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CrimeRe: Gunmen Kill Efcc’s Forensic Team Leader In Kaduna by Theblessed(f): 5:42pm On Sep 15, 2010
[b][size=18pt]With all these unnecessary killings, it seems political assassinations for the Presidential Election 2011 has already started in Nigeria, has ithuh?? The people doing these killings, what would they gain from it? To stop Nigeria growing or what?  No, their killings can't ground Nigeria for we are many!

Just shear wickedness, that's all it's about! Evil!!! But, why is it that illiterate ignorants are allowed to get away with these kind of atrocities - killing core Nigerian elites - smart guys and their families who would help guide and develop our country for the betterment of everyone.  Please, find these wicked men, find them before they cause us enormous harm. angry angry angry angry  

The people doing these things are so ignorant that they don't even understand the implications of what they are doing. This wicked act is like, killing the only Doctor in your village and then, a plague came and obliterate/wipe out everyone in your village including yourself now, tell us, does it really worth it. Why, do this?

Because of your wickedness, ignorance and blindness. The only Doctor that would have saved the whole village and yourself, you have destroyed and thus, destroyed everything.  Now, assuming that you were the only one that survived the plague and, have inherited the whole village - obviously, you feel goooooooooooooood, don't you? grin grin grin grin  

Then, go live there alone by yourself and see if you will enjoy it! angry angry angry angry angry angry To these evil men, I say good luck with your killings soon, you will be caught and you will be damned!!! angry angry angry angry angry angry Evil!
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CrimeRe: Sss Officer, Wife, 3 Kids Slaughtered In Kano by Theblessed(f): 12:55am On Sep 15, 2010
[size=18pt]Who ever did this, Hell is your home for ever, Amen! 
The monsters that did this, had they any hearts? Are they human beings or beasts?

Hell is your homes for ever, in Jesus Name, Amen!!!
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FamilyRe: Men How Do You Feel When You Hear "it's A Girl"? by Theblessed(f): 6:36am On Sep 14, 2010
[b][size=18pt]Well, men still lack the understanding that, 'WHATEVER THEY GIVE THE BANKER TO KEEP, THE BANKER RETURNS BACK TO THEM'. Some are lucky to even have children and should always be grateful to God for his kindness and gifts but, are they? 

I can appreciate all their reasons for a son and, it's not their fault because, they are society's constructs (societal stigmatisation) however, we all know how education can change ideas given time, these entrenched ideas will be history particularly, in the majority world just as it is now, in the minority world. 

Remember, it was like that all over the world but things have changed now especially in the West.  That's no longer important since they realise a daughter could do as much and in many ways, more than a son - it no longer matters to them.

For example, at one point in history, there were no 'Heirs' to sit on the British throne and common sense then dictated they work with what they had (our present Queen and her sister) and they did thus, the enthronement of 'Queen Elisabeth II' and now, there are heirs everywhere - how about thathuh grin grin grin grin grin grin  You see, it no longer matters, does ithuh

Thus, society can change their ideas any time and attach values and importance to things when it wants.  So, if the minority world could change their values and ideas in these areas, the same will one day apply, to majority world's, societal mentality of having a son.  Let's watch this space!

Even in our culture, its not new and our history has shown that, in the past, families without a son had always kept a daughter to produce an 'heir' and they succeeded therefore, what's the heck about this son, son, son and, soooooooooon of a thing that our fore fathers survived not having and we could not survive now. Tell us and let's hear it!!!

Our history is there to throw light in to this argument.  Many part of Nigeria did it and are still doing it, Igbos in particular! Also, even in the Biblical times - Lot's daughters had to sleep with their father to produce an heir and they succeeded and God did not count it as sin to them because, there weren't enough people in the world at that time, remember! (Genesis Chpt.19 v. 33 - 38).

Also, people should understand that these so called researchers have their own agenda/issues and can manipulate findings to their own advantage.  

Remember, some are also funded or sponsored by organisations with agenda and vested interest in the research thus, have the power to determine how research is conducted e.g how data is collected (i.e. they could choose to focus on families in dare need of a son - grin grin grin), processed and results/findings disseminated and thus, the findings we are all here arguing about.  

It's all constructed to suit a particular group (stir up issues in peoples minds). So people, before you argue over these findings, think!!!

