meum:
WHO said so?

Dem no dey ever gree say agbo dey work


But Dem no dey ever accept am. Na tablet, injection/vaccine Dem dey recognize.

Do u want them to recognize something that has been tested and it doesnt work

What u should be saying is that they should publishe evidence of their experiments, if they have not published it.

Or your own national laboratories should be testing them, together with hospitals, to gather their own evidence. If the evidence contradicts WHO, then call WHO out

Sixfeetbelle:


Thank you for pointing it out to him. Truth is men do the most in relationships to assert their ego using money. They really hate women spending on them as they feel it emasculates them.

On one hand, you have married men who feel they're helping broke girls by sponsoring them with whatever they need in exchange for sex. On the other hand, you have young guys being challenged by their fellow guys to hustle and make money whenever they complain about relationships problems and they understand it to mean more money=more women or more money=submissive girlfriend. And frankly, that's all they believe they need.

Mindset is the problem and until it changes, people will still come online to rant just like Op.

But here is an OP who is a man who is changing or has changed his mindset. So what is your problem then.

In this post, you clearly identified and agreed that cultural expectations are the problem. U suggested that things can change.

OP and other men u say are ranting are stating their new found belief. They have discovered that the culture that held them down is a socially constructed reality, and is not true in and of itself. Hence, they are beginning to create a new reality for themselves.

Chosen1984:
Before the devil destroys people, he lures them with cucumber and Onions!

Ask Micheal Jackson, Kobe Bryant and others who have connection to the illuminati cult

Evidence please?

Or are u just sharing your opinion.

In that case, any Tom Dick Harry can also say you are founder of illuminati who was born again and again and is the right hand man of Lucifer. And if 100 million people say it again and again, and tweet and retweet it, it begins to stick. Will you like that?

Please do not ascribe evil and manifestations of evil to anyone without evidence

Iamundisputed:


Oh my. You didn't mention this earlier bro!
Well, I still suggest a heart to heart talk with her. Maybe her previous boyfriend(s) had bigger penis(es), as such, she might still be longing for the feelings of the past.

If you guys don't iron this issue out, she may eventually cheat on you ooo...

If she wants to feel a big manhood, tell her to go for vagina tightening instead...

Op, dont you think this is a wise advice. Why does she want to enlarge ur penis when she can tighten her vagina. After all, if Mohammed doesn't go.... the mountain can....

All in all, i will not recommend taking concoctions and cancer inducling stuffs just to be able to please a woman

If both of you are not sexually compatible, both of you may consider taking a long walk from each other.

Whatever you do, know it is not your fault. Hold your head high. Your penis size is good enough for most women. If someone doesn't like it, they can take a walk

Horus:


Wrong Over population is measured only by population density per square kilometer, so Europe is overpopulated. Notice how Europeans will use sentences with words like: "time bomb" or "population explosion" , and they use these words only for countries populated by dark skinned people.
The problems in Nigeria are created by mismanagement and corruption, not by overpopulation

I think we are talking of different things. You seem to be talking about statistical over population measures. I am talking of ability to take care of yourself, in relation to your population

A man who has 1 million naira as monthly income and has 4 children could be said to be able to take care of his children, all things being equal.

Another man who earns 10k monthly and has 4 children could be said to have more than he can take care of

The analogy here is what i am talking of, not statistical overpopulation. I am talking in relative terms sir

ajl:


You surely don't know what you are talking about. I suppose you assume this platform is filled with morons. Maybe to an extent. Population and natural resources are two separate issues though inter-related. Where did you read that you measure population by resources and infrastructure. This only become important when there is overpopulation or uneven distribution of population. Nigeria's problem as in parts of Africa is uneven distribution of population and laxity in resource management and distribution among its citizen.

See the true size of Africa here
https://www.visualcapitalist.com/map-true-size-of-africa/

Africa will contain USA, China, India, all Eastern Europe, Germany, France, UK, Spain, Portugal, Switzerland, Japan, and many other countries. It only has a population of 1.3 billion while India and China alone each has population of 1.6 billion.

Africa has 65% of global arable land. Do you know what that mean? Africa has most of the land in the world that can be used for farming. Those who come to Africa to shout about overpopulation only do so because they are afraid that once the population of Africa increases then local demand for resources will increase will short change export of natural resources to the West and China. Why do you think China is shedding its citizen into Africa?

USA has 260 million but probably consume more than all of africa in resources.

