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^^^@googles, can u explain is dis what u rather prefare or what u least prefare and why?
And to guys, if tables were turned on u which guy in the above categories would u rather prefare and which would u least prefare n y?

Am not seeking your opinion on morality on this subject but i would like to know your take asuming it is inevitable.

If your man cheated or were to cheat on you with one of the following classes of ladies, which would be most devastating to you and which would u rather prefare?
1. A hooker he sought for himself & paid 4 sex with
2. A sugar mommy he hooks up with 4 money and material wealth
3. A secret girl he fell in love with and spends a lot of his money and time on
4. A much successful career girl much finer and classy than you who has been dying to get him.
5. A cheerful giver, a nymphomaniac slut that sleeps around just for no strings attached fun (just added courtesy REALITY101)
Pls honest answers only

You and I by PLANTATION BOYZ (still feeling it )

Erm. . . . So u have started kissing peoples a.sses again? Smh

Here is one i used on a hot chick i was tripping 4 after i saw her kiss her baby neice's wonded knee to soothe the pain away:
erm. . . Ouch, I just bit my lip, it hurts . . . . will u kiss it too.
She smiled and it all began!

@ZIM Drill,
sorry i really dont have much time to dabble too much into your areas of discussion. If it were based on news and media reports ask anyone in the UK, Zimbabwe is made to look like the place where Satan reigns and everyone is dying of hunger, tho me and you know its a lie. Every country has its crazy and bad sides but believe me the good are often hidden and outshine the bad, so bros fashi hearsay about Naija

The poster spoke about Naija men being dominant, well contrary to your opinion that they are not, I say: YES they are! the reason why they leave their land and travel out is they hate being dominated by their crazy circumstances and corrupt leaders in power hence reach out to other lands where they are able to flourish and later come back home with wealth/knowledge & power to dominate amongst these rulers. Mind u, most of these guys are not hungry as u imagine: Check out statistics by your same reliable media and find out that all over the world and especially in the UK these same Nigerians are the highest number of international students with a minimum of Bsc hons degree going abroad in thousands to study and paying between £9000 and £25000 school fees at once which most of were paid from Naija! while even EU citizens struggle to pay just £3850 over years.

Naija men have the hustle as u said and truly u guys are just starting because the oyinbos babysitting u just let off recently after so long. So never compare a grown man with a baby ok, Naija guys rule

tialundra:
nairalanders whats the beef btwn Naija man and Zimba men they always DISS each OTHA.it seemz naijimbos tend to throne themselves in all aspects that is from being romantic,sex,sweet,having style,owning businesses,being intelligence,treating their woman ryte, very rich etc.howeva i hear Nigerians can be very violent,possesive.Zimba men on the otha hand are resilient,hardworking and they are not styingy when it comes to treating or pampering their ladies and they indeed are gud in bed,educated their English IS cool compared to Nigerians whose accent is horrible and disgusting.

i hve noticed wth great concern tht Naijimbos dnt wanna compare themselves to Zimbos whateva it maybe whats with these men they are always against each atha and wld lyk to call them RIVALS on all angles.

em . . . . Zimbo men? . . . . they are men from Zimbabwe or something like that right, Sorry never heard of em; guess they aint really a factor when comparing us. Wherever a Naija man is he Rules, Zimbos or wettin Na who dey talk!

Inked_Nerd:
To any of the rubbish men I have encountered and perhaps will encounter in the future,

I apologize for not slappin' the hell out of you sooner. Have a wonderful life after I introduce you to my hand.

With love,
Inked_Nerd 

Wow Inkie, that sounded kinda livid, never really seen u this way, hope u got a good one now tho 

Ooops i did it again! Am sorry T.O, am sure you understand why am callin it quits, i forgave you the first & 2nd time but i cant keep letting this kill me inside. I know u are really sorry and have decided to change finally, honestly ive forgiven you generally but the images of both of u that replays itself wont just leave my head and its getting really unhealthy 4 me. . . . I believe i can do better i need a new start, We can still always be friends. Please understand

ayamah! yourself, can u take half chewed rice and beans from his own mouth,?!! Disgusting!!

star*:
Depends who it was, if I was attracted and he never touched me I would walk away believing he wasn't in to me at all. Just cause you're hot doesn't mean every guy wants you

God bless u jare

steeze:
Gosh, swifty! I've got an eye 4 talent, and u've got it. I just couldn't stop reading. Kept going from one page to the next page. How u could make a simple plot such an interesting read is what i can't understand. Dude, ever considered writing screenplays? You've got it in you. . .

Thanx Seteeze, so u guys actually went to dig out this story. i had long forgotten, thats really cool

Dahbutter:
Swifty, how far now, nairaland has been quite dry for sometime now. any more stories please

Bros ive been quite bizi, but ill do it again once i got some free time, but maybe it would be shorter then as i have noticed, people today hold a short attention span.

highestchi:
My name is George, I am a graduate n based in portharcourt, I am looking for a serious relationship from a caring woman that really wants to enjoy her relationship in every aspects n also want a true luv, I am caring, honest n God fearing, the lucky woman can reach me on  08038358602, 08072750061 or chibytes@yahoo.com for the wonderful relationship she will never regret

Guy, Upload a picture of u, so them chicks know what they are buying if not, u will grow "grey dada hair" waiting 4 a call o. Anyways i wish u Gods protection and wisdom as u hook up with a Nairaland chick  , u just might need it  Goodluck

@poster, just stay there in your tight corner decieving yourself and the poor Naija girls reading this and getting swollen headed. As per the mumu that claimed based on his being well travelled he has a better scope, dont u hear how dumb u sound? Naija girls are just ok and hav where they shine as per beauty but definately r not d finest! Far 4rm it
Poster & his cohorts, u guys should have a better way of gaining popularity amongst NL girls than this cheap psyche method. They r way more intelligent than dat. (I think)

^^^ There's no need for all the insults and bickering, both of you make substantial points so just get on with the discussion please

MRbrownJAY:
but dont you think that there is a HUGE difference between hating her friends, sis, cousin etc and fukcing that rat and then trying to act "BLAMELESS"?!