Therefore, the message here is, no matter what is given to you - work with it for there is blessing in it and don't listen to society.  We have no right to pick and choose besides, the giver has the power to 'forfeit', 'withhold' or withdraw' completely his gifts any time he pleases - never you forget that!!! And for couples, please ignore society and be grateful with what you have, for it is a big blessing!
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PoliticsRe: 44 Years After Ironsi, Igbo Named Army Chief by Theblessed(f): 5:01pm On Sep 13, 2010
[size=20pt]Thy will must be done oh God, and who can challenge ithuh

He he he he he he o o o o! I don dey happen!

Fairness, Justice must reign in Nigeria!  Say it again, fairness, justice must reign in this our beautiful country!

Why? Because, it's God's prescription - go drink am and i go heal all you evil Nebuchadnezzars of this country, that have no shame but full of wickedness! Your time shall come and it's almost here! Just wait a bit!!

Injustice prevented peace and development in our beautiful country and God has prescribed the medication that will obliterate the diseases that have been eating us up alive, in the past 40 years.  

Praise God all yea Nigerians that love and want the BEST FOR OUR GREAT COUNTRY, Halelujah! Peace!!  wink wink wink wink wink wink wink wink wink wink wink wink
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CelebritiesRe: New Worlds Shortest Man Declared by Theblessed(f): 8:49pm On Sep 09, 2010
[size=18pt]God is great!  All things bright and beautiful, all creatures great and small - remember, na God made them o o o.  Why? Simply, to humble us all, wey dey think we bi somtin.  Anyone of us, could have been born this way or another because, everyone has got something negative/positive in their lineage - it could be cancer, diabetes, dwarfism, hemophilia, obesity etc and for this guy, well, this is it.

Anyway, its all good and it is for us to learn. Think about that!
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PoliticsRe: Jonathan ‘ll Set Record By Not Contesting — Bamanga Tukur ! by Theblessed(f): 5:02pm On Sep 08, 2010
Iranoladun:
@TheBlessed why do you always type in such bold/big coloured fonts? 

The combination of bold and coloured makes it difficult reading your post.
[size=18pt]Thanks for you complaint! 

You see, everyone has freedom to do as they please, and this is mine.  I expect people to respect my freedom just as I respect theirs.  We all have our styles e.g. you wrote this comment in the colour/font of your choice, had I complained? No! Not that I particularly like it but for civility sake, I respect it. Also, you wear what you want to wear in the colours you want to wear them, same applies to me - so, what's the problem?

Now, let's clarify this, do you really NEED to read my essays?? No, you don't! Then, if you can't read it please, just pass and that's more civil than attacking people, don't you reckon?? Just pass!!
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PoliticsRe: Jonathan ‘ll Set Record By Not Contesting — Bamanga Tukur ! by Theblessed(f): 7:17pm On Sep 07, 2010
[b][size=18pt]Based on the above comments, it seems Mr Tukur is smoking something! Is hehuh cool cool

Well, President Jonathan, my advise is get rid of Tukur now, and surround yourself with Nigerians who SHARE your dreams and aspirations for Nigeria - not suckers, plungers, status and power hungry crooks. With this statement, Tukur is evil and does not have Nigeria interest at heart - what matters most to him is, seeing his Northern brothers in-charge of Nigerian instead of. . .!

But that will not happen because, a SOUTHERNER will NOT ONLY BE IN-CHARGE BUT WILL BE SITTING TIGHTLY ON NIGERIAN'S THRONE come 2011 whether they like it or not else, the country would be in trouble and the North will loose out.  Thererefore, they should listen to this Tukur's prophesy in this statement - that President Jonathan's call to office is DIVINELY PLANNED BY GOD - they should take note of that!

If it wasn't, how come he rose to the top like this and, how many state-men in the world have climbed so fast a hierarchy ladder this way, name themhuh It doesn't happen often, does ithuh His enemies, should beware otherwise, what happened to our notorious evil men of the past - Abacha (1998) and Dimka (1976) will HIT them. Does anyone still remember Dimka violently removing our good Head of State - General Murtala Mohammed and paid for it?

So, be warned all of you when you go about challenging God's set up else, you will meet you doom and, with all these going on, has anyone thought deeply, about his meteoric rise/journey from humble beginning to the Apex of Everest?

Obviously, no one has put their thinking hat on here, this phenomenal rise, is of God and is, his destiney. Like, President Obama, his enemies will be cueing on his Presidential [i]doormot [/i]not only to see his face but also to shake his hand, on the dawn of his 2011 election VICTORY and, we shall all watch it unravel on our big screens, just wait! Therefore, the power hungry lot, back-off and let the sleeping dog lie.    