I will prefer to live in a smaller population that has more than it needs, than one that is over populated and barely has enough

Nigeriabiafra80:

God has a plan for us,and depopulation is not one of them,He said rumors of wars,death,disease ,famine etc are sign of the end,upon all our population, the earth inhabited areas are far more than habited area,
Que sera seraa, whether you depopulate or not

Will you go to the middle of the road and stand before a trailer and say what will be will be.

Do you handle a cobra and say what will be will be

Would you marry 30 wives and have 100 children, and say what will be will be.

I want to presume you do not so those things because you are rational and sensible. If you do not do those things, then a nation which says what will be will be is not a rational and sensible nation.

ajl:


So, you believe Nigeria is over-populated just as they claim Africa is overpopulated. Here is the true size of Africa with just population of 1.3 billion. Problem in Africa is poor resource management and uneven distribution of population making some cities bear stress of population pressure due to rural to urban migration like in Lagos.

Check my last post sir

Horus:


Nigeria is not overpopulated, far from it. We have to look at the population density in Nigeria, ( people per square mile ). The population density in Europe is higher than in Nigeria, (more people per square mile than Nigeria), so in fact Europe is overpopulated and Europeans are not complaining about it.

Over population is not measured only by population density per square kilometer. It is also measured by availability of resources, infrastructure, etc etc.

Measured by infrastructure and resources, Nigeria is over populated compared to Europe. We have an unsustainable population.

I often laugh when peoole say nepa no want give us light. They forget that the reality is that the amount of power generated in Nigeria is too small compared with need. So nepa is not wicked. We just dont have enough

I dont know how old u are. But when i took waec at 17, once u have 5 credits and u get over 200 in jamb, u are guaranteed admission to university. Now, it is not so.

Do u know y?

The number of people seeking admission to university in Nigeria is more than places available. So even if u get 300, there may not be space for u because demand outsrips supply.

To be able to offer university place to all qualifed teenagers who want to go to university, we need to build many more universities.

In the next 20 years, we will need double the university spaces we have now just to maintain current level of supply and access to admissions. U get the gist? Same with hospitals. Same with houses?

Nigeriabiafra80:

You mentioned God,I believe you are a Christian
God said go to the world and multiply
So why are u advocating for depopulation,
Contrary to Gods word,
why claiming it is idea way of life

Those who remember where the bible said increase and multiply often forget where God through Noahs covenant said God wants to make sure no animal goes extinct, showing God is interested in the welfare of all of God's creatures.

Do u know how many animals have become extinct in Nigeria due to uncontrolled population growth?

Or should we use the bible only when it suits us and ignore it when it challenges us

Does increase and multiply mean we give birth to children we cannot take care of? Leaving them hungry and suffering? Ok, lets continue increaseing until we have no where to farm because we have built houses on all farmlands! Is that suitable increasing and multiplying. At least, with this scenario, u can see that we need to interprete that section of the bible in line with other sections

Nigeriabiafra80:

I never called you stupid
I only said if you think vaccine is the only solution to Corona virus,
Which I know you dont

Seems we are finally getting somewhere.

I honestly do not care about what Bill Gates said or didn't say. Our population in Nigeria is too much.

I am in my 40s. In my lifetime, our population went from less than 80 million to 200 million. By the time i am 80 (if God gives me life), we could be over 500 million. Is that a good thing? I honestly believe this is a conversation we should be having as a nation. But unfortunately, ignorance, selfishness, and greed will not let is and our leaders have this conversation.

You see , in Kano at the moment, both elites and the poor almajiris and their parents are suffering from an ignorance and poverty induced exponential rise in covid 19 cases.

Will this help us to reset our brains? I really doubt it.

But i guarantee Nigeria this, until we are able to manage population growth in line with our ability to provide the needs of that population, including educational, employment, housing, medical, and nutritional needs of our population, we are sitting on a time bomb.

Nigeriabiafra80:

Abortion
War
Disease
Vaccine
Are all weapon of depopulation
And a depopulationist doesnt care how it is achieved,
So tell me is vaccine a cure to Corona virus,
Since Madagascar has a cure, why cant wHO extend their research
You are stupid if u think gates propose vaccines is only solution to Corona virus

You called me stupid for exchanging ideas with you and asking you a question? Thank you for the insult.

If my points are invalid, argue against my point without insulting me. That is the way to have an intelligent conversation. Not by insulting. Insulting someone is called ad hominem.

To your last question, researchers are looking at all possibilities, vaccines and cures inclusive. I am sure that some researchers are already looking at the stated Madagascar cure.

