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emmatok:
So na your T.B JOSHUA. go deliver her. After  sleeping with her well well.

Religion is truly an opium.

[b][size=16pt]Guy, I assume you're a Christian and, if you are, I am too sorry for you!  In making this derogatory comment about a Man of God thus, defamed the Holy Spirit under whose anointing this Prophet performs God's work - you are damned!

If there's no other Man of God in Nigeria, loved and respected all over world, it is Prophet T. B Joshua - Prophecy accuracy; Healing and Deliverance in mass with complete and total freedom from bondage.

This Man of God is highly anointed with at least 6 gifts of the Holy Spirit.  In fact, if you're given one you're such a lucky person, let alone, a massive 6 - as no one person is give the whole 9 gifts of the Holy Spirit.  

Being given 6 boy, it is an enormous power and people should respect that! But then, how could they?  Jesus was never respected by his own people until he's been and gone!

But, Jesus is gracious, compassionate, slow to anger and a forgiving Son of God, he will forgive you however, when you defame/grieve the Holy Spirit, there's no forgiveness!

Yes, there are evil pastors (wolves in sheep clothings) who do what you've just said to women, in their so call house of god - but these are not true men of God, called by God's grace to be 'Fishers of men'.  No, they are not rather, they are principalities of satan penetrating the Church to do what their master, is good at - destruction.

It's a pity you've fallen victim of their cons in defaming someone so highly anointed whom, you do not know and do not understand his work.  All over the world, Prophet T.B Joshua is known as a true man of God - he practice what he preach and more, !

Please, if I were you, I'll pray hard for forgivness concerning this lousy comment else, when your world starts crumbling down and falling apart, I see you in the Synagogue appologizing with those your massive thick lips and when such time comes, remember this space.[/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt]Very sad indeed!  What a loss of a young life!

Could this have been caused by ignorance, failure or lack of skill/knowledge on the part of the Doctors to make appropriate diagnoses? It is true no one knows everything, human body is a complex thing that no one can actually fathom out, all the health issues that we suffer.

As a result, it is important where we lack knowledge/understanding of the issues, to refer the patient for their own good - you refer the case to other Doctors with the knowledge to help the patient because, life is precious and there's no time to waste when someone's  life is in the balance.

But in Nigeria, this is not the case, most Doctors have no clue about the diseases they are treating and they continue to treat the patients blindly and, to their perils.  And I ask, why do our Doctors do this, if not greed - MONEY, MONEY, and more MONEY?

People are poor and you're adding to their misery.  I see a lot of orthopaedic patients on  crutches with their limbs amputated when there's no need to do so and these Doctors do it without serious consideration of the impact on the patient's life - psychological, social, economic, family responsibility/support etc.  

To have an amputee in a family, especially, the breadwinner of the household, is a massive responsibility for the whole family.  

I reckon, what matters is to doctors, is to convince the patient that there's no alternative solution to their problems other than to cut-off the limbs.  In fact, if it's possible for them, they would even suggest your head be cut-off perhaps, that would solve the problem, isn't it?

Now, imagine how this lady complained of gastric pain for over 2 day and nothing effective was done for her.  

The disease could have been anything or E-coli as it is killing people in Europe right now but if it was the case, what are the Doctors in this hospital and the authorities doing to contain the strain so that other patients/the public do not suffer?

Now, she's gone leaving a toddler without a mum, imagine that!

Personally, I am not really concerned about the husband because, I give him until after the funeral, he re-marries but what about the baby, would he get another mother? No!!!
This is so painful, there is no need for this lady to loose her life this way - no!  

May, your soul rest in peace, my young lady![/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt]But, who is this Desmond, everyone should listen to? 

??Intelligence, here! This man gets carried away by his emotion instead of common sense.  Is he in the marriage to know the all the details?

Well, I could see the reason for his imbalanced assessment of the incident - the Diplomat was hosting him/friends so, what do we expect? They say 'a dog does not bite the finger that fed him/her' abi? He hosted them, and in the process, Desmond obviously secured a few influencial new friends along the line, I suppose. 

You see, people look after their own as result, morals get thrown out of the window. Imagine him condemning the Lady Diplomat on the basis of their daughters witness, eh!

Naturally, the daughter would side with her father and the whole world knows, daughters and their fathers click. I love my father to 'D' no matter what he's done, defending him in public any time but, wait till we get home!