And for Tukur, it's all about power and control, don't we know? Imagine his dis-encouraging statement for President Jonathan not to contest the 2011 Presidency because he think, it would 'set record', really? And I ask, record for what? Perhaps, his character, professionalism or statesmanship, abi??

If that's the case, what about the old cronies like - IBB and Shagari who have had a bite of the cake before, what about them? Wouldn't the same apply? In fact, they should be in hiding - never to let us see their faces again, talk of coming out to finish us off, once and for all, eh? No! They'd had their time and we won't vote for them.

Well, Nigerians, una don see am - na the Northern sense of fairness and justice we dey talk about, be this o o o.

In fact, Tukur's comments actually reflected Gardaffi's comments in the media some months ago - suggesting power be left in the hands of the North and, if Nigeria is to be divided - the oil revenue be shared equitably with the North and I ask, why?

In terms of infrastructure; Northern road are better, their children get free and quality education, their hospital you can't compare with any other in the country etc. Well, that's Gardaffi's 'fairness and justice' for Libya, not for our country.

How could people be so heartless and unfair. The lazy Northerners have got all the goodies, they're the ones that plunged our country and has been in power over 40 years and nothing to show for it, instead of development what we got was almost the 10th Century feudal system, and it won't work for them, not this time!  

Everyone could see that, Tukur and brothers are ready to undermine Nigeria's stability and development in order to maintain power and protect their religious mentality of brotherhood thus put at risk the lives and welfare of over 100 million Nigerians - shows their patriotism.

Again, that should not be allowed to happen in our country, because we own this country as much as everyone else and, I'm prophesying now, another devastating civil war between the North and South, should Nigerians allow them to achieve their selfish and wicked ambitions and I wonder, where Tukur, IBB, Shagari and others will be hiding when it all start. angry angry

For the progress of our country please, let us support the winning horse who has showed us after many year of frustration, pain and despair, that we Nigerians could once again, have 24 Hour Electricity supply at least, and still taking actions to improve, other important areas of our lives please, let support President Goodluck Jonathan and, DUMP the Cronies that have had their times but, found wanton. angry angry
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PoliticsRe: Igbo Deserve To Produce President In 2015, Says Atiku by Theblessed(f): 2:42pm On Sep 06, 2010
[b][size=18pt]Goes to show these people have no clue about Democratic processes therefore, don't and will not respect Democracy whether they are democratically voted in or via their rigging style of our elections, it doesn't matter.  

These people should not be allowed to contest any official positions at all rather, remain electorates/voters that's all. Otherwise, they will continue to contaminate our democracy and electoral processes with their corrupt political beliefs and values

Imagine the above comment? "Igbo deserve to produce a president in 2015". Who does he think he is, patronising ushuhhuhhuhhuhhuh Does it look to any one, this man respect democracy? And how could any one vote for such a person or even those he support/support him? 'Birds of a feather' they say flock together, isn't ithuh Politically, this is what kept this country from moving forward. People like these who should be ban from our ballot boxes.

Imagine, the honourable position of Presidency in Nigeria these days is like, pass a parcel. Perhaps, he wants to pass the baton of Presidency to the Igbos without the contestant WORKING HIS A R S E off for it, which is normal.  JUST GO AND ASK PRESIDENT OBAMA HOW TO DO IT, and do it "NEAT" - that's the kind of Presidency contest we Nigerians need and deserve for our blessed country and not your kind Mr Atiku, thank you!!!! angry angry angry  

Even with your seemingly sympathetic and good intentions for the Igbos (I hear!! huh huh), how could a group out of over 200 different tribes with their different languages produce a president on its own for the whole country, I wonder? Or does he mean getting there via their well known means - STUFFING ALL THE BALLOT BOXES AND CLAIMING THAT, WE poor souls VOTED WHEN WE DIDN'T, ehhuh? Is that what he meant? We don't need it, thank you!  

God willing, President Goodluck will give Nigerians back their treasured democratic rights, once again.  And God will punish anyone that messes it up again. angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry

Once again, thanks for your sympathy for the Igbos!  We can do without that if only now, that you lot remembered that Igbos are part of Nigeria and deserve to be respected in their own country, that tells about your lack of conscience and a man without it well, too bad angry!
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CelebritiesRe: 50 Best Dressed Men In Nigeria… Mode Men Magazine Cover by Theblessed(f): 12:41pm On Sep 06, 2010
ladej:
i dont know about te other 49 guys on the list but MR JIM IYKE is an avid charity giver.

for more details see http://www.jimiykefoundation.com/Organisation%20of%20enlightenment.html
[b][size=18pt]God Bless Jim Iyke a thousand folds more, for remembering, the poor. 