In UK, as welll as vaccines, the government is trialing use of blood plasma of peoppe who have recovered from Covid 19. In US, a cure developed for Ebola is being trialed, and has been received temporary approval. Intelligent people all iver the world are looking at all alternatives, vaccines and cures.

With what i have said in mind, what then is your issue again?

Is it Bill Gates that told peoppe in Kano to have almajiris, and to refuse to obey social distancing. Or do u not know that having an uneducated uncontrolled mass of people who lack home training is a danger to any society. Uncontrolled population growth isna danger anytime anywhere. Even China which is now a super power did massive population control when their population became too much. Was it Bull Gates that told them to do it? Or they realised themselves they were doomed if their population becomes too much for them to manage.



Finally, if you like, insult me again. I really do not care.

Nigeriabiafra80:
Seeing people argue in favor of bill gate makes me wonder
So you think bill gate is wasting his hard earned money on vaccines without return,
Ask yourself motive behind gates depopulation agenda,he is a vocal depopulationist, so tell me such dream how he wish to achieve it if not through problem like this

What is depopulation?

Is it to kill the living?
Answer is No.

Is it to encourage people to have fewer children.
The answer is yes.

Is that what Bill Gates is advocating, that people should have fewer children? I leave you to answer the question

But may i ask yiu this, currently the world's population is 7 billion. Do u want it to become 14 billion?

In my life time, Nigeria's population has increased by 250 percent. If it is left to grow any how, those wjo are 15 years old today will have a nation of 500 million by the time they are 40. Is that a good thing?

You answer that.

Do u know what that will do to infrastructure, power supply, traffic gridlock, lack of accommodation.

Of course, an intelligent nation can plan ahead and harness things so well that tjey will be able to live well and provide for 500 million people. But can Nigeria do that?

So, again back to my main point. Is Bilm Gates right to encourage people to reduce the number of children they have. Or is uncontrolled population growth a good thing?

Kingsteve:

What else, if not konji?
And also, for the fact she's ugly and with kids, it means her husband has probably stopped touching her, because she's no more appealing.
Don't underestimate the power of a full-blown konji.
It makes people do crazy stuff.
Sex is powerful!

Thank you for replying

I am not underestimating it. I am just an open minded man who likes to learn.

Again, because of the profession I am in, i have heard so many things in life. But i I always remain curious. I just like to learn from the experiences of people.

I wonder what she would have told the husband as explanation of where she went that night. Or maybe the husband was not around

okoroemeka:
I have had my fair share of really strange encounters with women but the strangest of them was a married woman with 3 kids who happens to be my neighbor knocked at my door at 2am and requested for sex,I was speechless,I have never made any pass,flirt or dirty comments to the lady,nor have I fvcked her before so okafors law is off,the lady is ugly and an introvert, doesn't talk much,I sat her down in my living room and tried to understand what can push a married woman from the bed she sleeping with her husband and kids to seek sex from a total stranger at 2 am, women are really complicated.

What did she say was her reason for seeking sex from you?

walex2:
all of you always shout DNA do you even have an idea the cost of doing DNA? so even after rhe DNA if he later find out the baby is not his, who is the loser? the best bet is to call the wife and have on on one discussion with her and if she is not yielding report her to her parents and family members.

So what if u sit her down and she lies to your face?

What if you report her to her family with evidence, and she promises to change and never changes?

What price can you put on peace of mind? For me, peace of mind is priceless. If i was the one, even if i sot her down and we have a good discussion, even if i report her to her family and we have a meeting, so far as there is doubt already, i will do a dna test.

If i am to raise another person's child, i need to know and do it willingly. Well, that is my opinion. You are entitled to yours sir

piamily:
Oh ! I get you now. So you’re saying Nigerian men really want ladies to play the hard to get very hard then. So why are they complaining. Well then I’ll keep playing it hard as usual since they think it was bread and butter they got in a platter of gold

Maam,

Please follow your heart. Do what you want to do. Dont follow the advice of that poster (who said men prefer hard to get girls) which is based on what some men do. There are different types of men in this world.

I am a man, and I do not date the hard to get women. I believe I am not unique among men. I believe there are many men like me. Of course, some men may like the hard to get women, just as the other poster said.

In essence, my point is this. Do what u are happy with. If u see a man u love, go for him. U do not have to ask him out for a date. U can just be friends initially. Go out and do things together which are not the classic dating stuff. He coukd turn out to become your best friend in life. If such friendship turns out to become a relationship, you have won gold.

