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These States have the highest rates because the populace is more educated and possibly better financially compared to other states. I don't think northerners even know what's a DNA test

thrillionaire:
Damnit woman! It's not a crime to birth a baby - married or unmarried. You could've given up the child to social services but no.. you're evil. You wanna look good outwardly before your religion but your heart stinks.

She could have aborted the pregnancy if she never wanted a baby. I know their is a story to this. Something led her to this act

He possibly took the drug t improve body mass. Testosterone has little effect in football performance. I wonder why they captioned it as illegal. He may be

He possibly took the drug t improve body mass. Testosterone has little effect in football performance. I wonder why they captioned it as illegal. He may be unaware it was banned

HellVictorinho6:
Was referring to the selfishness

He's been a selfish player all along. Imagine a teammate scoring and then he goes to complain to the officials that the goal should be awarded to him cos the ball touched a string of his hair? He's done that also against Bemzima and other times too

They should know that the app would not be able to sustain or contain the number of complants it would get in a day. It'll definitely crash. This app would be a total crap

HellVictorinho6:
Same goes for messi

Without insult

Yeah so many footballers are philanthropists but Ronaldo's work cannot be over emphasized

I think celebrity sportsmen should start bringing u contract forms for any lady that wants to associate themselves with them. Cos it the court are just praying to have such domestic violence cases so they could cash out

HellVictorinho6:
Guy got 240 plus assists
Thousands of created chances

Rest in ur fada name

You can be kind enough to make a point without insults. There are many times he proved to be selfish and of course that was in his quest for greatness though.

Neimarjr:
Lmao
Social Media influencer

Nah bro, I ain't one. It's for facts

The kingdom of God suffers violence and the violent take it by force!” Matthew 11:12. Though we've gotta stop being cowards. Gotta stand up and fight any miscreants we find in or around our communities. This is outta hand already

emmaodet:
My dad also married my mum with virtually nothing.
As a matter of fact, it was the money they were given that they used to buy the mattress they slept with on that wedding night. That was how bad it was.
Funny enough, my mum was a graduate.
I do think to myself that the man was very very lucky.
If he had come in this age, even a pepper seller won't touch him with a long pole not to talk of a graduate.
Which graduate go marry you for room wey no even get mattress? He was lucky he married in the 80s

Tbh plenty of women in their 30s still do such. They believe their chances of getting married are getting slimmer. That is when they face facts and believe in the future

Caaz:
And I use to think you have that substance called a brain all these while, what a disappointment.

Being a feminist or not these genders are not equal. One holistically depends on the other either intentionally or unintentionally

These things are forcing me to believe 99% of these female celebrities were once oloshos

As much as he seems selfish on pitch, if you look closely at his personal lifestyle you'll realize he always comes to the aid of those in need. It shows he never forgot his humble and poor beginning... Though I love Messi more, CR7 is the more generous one

MikoB:
I can only say congratulations to Tinubu, he is a rugged and a one man battalion fighter,the biggest obstacle he had to the throne was the party primary because there was an opportunity for Buhari to stop him, but he looked the other way as a dullard that he is, I knew from that moment especially when greed overshadowed Atikus' sense of reasoning not to allow a good popular southern candidate and pair the person with a northerner, this would have done the magic. if you guys know Tinubu very well, you wouldn't have gotten any hope in the court upturning his victory, he doesn't joke with details and he is a political strategist, he had planted his loyalist in every sector, including the judiciary, the only hope for an average nigerian now is to pray for Tinubu to use that his manipulative wisdom for the betterment of the common men...

We pray he stops the mess going in the name of fuel subsidy. For now, his decision-making is flawed cos the hardship is unbearable yet he planned to increase fuel price. The current FG have no concrete strategy on how to use the funds for the benefit of all Nigerian

thesilentman:
ok i get you-i just mentioned the money aspect as latest in the sacrifices i make for her.I had believed it would make her respect me more.Reason with me.

Can you tell us precisely what's
She's done?

That's what happens when the VAR canceled Garnacho's goal saying his hair was offside 😆

Tinubu is scared this could happen in Nigeria very soon

Kobojunkie:
If you found out today that indeed your wife has been cheating on you all the while, would you also be thinking these things you are wanting OP to reason in her case?

Will you equally resort to knacking your cheating wife every night in order that she will have no strength to hear outside?

😆 😆

Jovialjune1:
Are you gay?

Gay or not, I'll only hurt myself if my suspicions are right. Ok, let's say I found out and divorced her, what else?

One thing I try not to do with my wife is suspect her of cheating. Sometimes our jealousy or insecurities cost us a lot. Now that you have found out he is cheating, would you divorce him? If you do, will he stop having sex with her. Have you tried to know the reasons why he cheats? Babe nack your husband every night, as he'll have no strength to hear outside

Ladygee12:
As humans we are not 💯 perfect but how do u make a choice of a life partner who is well to do but can't speak good English and is not ready to get an education because he sees it as a waste of time
How about a lady who is a wife material and has all the qualities you want but is not educated and doesn't speak good English but has refused to get educated and seees it as a waste of time due to her business which brings a lot of cash
Can you cope ?

Love and money gives happiness. It's better to love the business person who is financially buoyant than go for an Educated disrespectful, disloyal and poor partner.
After all, we go to school to be learned so we can acquire good jobs.

oluseyiforjesus:
Dangote should sell cement for us at a very low price but government won't allow him because of heavy tax, wat a wicked government we HV in Nigeria, n they are using the tax to live large......

He's paying them personally in other to keep the price high

vengertime:
Anambra of all places? That have hard working people that are ambitious to take care of their families

You are 100% correct. One thing I know about the Igbo's is, they ain't lazy at all

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Why don't you let go the main source/cause of your unhappiness? You've got just one life to to live. I'm married and I've counselled my wife the repercussion of denying a husband sex in marriage... Unless she don tire for the marriage.

accordadoga25:
Yes, Nigeria is about to suffer like those in the land of cannibalism suffered when alaso dudu was the governor.

Tinubu with 90% performance as Lagos State governor is not even worthy to be a governor of a state let alone a president but 'alaso dudu' whose performance was 6.8% as Anambra State governor is worthy to be the president of Nigeria.

Mkpumiri is really working in your system

After all have been said, we all agree that for now, Tinubu is failing with some hurtful decisions he's been taking. The funny thing is, he doesn't even know how long Nigerians would continue to suffer the hardship

IconicR:
I so much dislike men that don't know how to keep shut and come to the public to rant like a woman.
If a woman is hurt she would rant and it's only natural which a real man understands.
Agbaya alagbaoshi

Some women rant in the open because they are selfish, and some men rant in the open because they are selfish and think it's always about them. Such persons are called drama queens.

Yet some people will still vote in Tinubu as president. It's so disappointing

I recall my dad rejecting my sister's fiancee because he is from Anambra state and we are from Nasarawa State. He said those people don't treat their wives with respect 😆. My kid sis went ahead to marry him and they are very happy together.

If you have done your research about her and her family and found no fault in her and you love and see her as the right companion for you, go ahead and marry her. No one is perfect and it is your life not your mums. I think it's high time parents stop being control freaks and allow their children be.

spencekat:
This pattern of election will be damn financially costly.

Can you explain why you think it will be too costly?