Anyway, thanks for getting back!  Well, you know it's a selfish world which we all will answer for one day.  Whether we approve or not, we will answer for it. You see, I don't have any issues with wealth at all.

A well begotten wealth, acquired with clean hands and through hard work - I not only cherish/respect but also honour such people. Don't mean these guys up here, have acquired their wealth through evil means, no! And if they had, judgement awaits them irrespective of what CHARITY THEY GIVE TO! So, repentance is theirs now if they have conscience.

But, I cringe at those that worship people with material wealth - I don't worship money or people with it as I don't lick a r s e! In fact, I don't like to be around them for one reason, almost all of them are SELFISH AND HAVE NO FEAR OF GOD! They want to be served but they don't want to serve - such people, disgusts me thus, don't want to be around them.

They boast of their material wealth - that limousine, that Jaguar, this Lamborghini, that Concord here (when we had them here - not these days, any more!) and that Mansion there, are all they are after and it disgusts me.  But hey, these material wealth, are they really theirshuh?? Reallyhuh?? No! They are not! For they belong the Supreme God above - remember, he gave us the power and wisdom to acquire wealth and he can take them away in a flasssssssssh at will. WE MUSTN'T FORGET IT!.

If people like Elvis Priestley, Michael Jackson, Marilyn Monroe and many others who have departed this world could leave it all here and go, I wonder! You see wealth as these: Grace land and Never Never land were all left behind, I wonder! So you see, it doesn't worth it, does it?  

I support the act of giving to help those less fortunate than ourselves - and who want to see the pain and misery of poverty around themhuh No one! Therefore, give because a little drop helps! Let me tell you something, personally, if I don't give I don't get but don't ask me why because, I don't know! Spiritually, I guess it's a way to humble me and that's ok, too!

Get me right, giving the little I can is not because I want to receive, no! Rather, it is the right thing to do and because you're blessed and that's why - remember, everyone is blessed in their own rights - for God apportions his gifts accordingly! Therefore, help the poor and others on a regular basis - please, not once or twice in years I mean, REGULAR because one who eats today will definitely need food tomorrow and, that's my take!

And finally, for those louts my comments irritates here, I know you will soon get back negatively but, who give a tosh!!! If my comment rumbles your guts, bring it out, righthuh  And, if you're doing the right thing, your guts won't hurt, will it?? Leave you to answer that.
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CelebritiesRe: 50 Best Dressed Men In Nigeria… Mode Men Magazine Cover by Theblessed(f): 10:06am On Sep 04, 2010
[size=18pt]Hmmm! Dressing well, is that all that matters for this person? Is it important? According to you they dress well, isn't it? Well, they dress well because, they got the money one way or the other as we know in Nigeria how most of these people make their money, don't wehuh  And how many of them ever give to CHARITY?  I wonder!

We are here singing praises of those who have money to dress well, why don't we sing praises of those who are poor and in need, and have nothing to eat or drink today? Why don't do that for a change or perhaps, put their images on here for the world to see and respond - then you won't be thinking about these selfish people you put on here.

So, consider the poor for a change and, all these material wealth as all know, we'll leave here on Earth when the Master calls - because they are not ours.  Think of it and think of the poor for a change!!!!!
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Christianity EtcRe: Listening Into Others Prayers In Church. Good Or Bad by Theblessed(f): 8:16pm On Aug 28, 2010
[b][size=18pt]But, what are you doing listening to other people's prayers to God? Was the prayer meant for you? No! Are you their God? No! But, you're the chief judge, eh? Don't think it's your business listening to other people's prayers even if they are praying negative prayers or not, against their enemies.

