, I started seeing some..lol. He who is not for us ka against us. No wolf should pretend.

However, when God has fought and won the battle there is no need to go into it. This is where I dont appreciate Okotie. And justifying his action with the principle of the last said word, I dont agree with him. And does it seem he has the last word? No! The other magicians too have talked. If you watch those two pastors supporting Johua, they are just weird too. The things they do, how they do it. Look at that Odumeje miracles....slamming people on the floor, boxing them, and doing many stupid things. His pictures are all over nairaland as meme. Lol. And those are the ones people follow? Those are the ones defending Joshua. Mehn! People allow themselves to be deliberately deceived.

People will keep getting deceived as long as they run seeking miracles about and not sit to read the scriptures for themselves and to question the acts done by some clerics "if Jesus did things like they do?"

As for me and myself I will sit with the scriptures and digest and internalize it for my own good. Na who run after miracle them go slam for ground like boxing and wrestling ring.

Realhommie:
Agreed Okotie isn't perfect, just like everyone else. His imperfections and personal failings aside, you should take your time to see that video by him without any ounce of sentiment, it's about an hour and 15mins long.

Watch and listen with an open mind..

I'm not watching. Okotie should allow God be the judge abeg. I'm yet to see other religious clerics bash themselves openly like some clerics of ours do.

They are creating more division in the body. Can corrections be made without open bashings and judgements by the one who seems to understand better?


Any busy person in the vineyard after souls on the ministry of reconciliation wouldn't have so much time bashing one when alive and dead.

Okotie own is too much self. Wetin? Is Jesus suddenly tired of being the judge and stepped down for Okotie to Judge TB Joshua?

The same Okotie with 2 failed marriages? The same Okotie who married a widow with kids who didn't adopt her kids along? Who separated the kids from their mother in a so-called marriage? The same Okotie who later chased his second wife away called her a witch and stripped her of all gifts he ever showered on her?


This Okotie should please go sit down somewhere o!


He should allow Jesus to be the judge.

He heard from God about being president. He heard from God when he chose Stephanie Henshaw as wife also.

Okotie hands aren't clean also. Just as he waited for TB Joshua to die to begin to spew trash after his 2002 outlast on the said man and Chris Oyakhilome, that is how people will rise up to speak against him also.

What is so wrong with some clergy men set? When he was alive you attacked him, the same Joshua never payed you attention, he is with God today and you still wont allow him rest in peace and allow God be the judge?

Na wa o!

Just imagine. How can a woman, a wife, and a mother who doubles as a teacher kill a child like this?

Over assignment and you choose to flog a child with a bucket handle? Will she use that on her kids? Will she tolerate that being done on any of her relatives or child by another person?

The wickedness residing in the hearts of some women and teachers eh.

The affected family must get justice. This shouldn't be covered up by the school.

vincent10:
Who is she and what does she do?

A Nigerian actress , acted in the wedding party.

Is the bride price paid on a pregnant bride? No. It will be paid after she births her baby. Then I pity those who follow some people on social media hook, line and sinker as role models abi mentors.

This girl is looking anorexic now. Who asked her to slim down like this with her condition? Abi is she and Celine Dion doing competition?

The death wey dey hungry her to lie for that casket go soon visit her. Because I don't understand this kind of grand entrance. What has the living got to do with a casket?

This breaks my heart.
Hearing the wife cry. Oh!Lord.
Nobody expected to wake up to his death today.

God comfort his family and loved ones.

Rest in peace Sound Sultan. You will be greatly missed. You gave us good music

Let her go and try it in her Turkey na.
What did she wear set? Three piece rags. Thank God for AA that still has code of conduct as they run their business.

So you ban them from school and they remain wayward and be negative influences in the larger society.

Who is in charge of that state, education? Don't they have functioning heads, minds in that state?


Gosh!

I have always said this too.
Isaac doesn't consult any priest on Rebekkah before marriage. Abraham referred to as the friend of God in the Bible by God himself, didn't go to consult any pastor or priest.

When we even go to consult pastors to seek consent, how come we don't see that pastors will only ask questions and we give answers they want to hear.

How come people don't even see that some marriages some pastors gave consent to after saying they prayed and they can go ahead, they still scatter and divorce.


The problem is Nigerian Christians are lazy to read their bibles and know God for themselves. Hence they swallow everything hook , line and sinker from the Pastor's mouth.

Darkblood:
Lol
Mumu

You are the biggest mumu.
You can state your opinion without being insulting.