Am not talkin bout hating cos he is hitting dat secretly, i mean hating cos he knows she means bad, especially when he has resisted and still resists their advances on various occasions

Odunnu:
I'm a wife to one Nlander and a mistress to so many.

Hmmmm, i like that, can i log into your website i could use a damn fyn mistress 

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
pls clarify a few things:
- when you say" we started seeing each other", does that mean you were dating (a couple/bf-gf) or just hanging out together?!

- when she said she was "patching up" with some other guy, does that mean FUKCING some other guy, DATING some other guy or SEEING some other guy as she "sees you" (whatever that means)?!

- you said you "sensed betrayal all over the guy's face", but did YOU felt betrayed as well?

- you said you felt sorry for this guy loving someone that didnt love him BUT she cared for him more than she cared for you. . . . . . . . so much that she ignored you as soon as she saw him and spent all her time "arguing"with him.
dont you see how he would equally feel sorry for you?!

- when she called you later and try begging, you told her that you "understand", care to share with us what you understood exactly?!

- you then said you "overreacted", do you call "leaving a gal that ignored you in the club for some other fella" OVERREACTING?!  i guess you think you should have waited patiently until that guy sent you off because she was gonna go home with him?!

- finally,when you're going to meet her on sunday, what do you hope to "talk about" or resolve? didnt she make it clear to you that night that you were second class in her life behind "rebound guy"?!

Love your reply bro,

@ poster, that girl is a user, she probably went home with rebound guy that night to shut him up the best way she knows,
and wants to shut u up too on Sunday! well, it depends on what u want, u could be wax on wax off.
but trust me if u think she is 4 keeps, you are on a loooong thing
Do ur bit en step off

@ Post, this is like the painful truth! and nomatter how twisted yall wanna take it its for real!

Now i aint saying cheating is cool, but you need to imagine or experience the temptations and seductions many men trying desperately to be faithful to their partners go through daily while the seduction is done secretly by the most unexpected/most trusted peeps in his lady's life Her best friend, cousin, co-worker or even sister

Guys keep a lot of shite they experience to themselves for maturity sake and just not to cause a rift or mess up relationships with the lady's friends/family, colleagues or whateva and thats why u dont hear the hidden ugly stories of what they have attempted as opposed to the reaction if tables were turned

At the end of the day we men are Human, and some fall albeit regrettably. Anyway after this maybe u may understand y he so much hates that your friend, sis, cousin, colleague and never wants u to hang with em or have them visit.



NB: This might not apply to all men, its mostly experienced by guys who meet the description of the ideal guy.Because if u are, someone somewhere wishes u were hers not your lady's and she is close to u guys. trust me

sweetguy10:
Is that really you ?? your kidding right ??

u likey?

Here's me can u beat that

centD:
nj11 thanks alot.

Cent D, so this is what u really look like, that your previous picture was what they call far-away beauty. Anyways u not too bad tho,but there are quite a lot more confirmed hotter guys on NL than u.
I must admit my earlier assumptions were right on checking profiles, Nairaland does have a lot of hot guys,   , There ought to be a similar thread for the chicks dont u think?       _{watch them want to murder me}  

denony:
@ Poster
u no even follow for top 100 on nairaland
see your face, me i never talk na u wan come here dey claim fine boy
no let me break your head for you

Denony, guy am loving that your outfit,looks real exqiusite how can i get the lyk?

Some important info people seek can b found on old threads, people come to NL to seek answers as well as provide same as a lot of matters in life are repititive. If u are not intrestd in an old thread walk on by, i like the old ones of the glory days of NL b4 it started geting invaded by kids and dumb threads.

mobuch:
Kodo of great Unec, why u dey fall hand?
I thought u have moved passed this tragedy.
when we your close friends back then in school were advising you against this bit****chy woman, u kicked us out of your life, now the naughty woman is married with a chubby looking baby boy. Guy, move on man.
Everybody, thats the bi***tch who ruined my guy's life.

@Mouch
I see what you're trying to do with the step u just took in your post above as a guy man and i feel u! However, bros, let there be honour amongst Dawgz, pls take off that lady's picture, She is someone's wife now and if u do this, u humiliate a fellow Man like u not just his missus. . . . and dis is in all ways against the Respeckt Kode! She left your guy but she aint the first to do this to a guy nor will she be the last.

Lets take it that she never deserved him and thats enough loss 4 her. forget the old news chick but pls take off the pic.

spicyhoney:
Too harsh!

which of them honey?

190:
^^^
Nope lola is exceptional!

I thought so , lucky you

myk4koool:
@swiftycool, i love your reply.U made a v.good point.

Thnx, its cos ive been there b4, y'know

Now really whats wrong with Chagzy_T's picture? I don't think he is bad looking and at least he is confident enough in himself to stick up a pic. Guy no mind em jare you no bad