People who pray negative prayers are not true Christians, are they? - they are the Biblical Pharisees and unfortunately, our God does not listen to that kind of prayers - no wonder they don't get any favours/results from their prayers.  Reason being that, their prayers are full of evil/wickedness and God will not listen to that kind of prayer. And, how could such people expect miracles in times of needs when our God has told us to forgive our enemies and do good for them (Romans Chpt. 12 v. 17 -18)? After all, their enemies are also God's children and God desires Salvation for all his children irrespective of their sins. Clearly, if their prayers carry negative content, it would not even pass through the ceiling/roof of their own houses let alone, rocketing all the way to Heavens Gate. grin grin grin grin

Having said that, you prayer listener - why not focus on your own prayers instead of listening to other peoples,  whether negative or not as, eavesdropping on other people conversations either with God or themselves not only portray you as a spy, a snooper, a jealous person, a  gossip, a looser but also such behaviour seem un-Christian too therefore, deviate from it now else, God won't look kindly on you because, you not only listened but also stole his children's petitions to him - be warned the implications could be harsh!!!!
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PoliticsRe: Fg To Launch Redesigned N50 Notes, Coins For Independence Celebration ! by Theblessed(f): 3:55pm On Aug 27, 2010
[b][size=18pt]Why should we re-design our N50 Notes?  Is this really a needhuh Is it our priority right now? This is only a way to steal more money from us, people!!! Greed, greed and greed! What's wrong with these Politicians and their hangers-on?  

Is the Independence day 1st October, 2010, going to be Nigeria's Armageddon day or whathuhhuhhuh
Is the 1st October, 2010 not like any other dayhuh?  

Why can't these foolish politicians get their priorities right for a changehuh Why can't they think with their brains instead of their a r s e s for a change in their life time? Sick, sick, and sick!!!!

People are dying and starving of hunger, there are no jobs for unemployed graduates, our hospitals are like sick bowls, there are big crates or big holes in the middle our express roads at least, these are needs to be attended to yet, they are talking about re-designing a currency that does not need any thing done to it - what a wasteful bunch of evil people - your days shall come and our God will repay you all!! Just wait!
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PoliticsRe: Dead Mistress: Orji Kalu Plans Swift Exit From The Us ! by Theblessed(f): 3:33pm On Aug 26, 2010
[b][size=18pt]Well, they shall all pay - one way or the other!  What goes round, must surely come round for these people!  And for you hustlers who took other women's husband, just wait, just wait - comeuppance will soon wipe you all out, just wait! You hustlers who do such things - destroying homes and families remember this, you will definitely pay as this one is paying right, now. I wonder what this woman is telling God right, now?

And for the chief thief himself - you can run but you can't hide, the eyes of our God is watching upon you seriously! And for their supporters, your days are also numbered for our God - the God of all Nigerians who believe in him and his fairness/justice will revenge for us, for he will repay - says the Lord (Romans chpt. 12 v.19). They can't steal our money and scale free while millions of Nigerians are suffering as a result of their greed and incompetencies. Our God shall revenge, for revenge is his - just wait, your time shall come!
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PoliticsRe: Is The Nigerian National Assembly Above The Law? by Theblessed(f): 2:59pm On Aug 25, 2010
[size=18pt]No one is above the law.  Only, in Nigeria and other undemocratic countries that people think they can get away with murder but, do they really? They can get away from the wrath of man but they can not get away from the wrath of God and, that is absolute!!! [/size]
PoliticsRe: Nigerian States From Richest To Poorest (ppp) by Theblessed(f): 2:54pm On Aug 21, 2010
[size=18pt]Hmmm! So, we have states that are this poor? It's obvious, they are zones of struggles and sufferings, ain't they? Why then, do this government continue to create more states when these, are not doing that great? Goes to show how these politicians can manipulate and mislead us. Why create more states, why?

At least resources can be directed at developing these poor states, creating jobs, improving roads, education and health systems respectively etc instead of stealing our money in disguise via the creation of more silly states.  What an excuse!

For those involved in this act, never mind, your days shall come, when you all will get a measure of your own selfishness and wickedness!
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PoliticsRe: Minister, Nafada, Osotimehin, Others Lose N404m To 419 Stockbrokers by Theblessed(f): 1:07pm On Aug 11, 2010
[size=28pt]Good!! Easy come, easy go!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's how all of them who stole our money would eventually, unassumingly loose everything they stole from Nigerians including their wasted lives and that of their children and families, in Jesus Name, Amen!

Unless they return, every penny they stole from us otherwise, they will pay and their children will pay up to the 4th Generation saith God - that he would use the sins of the fathers to visit their children, their children's children up to the 4th generation (Exodus Chpt. 20: v. 1 - 6). 