My woman is my best friend in the world. You can imagine how happy that makes me feel

StrongandMighty:
I wonder the kind mind people dey get oo... How person go come online dey bold enough dey complain how he or she wasn't allowed to sin.

is premarital sex no longer a sin? please I want to know

What if he has no religious beliefs

What if he is at peace with his faith and his God

fairfora:
Blame buhari for allowing the north, the most naive and illiterate region to be exempted from lockdown for the reason best known to him but came to lagos and ogun to declare lock down.

He acted sluggishly same way he did on our airports and now, their people are dying . Their leaders to are fond of keeping secret. Ganduje now accepts the strange illness killing kano people is covid-19, which he initially debunked

Has he publicly accepted? I mean Gandollar

BOOOMNAIJA:
What is d essence of buying something when u can't effectively put it to use....it's still waste of taxpayers' money.... shame on all those supporting d past governor for this.

Did you really read the article? What is the main points of the article?

Do u know what is called stock management. Do you know what is called supply chain disruption challenges, and the need to foresee and plan for those disruptions by having some stocks in spare and storage?

Do u go to market in the morning to buy breakfast, and in the afternoon to buy what u wil use for lunch, and again in the evening to buy whay u will use for dinner? Do you have any savings in your account?

MaryJane24:
Hello peeps,
so, I signed up on nairaland today so that I can ask this question in peace. I sincerely hope you experienced members will say something useful to clear my doubts.
So I've been seeing this guy for three months- no sex. He is always asking for it but I finally agreed to do it with him on Saturday last week. But when I saw his thing, I dressed up very quickly and said we can't do it now. He asked me why but I was reluctant to tell him the real reason. His joystick is not straight but rather curved to the left side. It was fully erect when I noticed and I couldn't bear to let him force it into me. Is such a joystick a normal thing? Have you seen one like that before? How do you manage to have sex with it like that and is it painful? Thanks in advance for your help.

If you love this guy, and you believe he is a gentleman, why not give him a try. Let him go in gently. If it pains you, he stops. That is one way to go about this

But yes, some women like it, as it can touch their g spot depending on how the giy goes in, and to what angle he is bent. If he is bent upwards, thats a g spot hit of doing missionary. U get my point?

Experiment. Enjoy. If you dont enjoy it during your experiments, or your boyfriend is not gentle, then u can take a walk

Yenefer:
I'm not tribalistic. I'm far from it. I'm just teasing my fellow countrymen. But whenever I jokingly said something bad about them, they went extreme to prove a point,. like insulting parents and religion. I never insulted anyone's religion or parents I don't know why I-pigs acting like this, insulting people's parents and religion. I don't know why they are so bitter and angry,. there Messiah lamdi kamu doesn't teach them how to respect other people or what. Just because you are genetically criminal and corrupt doesn't mean you can't change afterwards pls. U people should respect other people,. thou u are genetically bad people u can do your best and be good

Not tribalistic? But u said a tribe is genetically corrupt.

If that's not tribalism, please tell us your definition of tribalism

Nigeria will order for this, and tell us it cost 100 dollars for each single one

Why can't our government ask them for the patent and ask innoson and other local manufacturers to mass produce this stuff

Fibonacci88:

First of all ur assumption that everyone in Nigeria would be infected is highly flawed. Even 10% of the whole population can't be infected if we do the right thing of maintaining social distance, proper hygiene and wearing face mask we will all be fine and go around with our normal lives.
Covid19 confirmed cases worldwide is 2.92M that is less than 0.04% of the world population with about 204k deaths worldwide.if we extrapolate that to Nigeria, let's even assume 0.5% of our population is infected which I know it's impossible. That will be about 800k confirmed cases. With a death rate of 6% which I will still think it's high we would have about 48000 deaths. Let's assume all this infection took 6months, we would have a total of 96000 deaths yearly far less than malaria. I hope u can see that we are trying to kill an housefly on our scrotum with a sledgehammer. Social distancing and proper hygiene is key and not all these fear mongering. We have a far deadly disease in malaria and hunger with us already.

I am really enjoying this exchange with you as i can see you reason quite intelligently. Thank you sir

I hear your argument in this post here, and i think it is quite valid.