I believe most daughter on Naira land would vouch the same kind of love for their fathers - it does not mean we don't love our mothers we do but, father/daughter relationship is naturally, special.
The same applies to mothers and their sons, too which seems to push them to the edge, when anyone dare abuse their mothers. 

Also, in his assessment, Desmond forgot that the daughter looks after her own too -  there's an incentive there for her to support her dad instead of mum.  Daddy has all the family inheritance under his belt and can allocate them as he pleases, abi? She wants to get married one day, how about that big wedding? Who's gonna foot it?

So, do you want him to dis-inherit her for supporting her mother, in public in this issue?  Yes the kids might have insight into their parents marriage but, like most families, they all take sides. 

Imagine the Diplomat admitted they had a heated arguement.  In our society, everyone knows when a husband and wife had such an argument, it usually ends with a b l a s h h h h and a black eye for the weak one - obviously, the lady but people don't understand the degree of damage that blash can cause the lady and, the entire family.

Like I have always said, instead of sitting or hovering around, listening to every l e t t e r that comes out of a woman's mouth, pick up your car key and drive off or cycle out, walk away from satan trying to destroy your family, through your rage. 

Remember, when you go on to challenge your wife because, you did her a favour in marrying her, when every thing quietens down, your won't like the look of your own hand work, as this Diplomat is discovering now - an expensive way to find out!   [/size][/b]

logica:
Further this part of his statement provides some clues on the kind of man he is:

"I discovered that Mrs Wigwe had brought her male lover, a Nigerian of Yoruba tribe, to live with her and the children in the family house."

Why did he have to indicate where the lover was from? It seems he's trying to draw sympathy from some of his "crew" (if you know what I mean) - those Igbo men who view relationships with Yoruba men as taboo. He definitely has a primitive mind, and is therefore perfectly capable of beating his wife.

[b][size=16pt]Yes, buddy you asked a good question.  

You see, only logical minds can think here, others just follow their emotions instead of think and ask, why this or that kind of question?

Imagine, how he used emotive tribalist language (Yoruba man) to stir up peoples emotions and support in order to paint his wife bad, and some idiots are buying it.  And I ask, what's wrong with a Yoruba man?  it could have been an Igbo man, a Hausa man, an Efik or Ijaw man etc a man is a man, abi?

Just showing how tribalistic someone who suppose to know better is.  Please Mr President, we don't need this kind as our diplomat, abeg o o !

It's all an excuse to surmon up support from his tribe/hamlet/clan in order to tar his wife with a negative image among her own people and thus, discredit her.  A cruel and vindictive man!

People, don't get carried away remember, he is a politician - they know how to turn and twist the truth, he can paint any picture on his wife but ino go work, people are more clever than he think.  She has no boyfriend in fact, in my view, it's him who has trailer load of girlfriends he keep every corner his ship berth - he is the culprit.

Imagine a so called Diplomat using a racist language to justify his wickedness.  That's enough to sack this bushman of hottentot, he is an animal! [/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt] Good!!

He is nothing but a complete disgrace to Nigerian.  Good, the world now knows Nigerian men are coward women batterers - it's official!!!!!

In fact, I don't even know why his wife tolerated this abuse for so long, sure this incident was not the first, second or even the third time.  This is a habitual wife batterer c u m Diplomat.  A complete educated illitrate, how disgraceful!!!

Thank your lucky star, you married a decent worman who tolerated your sh-t this long when she should have put you in a straight jacket long time ago.  

Who knows the cause of this cruel battery of another human being?  Perhaps, he was caught bunking every dirty thrash in Kenye, and when she complained he threatened to send her packing to her Papa.  I love that, make my day, buddy!

Well, I got news for you - before I go, better stay out of this house and remain out for good else, l see you in a straight jacket with your brain splashed in your sleeeeeeeep!!!!

Just get my hammer close by, when you come intimidating me over your wrong, you evil and wicked husband!   [/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt]Absolutely, bunkum!

Joseph son of Jacob was never a leftie yet, he ruled from the pit to a kings table in a foreign land - that's what we call 'A special Breed'.  Not a couple of just emerged men trying to look after their own pockets and make names for themselvs along the way, in politics.

Please, can anyone remind me of their achievements in their respective countries, let alone a foreign land!

Arrrrrrh!!  Another special breed is David, the last son of Jesse - chosen by God and anointed to lead Isreal.  Amid, sibling rivalry and jealousy from his own elder brothers.  Does it surprise anyone?  So, because, one is the elder in the family therefore, the onus fall on him to lead, eh?  Naaaaaah!!!  