So, if they know they committed sin by stealing our money - we did not pay them in wages and which has caused severe hardship and suffering in Nigeria today well, they better return it because, things will start happening to them one by one just as it happened to the people of Egypt! They can run but, they can not hide!!
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FamilyRe: Would You Marry Someone Out Of Sympathy? by Theblessed(f): 12:35pm On Aug 11, 2010
[size=28pt]Whyhuh  Because, all men and women in the world have been extinct,  is it?  Sorio o o o o o o o o, eh![/size]
PoliticsRe: Dora Akunyili's Nephew Writes by Theblessed(f): 9:48pm On Aug 10, 2010
oludashmi:
Your piece is too long, you can always summarise them. Did you read between the lines at all? Your type of talk is heard in every 9 out of 10 pple on the street but their way of life is an irony of the word in their mouth. They call devil at every ignorance, mistake and little faults that MATURITY and WISDOM can attend to, unknowingly, they glorify the devil than they glorify God cos of the number of time they call his name daily.

Is there a family without an issue? NO!! So if we call devil, devil all the time in our families and our daily routine, when do we call on GOD?  Anyway, since you know what they lack, go on your knees and do the fasting and prayer, you dont need to tell us about it afterall you are praying to God and not to man and the blessing will be yours. But it is good to let you know that empty barrels make the loudest noise, remember the Pharisees and the Sadducee.
[b][size=14pt]Well, I don't know about the Pharisees and the Sadducees but all I know is that, one could see you obviously hate reading, na liehuh And reading long essays are not your thing.  We are not surprised at all, as you are not alone, you know! You see, most Nigerians don't like reading and, reading long essays are like swallowing bitter pills - is it the same with you? Why? I can only envisage one thing and that is, Nigerians like quick fixes and don't like to take time to learn things and master them. As a result of their half baked knowledge in certain things, many drown in narrow mindedness and ignorance.

Certainly, reading broadens your mind and I could see yours is so narrow considering your analysis of issues and,  your comments about my essay being long. That's how essays are meant to be - long (at least 3 to 4 pages, how about that? and this is not even up to a page and you are complaining!). Remember, from the on-set, I did not inform that I was here writing a precis/summarising a piece of comprehension, did I? Your complaint only shows, lack of reading skills or laziness on your part and makes me wonder how and where you achieved your University Degree, if at all.

In Nigeria? No, wonder? Did you write the thesis yourself or someone wrote it for you or was it achieved via bottom power? Enlighten us here, please!!!!! grin grin grin grin We would like to know and if you can not give us that answer, I suggest from now on - read more to broaden your horizon and once you get use to reading broadly, you would want to know more because 'knowledge' they say is power. smiley smiley smiley

Right, let's not detract from the fact here.  The issue being discussed is about how this family could attain a lasting 'peace'.  I, like many others here suggests - prayers and drawing near to God because, only God can prescribe an everlasting peace in chaos, get it! Why? Because, satan has entered this family via their weaknesses: Money, fame, gossip, jealousy and envy (if you hadn't seen that) thus, resulting in abuses of other kinds causing hurts, pain and stress in the family.

Therefore, the family should come closer to God for them to have 'real' peace and unity otherwise any peace made would be temporary, so far as the above five sins remain within some members of the family - obviously, you hadn't realise that, had you?

Yes, every family has issues can't you see that this is getting out of hand, can't youhuh When Police are battering innocent people - wait a minute! Does it look like money is talking here or not? How about the pain of powerlessness and hopelessness some members of this family might have felt at the time?

Have you considered the consequences of that? People could go home and re-group hence, atrocities in the family! Sorio o o o! That's why God's intervention is called for, here.  Hope, this essay is not too small for you, then? wink wink wink
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FoodRe: Should Boys Help Out In Cooking Food? ? by Theblessed(f): 1:32pm On Aug 10, 2010
[b][size=18pt]What kind of question is this?  Why not ask us if boys have got mouths, stomachs, hands and legs?  Then the answer would be, nooooooooo!  Therefore, they should not help out in the kitchen rather, they should wait for their slaves to serve them.

I won't let them pull that wool in my eyes. Thank God, I did not raise my children that way.  All are treated equally, there are no favourites. They all work and contribute equally and, there is no boy role or girl role in my house as everyone mucks in - that's how family should.

The Bible say if you don't work, you mustn't eat and that applies in my house. Well, if you don't help out when there is need for you to do so then, don't even think of it. If you don't cook, don't eat!