But sir, it makes an assumption too. It assumes that Nigerians will use social distancing to the extent used in developed nations. It assumes that our government will do things that will enable and encourage Nigerians to abide by social distancing and proper hygiene, as governments in developed nations have done. It presumes that Nigeria will do wnough testing and tracking and traceing as many developed nations have done. We know our government is failing on all fronts. Kano is an example

All in all, both of us want what is best for Nigeria

The only reason i countered your first post was that I feared it will be read by people who are less intelligent than you, and who will say, yes, malaria is more dangerous. And i dont fear malaria and i don't socially distance because of malaria. So to hell with lockdown.

But i can see you think differently. I hope all who read your post will think like you

linearity:


I think when scientists speak publicly, they are overly cautious with words.

The phrase ‘no evidence’ means a lot. It could mean WHO is still testing...has not start testing...etc. I would have been more worried if WHO said....”there is evidence that you don’t get immunity from an infection’. Which will be totally different from what they stated above.

Agreed, natural immunity are more potent than those acquired through vaccines, but remember that the body got it from doing a ‘life n death’ battle against a live virus and though the body won, but it was truly beaten up in a number of ways and places by the virus.

The body now have the cure by way of immunity, but it is still weak, it needs to replenish lost nutrients. Facing the same opponent within a very short period of time as we are seeing with those who retested positive might not be the best or real world situation with other kind of viruses.

All the cases with reinfections that I have read about, did not show symptoms and they recovered, it means the immunity worked. Agreed it didn’t give the virus a technical knockout at first sight of second reappearance, maybe because it was still weak and was not expecting a rematch this soon, but it did it’s job and retained it’s belt.

Sound reasoning. Welldone sir

Fibonacci88:

I understand ur point, but Malaria is by far a deadlier disease. A strong immune system is the reason why alot of us don't die of malaria and not necessarily the drugs. No matter how healthy u are anytime u do a malaria test 99% of the time it comes out positive. Malaria only breaks ppl down when the count becomes too much and overwhemls the immune system hence the need to take malaria drugs. My opinion is, if ur body can fight off the infection the first time, it shouldn't be a problem the second time except ur imune has been compromised. Covid19 is only scary cos of it's infectious rate and not because of how deadly it is. Imagine the whole world shutting down because of a diseas with less than 2% death rate and 90% recover without visiting an hospital. There is something WHO is not telling us and there is a grand scheme in play. Covid19 is just a means to get there.

On what basis or statistics are you saying malaria is worse. Is it by infection rate, or death rate? Enlighten me please. Where us your evidence

Do you know that based on 3 percent death rate, if this infects every Nigerian, this means 6million Nigerians will die in one year. This is apart from the other illnesses that kill people in Nigeria. My estimate is that the 3 percent mortality is for countries with good healthcare. In Nigeria, due to a number of factors, it is likely to be more than 3 percent

Even at 3 percent, that is 6 million Nigerians.

How many does malaria kill in a year in Nigeria. I will like to know sir

Based on my google search, i saw 300,000 deaths a year from malaria in Nigeria. Sir, that is way below 6 million

What is your opinion sir on the information i just provided you.

mployer:

If your immune system could heal it the first time, it can heal it again and again.

Don't compare with malaria. We take drugs because immune system can't handle it.

Oga, i didnt compare with malaria. I was telling someone not to compare with malaria

As for ur assertion that if our immune system beats it once it can beat it again, all i have to say is, I wish you are correct. For now, until u give me the evidence, i will err on the side of caution. I will try to protect myself from this virus. Prevention is always better than cure.

There are some proverbs taught me by Chinua Achebe,

You dont use your head to test whether a rock is strong enough

You dont put into your eyes what you put into your ears.

Fibonacci88:
And so?? The flu that kills millions yearly in Europe and America doesn't it reinfect past suvivors? U guys want to put us in perpetual fear so we come cap in hand begging for ur evil vaccines. We know how many times we treat malaria yearly in this part of the world, that doesn't stop us from not going about our normal lives.

Each time you get malaria, u used already developed drugs to treat it

Eqch time somwone gets covid 19, no drug to cure it

Sir, u comparism is not accurate. Comparing apples to avocado pear is not going to be good.

If u want to compare malaria reinfection to covid 19 reinfection, when u get malaria, dont treat it, dont take any anti malaria tablets. Just take only paracetamol and multivitamins.

Or do u not know that there is no drug yet for covid 19. Those who get it are only given pain killers to handle fever, oxygen. No drugs.

lastclaire4:


The intent was clear from the supposed question my dear.

But they were asked like questions

Were they not?

You are free to make any inferences from my questions. But one thing i know for sure is this: they are questions