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It is not good for both sex.

For instance, my little sister that has been seeing our mummy's unclothed regularly and one day when our dad came back from work, the girl said to him, in the presence of everybody that this thing is in our mummy's private part, pointing to our dad's bears . . .

Ask me what happened afterward?

oludashmi:
There is nothing spiritual about this, its only a matter of MATURITY. Nigerians are quick to spiritualise little things that can be done with common sense but we are not spiritual when it comes to corruption, eye service and dropping dirt on the streets.
I wonder oo

occam:
Very funny . sometimes it's difficult to change from pidgin English to English. ppl, no need to sweat this; we understand what she's saying.

he carry second (this is old pidgin)
this is funny too: go siddon my friend (go and sit down). very common expression during a heated discussion

Thanks, good man! Ignore those who are whiter than the whites themselves. 

They think English is their forefathers tongue! One could obviously sense some peoples jealousy in their comments here and, I wonder if it were their mothers, sisters and aunties how better could they use English language therefore, I say, go on Mrs Jonathan, enjoy your position.

Akan:
@ TheBlessed

you cannot come here and generalise. In as much as i detest what that "thing" has done to that innocent little girl I will not go about saying that all Akwa Ibomites are bad.  We are the friendliest people you can ever meet, but just make sure say u no vex us

How do you me?  You just wrote, 'just make sure say u no vex us'?

Well, anyone might perceived it as generalising but, tell me how much more bad and horrible news shall we expect from that zone?  Imagine you warning and threatening me, a person you no know - say, make I no vex una? 

You see, na dey thing wey I dey talk be dat. So, you slaughter peoples head or you do them bad thing because, dey vex u, abi?  Abeg o o!   And, dat don confirm dey thing wey I say, nothing good comes out of that una zone.

manneger:
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Aigbofa:
I wish diffuse this tension by singing my own version of one of my favourite songs to theblessed one.

Dready got a job to do
And she's got to fulfill that mission
To see his hurt is her greatest ambition, yeah!
But-a we will survive in this world of competition,
'cause no matter what he does
Natty keep on comin'through,
And no matter what they say-ay-ay-ay,
Natty de deh every day. yeah!
Natty dread rides again,
Through the mystics of tomorrow,
Natty dread rides again:
Have no fear, have no sorrow, yeah!

All and all you see a-gwan
Is to fight against rastaman.
So they build their world in great confusion
To force on us the devil's illusion.
But the stone that the builder refuse
Shall be the head cornerstone,
And no matter what game they play,
Eh, we got something they could never take away;
We got something they could never take away:

And it's the fire (fire), it's the fire (fire)
That's burning down everything:
Feel that fire (fire), the fire (fire);
Only the birds have their wings, yeah!
No time to be deceived.
Oh, brothers, you should know and not believe:
Jah say this judgement - it could never be with water,
No water could put out this fire (fire):
This fire (fire), this fire (fire),
This fire (fire), a yaga y'all! ride, natty, ride!
Go deh, dready, go deh,
'cause now the fire is out of control,
Panic in the city, wicked weeping for their gold!
Everywhere this fiyah is burning,
Destroying and melting their gold,
Destroying and waisting their souls.

Go ride, natty, ride!
Go deh, dready! go deh!

Tell you what: now the people gather on the beach
And the leader try to make a speech,
But the dreadies understandin' that it's too late:
Fire is burning;
Man, pull your own weight!
Fiyah is burning;
Man, pull your own weight!
Natty dread rides again (natty dread rides again);
And me say, go deh, dready! go deh! (go deh, go deh)
Oh ride, natty, ride! (dread rides again)
And go deh, dready! (go deh, go deh)
Ridin' through the storm,
Riding through the calm (go deh, go deh).
Oh ride, natty, ride!
Go deh, dready, go deh!
Ride, natty, ride!
Go deh, dready, do deh!

Quite right bro, quite right and I hear you, peace now - I promise! 

But remember, I did not start this. I was just an innocent bystander when this satan decided I was his target but hey, I flushed him out down the drains like a flash, silly!

Please, warn these little silly school bullies who think they can intimidate to submission, any female on here - glad he'd noticed the difference - Ignorant! He think he has a monopoly over knowledge hence, the gut to correct my essay - how dare him? And who say people should/must think through his chicken brain and use his words to compose what he consider, an appropriate essay, silly!

But if there's a need to correct people, why not do it in a civil and polite way?  There's no need to be rude, as no one has a monopoly over knowledge on here.  This only shows his stupidity. 'You miss the point', he said as if he was telling his little sister, how rude? Silly, thing!

Anyway, thanks for your godly intervention and because of you I'm taking a truce now, it could be permanent.