That goes to show that leaders are born and not made - with all the gifts/qualities naturally set or deposited in their being from birth, that made them 'special' above anyone else.  Though, anyone can call themselves a leader by copying all the qualities of a born leader yet, they're are not real.  The difference is, a gift is a gift and a fake is just that - a fake just as we have them today! [/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt]Violence, greed, intimadation, otio!  

Does this warrant one loosing their dear life?

This attitude of the Jobcentre is everywhere in Europe -  they may even decide to make you come to sign in everyday if you are a 'headache' to their procedure.  But pray, they don't wake up for you!

In this case, they've decided to pay such an amount via bank transfer into an Account presumably, you consented to, and gave them when you first make your application for Social Benefit, abi? So, why change now?

You see to me , that roused/triggered their suspecion as a result, they insisted on Automated payment for security reasons.  I believe their insistence on Automated payment was to ensure it was paid directly to the right persons/account so that in any eventuality it can be traced Bureaucracy in action, na way of Government o o o and it means, checks and balances! ) . 

Even if the account no longer exist you should have informed them on time - not when you're there in the Jobcentre collecting the money - no, prior to that!

You see, this is what greed can cause and I suspect some innocent children have now, been made motherless from this horrible and unfortunate mistake and the kids are now left to grow up without a mother, how pitiful! [/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt]For those of you in our Churches, who still call their Pastor/Bishops and their wives daddy, mummy, grand daddy and grand mummy, Jesus spoke these word to you yet, you're ignorant and adamant that your Church Pastors are gods!

Now, acquaint yourselves with a little intelligence from the scripture below:

Go and read Matthew Chpt. 23 v. 1 - end but more importantly, focus on verse 1 - 12 in relation to the argument above because that nails your Pastor's craving for adulation and you who is worship the Pastor with your frequent daddy and mummy callings to the wrath of God. 

My advise is, after reading this Scripture please, continue to call daddy and mummy, ok! Don't ever stop!

As you can see, we don't have  to let you know the wrong you're committing against God by calling your Pastor daddy, do we?  Jesus has said it all, when he said,'And do not call anyone on earth father', for you have one Father, and he is in heaven'. (NIV) And, I ask what is daddy??  It means, father, Papa, Nna, Baba etc. 

Glad you've seen the truth! Everything you need about God and his will for us, is in the Bible - just starting reading the Bible for your own good, today and stop arguing blindly. [/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt] Please, don't call any body daddy or mummy - be they Pastor, Bishop, Prophet or Prophetess DO NOT CALL THEM ANY THING ELSE than 'Man or Woman of God' simple! Any other thing is 'idolatory' and obviously sinful and the Bible condemns it. Exodus Chpt. 20 v. 3 - 4.

If they refuse to answer man or woman of God and I'm sure they won't then, call them by their names after all, if anyone should be call daddy c u m mummy shouldn't it be our Lord Jesus Christ? But, how many of these Pastors and Bishops call him daddy every time.  We all call him by name unless when worshipping and praising God that we praise him with Divine and Sovereighn Names. 

Goes to show that these Pastors who allow their members to call them by such titles, are not of Christ - they are not humble, they are material Pastors/Bishops. The adulation and glories of this world is more important to them than glorifying the Lord to whom all honour and glory belongs to. They are stealing Gods's glory and by making it look as if the power of healing and deliverance comes from them, they will pay! Why?

Because, the gift of healing and deliverance is not theirs.  It was given to them by God through, his Holy Spirit and can be taken away any time and then, what do you have?  An disgraced and  an empty shell of a Pastor/Bishop - it will humble them when their congregation become a thing of the past.  [/size][/b]

QG:
The VP will never be late in his life again! What a way to learn, most likely he couldnt learn it before now. Am sure other political office holders have  learnt too just that Sambo had to be the scape goat! lol

[b][size=16pt]Absolutely!  Let's hope lesson is learnt here.  Don't think this experience will  repeat again in his life, trust me and that's the only way human beings can learn - through bitter experiences and it works. 

Any i n v i t e he receives from now on, will be respectfully honoured otherwise, with this image/stigma the Emir has rightly painted him with, it would be difficulty to wriggle out of it unless he does the right thing from now on else, he will be isolated by his circle of friends/colleagues, as no one would bother with a habitual late comer, abi?. 