I mean if their is a need to do so, why not help to relieve the stress on your family as it won't change any thing about you. If your mum or sister is struggling in the kitchen preparing family meal, why not help! And if there are two or three already in the kitchen doing so, why bother - there's no need.  But to say, I'm a guy I shouldn't do this or that - I say, thank your star!

I know from experience, no other man on this planet earth would consider this strange except a Nigerian man and their ego o o o o  o o o o o o o o o o o!  angry angry
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RomanceRe: Do You Consider Kissing Someone Else As Cheating? by Theblessed(f): 12:38am On Aug 10, 2010
[size=18pt]Yes, kissing someone that is not your regular 'girl/boy friend/lover' or husband/wife in a romantic way baby, is absolutely C H E A T I N G!  Please, don't ask any more![/size]
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant For Another Man by Theblessed(f): 11:31pm On Aug 09, 2010
[size=18pt]Please, dump the loosing horse, she is a non-runner.  M o v e  o o o o on!

It seems you're the only one who hadn't seen what God has done for you!  He has navigated you out of satan's trap, if I were you better thank him and r    u    n !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 3:34am On Aug 09, 2010
invisible!:
@Theblessed, don't worry, just pray to get a man like me. 30 days dry fasting and your prayer will be answered. And you will enjoy being loved like my baby.
[size=16pt]You see, I don't need a little boy like you in my life that's not my style - a little boy? No, that would be child abuse! Little boys are not my thing - no, no ,no!  Not my style, ok! I deal with adults, who complies with my standards, me the Princess - else, their balls will be popped and they know it. [/size]
FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 6:14pm On Aug 08, 2010
Wahala90:
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[b]There is nothing like equality in marriage: either the man is the head or the woman is. But I think the proper arrangement is the man being the head.

@ TheblessedAm I assuming? You must be the only one who can't see that this Thread has been ruined with insults, insolent and offensive languages. That is what happens when there is an attempt to fight for equality in marriage. You can imagine if you were living with any of these men in the same roof.


It is wrong to think that both husband and wife are equal in marriage. If they are, there wouldn't be any need for one being head. Any attempt to try to fight for such "equality" always ruins the marriage.
Any woman (like TheBlessed or TheCursed or, any other Lesbian here) that thinks she is equal in authority to her/a man does not deserve to be loved.[/size][/b]
[size=18pt]In response to your argument, I now refer you to this post by: Quote from: twindude on Today at 03:00:52 PM.  He's got it together and with this attitude, his marriage will last for ever and some people here agrees with me. That's all women need and that's why we are here fighting so, go and learn from the best!!!!

You see when you get there, you would begin to learn a little about how to start to love, cherish and respect her still, that ego stroking thing you Nigerian men crave like a baby crave milk, will still remain intact and without you loosing face, alright? Good boy!! Just for the starters, only to help you get use to knowing how to, ok? Go, try it baby, go try it!!!
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FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 3:34pm On Aug 08, 2010
seyibrown:
@invisible!

You did not tell her you were going to service those two babes waiting for you at the hotel, did you? LOL! She would have responded differently if she knew she was to be submissive while you were being 'distributive' (Deliberate use of this word)!
[size=18pt] Love you girl, love you . . . .!  Say that again!  Don't mind those cheats with their unassuming wives!!!![/size]
FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 3:16pm On Aug 08, 2010
twindude:
all this hating and blabbing is uncalled for. lets discuss issues without getting in each other's hair. like i said; [i][color=#990000]the whole thing boils down to respect from both parties be it in a relationship or marriage or else. the ability to listen, ask for suggestions and take her opinions seriously would be a great asset with nigerian men, instead of being a control freak, feeling deprived or egoccentric when she gives suggestions. u laugh 2geda, play2geda and even at times make her feel totaly in control, women love the feeling. When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of options they’ve been presented with. This is called option limitation. [/i]now, i understand some chicks might have a problem with authority; obviously thinking their about rights, equality bla, bla, bla bu if u truely luv some1 u would want to make each other happy no matter what. u win some and lose some without any feeling of deprivation. thaz a happy and fufilled life  cool[/color]
[size=18pt]And, for speaking the honest truth and nothing but the honest truth, may our God Almighty, bless you a trillion times a day and, each day for the rest of your life, in Jesus Name, Amen!!!