Princek12:
And you just said the same thing I said--that saying laziness by itself is ambiguous, meaning that it could refer to physical, mental, etc. Logical skills means that the word  laziness used by itself could mean either physical or mental laziness. So what have I said that is different from what you said? You are an irdiot  who cannot reason, and instead of correcting yourself, you are being too proud in your responses, which is making you sound more silly in your answe --you are reasoning in a circular way.

Princek12:
There is an appreciable difference between mental laziness and intelligence, for an individual who is highly intelligent may fail to utilize his faculties critically, hence that individual becomes mentally lazy. And yes, the fact that you failed to use the word mental before laziness is a huge difference, at least to me, for Ribadu's rhetoric focused on mental laziness, an issue that receives little or no attention when compared to topics like corruption and yes, laziness. So maybe you are the one who needs to be more clear and direct in articulating your thought so that it leaves no room for ambiguities and vagueness, so you also won't be categorized as being mentally lazy.

Ambiguous and vague? No, check the link from another thread where it all began it was loud and clear, only the blind and those lacking logical mind and imagination (i.e. in simple terms: 1 +1 = 2) and common sense to fathom out ideas on here would find it difficult to analyse things correctly, and it seems you are in that category.

But who said, I must use your term 'mental laziness' to communicate an idea when I meant some thing different, altogether. I used the word 'laziness' in its literal sense to mean anything e.g. physical, mental etc. Again, your lack of imagination/logical skills obviously, prevented you from noticing the word 'brainlessness' in that thread - a jargon I use to describe our leaders inability to think critically for Nigeria's future.  You didn't notice that, did you? No! What you saw was, intimidating and bullying me to use the word you consider appropriate instead, sorio o o o! You came to the wrong door!

Again, try and develop logical skills it will do your confused mind much good beside, this is a forum and not a medium for analysing intelligence - gorit

Princek12:
You are missing the point! Ribadu's focus is on "mental" laziness rather than physical laziness, which is by far worse. Our leaders do not even want to take the time to think--as in critical thinking, and I think that this behavior is reflective of many Nigerians.

ElRazur:
I think you need to slow down on your claims. Any food technically can be said to be toxic as your body have to rid of it waste via your kidney. So on that note all food can be labelled as Toxin. Yes, smoked food can be carcinogenic - have potentials to cause cancer - but there are other factors one have to take into consideration. Even a genetic predisposition do not necessarily mean that one will have a full blown cancer.

Carbon? Activate cancer cells? Lol You are one funny dude.  Cancers have several factors, and not all the time do just one of them triggers it. In fact, most cancer are a result of combined factors from environment, immune system, stress, down to toxins in the water we drink that get accumulated over the years. (Abi you go scare people not to drink water again?)

Also it may be worth that a few races are just "almost resistant" to things that cause cancer in others. So while our diet may be composed of smoked foods, we may not be susceptible to it due to generation of forefathers eating same diet. Just a thought.


On balance, you are right, these smoked foods are carcinogenic.

redsun:
The only thing we do best with our reesources is evil.Anything good,they say nigeria is not worth it,even those complaining do say that.

No bi nigeria,e no go work,they say.Why they think they don't deserve sanity nad uprightness is what baffles me.

zebra543:
you can preach from now till 2015 this statement will remain untrue- where exactly does the bible say all of this? How is having a child ones 'greatest investment'? because its th emost emotional fulfilment to you doesnt mean for others it will be likewise, ignorance runs through th eminds of most that claim or belive themselves to be religous, someone who knows God and follows Christ wouldnt need to be told the greater joys that will come from adopting, there is no special serum or additional luck given to childrn growing up by thier birth parents, a child is a child. . .regardless and giving birth doesnt make you a mother donating spermatozoa doesnt make you a father, its a human trait. Dont use your religion to try and confuse or poison the minds of well meaning individuals, study your bible properly and revise the little essay you have written up there. its trash!

Akobaje:
Hello Theblessed. Is it possible as a Christian to forgive an erring husband? And why do you think a man who cheats once will cheat again? As for me I think women are the ones who cant stop cheating when they start and they are more adept at it.

Yes, its possible but don't expect everyone to.  Yes, one can forgive an error if the person is unaware of what he/she is doing - not when they knew what they were doing.  For example, if a man/woman went off and slept with another person - would they argue they never knew he/she does not look like their husband/wife?? Obviously, they knew and had a choice not to do it but independently chose to do it.  So, how can I cope with that?

My husband had a choice and the woman in front of him is not me - was it in the dark that he couldn't recognise that this woman does not in any ways bear resemblance of me e.g. my hairstyle, smell of my perfume, my bosoms and when he was kissing those lips, they did not feel soft/succulent and voluptuous as mine and then talk of my voice - boy, no excuse here o o o.  He chose to do it and he's done however, I can't cope.  