Perhaps, others in his category have now learnt, it's a no, no - you don't keep the Kings and Queens of this world waiting or anyone else.  Courtesy dictates, ring up on time, cancel the apptmt. and  re-schedule, simple! After all, there's always gonna be another day, isn't it Glad Nigerians are getting the education of how things are done in a civil manner.  Respect dey say, is reciprocal, na lie

You see our people don't understand that, One O'clock means One O'clock and nothing more but we Africans have totally different ideas when it comes to time keeping and i n v i t e s to parties - we Gate crash your party. This is another topic we Africans have to deal with.  If you're not invited, it means stay away, don't go, right? Now, tell me, how could anyone wean us off this behaviour? I am waiting for an answer!

Glad we've all learnt from the best scapegoat! [/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt]God bless you ,his Royal Highness Emir Bayero.  Sir, Keep telling these big headed  boons off until the who Nigerian get common sense. Thank you Sir!

You see, whoever condemns this telling off is an ignorant of the last order.  This telling off is not meant to humiliate the so called Vice President who does not understand the meaning of time keeping because, he felt he was too tired to get out off bed, and felt being a Vice President he can get out of bed whenever he likes to see/meet dignitaries but it only shows his lack of respect for other people. His position is more important than simple courtesy. Whatever happened to humility - one humbling themself, I wonder?

Meeting the King 3 hours late after schedule how could this be respect?  Nothing can excuse or justify it.  

If he was meeting the Queen of England, I bet you, he would have been up since 05.00am getting ready.

I support this telling off because it not only educate this Vice President who does not understand the importance of his office but also others like him, Nigeria as a whole and the whole of Africa about this important issue 'Time keeping' in everything we do.

If you know you can't keep the time then, inform the people on TIME that you can't make it so they can re-schedule their own commitments than wasting peoples time - looser!

Time keeping is an incurable disease among Africans especially, Nigerians!

I hope you all have heard it now, from his Royal Highness! Now, you've got the education stick to it !




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[b][size=16pt]This story is awashed with insecurities and it doesn't surprise me as pregnancy is the most vulnerable time in a woman's life. Hey, I am smelling a short gun wedding here, if it ever happens.  

The relationship is not built on serious love and as such, not secured hence this semi plan and demi plan here and there. Imagine, him planning to leave for Nigeria at the thick of what suppose to be a loving and good relationship and now, you've hit him with a news most men - especially, those who had not yet finished sowing their wild oaths would rather not entertain - hmmm! That's risky!  

If the love is strong, why not ask to relocate with him? I doubt if this guy is thinking what you're thinkng, baby! You could be left in lurch holding the baby and then your parents would be left picking up the pieces (emotionally, psychologically, financially and the social stigmatisation that goes with it - ha ha ha! - That's why they are concerned because when children are crying, it pains parents hearts.  Be wise!

But hey, this is an old trick women have always used, abi? It doesn't suit any more! It's old fashion using pregnancy to tie a man down these days and from your story, the guy does not seem to be ready for a serious and meaningful relationship, let alone to be called PAPA.  
 
You see, if he really loves you and wants to be with you till 'D' he would have long done the 'right thing' without resulting to this shortcut.  To all ladies here wanting and waiting to be married listen, getting pregnant before marriage is not a smart idea, you could be short changing yourself in a lot of ways!

So, lady, just get married and fore-go that Hollywood and Royal wedding extravaganzer of the year you seem to be planning after the birth of the baby after all, na you made your bed.

Anyway, good luck if he's still hanging around! [/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt]Incompetence, incompetence and more incompetence!!

Good, the President has started to cleanse our country - clearing out the loosing horses in his race.  But, how could a non-runner win a race? Naaah!!! I wonder!

It's time those in positions of authority should wake up and smell the coffee, by realising the time rats ran amok in the house because the cat was asleep, had gone for good.

It's time, Public servants in this country give Nigerians their money's worth, for we have been short-changed for too long, and our time has finally, come.  

Mr President, insist on accountability - make them account for every single hair on their heads then, they will understand, Nigeria's Public office is no longer free for all.  They took our office, and must give us account because we put them there, and can remove them at will. It's time they realise, who the BOSS is - We, the people!

My people, it's only in Africa that we see politicians act as if, public office is their personal property - power abuses of any kind, you name it, it's there! As if that's not enough, they even get paid handsomely,for doing nothing hence the non-stress, carefree and laissez faire attitudes among them all.  