You can say that again!  Ego, is what's killing Nigerian man and that's why many are in trouble here.  They don't know how to love a woman.  The worst part of it is that, some of our women don't even understand what is called love and how they should be loved.  The issue is that, they don't even want to be taught, that's the problem in our Department! Heeeelllllllllppppp!! That's all I can say here!!
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FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 2:51pm On Aug 08, 2010
lanko007:
No doubt. You don't have to get married, better yet, go marry a your gender and taste her for the rest of your pitiful life. But guess what, you'll without any reasonable doubt end up been a "successful," regretful 55 year old single mother with a lesbian partner for the rest of your life.

Oh yeah, you mentioned your parents sent you to school and i am sure they are still together. Go seek advice from your mums on how she made it to her age still been with your pops that's if she still with him of course.
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FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 2:21pm On Aug 08, 2010
Wahala90:

The question:
Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages
has been well answered here because the fight for equality by people like "Theblessed" is already ruining this thread
[size=18pt]You love Assumptions, don't you?  You are Chief Of Staff in Assuming things through you weird imaginations, correct? Keep assuming! [/size]
FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 2:08pm On Aug 08, 2010
invisible!:
My guess is the a person like Theblessed is so ugly in real life that she found no man to taste her 'kini' for free! But that's no reason to hate men, afterall no be we create you. Don't feel frustrated baby, maybe you will make enough money one day to buy male companionships, then you will tremble and respect men after a super tingling experience with a real stud. Roll of the vibrator for once!
[size=18pt] grin grin grin grin grin grin grin I love that! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Boy, that's not important, alright!!!!  Nice try!  cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
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FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 2:05pm On Aug 08, 2010
CyberG:
I am sure that even the most foolish and silly woman who comes to NL will avoid advise like this one! No long story: any woman with this world view will never find a man to marry her, if she's accidentally married, it will be because she got pregnant for someone and she will most likely be divorced in a very short period of time. You have options: stay single till death, marry another woman but even the most useless man will not live with a woman like this one!
[b][size=14pt]Well tough!!!!  Would this comment change my stance?  No! Because, I am confident and secured within myself and who cares what you say about me? You said, no man would marry me.

And if I accidentally, I got married that it would be because, I am pregnant - that's lovely too! I will then have to keep the baby without the b a s t a r d in my life, why? Because, I have the resource to take care of my baby, can't you see that? Women have always done this all over the world, don't you know?  Research it!!!

Again he said, if I ever got married, I will most likely be divorced as if it's priority and mandatory for every woman to get married, is it??  Marriage is not meant for all (both men/women) get it!!!! To that I say, that's good too because, your mess up meant that I will be laughing all the way to the bank! Its 50/50 these days and if children are involved, yours would be halved for your kids - have you forgotten the ground rules?? Think of the consequence of your excessive lordship over your poor wife because, when she wakes up one day, you will wee in your pants.  

Anyway, thanks for your contributions.
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FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 1:25pm On Aug 08, 2010
jennykadry:
Would I advice a single lady to read this? No

Would I advice my enemies to read this as well? NO

But hey , it's your opinion and it matters as well to alot of people but definitely not me not even in my next life
[size=14pt]Thank you, its your prerogative and I respect it![/size]
FamilyRe: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by Theblessed(f): 1:18pm On Aug 08, 2010
lanko007:
That is why you will never get married or end up just been a baby mama and if by any divine intervention you scale that fence and do get married your husband will end up f@%king you up. Most men just dont want a slave as a wife, but a partner. However that degree of submission and ego stroking has to be there. Most women that want to be a successful , independent women lords over their husbands never have peace in their homes and end up getting divorced and get married to 2, 3, or even four men.

It's cool and fun for you and your husband to laugh, gist and even poke subtle insults at each other. However be SUBMISSIVE not be a slave. Treat your husband as the lord of the home.

So don't come up in here yanning bulls#&t, feminist statements on this topic about you trying to be "ye royal highness" over your husband. You will only end up getting constant black eyes and busted lips.  
[size=16pt]Oh, someone is upset here? Too bad!  But who wants to scale this fencehuh? Meeeeeeeeee? Nay!  If marriage is a fence to be scaled, please, please and please keep it right there, ok!

My essay is basically targeted to "INSECURE GITS" like these.  One could obviously see, they're all stumbling over it, sorio o o o!

No secured man, in his own right would respond to this essay because, it does not represent their behaviours, at all.  It's all those society's loosers, drop-outs who have nothing going for them that throw up nonsense here and, that shows exactly what they're good at 'ABUSE AND VIOLENCE' and that's typical - who wants to be with men like thesehuh?  Sorry for the unfortunate women in their lives, if any!
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