Secondly, if women are now competing seriously with men in this aspect - too bad.  But I for one, would never do such a thing whether for revenge o o o or to prove myself o o o - no matter the situation I can't but, there won't be any more loving from me to him - that's all I know.  

Glad you are here eloquently saying that Nigerian women are deeply into this wicked behaviour - not in terms of revenge to a wayward husband but for their own gratifications - that's very bad indeed. But remember, our men taught the women.

When a man takes another man's wife or daughter into a hotel room for his gratification, what does he expect when his wife/daughter are taken by another sugar daddy to the same place?  Men should ask themselves this question and answer it sincerely. It's all good, its all good, isn't it?? So, society has come to a point when a husband and wife can no longer trust each other in marriage then, what's the point of getting married in the first place when you could just drag any man/woman you fancy and make a couple of babies with them (assuming that's your need) thus, forget about marriage.   

You see, some time ago I presented this argument on here "that Nigerian women are as promiscuous as their men" but was jealously attacked by some ignorants here and now you are eloquently confirming this point. God bless you! You have an Eagle eye and that's special. So, I was not lying but those trying to shut me up were but, they can't.  Anyway, that's my answer to your query but turning the table on this issue of marital infidelity, how would you plead?

bawomolo:
but what if its oga that owns the house 

If Oga don't want to be left in the cold, he shouldn't trash his family into pieces, should he? That's my take! Whether na Oga's ownam o o o and whether it cost ten billion o o  o, Oga go still stay in the dog house until such time when every letter in our agreement is read and analysed by the experts then, we will all be happy.  His loss, not mine.

eldee:
First of all I think bringing religion into this is unreasonable. . . but if you're going to bring in christianity, isn't divorce one thing Jesus forbade??
Isn't 'turn the other cheek' the main amendment to the Jesus made to the laws of Moses??

I'm not surprised though, Jesus said to beware of false prophets . . .

Our God, is a God of Fairness and Justice hence the commandment, "Thou shall not commit adultery", and you did.  

Yes, in relation to unfaithfulness God hate divorce, no doubts [Malachi 2:16] and on the same token, justified divorce (Matthew 5: 31) on only one ground - this topic we all are dealing with on here - 'infidelity or unfaithfulness'. So, your argument doesn't hold at all and I don't blame you because, you are not of the Faith, you would have known.  

If you analyse Christ teachings well, you'd realise that cases were dealt with, in their own contexts - contexts under which they happened. Listen, it means - you don't work in Ibadan and head off to England to claim your salary, got it?

Therefore, don't generalise based on what you're fed, just read the Bible to substantiate your arguments. No, point arguing over something that is unrelated to the issues we are dealing with on here. We are talking about infidelity or unfaithfulness and it's consequences and I'm sure those who have been victims understands the impact though, not from a Nigerian perspective as they can throw anything on woman - not in the West anyway, and I thank God for that!  And may God bless the suffragettes for giving us a mouth in challenging evil domination of men

You mentioned about "Turning the cheek". Turning the cheek is about forgiveness and forgiveness is an individual thing. Forgiveness is the hardest thing for individuals to do but tell me, how many more times would Nigerian women forgive these wayward husbands who understands the commandments yet, knowingly/purposely trash it? How many more times? Because, you seem a naturally forgiving person doesn't qualify you in condemning others who might need God's grace and guidance in this aspect. Please, don't judge!

Personally, I will forgive but I won't cope with it. For there's a difference between forgiving and coping with the aftermaths.  I haven't got that patience and I know my limits.  For me, forgiving means: yes, we're still friends, I will still look out for you but, there's no emotional ties or connection left in me for you - It means I don't love you no more! So, tell me of what use would it be sticking together just to please the neighbours, family and society in general when either of us are not happy?? Is marriage not meant for two happy people that truly love themselves?

To, me a cheat will always be a cheat because, a leopard never changes its spot. Once, a man/woman slept outside his/her marital bed with another person they'd do it all over again but I'm saying sorry, to the unassuming husband/wife.  For me, you don't stand a chance of deceiving/hurting me the second time - no chance!

bawomolo:
I doubt anyone respect anyone who cheats for revenge. you would get sympathy but not much respect


this is only applicable if you are the owner of the property.  you can't kick him out if it's join ownership or the house is his.

Yes, like a flash of light he's gone!  I won't have my children watching the ensuing  'Drama' under this roof and get abused as a result, ok!!  No, they won't watch it, he's gone for good!!!

oyinda.:
nah. a thief is not remorseful. he keeps stealing until he gets caught.
same with cheating.
it's all a sign of weakness of d flesh. means your not self disciplined enough.


and i love that theblessed brings a religious perspective to it.

papa190:
this your epistle nor easy @ all
This one na full bible and koran o~