You see, African politicians no, dey do stress o o! Abi?

Let them ask their counterparts in Europe, what it's like to be a politician over there, and get their responses - they would notice that they sweat for every penny they earn because, they have targets to achieve, and they must achieve it or they are out!

It's time African politicians in particular Nigerian ones, realise we (the people) are the BOSS and not them.

As this sacking wind begins to blow a bit harder, once few get sacked for incompetency and corruption, others will not only smarten up, but put on their thinking hats in terms of, hard work and developing creative ideas that would put our country in good stead and not 'Self'.

So Mr President, please leave those fingers on the red button as to give us back our country, for Nigerians deserve better.  

God bless Nigeria, my beautiful country!!!    [/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt]Yes, dyslexia is serious learning difficulty which can limit suffers from achieving in life. But hey, it's not an end to ones life because, not all of us are created to be book worms i.e academically bright/gifted.

In fact, people with dyslexia are highly creative geniuses in their respective areas/field of interest i.e. some are highly respected artists, business tycoons, musicians, designers etc. For example above, some one mentioned Albert Einstein and how about the home boy here, a man of our generation at least - Richard Branson owner of Virgin Atlantic Airlines? He is dyslexic and comes from a poor background too and I'm sure there are many others like him. 

So, it's upto parents to identify their children's interests and navigate them towards that goal instead of persuading their children into areas/fields they are not gifted in or called for, as it's the case in our society today. For example, Nigerian parents would persuade, even to the point of intimidating their children into becoming Lawyers, Doctors, Engineers etc because of at least, these reasons i.e. chances of employment, competing with friends and status quo.

That's why, many who were lucky to be sent abroad (by their parents) to study perhaps these over-rated courses, found them difficult to cope with/handle and thus, abandoned them in the middle of their education and read, courses of interested instead, only to the disappointment of their parents/family.

Therefore, parents should look deeper and gear children with such disabilities towards what they really are interested in doing instead of gearing them towards achieving parental aspirations/dreams.  No one says it's going to be easy in a society such as ours (to raise and educate such children) where no one gives/gets support.  Like most parents, just do your best for your children. [/size][/b]

190:
[color=deeppink]theblessed will you just shut the hell up  ,   

And who told you that i didnt know that Jamo aint strong women than our women,

The issue been discussed here is that she's refused learning Nigerian dishes what does that

have to do with all the Jibbie Jabber you just said, my main issue is how can i convience her to accept

the nigerian culture starting from the meals,[/color]

[b][size=16pt]You see, that is why you are as blind as a bat and as deaf as a brick wall.
The hand writing is on the wall but you haven't seen it (because, love has blinded your eyes) until it hit your broad nose and give you a bloody red nose then, you will wake up!!

Imagine, up till now you're unable to convince her of the idea and when would you succeed? When the honey moon is over?  Wait, reality would hit you!  This lady has written you her contract of practice yet, you're uale to see, read and understand the small prints.  Don't worry, keep floating about - your would soon!

I have friends who married both West Indies and White women who would not permit African food to come into their homes let alone to cook and eat it and the guys are very unhappy because they miss our food - our food is our culture and if anybody prevents you from enjoying that  - can't you see they are cruel?  Why put up with such an abusive relationship?

Is it because of the ROSE?? Africa has many beautiful roses about. Think, with your head instead of your downstairs!!! [/size][/b]

[b][size=16pt]Can't cook or won't cook my delicious African meal, eh?? Otio o o !

Just dump the dead donkey now and move on because, I can only smell trouble in the future.

Jamaican women don't take sh-t and you know it!  Remember, they are CAPABLE women - all rounder in all they do. They can take care of themselves and, raise children alone either with a man or without and have been doing this for Centuries. Remember, their slave HISTORY made them emotionally, psychologically and physically strong and capable women - don't you forget that!

Unlike our own women, who are socially and culturally tamed, subdued and put under the thumb thus, are bound to put up with your sh-t.  Jamaican women are wild and with them what you see is what you get - they won't take your sh-t - our girls would. So, back off this fire now before it ends up in tears!

Alternatively, shut up and put up with your lot! You could seek advice from some of our guys who married them and they would tell you it hadn't been as gentle and smooth as Walls ice cream!
Now, go ask them and think again since you think every woman is the same but I can assure you, there are differences!  [/size][/b]